Love Isn't Enough: Divorce Court - Shomma vs. Shannon 

He thinks helping out around the house is a one time favor that he has to be asked to do. He doesn’t get what the Judge is saying because he really thinks that’s her job not his.

Judge Toler is stunningly pretty 😊

NEVER, EVER go into a relationship on " Potential "!

This man is slow. You can't convince me otherwise. He doesn't comprehend that as a grown man with children to support, you can't afford to have a seasonal job with no supplemental income. He doesn't understand that creating a child makes you financially responsible for it and that your woman should know the child exists. He doesn't comprehend that a grown woman shouldn't have to tell a grown man what needs to be done around the house routinely. He is a walking L just looking for a woman to take care of him. I would rather be single than have a burden like him. Goodness gracious.

“Yeah it’s been slow.” Sweetie, you had 4 children BEFORE (presumably) you met & decided to marry a woman with 6 kids. Irresponsible. Furthermore, as a woman with 6 kids, I’m not working a damn 2nd job to help a grown man provide. Potential don’t pay bills. Absolutely not. 😒

This case has DRAINED ME!!! 😩 He is slowwww, and it gave me a headache. 🤦🏽‍♀️ The slowness has rubbed off on her too!!!

With that many kids you can't have an inconsistent paycheck. They need to eat and thing no matter what

She got 6 kids, a special boyfriend, and your 4 kids she’s handling….she in school…and to top that, money is an issue as well… she’s gonna go off often if you not pitching in partner….. get these kids on a chore list schedule… train these older kids to cook… prep meals… get them to set out clothes… washing clothes schedule, and if it’s just her kids (in her house because I KNOW it’s not his), they got to pitch in…. She don’t wanna shack up, but ma’am he may not be your husband. He’s showing you what he’s going to do. And ma’am, if you love it, I like it for you and him…

11 kids ? Damn.Kids need to be taken care of regardless and it's up to the guardians to make sure no matter HOW.

I wonder what she could've possibly saw in this guy🤔 sounds like theyll have a nice miserable life together 😂

Ladies, no matter how many children you have you have to understand that just because you are tall and wear pants you can’t call yourself a man. After six children, you should definitely know what a man looks like and how they behave. This is a boy. The trucking business is never been too slow., it’s a hard job and a hustle, but doable.

He's missing the point. Household and children need care and maintenance everyday. He should be on auto pilot with the household.

He ain't got good sense...PERIOD. 😮😮😮

He's slow. I listened at the end. He's slower than I originally stated. Dang.

He doesn't need to be told and the children should be involved in household chores.

A truck driver who can't find work......that makes no sense.

It doesn't make sense to blend a family with 11 children total, if it's not feasible financially. She's the one with the most children actually living in the house. And, I bet she's the one who wanted to start a business together. You're making yourself unhappy. She's talking about what she wants to show her sons. She should have ensured he was ok mentally, physically, emotionally and financially and they were married before they moved in together. She's showing her sons it's ok to shack up with someone, and not be THE provider. And then she chooses to remain with him after he helped "some friends" have a baby, then he's stuck on child support taking care of another child. And, he's been incarcerated before? No wonder he can't keep a consistent check.

Give those six kids chores that rotate every week.

Yikes! Complete struggle love relationship. Both have dug holes so deep, they can’t help but be with each other which is probably why the judge gave her acceptance. Despite his obvious inability to financially provide and the fact THIS is the example of a man she wants her boys to model by choosing him speaks volumes about HER. So sad

8:51 lady in audience was ready to clap 😂😂😂😂😂

He sounds like he was just looking for a place to stay.

He shld've fought that child support. They wanted a baby. He gave them 1. That's y legal paperwork is so important👍🏼👍🏼

How u decide because u think she cheating u not gon pay the bills wow

They got too many kids. No amount of money will take care of them.

How old are the kids? With that many kids, some of them are probably able to help with something around the house. My brothers & I started helping Mom at ages 5, 6, & 7. I'm not sure how good we were, but we contributed something to the household.

Why have a bunch of kids and cant afford to have them

What do them children do around the house?

She got 12 kids plain & simple. He will never be the man that u want ur boys to be. She’s playing “build-a-bae”. Sad

Hi after this man took up with 6 kids you went out and cheat on him do the man you went out Will take you up with your 6 kids this man needs to cut and run out of this relationship my son he would be in serious trouble with me

he kinda slow for a man with 4+ kids

Hi believe the kids he not father so that why he not helping if that the case he leaves this woman alone

Everyone calling this guy slow… and that may be true… but here’s an extremely good question I want you to think about: If we as the commenters can see how slow he is… we can safely come to the conclusion she sees it as well. Let’s suppose that is indeed the case: she KNOWS he’s slow… Question: Why be with him?

Sounds like she got a big son

Such silly answer she came from a large family of 11 so she produced 6 you are broke and overloaded that's a crisis

Judge Toler realized explaining herself to the man was like beating a dead horse. 😂 This guy frustrated me just listening and then she's working things out with him to waste more of her time is crazy. I'll stay single before I financially support a man child.

Depending on the ages of all the kids train them to do their part by doing chores. He can show the boys and she can show the girls then the girls could show the boys. I know what the young lady was talking about. My 4 boys needed the guidance of their dad and it's been a nightmare for me for the last 5 years. My last 2 is twins and they will be 18 in two years. Ask the judge how can a woman start over are there resources out there for woman. I mainly just stayed home majority of the time and took care of my boys to make sure they had two parents in the home. But I don't know if I can keep it peaceful any more. My husband and I have been married for 21 years. So I just want peace we have been together 31 years. You can do the right thing for the wrong reasons if there is any such thing is that. It sounds stupid but that is what people say. I hope I can get guidance because my twins has gotten in trouble with the law and gotten their hands slap. Need help! Don't know if I want to be seen on TV but I need help

One of favorite couples on DC

I’m going to go out on a limb here and say neither one of them can do any better than each other.

He put the S in stupid. I want the back stories on all the kids. Yikes eleven children?

I think I missed where the father of the boys were for her to make the moves she made

Good looking woman. I hope the best for both of them

Wait, he had sex with who in order to give them a baby now hes on child support? Why???? At least sign a contract before the act to protect yourself from being taken to court for support! On the other hand, this is how yall bringing children into the world?? Family just all out of whack.

Incarcerated!! 👀

He ‘s slow and cheating? Ex convict 😮 no wonder he’s ex ghosted him with all them kids.

She blamed him for her attitude

If y’all both get second jobs, who’s gonna raise y’all’s kids??? Not me… Let bruh pick up long distance loads (he’s going to be away from home multiple weeks at a time), or get more endorsements if you don’t have them all already, go back to the company you were with, temp services, since you are owner operators- network with other owner operators…Bruh, if you have to put owner operator business on hold, drive for a company until better opportunities arise. I don’t know how old all of these kids are, but unfortunately, at 15, they gonna have to start getting jobs…

Maybe he not the right man 4 her / her boys...

My uncle has been an operator/owner for a while and I know others. What's his problem?

Shannon my sister. Train your boys to help around the house. How old are they? How were you guys doing before Shomma came along? And what would you do if he doesn't keep up and leave? I am the father of a blended family. Trust me, you got be wise and very prayerful to get it to work.

Hi just a care free man have no responsibility

She got 6 boys hell no !!!

Lmao

To much DRAMA TO MUCH SMART TALK KNOW THE SIGNS SHE TO QUICK TO REACT TO THINGS HE'S QUICK TO SAY OK IM DO ME TO ACTUALLY I DON'T THINK THEY'RE MADE FOR RELATIONSHIP...

Judge know she be looking cute 🥰

How did men get so sensitive?

He has to be slow

Smh... he's slow 😢

How old are the kids Seems to me they are putting to much pressure on each other

To me.. he a Lil suspect 😕

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A whole entire liar! He had a threescore, got one pregnant and ended up on child support. Those were not lesbian's wanting a baby! He thinks she's dumb smh

Hi she looks older than him

First off where is your babys daddy or daddies ??second bro you have four kids the LAST thing you should ne doing is trying to marry her you will ALWAYS have financial issues with this woman and youre on child support??? NO NO NO!!! as a trucker myself this is a hard business to start one engine blown one financially damaging move and its over and honestly i think its a case of i got six kids i need a man DUMB enough to marry me cause SHE knows that once he says i do? those six boys AS well as thise four girls are his responsibility as well and on his side women see all these kids and think hes too broke to deal with a relationship with them i wish them well but i would NEVER put myself in a situation like that cause love AINT GOING TO BE ENOUGH!!!

Hi my brother you knock your head how on earth you want to marry to woman with 6 kids I would like to know how baby father she have come on my brother you can't married this woman

UNTIL SHE SUBMIT TO HER HUSBAND AND HUMBLES HERSELF THE BLESSINGS WILL NOT BE THERE..PUT GOD FIRST EVERYTHING ELSE FALLS IN PLACE IN JESUS NAME 🙏