Love Lost In DM's Pt. 1: Diamond Standifer v Malik Johnson 

“I want to save my relationship, so my daughter grows up in a 2 parent home.” As he stands up there and LIE & prove every reason why she should leave 😂

A good dude? The sister is trifling. What good dude misses his baby shower, his daughter's half birthday, lies a lot and is a cheater? Girl bye

Women be having all the proof that their man is a cheater and still won’t leave. They get what they deserve if they stay.

He's addicted to DM sliding and her sister will probably be his next victim, why on earth would she be in court as his witness otherwise, that struck me as being very suspect 😮

“So nobody wants you but me” girl that is not a flex. That should be telling you something. Are you not embarrazzed ? SMH he is such a loser and but she already knew that. Ladies, you have got to do better

She says: "Nobody wants you but me." Why the hell!!! He's all about him, and will ALWAYS be all about him!!! If NOTHING ELSE, YOUR DAUGHTER DESERVES LOADS BETTER!!!

When a man shows you who he is, believe him! He can say whatever he wants but his actions show that he does not care at all. Ladies you have to start listening with your eyes as well as your ears

Can someone explain why you would have a birthday celebration for 6 month old just to turn around and do all of that at 1yr. Just like the gender reveal which is a baby shower with a different name. I want the 90s and early 2000s back

We need part 2 ASAP 😂😂

SIS you didn't need to be here Judge Toler: "never let a man tell you twice he doesn't want you"

In the highlights for Part 2, her sister comes as a defense to this joker and she says he’s a good dude. Usually when the worst character individual, just like Malik, is defended by the young lady’s sister saying he’s a good dude often means that the defendant and his witness,the Plaintiff’s sister, is often an indication that the sister and the defendant is in a relationship with one another. This appears to be a straight betrayal of her sister. I’ll see what Part 2 brings and how everything plays out.

A 6 month birthday party only requires 1 cupcake with 1 candle and a 4.99 teddy bear. Y’all sing happy birthday, help her blow out her candle, clap with great excitement, peel the paper from around the cup cake, and let her have at it. The baby smearing the cupcake on her face, and most of it ends on her clothes and the floor will bring her instant joy. Afterwards, give her the $4.99 teddy bear while she play with it in her play pen. The entire event lasts about 30 minutes or less and both parents can resume their evening. The baby won’t remember it anyway. Furthermore, the birthday party is actually for the parent(s) anyway.

"Don't come to me unless I, send for you, young man "Judge Star come out her bag in beast mode and put him on straight lock down , SHE DON'T PLAY AT ALL 😅😅

I am LOVING 🤩 Judge Stars Wardrobe wear in this season. She’s always Looking Beautiful and with a big smile to match always. Keep up the good work 🌹❤

My friends better not invite me to a 6th month birthday party! 😂

For someone who “has some maturity about themselves” at 25 yrs old; he sure has a WAREHOUSE full of excuses/lies/deflections for EVERY allegation! #theaudacity

"The most beautiful baby girl you ever seen in your life" had GUILTY all over it 😂

Judge Lynn where are you, this young lady is in serious need of the infamous protect your fertility speech, this young couple are no where near ready, to be having children, THEY ARE STILL CHILDREN- VERY CHILDISH EPISODE, SMH 😄😄💯

I think the first sign someone isn’t committed is planning a baby without being married. This guy wants the benefit of being a family without putting in any kind of work.

smh...a 6 month birthday party...please stop all this nonsense

He keep cheating because hes struggling with himself. He doesnt have any goals, no ambition, hasn't accomplished anything and honestly may be in denial about his real sexuality. She needs to let him go.

Once he said he apologized for not going to the baby shower they shouldve just moved on from that conversation. They waste too much time on one subject.

6:32 Back when I was pregnant the men didnt come to baby shower, What's the problem ?! 8:58 Six months birthday party is a waste of money !! 11:40 And she is definitely wrong about that , There is always someone out there that will want him. So saying not to him is ignorant. 13:50 Why does she keep saying my daughter, His daughter too , And she chose that.what does being a mother have to do with your sexality ?! Hes clearly not serious about her or the baby !! Hes all talk !

🤣🤣🤣 he said I don't want raise my daughter in a broken home..but is doing the exact same thing...blk men 🤣🤣🤣

He is lame 😒

Two parents homes are great when it's a healthy relationship, outside of that you're just starting a new generational curse and bad habits

So embarrassing pressing on a girl who doesn’t want him

5:44 he didn’t show up but he immediately blames not having money.

I'm trying to figure out why she wants to be with him....Smh.

Feel like they need to change the name of the show. Most of the people on here aren't even married couples anymore.

He has most likely hit on the little sister...what yall think?

Girl Ruuuunnnn!!! He deflects and makes excuses for his poor behavior

Sister is a goofy or she’s messing with her man behind her back. As a sister (or outside family member) you have no right to invalidate the FACTS of the sisters feelings in regards to him cheating, lying and manipulating your sister. You’re not in their home or bedroom business 24/7. Suspect as hell. If anything, just stay completely out of their relationship but to advocate for him while your own flesh is saying he’s doing her wrong is weirdo asf. She probably thinks he’s a “good man” cause she wants him for herself. Just leave him AND don’t bring your next man around your sneaky sister. Being cheated on by a BROKE manipulator who gaslights you is the worst trauma you can allow yourself to experience.

Excuses are tools of the incompetent that build monuments to nothingness. Those who excel in themselves and don’t excel in anything else.

The relationship unfortunately will eventually end… now or later.

He's cheating so no sex but you stay in the relationship the school system doesn't teach common sense

Wigs and lash party 😂😂😂

Guess she wanted us to all learn new slang today- Curved ( who creates this stuff) , SMH 😮💯

Booboo the fool😂 great line

He is definitely a textbook narcissist. People love to throw that word around, but he really fits the profile to a T

It’s like you made a baby with a broke insecure dusty that does not communicate with you. This man will sabotage this relationship because he does not feel good enough for you. I’m sorry you should walk until he gets himself together mentally and financially. 🤦🏽‍♀️

He so raggedy..... she needs to drop him like a hot potato!!! He lies too much, not emotionally or financially supportive. She needs to wait until the right mature man comes along!!! His behavior and lack of regard for her is only going to get worse!!

The fact that he said he would have been the only man there sound like he didn’t trust him self around all those other women

A 6 month old party is asinine. That money could've gone towards the child's college savings 🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️

He reminds me of Ray Jay.

THIS ALREADY AIRED ..IM WAITING ON PART 2 ..HER SISTER STANDS UP ON HIS SIDE ....KANSAS CITY MISSOURI..LETS GOOOOOO CHIEFS MONDAY NIGHT

800.00 wig 😒 they both a hot mess

I hear Judge Judy in my head: “not basically! I don’t wanna hear basically”😅

i Can't wait to see part 2 tomorrow or Monday

IM A MOM OF 4 AND NEVER HAVE I EVER DID A 6 MONTH B'DAY 🤦🏾‍♀️ GIRL NOW YOU SEE WHY HE PLAYED YOU RIGHT ALONG WITH IT THE OTHER BS HE GOT AWAY WITH.........

Is it just me or is he basically calling himself too broke to keep up with her well kept lifestyle . . . ? If shes spending money on her and her baby and presents herself and the baby as well as today, then yeah the man gotta put up or shut up.

He’s broke

The last couple of seconds though 😮. Mouth on the floor

You need to run real fast. This dude is controlling you right in front of your eyes….

Okay, while i think that the 6 month birthday is a waste of time and energy. People in the comments are forgetting the fact of principle of the promise. If he thought that it was dumb he could have just said that, opted for funding her 1st birthday or took them to a nice dinner to make up for it. Where I do blame her is that after all his actions, i would not be with him. People need to hold themselves to a better standard in their relationships. This is why you protect yourself biologically and not spread your gene's so simply. I will give them this, they are young do they do stupid things. If Teen Mom and 16 and pregnant taught me anything. Do not get pregnant young, broke or unmarried. "BAD INVESTMENT" -Kennie J.D

Baby y’all from Kansas City and showing up wack! The sister scandalous as hell.

I don't like him

Everyone thinks their kid is the most beautiful one in the world, doesn't make it true though 😂

The little sister just as goofy

He is a professional liar 🤥

Bahahahahahaha! This man crossed himself up so many times 😂🤣

All ik is she better keep one eye open around that “sister” of hers bc if she isn’t already sleeping w him it’s probably a week away . STAY VIGILANT. YOUR sister defending someone who clearly has no respect for you 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

Lordt the sister thinks he’s a good man 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

I don’t care what is happening. There is no excuse for not showing up for the baby shower especially when he wasn’t working.

He is a Narcissist 😮

To much superficiality taking place....6mt party. So if it is a trend for people to go to hell tweaking, guess they would do it because its trending. Follow fashion.

OOOUUU THIS BOI HAS A RESPONSE FOR EVERYTHING!!! Yea she right, don’t nobody want him but her 🤦🏾‍♀️

She said he had about 60 partners...& she slept w/ him...w/ no condom?!😮

GATHER HIM JUDGE STAR...

why did she bother coming to divorce court with everything she already knows 🤦‍♀

Jesus, I gave up all hope for him when the baby sister walked up 😮he foul!!

They feed off of each other. They should be together

A six month baby party is for a show, attention, and the mother mostly.

so yall thank he a leo or na ? 🤔🤭🤣🤣 but foreal babie girl the writings were already on the wall from the jump. you just gotta pay more attention to em. so yall started off online, and decided to play house cus of rona. he was a bum, basically living off of you. because his finances was, and still is in shambles. cus yall had alot of time to hunch (sun up to sun down) na that's what he say. cus people that be working, usually dont have all that time in the day to hunch. so then you decided to make him a father, before he made you his wife. first, second, and third red flag 🚩 and na you feel he switched up, yet he had been cheating the whole time. yet you allowed to look past it, cus you stayed with em. girl if you pay attention to the way he speaks, you can just tell he was always for the streets. girl he was seeking shelter where ever, and with whomever he could. and i wouldn't be surprised, that in part 2. that he been hunch'n on the sister.. ☕ but ya kno she's young, so she gotta go through it to learn

heading over to part 2

Chile I’m so glad I ain’t give none of these men a child.

Even dollar tree, family dollar, or dollar general, they have decorations party. That’s mean he doesn’t want to do anything.

Shes too much .

Those are text messages. He probably wasn't getting curbed, it's just that the girl responding erased her replies

Just another reason for a woman to focus on self.

This guy is a jerk. No accountability for his actions at all

Why are we talking about a 6 month party and baby shower… smh meanwhile struggling to meet day to day responsibilities

He has excuses. He’s not ready for a family. Both should’ve protected themselves (especially her since the female normally has the baby). He needs to listen to Judge Mathis. He speaks on that subject of maturity a lot.

He think he a lawyer.. 🙄

Where is parr 2😮😮😮

This is so thrash

Neither of them was ready to parent a child. Not financially, not emotionally, not any "ally". And a 6 month party? Waste of money. You don't have to do everything you see on social media....grow up!! Both of you.

6mnths birthday party?? Now😏 Smash the cup. Stop it

Serve him with child support papers and move the hell on.He doesn’t care about you in the way a man should who bears his child. Show your child how to walk away from a no good male. Be the example to her if not to yourself. Stop it!😮

Ladies, wedding planning, baby showers/reveals, etc., are for us. If your other half, wants to participate that is great. But don't make that an expectation. Save the headache.

How did you let that poor broke dude knock you up you know you like your $800 wigs he can't do nothing for you or your baby because you drama and heartache and make you cry cut your losses put him on child support and move on

He needed a place to stay and she fell for it.Never choose desperation over common sense. Men be child molesters and predatorial be goin out sad in life and looking for somebody to ruin and leech on.Be careful

I am confused now he's a deadbeat because you thought having his baby will make him marry you? 🤣

You have to SIT in order to COMMIT! How can you commit if you don’t sit? Sit and learn, sit and pray by yourself, sit and pray with others, sit and read, and sit so you can take root in where God has called you to grow! Don’t run around just sit down! Once you have sat you will stand! Stand and be committed, and stand and not be moved! ~Vanisia Tapia

A person usually say they don't remember that it's because they have no lie and thats all they can say now

Six month old birthday party??? Really???

Judge Star you are beautiful

Hi so sad my lovely woman put him and child support and move on

Part 2 where are you?

Why do these young ladies continue to put the cart before the horse? They get a false sense of being in love, get pregnant, then learn they got with Mr. Hyde. LADIES: VET THE MAN BEFORE YOU MAKE A FAMILY WITH HIM SO YOU WONT END UP LIKE SO MANY...SINGLE AND ALONE