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Hey Richard, is there a possibility to translate this book into German? Thanks for your great help and advices in your videos, greetings from Germany 🇩🇪
@@thesnowghost1 if you want to get over her, get UNDER 5 of her friends. Spin More Plates until you don't care about that Ex, let alone any particular female that doesn't prove Her Value to you. You are the prize. Get a higher Notch Count to own that Frame.
Honest question. You constantly post the same comments on other vids and other channels. Do you follow your own advice? Last thing I’d be doing if I was “ON MAH GRIND” is post the same comments on different vids in the same day.
1) Stay on your purpose 2) Go to the gym 3) Have hobbies/Fun life 4) Go out alone...get rejected you will become immune to it 5) Women will chase you 6) When you feel like it go with the chick you choose at the end of they day 7) Stay high value kings ✊🏻
I'm trying to get over a loser beta infatuation...I've started going running, to get fit and lean. It feels good to develop your own hobbies and purpose, independent of women.
@@Jonathan-jp4zz I wouldn’t qualify something generative as distraction (aware that we’re sort of splitting hair leaves here and I’m not trying to be d***
@@austindavid1862 yeah one day you'll find out that it's okay to cry, but real men are so comfortable with themselves that they don't cry. They don't judge anybody for crying though. Only weak losers judge people for their chosen lifestyle
I really wish RU-vid and channels like this existed when I was younger. I'm glad I discovered the red pill and found channels like this but kick myself for wasting so many years in my 20s and 30s chasing women instead of working on myself. Its never too late to improve though.
@@dimetriwatt7334 Hi Dimetri... I'm in my mid 40s. First thing I'd advise is to put yourself first in relationships. Be a bit more selfish without being a dick. Don't get hung up on one woman. If she's not on YOUR page, don't be afraid to walk. It will actually make you more attractive/high value in the end. #2: Work to get better at your job/career or find something more interesting to pursue. Don't settle for a job where you have to just grind...even if it pays well. #3 Watch the partying/booze. You're not a kid. Act like it. Alcohol and drugs (even taken responsibly) slowly steals from you. You need to keep an eye on it. Your health affects everything. Take care of it. Finally, DO NOT MARRY unless you want to start a family. If you do, choose wisely. A bad marriage can ruin you. But you already know all this from watching Red Pill content. Pass this advice along to younger men as you go through life and best of luck.
Easy to give that advice when you are middle aged and I'm saying that as a 40+ dude. When you are 20+ with all the testosterone buzzing in you and sex being still a novelty, it is as telling yourself to postpone chasing food when you are very hungry
Have to find more productive outlets for your testosterone surges than thots. If you find a proper lady, great. However, a thot will drain your time and energy then say you were the problem when things don't work out.
@JackBauer137 he takes testosterone to look for shortcuts when he’s not competing in any sporting events. Of course he will think he’s still in his 20s. A bit deluded really. Life is life
Can’t lie, lately my confidence has been dead since I’ve lost both my front teeth in a car accident, and it’s so expensive to fix teeth. So I’ve been hesitant to even try, not just with women, but talking to people period has me insecure.
ORRRRR....you can make some awesome fake story out of it as a conversation starter, but then at the end tell her the honest truth and that you just wanted to chat her up to get to know her ;)
What has been working pretty well for me is limiting myself to once a week, and no porn. For me, this has felt healthier and more satisfying, affording me more mental clarity and focus.
Correct Plus when your always doing it , you start to chase it , it becomes unhealthy.. I stopped and as hard as it was , after a few days I felt loads better
Perfect thumbnail for this video. The transformation of that character (forget his name) through a long road of humiliation, pain, loss & hard lessons was one of the best parts of the show.
If I had a Mr. Cooper in Red Pill studies (if I may call it that) back in school, I'd be off to the races a long time ago. Instead, school held me back and wasted my time, my youth! I think lots of guys wish they' had learned all this at an earlier stage in life. I'm certainly one of them. Your influence is gaining foothold in my mind, I'm changing. My understanding of how people works has given me confidence. Things seems more predictable now. Got two copies of your book. The other copy will donated to a young man.
Rich, I needed you as a wingman 25 years ago. Made all the mistakes. Lived for all the wrong reasons. Made decisions based on fear. Only thing I can say is that I’ve never been divorced and I have no children of my own.
I love Rich’s mindset of not approaching women when you’re not ready. It’s like training for a title match in boxing. You’re gonna lose if you haven’t prepared for the fight.
I’m 41 and this video had some relevant advice. Trust me, guys will prioritize chasing women well past their 20’s, most likely to their own detriment. It’s a huge distraction.
he's doing well better than me, I'm 22, broke with like 1 friend. I'm not fat or anything, but struggling to build some money. Money seems to be the problem for me, as my family are broke as shit and won't be able to leave me anything at all.
You're young buddy so take risks now because all you have is something to gain and nothing to lose. There is genius and magic in boldness my friend. Good luck!
Its actually weird that when you DO chase excellence...the ladies come. Its almost like they know from a 6th sense. Being 30 i said f it, lost 20lbs and got the 6 pack, started my own business while still doing my day job, ect. Now when i go out they flock. I feel like they can smell the fact that i have other priorities and goals than them.
They're like cats. When you walk straight at them and try to hold them, they run away. But when you just mind your own business and they're around, they creep up to you.
Or you just became more attractive objectivly after u went to the gym , and has a business = more money , don't need to be that complicated and mistical lol. I know dudes with no money shit job and no social stus that pull tail like mad 🤣🤣🤣
Pretty simple really, Richard teaches you young pups the right things. At work saw lady worth talking to. My workload and purpose filled my weeks so I didn’t sweat it. After about 6 months i started getting a handle on things and could start looking at freeing up a bit of time to take a closer look. She gave me lots of signals, but i stayed on my purpose until a couple of weeks ago. I casually from a position of plenty said that maybe we should get a coffee some time. Today she came up to me gave me a little note with my name and her number folded inside. She asked me to either text or phone. I said i will do either in a day or two. So now the fun begins. She is smart as a pin and shared so much with me in our little conversation. Going to go hiking this weekend and have me some fun!
@@russellfrederick6973 things going great Russel. Turns out she is traditional. Loves cooking and caring for people and as a nurse enjoys people and treating health issues. We both enjoy gardening, walking and interesting discussion. Over a year into our relationship and it feels very comfortable and we respect each other’s space living in our own homes and balancing our free time.
Rich mentions "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover. I can NOT recommend that book enough. ALL men should read that book, especially in their late teens to early twenties.
I struggle with anxiety and it’s kept me from obtaining the one thing missing from my life. I end up dating losers and train wrecks and am so over it. Been seeing a therapist for 2 plus years and it’s slightly better.
I am 35. Low self esteem, low confidence, and social anxiety disorder all my life. Life is hell. Dating is impossible. I can't move things along with a woman to date her.
Paraphrased from David Deida's book, The Way of the Superior Man- masculine purpose is "to know where you are, where you want to be, and what you need to do to get there. If you don’t know one of these, then you need to discover it by any means necessary."
I’ve found that it’s important to take your time with women. They like to keep things moving-I saw this in a red pilled talk. You have lots of time-they don’t. Eventually all their ego issues become their achilles heel when they hit the wall.
Hey Rich, Just a take on some of your oneitis comments. Imagine your a young guy you find a great gal and fall in love. As you begin your journey together she is supportive, kind and does all she can to help you with your goals. She doesn't nag at you and understands when your ambition keeps you working 60 hours a week. It's no time and you have children and she couldn't be a better mother to YOUR children. You look up and thirty years have gone by and she is still supportive and great. You've been able to chase your dream always knowing she will be there for you. Do you think a guy would have had a better life had he dumped this chick in his twenties ? I know your thinking "Dude that's one in a million" Well that's what happened to me. It can happen. That being said I tell every young guy I know check out Entrepreneurs in Cars. You hit the bulls eye most of the time. Maybe I found an old fashion gal who understood if you support your man you are supporting your family. That seems to be a thing of the past.
No Bullshit, this is a true question. There were 3 people who didnt know each other who had asked trough the last 2 years how it is that im so confident, and i always respond that im not confident i just dont care. Is that confidence or is this some kind of bitterness i wonder?
I relate to this. Through grade school, I was very hypersensitive to other people's opinion of me so I was reluctant to be assertive. Then, I had some bad experiences that I allowed to happen to me because of that lacking. So, I didn't necessarily start thinking more of myself, I just started getting more and more apathetic about other people's opinions of me. Like a laborer's hands becoming developing calluses, I got numb to offending other people when I wanted to speak out. I was also supposed that for every 1 person that thought I was a dick, I had at least five more who respected me for my newfound assertiveness and I like that ratio.
Of all the influencers in this subject I like Rich the best, his demeanor is beyond reproach yet his message is what every father should be teaching his kids. Chase excellence? Do not be defined by women? Become the best version of yourself? Level up every area in your life you can control? I dare you to find any flaws with these teachings. We MEN have been unappreciated without true representation for too long. Rich is doing humanity a great service with his content.
I’m a crisis worker and use both alpha and beta skills. Kinda have to take charge and be non threatening at the same time. Women like talking to me because I navigate emotions well, but it’s a quick trip to the friend zone. Doesn’t bother me at the moment because I’m not ready for the drama. Sometimes women hold me in contempt when I demonstrate my emotional depth. Doesn’t bother me one bit, but I do recognize the need to man up when the time comes. I’m in no hurry, I’ve been through a lot and my career is bringing me to high value status. I attract and reject alpha females, and there’s no forgiveness there. My emotional side protects me from manipulation, I can beat them at their own game.
Lately, I’ve been seeing so many cute girls with guys who are fat and/or unattractive that i’ve come to believe that confidence doesn’t come from muscles or looks. It all stems from self-acceptance and being ok with who you are.
I dont care , I care my physic mental financial health first , girls come next . And if girls dont appreciate or know my worth , just leave them alone . Are those fat dudes have money and purpose ? Are those girls have money and purpose ?
Stop putting women on a pedestal. A fact that a girl’s cute doesn’t mean shit. Maybe she’s crazy? The guy’s rich? There are too many variables for the naked eye to see. Therefore focusing on the result of two people together is stupid.
Thank you so much for these videos mate!! We need a masculine figurehead leading the charge, who has been through the ups & downs of life. Your videos are reassuring in these strange times. Much love from Australia 💯
Talk to the checkout operators of super markets. Hell man you can talk to random fellow patrons at supermarts. Working retail or in person customer service is the best way imo to loose the shyness of talking to girls. One thing to always keep in mind treat all women the same whether you think they're good looking or not, skinny or not
there is this beautiful crush in my class...and i dont have the stomach to ask her out... coz inside i know that i am a complete loser and have like 5 failed exam in 3 semester and currently living with my parents money..... i jst dont feel like i am worthy enough for her....
Yo! If you want to pick up woman just do this. DANCE! Woman love to dance , most men are too self conscious to dance. If your not a good dancer , take lessons. Every one night stand I have ever had has been from asking a woman to dance. It’s that easy
1 Don't help women. 2 Don't fix things for women. 3 Don't support women's issues. 4 Don't come to women's defense. 5 Don't speak for women. 6 Don't value women's feelings. 7 Don't portray women as victims. and 8 Don't protect women.
You are absolutely correct! My time was different, last of boomers, with my 1st wife since 12 yrs. Old, believed soulmate bs, divorced at 32! To this day best friends, after I never chased a chick every girlfriend sex partner chased me
I would love to see you and Todd Valentine site down and just talk. If you don’t know him he was part of RSD and was a top coach there. He moved on and has starting his own branding. I mention this because you have brought up RSD in past videos. I believe you would appreciate his style of approaching women and the mind frame it comes with. Also, he has very unique approach to his teaching method. It’s funny to say but he comes off very intellectual in his method of teaching how to approach women. First time ever invested in such a post lol but Todd the real deal. I had the pleasure of doing the immersion program in Vegas for close to two months. Principles I’ve take from that back in 2013ish of approaching are same principles I use when networking in my business. Very happy I ran into your channel, refreshing content. Eager to read your book as well. Many blessings 🤟🏽
Today i realized that my confidence is shallow because i started losing hair and all the women I've been with before complemented tf out of my hair so I'm kinda losing it
I'm 44 with my house paid off. Have three nice cars all paid off, great job, no debt and plenty of $ in the bank. My notch count is only one. Ladies have always turned me down saying the same exact things every time no matter the chick, no matter the age. They need a man that's highly educated, who has a really good job such as, doc, coorp manager, gov worker etc. They are also big on the six foot thing and he can't be more than three years older or younger. Plus he always has to vote blue. So I landed a trailer park chick in my 30's once. Got rid of the v card but also have no dating experience and clearly no smv. I'm 5'11' so I'm too short, fit but semi muscular also. Not the build or height any lady wants.
completely agree about talking to attractive women in public. i would expand that to encourage us all to chat with anyone in public. get used to it; it will serve you well no matter what. then, when you do chat with an attractive woman, it's old hat.
I'm not shy in any way. I approach ladies all the time at venues, events geared towards singles and so on. Once I accepted the facts on my smv is zero and my chances are zero I began not to care what any lady thinks. I still chat in hopes of maybe I'll learn something, idk. I do know my vocabulary is very wide and I travel often so I can talk about so many parts of the country and so many epic places I've been. My hobbies are very wide range also.
@@fml5910 That only works if the guy is good looking. I’m short, old and bald so nothing works. I’ve seen good looking guys use the same approach I used 20 minutes before and she sings like a bird. I get the cold shoulder.
Focus on getting better eat better , go to the Gym , find a hobby , read books do anything but chase women .. let them chase you .. cause in the end if you waste your time obsessing over women your just setting your self up for failure..
You put a photo on your RU-vid feed of an actor (from Brooklyn NY) who is currently on the tv show "Yellowstone". The actor's part is a beta male cowbow!
Love this video! You sound so genuine and sincere in trying to help a young man out. I'm not much older, and I can certainly relate. i used to place so much emphasis on dating. That's still a goal of mine, you could say, but I realised how much time I've wasted on that! I've also realised I'm not the best version of myself so I need a long hiatus to work on myself
6 women is a low notch count??! Lol. I’ve only been with my wife for 10 years. Divorced now but hey, I would love to even start dating one. I wish I had 6 lol.
When comes to dealing with women, Lead, Lead, Lead. Initiating contact, setting the date, the interaction letting her do 80% of the talking while you be a mystery to her, in the bedroom. Women don’t want to be responsible for anything. So be the Leader. Never chase, only lead.
6:00 Rich I would like to add about how to judge advice. I always ask myself the question, would I want to change lifes with this person and if the answer is no I discard the advice immediately
I don't agree. If I had to pick one of : Affluence, Muscles or Game. I would pick Game. And you only get good with girls by..... talking to girls. Yes Money game works, yes good looking game work, but Game is better. And you will get you the type of girl you want, instead of attracting the kind that is attracted to money/muscles. Avoid the Field of Dreams trap, of "build it and they will come"
I've been depressed. Was let go during COVID-19. Can't find a job. I will be 63 this Saturday. Looking for work like crazy. Fear of going broke. I used to make 6 figures. Divorced. Took everything. I got know money. I been having major anxiety and depression. I don't know what to do.
Bro youre in a shit spot. You have to start again. Rebuild from the bottom. Once you got some cash in the bank again, go to SEA or Brazil and bang some hotties. Dont get remarried.
So as I look around the narcissist capital of the US. (Vegas) Seems I have to rate myself a 5. 50yo, 9-muscle, 8-game, 2-bank. Blue pilled my ex and basically zeroed out. I have a business that I will get paid 100k over the next 3 months. Have some ideas to level up and invest. Seems bank holds more weight than anything.
Most guys pretty much know how to flirt. They're just too scared to flirt. ARC's mode one is amazing to shed shitty mindsets, as Rich says, and become better with women. One area I do disagree with rich on is dedicating time to women. Yes, women shouldn't be your focus, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't dedicate time to it. Like how you would set time for a hobby, set time to approach, and that's what women should be: a hobby.
That's the thing about talking to women. If you approach and they want to talk to you, there's no struggle in keeping conversation going. Try, but don't try hard, as that's just transparent and elevating her. She's just some chick, no more, no less.
