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Lucy Hale talks honestly about how relationship with alcohol and how it has affected her...
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📖 Lucy Hale is an American actor and singer, she is best known for her role of Aria Montgomery in the TV series ‘Pretty Little Liars’. She has most recently appeared in the film, ‘The Storied Life of A.J. Fikry’.
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@TheDiaryOfACEOClips
@TheDiaryOfACEOClips Год назад
Check out the full episode here! ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-xlYbp36HPb0.html
@ellielane730
@ellielane730 Год назад
It's crazy how you don't know what's going on in someone's life, because they seem so put together on the outside. Lucy was always my favourite actor on PLL.
@Kels42
@Kels42 Год назад
Same. I literally named my daughter after her
@MsTinkerbelle87
@MsTinkerbelle87 Год назад
Imagine all of the functioning alcoholics there are in Hollyweird?
@ellielane730
@ellielane730 Год назад
@@MsTinkerbelle87 now that's a scary thought
@wandering4786
@wandering4786 Год назад
Anybody that thinks they know a celebrity on a personal level is stupid anyways.
@Andrew-pv8oz
@Andrew-pv8oz Год назад
I assume everyone has problems
@sjtv1000
@sjtv1000 Год назад
Alcohol is one of the scariest addictions because of how accessible and pushed it is in mainstream society
@anr8507
@anr8507 Год назад
Yes its scary , specially here in Belgium we have a lot of sales during all year long we can find a bottle of Prosecco for just 6 euros and a Sauvignon blanc for just 3 euros it's very cheap and accessible
@LittledivaK
@LittledivaK Год назад
And if you say you dont drink people think your weird
@sarahgolden2948
@sarahgolden2948 Год назад
@@anr8507 i live in Belgium too and you’re so right ! The worst part is that is sooo cultural that people start so young not only by consuming alcohol but by being totally drunk …. 😢
@mandoholikerin
@mandoholikerin Год назад
i am a social worker, working with addicts and let me say in these days most people we treat are alcohol addicts. some people really be like addicts for years without even really noticing it. mostly really young people..
@rubamobarkey8179
@rubamobarkey8179 Год назад
@@anr8507 I moved from Israel to Germany and it's insane how much people drink here and its really considered to be normal.
@Nadsow
@Nadsow Год назад
This gives me more motivation to get sober. 27 years old and a daily binge drinker every night for the past year. Got three days sober this past week and went back to drinking. Started sobriety again today. 🙏🙏 And if I relapse I know there is another tomorrow and I will keep on chucking forward. I will update you all soon. 💜
@thepositivepregnancyjourne2462
You are in my prayers sister 🙏
@Nadsow
@Nadsow Год назад
@@thepositivepregnancyjourne2462 Thank you!! I appreciate it. I just can’t believe I let myself get this far. 😞 I believe in myself, I can do this. 🙏🙏
@trinity8756
@trinity8756 Год назад
You got this. Keep the faith, my love. Just keep going at it and stay compassionate for yourself if you start again, it’s an ongoing process and as long as you don’t give up you’ll reach your goal ❤️
@runner4life551
@runner4life551 Год назад
I believe in you!
@Halfsteppin1
@Halfsteppin1 Год назад
@puaguard9985
@puaguard9985 Год назад
"The alcohol isn't the problem, it's this feeling inside of me." Could not be anymore accurate
@natalied3347
@natalied3347 Год назад
It could actually be a lot more accurate. Alcohol IS the problem.
@pixelpond378
@pixelpond378 Год назад
​@@natalied3347 Except for many people, the misuse of alcohol is a result of problems that exist outside of drinking. It can be a coping mechanism and a symptom of a larger problem. People will get into issues with using alcohol to numb themselves, forget, express their emotions, to feel like themselves. For me, drinking became a way to feel my own emotions. My 'normal' without alcohol is feeling numb, suppressing my emotions, feeling a bit outside of my body, never truly being present. Those problems have nothing to do with drinking... but drinking is an easy out. I wouldn't say alcohol is the problem. The urge to abuse alcohol, for me, doesn't come from the alcohol itself but from those internal struggles.
@kimberlydelrey
@kimberlydelrey Год назад
@@natalied3347 there are people who can drink responsibly and have the mental capacity to know when to stop. There are others who literally lack that ability. It’s more complicated than you think.
@natalied3347
@natalied3347 Год назад
@kimberly within 90 seconds alcohol affects all systems and organs in your body and passes the blood brain barrier. It is a highly addictive substance - it's the most deadly and also the most socially acceptable. If you became addicted to alcohol, it did what it was designed to do. Most people who drink are attempting to control their drinking in some capacity. People who can drink one glass of something and have no desire to continue drinking are really the exception. The messaging that the responsibility should lay on the person drinking the alcohol is harmful. Big alcohol has had us believing this for too long and it needs to change. Alcohol also effects people differently - some people have a huge release of dopamine and some have very little, which will affect your desire to have another. It's more complicated than YOU think.
@natalied3347
@natalied3347 Год назад
@J M Alcohol IS the problem. It is a highly addictive, legal substance that reaches all of the bodys organs within 90 seconds and passes the blood brain barrier, which is why it is so inticing and addictive. It is the most deadly substance and also the most socially acceptable. If you became addicted, alcohol did what it was designed to do. Alcoholism is progressive and insidious. It is true that our circumstances and experiences make us more or less susceptible to falling victim to the slippery slope of addiction, but having no desire to have "one more" is really the exception. Most people struggle to moderate their alcohol use and don't quit until they decide the consequences are too grave for them to bear. The messaging that we are the problem and its got nothing to do with alcohol is SO harmful, and it needs to change. It will change - more of us are coming out and saying this, and big alcohol is going to have some 'splaining to do - you just wait.
@selenafernandez4976
@selenafernandez4976 Год назад
Her story is more relatable than any other celebrity that’s talked about getting sober. I 1000% get how she felt when she said that getting so drunk to the point that felt like it was the real her; less shy, more outgoing, and all around enjoyable to be around. I’ve never heard anyone say that out loud!! I had to walk away from some people in my circle to realize that they weren’t rooting for me, the real me, they were rooting for someone that had no idea what was going on half of the time
@tiffanyr134
@tiffanyr134 Год назад
"The alcohol isn't the problem, it's this feeling inside of me". THIS is so important. Most, if not all of addicts begin their habit to cover up or escape something. Usually something painful or traumatizing. I believe this is the aspect that we always miss when it comes to getting people help or getting them to rehab. Without therapy and a deep dive into someone's past and psyche; sobriety will often be elusive, if not impossible.
@vanysachterbahnfahrt
@vanysachterbahnfahrt Год назад
But this is not true. Alcohol is the problem AND the feeling inside and that you run away from it. There are also mental stable ppl who get alcoholics and alcohol makes all of their problems. Because it is a poison it is a drug and it can get INTO ANYBODYS system in the wrong way. Everyone can become a victim oft it. So yeah it is the not Adressed feelings inside but ALSO the alcohol!
@nicolenoemi7869
@nicolenoemi7869 Год назад
@@vanysachterbahnfahrt You start your sentence with "But this is not true..." and then leave a comment in which you want us to take something from what you've said. I don't understand people like you. What you have to say is valid and what others have to say isn't true, your experiences are the only ones that exist and others experiences are invalid?
@mirandataylor6385
@mirandataylor6385 Год назад
@@vanysachterbahnfahrt How is alcohol the problem when others don’t have the same relationship with alcohol?
@sarahr5513
@sarahr5513 Год назад
Very true 😢 My brother is a fentanyl addict and this breaks my heart 💔 But also gives me hope knowing that recovery is possible.
@TomBreezy1
@TomBreezy1 9 месяцев назад
Alcohol isn't the problem. That's like saying the blade is the problem if you're a cutter. Its a neutral object@@vanysachterbahnfahrt
@Lexi1126923
@Lexi1126923 Год назад
I love when celebs talk about their struggles with addiction because there's such a myth and stigma around addiction affecting only poor/average people. Addiction happens in all walks of life, to all kinds of people, and it doesn't discriminate. Really glad to see that Lucy is in recovery. She's such a smart, sweet, and talented woman and deserves sobriety.
@meganlucas935
@meganlucas935 Год назад
I have never heard someone speak about alcohol in such a way that is so similar to my own experience. Thank you for being open about this, Lucy, and congrats on your sobriety!
@jillmayer9501
@jillmayer9501 Год назад
I went to the doctor last week and told my doctor (a new doctor I'd never met before) that I was an alcoholic. The only other person who knows is my best friend. So I suppose I am high functioning - putting away a pint of vodka at night. She was shocked I'd never been hospitalized or arrested in relation to drinking. I started to cry a bit when she asked more questions - so she put her hand on my shoulder and told me it took a lot of courage to do this. I'm not sober yet - looking for a program that isn't based in religion and doesn't cost an arm and a leg. I really hope I make it.
@DiaryBinz
@DiaryBinz Год назад
The first step is realizing it has become a problem for you!! You've gotten this and I will be rooting for you from a far!!
@MelissasOnABudget
@MelissasOnABudget Год назад
AA. You can choose your own conception of a Higher Power. Don't get hung up on the "God" word.
@Sufferingsassafrass
@Sufferingsassafrass Год назад
@@MelissasOnABudget it’s still extremely annoying and off-putting in the meetings. AA didn’t work for me for this reason. It’s just not that easy to deflect the religious bs.
@Sufferingsassafrass
@Sufferingsassafrass Год назад
Jill, look up Smart Recovery meetings in your area. Free and not religious! They’re online too. 😊 You can do it 🎉
@evelynsandeen6429
@evelynsandeen6429 Год назад
try Rational Recovery. Self-help groups based in cognitive-behavioral therapy principles.
@camshy4u
@camshy4u Год назад
I love how she explains people think you just want to party, but in reality it's not the partying that is the problem. I understand that feeling of "how far can I go? I wanna feel more" but then waking up with hangovers is a wonderful reminder of all the internal, emotional pain that festers.
@dmgo
@dmgo Год назад
Wow …
@alessandrajackson3768
@alessandrajackson3768 Год назад
I’ve been sober for 1,802 days now
@holap602
@holap602 Год назад
So happy for you . Keep on🥰🥰🥰
@TheDiaryOfACEO
@TheDiaryOfACEO Год назад
👏
@alessandrajackson3768
@alessandrajackson3768 Год назад
@@Holyinspirit for me specifically, counting the days help me stays away from it
@alessandrajackson3768
@alessandrajackson3768 Год назад
@@holap602 thank you ☺️
@alessandrajackson3768
@alessandrajackson3768 Год назад
@@TheDiaryOfACEO thank you so much
@vickimaccallum
@vickimaccallum Год назад
It’s so different when you’re a binge drinker because the amount of times people will say “well you’re not waking up and drinking so you’re not alcoholic” is wild and enabling. Even if you only do it once a week, if it’s ruining your life and you’re not in control it’s still addiction. If you’re doing it to numb out, it’s still addiction. It’s not normal to only be able to cope with difficult things by excessive drinking. I look back now and think about how my first thought was always “I need a drink” when things got tough and it’s so clear to me. But it took a long long time
@miranaestephan247
@miranaestephan247 Год назад
If I drink daily and I need alcohol to cool off why does that make me an alcoholic?
@iAmLoVeDjEsSi
@iAmLoVeDjEsSi Год назад
@@miranaestephan247 exactly the word alcoholic is overused and I’m glad to see this podcast didn’t dwell on those topics of labels and “standard AA”
@Daydreamerr13
@Daydreamerr13 Год назад
Spot on….. !!!
@jillmayer9501
@jillmayer9501 Год назад
This. I think we assume alcoholics are unemployed and absolute messes of human beings. Personally I have rules around it - I only allow myself to drink at night between certain hours and usually alone. So that I can maintain my job and some semblance of a life. It doesn't mean I don't feel like absolute garbage all the time. I've managed to hide my drinking from literally everyone in my life. My brother drinks a lot and the other day in conversation about it my own mother said to me "yeah but you're not an alcoholic" - when I've literally put a pint of alcohol away in her home and had conversations with her while doing so. I sometimes wonder if I'm that good at hiding it (and honestly I'm pathetically proud of that) or if no one wants to deal with me.
@vickimaccallum
@vickimaccallum Год назад
@@miranaestephan247 well.. that’s something to discuss with a professional not a stranger. My question to you would be: what would happen if it was a non-alcoholic drink? Would you still feel the same afterwards? There’s really not much point in getting angry about my comment; alcohol is addictive, it’s science.
@kaitlynhammesfahr7311
@kaitlynhammesfahr7311 Год назад
You can just hear the 12 steps and therapy when she talks about it. Absolutely love this. Happy for her and hope this can help others
@iAmLoVeDjEsSi
@iAmLoVeDjEsSi Год назад
😂😂 ya it was definitely the 12 steps and therapy that did it
@stephanielacoco
@stephanielacoco Год назад
With how together she has always seemed, I’d never have guessed it. I am so glad she dealt with this and chose to share her story. She will help so many people as well as herself!
@angijac18
@angijac18 Год назад
I’m 27, eat super healthy, I work out, trying to lead a lifestyle full of growth. Been an alcoholic since I was 19, hit insane rock bottoms multiple times. Even though I’m healthy and all that I still occasionally drink and my life is ruined for days from the aftermath from how extremely hard I’ll drink. Then I get up and tell myself it’s not as bad as it used to be, I live “healthy” and I only drink occasionally. No. I still know I’m an alcoholic even if it’s now just “once in awhile” and I know I need to stop forever, for good, but it is extremely hard to give up completely, no matter how much it has ruined me or hurt myself and others, it still is a hard journey. Loved hearing this vulnerability from her.
@oliver556
@oliver556 Год назад
I'm 33 and this sounded a lot like me at your age. Try reading some quit lit. I highly recommend Alcohol Explained by William Porter. That book was 100% a turning point for me. One of those books that kind of lifts the veil of nonsense/lies we are told about alcohol and tells you why in a very succinct, logical and powerful way.
@Super123ps
@Super123ps Год назад
Angijac18. I have a similar habit to you. 99% of the time I am healthy. I sleep well , exercise lots and my diet is good. However , from time to time , I have a massive blow out. I drink for many hours and binge on heavy spirits. I have done this for years. After my binge .. It ruins me for days. It also causes me to make poor decisions and it affects the people closest to me in a very negative way. I am 40 now. My liver doesn’t feel right , every time I drink I cry and the hangovers are terrible. You are young .. get out of this nasty habit if u can. Trust me .. your 40 yr old self in the future will thank u. Take care.
@tomtodo834
@tomtodo834 Год назад
Have you tried a 12 step programme?
@Nadsow
@Nadsow Год назад
27 as well. But I've been a raging alcoholic for well over a year now. My body and mind is so over it. I got three days sober this past week and started up again.
@Super123ps
@Super123ps Год назад
@@Nadsow Keep going. You can do this !
@samsong24
@samsong24 Год назад
I've always liked Lucy Hale. She's so genuine and smart. She easily could have become such an egomaniac and that never happened.
@miriamcervantes3364
@miriamcervantes3364 Год назад
Recently for the fist time told my therapist that I think I’m drinking too much, at least twice a week and usually drink “too many” I can’t never just have 1-2 drinks and be satisfied. He said it’s the beginning of an addiction, I was shocked, hopefully this can take me on a sober path.
@s.stevens4520
@s.stevens4520 Год назад
It sounds fine to me tbh
@Elleleleni
@Elleleleni Год назад
@@s.stevens4520 not if they can never be satisfied it isn’t!
@steff6146
@steff6146 Год назад
@@s.stevens4520 Nope! This is the start of an addiction, and I think it's important to focus on prevention before it becomes really really difficult to stop. If at least 2 episodes of binge-drinking per week sounds normal to you or similar to your intake, pls consider talking to someone too
@mochimochi7669
@mochimochi7669 Год назад
@@steff6146 this is how my addiction started. I was drinking by 15 (with friends, got grounded lol) but not technically allowed by my mom until 17. She let me drink wine coolers or beer when we had family and friends come over so long as she was there. At first, it was only on those occasions so maybe once or twice a month. By 21 when I could finally buy my own, all bets were off. By 25 I had spiraled into a hole I thought I’d never climb out of. It sneaks up on you.. almost 30 and sober, thank God. Edit: I got married and moved out by 18 but still would go drink at the get togethers.
@pleiades.puppets
@pleiades.puppets Год назад
@@s.stevens4520 alcoholism is progressive, unfortunately. I was a binge drinker for many years, but that morphed into more frequent binging which eventually led to full blown addiction. It happened over a period of 15 years. Good luck Mariam, even if you're not an addict but can't seem to stop when you do drink, your therapist may be right in helping you to identify a problem (or potential problem) now. Some people can have a drink and walk away from it and never think about it. I wish I had been one of those people.
@srirachaaaa
@srirachaaaa Год назад
As someone who has struggled with addiction and have a lot of people in my life trying to escape addiction, the escapism is what really pulls you in to start with. This is easily one of the best interviews I’ve seen about addiction.
@arianaorellana8650
@arianaorellana8650 Год назад
reminds me about scapism song by RAYE that talks about this
@CaitlynNoel67
@CaitlynNoel67 Год назад
My best friend of 14ish years just passed away from alcohol addiction (blood too thin, destroyed his liver). Please get help if you are at this point. Thank you Lucy for talking about this. 💜💜
@releasetoreceive
@releasetoreceive Год назад
How old were they if you don’t mind me asking?
@CaitlynNoel67
@CaitlynNoel67 Год назад
@@releasetoreceive 28 😭😭
@releasetoreceive
@releasetoreceive Год назад
@@CaitlynNoel67 that’s how old I am! I’m so sorry for your loss :( sending my love to you!! The reason I asked was because I am going through a breakup. He broke up with me after 6 years… he always had a drinking issue but a few not he before the breakup his alcoholism got to the next level. He was drinking from sun up, to sun down, in the car, all day every day. Also smoked spliffs all day. Whenever I tried to help him and be the better influence he would shut me down. Claimed he loved drinking too much and that he doesn’t have a problem. He most definitely has health issues from it I bet due to he’s been drinking and smoking from a very early age. He just turned 30. I’m worried about him. I joked about doing an intervention for him with his family, he said if I did he would leave. Then a few weeks later, he broke up with me. Not sure if the two relate to the reason- but I saw him become someone I didn’t recognize. Soulless. Didn’t smile or laugh anymore, didn’t love anymore, no emotions or feelings, no sympathy. Cold. This is not who he is, I can’t help but to link it to his alcoholism. It breaks my heart. I don’t want him to end up dying from it. Curious if you had any input? I guess we can try all we want to help someone- but if they don’t want to help, no matter how hard we try it won’t be enough. Instead push us away from them it seems… makes me sad how this substance has such a hold on people.
@CaitlynNoel67
@CaitlynNoel67 Год назад
@Allie Hart I'm so sorry he has turned like that for you. My best friend turned to drinking to fill the void he had, his stemmed from abuse and being bribed alcohol to keep quiet at a young age, he started drinking at like 10 😭 so his was 17-18 years of constant abuse with very few times of sobriety. It's hard to imagine, but even still... I'm sorry for what you are going through. They won't get help until they see they need help. My best friend didn't stop drinking until 2 weeks before he passed, even with liver failure, even with the doctors telling him he only had months, he didn't stop. 🥺🥺
@releasetoreceive
@releasetoreceive Год назад
@@CaitlynNoel67 maybe he felt, why stop if I only have weeks to live? My now ex said he would be fine if he died tomorrow. Such sad words to hear. I wish he didn’t push me away… I want to reach out and tell him I care and want to see him get better. Although I’m not sure that would make a difference at all.
@renate8830
@renate8830 Год назад
3 min into this and already crying. I have been sober for only 2 weeks, some moments it's so hard to say no to myself. I hope to have the strength to continue to say no to myself, but till then I'm trying to stay out of parties, because it's so hard. yeah, been blackout drinking since 14, now I'm almost 25 and understood I need to change things, it affects my mental health so much. It's no easy to do this alone, so videos like this where people share their story helps. been trying to stay sober since 17, failed a lot of times, so I hope this time is going to be a long one.
@kerrykearns3551
@kerrykearns3551 Год назад
3 years sober April 25 I'm proud to be here well done every one who has decided to stop and get help x
@melijxx
@melijxx Год назад
Amazing! Congrats!
@Morgan-mq7ck
@Morgan-mq7ck Год назад
Congratulations on that amazing feat. It’s not easy. Your strength is wild! ❤
@Coplandcalm122
@Coplandcalm122 Год назад
I didn't have a drinking problem but I did have an addiction to pain pills. It is the worst thing a human body can go through. I have been sober now for 11 years and never have I ever felt better there is absolutely no thought of ever taking a pill again. I nearly lost my husband and 3 daughters but luckily they ALL stood by me and helped day by day. Good luck to anyone trying to get clean and sober. It is so hard but when you do come out the other side it is SO INCREDIBLY worth it💞💞
@ah3738
@ah3738 Год назад
This is refreshing and thank you for being vulnerable Lucy. Slightly different story for me...but in the same addiction vein...it was gambling for me. The ability for an addiction to take over your life is simply an understatement. Family has helped me with this but the shame and embarrassment that accompanies it is nauseating. I'm telling everyone out there who struggles with ANY form of addiction...I see you..I hear you and you matter. Ps I love Lucy especially as Aria in Pretty Little Liars. Looove 💜💜💜💜💜💟💟💟💟💟💟🙏
@mochimochi7669
@mochimochi7669 Год назад
Thank you for this comment. I have watched so many shows about addictions and seen firsthand what it can do in my own life. They all usually stem from some sort of trauma or pain. My 600 pound life and intervention are two shows about different addictions, but I see very similar stories about their traumas. I also quit my addiction, alcohol, about 5 years ago. I’m glad you seem to be doing better based on your comment. I wish you all the best.
@MommaKayof3
@MommaKayof3 Год назад
How Lucy described the way drinking made her feel, is exactly how I use to feel drinking. I thought it made me more outgoing, less in my head, more bold, more fun. I felt I needed it to be my “true self” socially. I never heard anyone ever say that! I also have ADHD so my mind is always going 100 miles per hour. Overthinking is a natural thing for me, so alcohol being a downer, calmed my brain. I’ve had so many times where I’d blackout and not remember anything! It was terrifying, and embarrassing. I sometimes would literally crave alcohol, but never really seen it as having an addiction because I didn’t drink everyday. I think that was just my denial, because when I’d drink, I couldn’t ever in moderation. It was like I had no control over it, that was the problem I over looked for so long. I’ve stopped drinking now completely, even socially and have never felt better. I found healthy ways to help with my ADHD and now I feel so in tune with myself, clear minded, present and no longer craving alcohol. I actually am repulsed by it when I pass it in the stores, I’ve come a long way! I started drinking at the young age of 13 years old and now in my late 20s I feel more free than ever. True joy, No alcohol needed. Only Jesus, prayer, facing my traumas and insecurities head on, and learning self love. 💗 but truly the biggest thing was giving it over to God, and asking him to take the desire away completely. He did just that 🙏🏼 You can have addiction even drinking socially, that’s so overlooked now in todays society. That was me, and I never thought of it that way. But now looking back, I defiantly see it. Much love. ❤it’s not easy to admit.
@MirandaM450
@MirandaM450 Год назад
Amen to this. This was also me, had my last drink almost 4 years ago. I also started drinking very young at 14, I think as you get older you try and keep that carefree mentality and alcohol did that temporarily. Happy to say that’s no longer who I am or what I need to have fun. Thank the Lord everyday for blessing me with my kids and showing me what life was really about and giving me that strength through him to give that part of me away. Proud of you Kayla!
@MommaKayof3
@MommaKayof3 Год назад
@@MirandaM450 Aw thank you so much Miranda! 💗 amen. I’m proud of you to! I’m glad the Lord helped you overcome it, he’s the only one that can do it in such a way. 🙏🏼 life is so much more than that I agree! I have my 2 beautiful boys and amazing husband and life is truly great. It’s amazing how when we trust in God, how he can move in our lives. Blessings to you. Have a great day! ☺️
@thaiholiday
@thaiholiday Год назад
Im also ADHD and when she said one drink quiets the mind and she wants more, I really wondered if she has a wee bit of adhd as well. Regardless, super insightful video and I loved it.
@sarahlynne6599
@sarahlynne6599 Год назад
6 years sober this month! 🥳 I relate so much to when Lucy talks about black out drinking- it is terrifying and my last black out incident was the defining moment for me, it finally made me realise that I scared myself when I drank.
@harpergrace5846
@harpergrace5846 Год назад
6 years is so great
@Veromoi4
@Veromoi4 Год назад
Omg I started at 20 and it took me until 33 as well. That’s crazy. I have 26 months sober
@natal1543
@natal1543 Год назад
This is a beautiful way to speak on the hardest thing for a lot of people. I too have struggled. It sucks!
@triinbean
@triinbean Год назад
Can't believe I've heard someone else articulate everything I have gone through with alcohol and their thoughts on it. In a way it is comforting and validating the decision to fully quit alcohol. I thank her so much for opening up and for this entire conversation.
@juliannfloress3490
@juliannfloress3490 Год назад
Im glad you're OK now..
@juanamaral7134
@juanamaral7134 Год назад
this isn’t a subject that i can particularly relate to, but she’s being so open and vulnerable that just makes it feel so relatable. you go, Lucy ❤
@dreem5639
@dreem5639 Год назад
This is insane bc I am currently going thru this and I totally can relate. I needed to hear this as well as I’m sure others did. Thank you Lucy❤️🙏🏽
@priyas1229
@priyas1229 Год назад
This resonated with me so deeply and it touches me to see how many others it resonated with too. December marked three years since I last drank. Love and strength to every person out there who is touched by this, who feels every word she's saying. ❤
@John-xw6qy
@John-xw6qy Год назад
You are not alone on this ms. Hale. I was addicted to hard liquor & horse tranquilizers for a long time. Took getting married to quit. Been sober for 20+ years now. I'm a former addict now. I am very proud of you. Brighter days ahead my dear. 👍🥰
@pupasmr
@pupasmr Год назад
wouldn’t normally sit and watch a video like this but i loved the realness of this, say through the whole thing. so proud of lucy hale!
@zakkxx1
@zakkxx1 Год назад
It’s crazy we are conditioned to think that beneath beauty you can’t find pain and suffering. To think that such a talented young actress like her had to drink to feel contented is mind boggling. Kudos to you lady ❤
@meg56794
@meg56794 Год назад
This was such an insightful discussion on a really challenging and difficult topic
@Alexandriasays
@Alexandriasays Год назад
I have always adored her as a person and thought she was such a humble and sweet person, I am so glad she’s done this for herself it is definitely a difficult road but so worth it in the end. So proud of what an amazing person she proves to be ❤
@RJWorrell
@RJWorrell Год назад
10 years sober this April. Baffles me how alcohol is legal or so easily purchased. It’s a hard core drug.
@inbetrieb3965
@inbetrieb3965 Год назад
Omg what a lovely and honest women. I am so proud of her and proud of telling her story to the world!!! Wow I love you Lucy!! Thanks for sharing angel ❤️
@annaymous
@annaymous Год назад
“ I DESERVE MORE” this mantra in this case sticks so heavily with me
@tahliad5543
@tahliad5543 Год назад
I hate that after she posted her one year sober on Instagram people are asking her for interviews and I hope she didn’t feel the need to share her story, a year sober is great but not a long time when it’s been a problem since you were 14, I hope she stays clean after coming out about this and I hope she takes care of herself
@SL-lz9jr
@SL-lz9jr Год назад
For me it’s shopping and eating. At some point I have to deal with the underlying issues driving this need, this desire to spend money or eat beyond fullness or eat every moment of the day. It hasn’t gotten to a point where it’s impacted my life but I know it has a hold on me and I need to let it go somehow.
@nataliyasattarova9423
@nataliyasattarova9423 Год назад
Lucy is so deep as a person! I would love to see her in more movies and TV shows, especially serious ones
@athenaargyropoulos5988
@athenaargyropoulos5988 Год назад
YOU GO GIRL! Wow. Truly a queen. And for anyone suffering in any way I’m sending my love and light.
@madisonshepard7947
@madisonshepard7947 Год назад
This woman is literally speaking my exact story (down to the language I would use, the “past two drinks,”) and whew! Thank you SO much Lucy for choosing a different way AND talking about your journey because it encourages people like me who are on that path of getting sober; it de-stigmatizes why people like me just can’t drink! A hard decision to make, but thanks.
@kaelynn4744
@kaelynn4744 Год назад
So happy for her ❤ I had no idea, so much respect
@dsm_796
@dsm_796 Год назад
Watching this video reminds me so much of my ex-husband. It took us 5 years living together to finally recognize that he was addicted to alcohol, 3 of those years doing couple therapy. Yes binge drinking is not typically seen as addiction. Mostly when it’s a young man just trying to “have some fun on the weekends…”. Our relationship did not survive that addiction and all the heartbreak, lies and abuse that comes with it, but I wish him the best and I really hope that one day he finds what’s inside him that makes him go that route and not being able to stop. This shit destroys lives and not only the lives of those who have the addiction but also the ones around them. I know that I’ll forever be scarred and afraid of even normal drinkers. Happy for Lucy. 💛
@taralyonscott
@taralyonscott Год назад
I appreciate this. Alcoholism is RAMPANT in my family and I have to keep such a close eye on it. I love wine, but have to be immensely cautious. After a divorce last year I drank much more than I knew I should be because I was miserable and running away. I did the same thing 15 years ago when my father attempted suicide. I came to realize that beating myself up about going overboard doesn't mean progress. If I cannot enjoy a glass of wine with a dinner and stop there, then I don't get to have wine, period. Everyone is different.
@HStacey2011
@HStacey2011 Год назад
I got seven years sober last August and I’m hopeful to make it to eight years, just a bit at a time tho. 🎉
@Sophchie
@Sophchie Год назад
This is so relatable! I feel like she’s telling my exact story word for word. Wow. Breathe-taking. Thank you so much both of you. I’ve been sober a month and am planning to stay in this happy place. ❤
@elzanevdmerwe3577
@elzanevdmerwe3577 7 месяцев назад
I love Lucy , you're so brave and honest. I love that. You are amazing and so inspiring. Keep at it.
@juniper4194
@juniper4194 Год назад
I don't like to drink i don't like the taste of alcohol but i love the feeling after drinking. I'm more confident and open with people, i don't have anxiety i'm happy i feel like i can do everything when i'm drunk
@missd3605
@missd3605 Год назад
Can totally relate. I'm not an alcoholic but definitely have a drinking problem... drinking quiets my mind and makes me feel light and happy. Which sucks
@Buhrittany
@Buhrittany Год назад
I needed to see this. I'm about to be 31, been struggling since I was about 22. I know im killing myself by keeping this up. But I haven't figured out a way to stop. I moved back home from Washington to be around family. I thought they could help but it hasn't. I've asked to be put in a facility. But unless I do it on my own, I won't get the help I need...yet I'm failing at it everyday. Anyways. I'm so glad I could watch Lucy express herself and her story because I'm noticing a lot of similarities. Gives me some hope Pray for me yall, I'm trying to figure out my purpose and why I am still on this earth. Take care
@mtthplc
@mtthplc Год назад
i believe in you so much and you’ve come a long way. you will get sober someday, dont stop believing in yourself
@cg-es1te
@cg-es1te Год назад
HOLY SHIT. The way she speaks about her addiction in relation to her family, friends, carreer, and herself is a really big fuckin deal. Props to her.
@blackbirdflyyx
@blackbirdflyyx Год назад
I’ve known about Lucy Hale since she was on American Juniors as a little girl (I replayed her performing Blondie’s Call Me so many times). I didn’t hear about her again for years until PLL and was thrilled that she found success in her career even though I wasn’t a fan of a show. But I had no idea that she was going through an addiction all the while. 😔 So glad she’s where she needs to be now.
@InaMariahsVoice
@InaMariahsVoice Год назад
i relate so much to everything she says. I am 32 now trying to get sober for 3 years. this video gave me new hope and motivation. thank you for sharing.
@PlaceForAnEcho
@PlaceForAnEcho Год назад
Always thought she was intelligent. This supported my feeling. Bravo to her being very honest. People in AA can be very blunt and brutally honest. Also he’s a good interviewer. It was more like a convo/discussion about addiction.
@lillieroberts5397
@lillieroberts5397 Год назад
Wow, beautifully articulated. Wish her the very best... grateful for her words & example.
@fionaflaherty
@fionaflaherty Год назад
This video is incredible and so eye opening. I have even more love for Lucy after watching. Thank you for your honesty and taking the power away from addiction. It is so taboo, which hurts everyone.
@amandaroseep
@amandaroseep Год назад
Wow I’m so glad she came out and spoke about this so proud of her ❤
@roscoewalker9741
@roscoewalker9741 Месяц назад
I'm 5 days from 1yr!!!...I also choose "allergy over "disease "
@barefootwench
@barefootwench Год назад
I'm proud of you. My mom lost her battle with her drinking demons and addiction at the age of 52.
@anr8507
@anr8507 Год назад
So sorry for your lost but if I may ask , do you know how much was her cusumption a day ?
@barefootwench
@barefootwench Год назад
@@anr8507 No clue, she hid it from us most of my life until her last 10 years.
@Axel1051
@Axel1051 Год назад
I'm nearly done for a year (April 1) so I know how hard it is. So I applaud Lucy for this.
@jessikarabbid4720
@jessikarabbid4720 Год назад
It really does take time. 🖤 I used alcohol as a mask for years, and almost died multiple times. Also a binge drinker, I'd leave mid conversation to throw up, and come back with another bottle like that's why I left in the first place. It took a sink being ripped off the wall, and flooding a bathroom to finally acknowledge I had a problem.
@shaylahastings6383
@shaylahastings6383 Год назад
I just heard this amazing quote for recovering alcoholics to explain their situation to people offering/ pushing a drink on them, “I’m allergic to alcohol and I will break out in handcuffs” 😂😂
@jessica60934
@jessica60934 Год назад
100% relate to this. Thanks for being so open Lucy!
@sarahhall9079
@sarahhall9079 2 месяца назад
I really appreciate the number of well-known people coming forward to talk about what impact alcohol has had on them because I think everyone feels very alone when it comes to alcohol addiction. If you are trying to get sober or want to cut back on how much you drink then the book and podcast "This Naked Mind" can be life-changing. Its author Annie Grace takes a super compassionate approach. I can highly recommend!
@SoFrivole
@SoFrivole Год назад
Lucy is the best! Bravo for having dared to speak about this subject. You can be proud of you because you will help a lot of people and to make things progress.
@breemitchell2612
@breemitchell2612 Год назад
Thank you Lucy for sharing.
@melijxx
@melijxx Год назад
I’ve been clean and sober for 1,318 days ♥️
@ashaf.6143
@ashaf.6143 Год назад
That's absolutely amazing Meli, can't wait to be able to say that one day 🙌
@l56700
@l56700 Год назад
Demi Lovato, Selena Gomez, Lucy Hale, they all hide their dark addiction really well, and for a long time. Well, that's just sad.
@pumpkinjellyfish
@pumpkinjellyfish Год назад
I told myself the same thing when smoking weed. I realized i had a problem when i said that and quit. It was very hard the rage i had for like 2 weeks.
@demicoleman544
@demicoleman544 Год назад
Wow we are so much alike! Drinking patterns etc are the same. I'm 33 I was struggling for 10 years I am over a year sober as well thanks to AA congratulations we do recover.
@JonKorpi-fk7yo
@JonKorpi-fk7yo 9 дней назад
31 years sober was a blackout drinker can't remember years now much better happier and stable keep stepping it works
@NoName-ql1wk
@NoName-ql1wk Год назад
I like the mind quietening effects of alcohol. A lot.
@cloud.watcher
@cloud.watcher Год назад
i see so much of myself in her and it gives me hope and reminds me i’m not a shitty person and i am not my habits
@munchkinsophie
@munchkinsophie Год назад
I love this girl thanks for sharing something personal like this with everyone
@J_Stamps86
@J_Stamps86 Год назад
January 2nd 2022 is the same day I got sober and I have been ever since and never looked back. I totally understand the "it quiets my mind" feeling. It's so difficult to describe the perpetual state of sadness and utter worthlessness that comes with it. It's a bit like having a caravan in Skegness; I never want to go back.
@julses79
@julses79 Год назад
Our sober dates are very close! Dec 25th, 2021 for me. Unfortunately it took me until I was 43... One day at a time.
@kylieroth2326
@kylieroth2326 Год назад
When we are in our addictions we think we can set rules for ourselves (I won’t drink around this person I wont put my self in that situation I won’t- whatever it is) and be fine. But addiction doesn’t follow rules. And that’s what got ME sober twice. I was a solo binge drinker for a long time and always told myself I just won’t drink that much around other people. Broke that rule at my college graduation party. That realization of that broken rule got me sober for a few months in 2021. Then I ramped back up in 2022 and my next rule was don’t do this at mom’s. May 31st 2022 something snapped and I broke THAT rule. Been sober since. Almost a year sober now. And I’m like Lucy explained I would try to moderately do it and it would get out of hand and I learned to just say away from it.
@GriffinDuyThespian
@GriffinDuyThespian Год назад
I can relate to alot of what she's saying. When you're in high school & ESPECIALLY when we turn 21 we justify drinking because we have the time or freedom & resources to pass the time for fun & having the goal of getting hammered. the more life is lived, quality over quantity is learned.
@sparkymularkey6970
@sparkymularkey6970 Год назад
I'm coming up to a solid year of absolutely no drinking and I'm really happy with how much better I feel.
@eveimaginaire
@eveimaginaire Год назад
wow! so spot on i have been struggling with alcool its new for me and listining to Lucy speak about this just help me so much more in understanding whats happening with myself! thank you all for being lights in this world sharing ur experience and showing me its possible to change and thriiive! with much peace n love😇🌍🌞🌈❤️✊🏿✨
@tashayrushing4253
@tashayrushing4253 2 месяца назад
Thank you for sharing your experience
@des2507
@des2507 Год назад
Very proud of you Lucy. ❤
@gianninabriceno9354
@gianninabriceno9354 Год назад
One of the best interviews I’ve ever seen
@rolltidewoah
@rolltidewoah Год назад
so crazy when she described it as an allergy to alcohol. that’s EXACTLY how I feel about my own body/drinking
@miatorelli7387
@miatorelli7387 Год назад
That’s from the Big Book from AA
@briannawalter8033
@briannawalter8033 Год назад
Thank you for letting her talk
@saidyv6561
@saidyv6561 6 месяцев назад
Ugh was sober 4 yrs and fell off. Day 1 again. Its not worth it. Everything she said was spot on
@starburst6395
@starburst6395 6 месяцев назад
Hope you’re doing well
@always-positivity
@always-positivity Год назад
I adore you Lucy!! Thank you for being so open and honest. You are correct with everything that you’re saying here and I applaud you
@theivesinjeans
@theivesinjeans Год назад
I seem to remember that there was a time during PLL where there was a rumor that she didn't get along with the other girls or there was a feud or something and I wonder if any of it was caused from her addiction, if there was any truth to the rumors and even though she says it never got in the way of her work. So proud of her nonetheless, it's a major milestone for anyone to overcome.
@hopfilms1983
@hopfilms1983 Год назад
those were just rumors started by annoying fans who were always up in lucy’s business asking her why she never hung out with the other girls… newsflash, co-workers don’t have to hang out outside of work. ashley, troian, and shay were always hanging out a lot more together regardless. also mind you, there were rumors about ashley being a bitch which is a lot more likely based on evidence so let’s not blame it on Lucy’s addiction.
@theivesinjeans
@theivesinjeans Год назад
@@hopfilms1983 I wasn't really trying to place any blame, just putting my thoughts out there. I figured it was all just rumors being spread around.
@dt9538
@dt9538 Год назад
@@hopfilms1983 was Ashley mean??
@lovencourage6284
@lovencourage6284 Год назад
You didn't need the alcohol, you are amazing and perfect in truth!!! Omg! 🥺💜
@a.m.1468
@a.m.1468 Год назад
The way she was speaking so easily on something as vulnerable as this, in a nurturing way, even - paired with her mention of how taboo the topic typically is.. I just had to check her birth chart for Scorpio placements & sure enough. That’s an evolved Scorpio Moon, right there 🥲
@lulyzavala8970
@lulyzavala8970 Год назад
Omg she is the first person who really described me . Finally. Everyone else says they had abuse /sexual abuse (i never did) its like honestly i have a mental addiction . U feel more talkative social when it drink and forget about worries. ….
@jamestaylor9537
@jamestaylor9537 Год назад
I’m struggling and I hate this feeling, freedom is sobriety
@TaliaTattoosnspiders
@TaliaTattoosnspiders Год назад
I’m struggling with alcohol atm. Before I got pregnant it was bad, and I did good at hiding it. After pregnancy I am picking it up again and it’s not as bad but is a problem and I’m in so much pain idk what to do
@alinegerard1284
@alinegerard1284 Год назад
Alcohol is an extremely addictive drug that is so powerful it actually changes the brain’s thinking pattern and internal reward system to crave it (like cocaine does) and is also a carcinogenic toxin….so gaslighting “addicts” saying that addiction is solely down to the individual’s circumstances and not the drug itself is unfortunate. Most people who drink alcohol are functional addicts that often drink more than expected and wouldn’t be able to stop drinking if they tried or needed to, the “drinking one glass and being able to stop” is in reality very rare.
@sailor.93minerva
@sailor.93minerva Год назад
This is me too. Blackout instantly but somehow wants more. It's nuts.
@tvmoksha
@tvmoksha Год назад
Thanks, and thanks for opening with “it takes time”
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