It honestly brings me great joy to know that even at the ripe old age of whatever age she is now, she still gets the loli-lui complex whenever people even so much as suggest snatching her brother away from her.
**Bullies bullying the everliving crap out of someone** *Teachers:* "This is fine. Just kids being kids, it's not even serious." **Someone hits a bully in retaliation, self-defense or just gives them back some attitude** *Teachers:* "HOW DARE!? You will apologize right now and you will mean it!"
same here in my school, even i wanna quit from my school because how unfair the teachers is toward bullies and victims even one of the victim bring knife in bag school for revenge against that bullies
This brain-dead attitude just made me not bother to hold back in fights. I would always retaliate every single time someone put hands on me in a hostile manner, and stopped caring about being suspended because I knew both my parents would support me and give the school an earful about how worthless they were after every incident and take me to a museum or something if I was lucky, because I wasn't starting any of this and everyone damn well knew it. It also taught me that the government is morally bankrupt by about 2nd grade, which has only been reinforced over the years.
@@Ashhley_the_shawty The way I see it, pacifism is a privilege for those who can afford it because they have not actually faced much, if anything in the way of violence in their own lives. And so how is it that these people can judge those of us who have, and had no choice but to defend ourselves or those we care about from a violent aggressor?
I've been bullied, and I've tried the whole turn-the-other-cheek thing, and it really doesn't work. I'm an adult now, probably older than most of you reading this, and let me tell you: Kids and teens are vicious little animals who operate on pack mentality and the only way to win any respect under those conditions is to fight back. You can make friends with them later of whatever, just don't show weakness when directly provoked. If you do, they will always remember you as an easy target. Sayings like "it takes two to make a quarrel" is just a platitude adults use to make it simpler to condemn conflict among children. "Defense? Dignity? What's that? Can you eat it?" Why bother sorting out who was right and who was wrong when you can just blame everyone equally? Adults hate to see children resort to violence but too easily forget that it is their responsibility to teach kids how to act properly and to provide them with a safe environment to learn and grow their confidence. The only things I regret is that I didn't fight back _harder,_ and that I didn't maintain my dignity when questioned about it.
The point is the art of not using violence. Because in real life violence is not always the solution. But yeah they should not punish that kid, or at elast also punsih the bully for both uaing violence
Those Adults just don't want to admit that it was their fault the bullying was happening in the first place. That is why they blame everyone equally, to shift the blame away from themselves.
As an adult I now know that the adults during my school days were assholes and actually 100% wrong. If you get attacked because bullies see you as a target. You fucking make them regret the action. Its basic carrot and stick conditioning. The seemingly only concept the stupidest to the most intelligent bullies can understand. You don't attempt to hurt the person thats 100% gonna defend themselves. Thats why they want to keep you silent, isolated and tame. So they can keep doing what they're doing and remove all means of power to change the situation. But that stops the moment you cause them to limp to school the next day. And guess what? YOU DON'T HAVE TO BULLY THEM. You can just hurt them the once. And they never bother anyone again. Especially when you're around to see it. You end up doing a better job preventing bullying than the dumb ass teacher that are supposed to be doing it.
Agreed. I was raised to not "cause trouble" at school and that just added to my misery. Up until a few years ago, my entire life hinged on a hypothetical suicide-revenge plot. Fortunately, I can see more options in my life, but it took years of work to resolve that conditional time bomb
Awww her brother is saving someone else from being bullied, that's really heroic Lui-nee's reaction when someone wants to marry her brother, she's definitely jealous. And then she proceed to brag about her brother being sis-con xD Never understand with how schools treated the students who try to fight (or defending themselves) the bullies. Shouldn't punished for doing that That's why a lot of kids that being bullied never fight back. They're even more being discouraged to do that
Idk man, when in midle school i used to get bullied after im changing school, but i raised my fist and got suspended, even tho my mom pretty angry but my dad didnt even angry at all, heck he even makes me go to boxing gym for me to fight with less injury. My dad always said "violence is bad, but a weak man is much worse, if he cant protect himself then how can he protect people around him"
The physical damage from getting punched is nothing compared to the emotional & psychological damage of being bullied, adults rarely ever take bullying as seriously as they should so no one can really complain if some fight back.
We need more people with the brother's conviction. Heck, I even think the bully deserved it. Because face it, if hitting someone is not the solution, well, neither is "turning the other cheek". Anyway, I'm not surprised at all that he is already married since he's such a fucking chad.
"no matter the reason, you should never hit someone"... I hate people who say shit like that, they're so coddled and filled with bullshit self-righteous justice, but in reality, all that does is protect the bullies and persecute the victims
@@Valk.. I remember the good old days when I would tremble in fear if my mom even heard a *rumor* of me being bad. Because I knew the hanger was coming.
@@yaelz6043 only if the potential bullies did that. Reality is that humans are simple creatures. Aside from the occasional weirdos... the vast majority of people respond to the good ol' reward/punishment system. If you do bad things, and get no punishment, you have no reason to stop. That's why bullying is so prevalent, teachers are the ones turning a blind eye. And what they do is just 'talk' to the bullies, like that's going to change a goddamn thing. And when a true hero comes along and does what needs to be done, I'm not even asking for him to be rewarded, but at the very least, he should be exempted from punishment. Shouldn't a good deed cancel out a bad deed in the most primitive of societies? Which moron decided that being a protector means you have to suffer the same punishment, getting penalised for doing the right thing? That just discourages future heroes, and prolongs the existence of bullies and more victims. ---- the same goes for victims who defend themselves. Why the fuck should self defence be punishable. whoever made those rules should have a special place in hell.
I don't agree with the mom's advice. A kid has every right to defend themselves from bullies. If someone punches you, you have every right to punch back. Doesn't matter if you man woman, young, old. Self defense is justifiable. Stopping bullies is a good thing. However it is also good to know about your surroundings. If defending yourself is a direct result of someone else getting harmed later on then it's better to not fight back.
Well well, I agree with your opinion but this is japan and people don't want to stand out much so that's why the mom advise him to not doing that because that just gonna bring them more troubles and make him stand out because of being the suspended kid It is just different country, different ways of teaching
Violence should only be a last resort as a means of *defending* oneself or even others who can't. But it must be done with restraint, discipline, and most importantly, for a valid reason. If people don't like it then it's the parents or teachers' (or whatever authoritative figure) fault for letting bullies get away with everything. When you fight bullies you make sure you win and the bully learns his/her lesson.
Exactly. Never start a fight, but also don't hesitate to end one. If you didn't start it, you beat the tar out of whoever did, and then you lay off them once they're no longer a threat and have been subdued, no moral wrongdoing has been committed. If the school authorities don't like that, they can get serious and make real effort to stop the bullying in the first place. Starting the brawl in the first place or beating and kicking someone while they're down and out of the fight already, however, are unacceptable and barbaric behaviors.
Luckily or maybe unluckily, my family trained in the art of fighting with tongue. Physical wounds would heal in a while, but mentally? Thats real black magic there 😂😂😂
I hate people saying violence doesn't solve anything, it's really unhealthy to let kids bottle it up, from what I've seen the ones that punched back didn't get bothered again while the ones who stayed quite and followed the "rules" kept on getting bullied. Violence is a legitimate form of communication and helps people set limits.
I slapped the guy who bullied me in Junior high school with concrete bricks. My school is terrified af lol. They're trying to protect the bully once but I do that again anyway. But the second time I used a steel pipe and a concrete block. It didn't go as well as my homie expected, but still do some collateral damage. 👍🏻
His mother and his sister Lui told him he was in the wrong to fight back. True he didn't but his family doesn't want him to fight with fists.As a sister Lui took the no fighting and disappointed sister route as well how surprising. That's probably why things calmed down with him at school...
@@Fate862 They're both objectively wrong and speaking from privileged positions, most likely being lucky enough to never have suffered much, if any violence in their entire lives. The only way to stop bullies is to make them scared of you, and generally the only way to do that is to inflict violence right back upon them when they start fights with you or others, hold nothing back, and continue to inflict violence until they are no longer a threat. I have more than enough firsthand experience to make that call. No bully ever left me alone because I left them alone, they left me alone because I inflicted pain and injury upon them whenever they used force against me until they realized that I was not an easy target. Most bullies are idiots who simply cannot learn to leave others alone through peaceful means.
@@srkares None of the authority figures in the entire education system gave a damn, in my experience. You are the one talking out of your ass here, and I was never the one to start a violent confrontation with anybody. If anything, I should have held back even less and put more than one of the bullies in the hospital after they persisted in getting physical with me. This would have rendered them more incapable of harming others, and reduced harm in the grand scheme of things since they grew up into criminal scum anyway and I know for a fact that 3 were arrested and charged later on in life while my record is spotless. When others have already chosen violence, you are nothing more than an idiot to choose peace to defend yourself and others, and you seem to speak with the exact same privilege I was talking about, so consider yourself a privileged idiot for protecting thugs, bullies, and other human filth from justice when no authority will provide it, or protect the innocent from them. Violence, naked force, is the supreme authority from which all others are derived. You cannot rationally deny this, and the righteous punishment for a violent attack on another when the supposedly legitimate authorities repeatedly allow it to happen and fail to intervene involves a thorough and extensive beating of the offender until they get the message. If that gets your panties in a bunch, maybe you should be more active in local anti-bullying campaigns to get schools to stop things before they escalate into violence in the first place. This is not the responsibility of the victims. If you refuse to even consider that, I can only conclude that you are a bully yourself with your endless apologetics for them.
something similar happened to me in highschool. in hindsight, I'm thankful we never got caught and surprised nobody reported it so no one got suspended or expelled. its rather complicated since sure, an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind but you also don't let others walk all over you.
"an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind" I never did like this saying. It really is a pessimistic view on the world that guise itself in a thin layer of 'supposed' goodwill. I said pessimistic because the saying goes by the premise that half of the world consist of people who'd gouge your eyes out or something. No faith in humanity at all. 'An eye for an eye' is supposed to apply to heinous crime that leave everlasting mark on the victim after all. I do believe in forgiveness, but it shouldn't be forced out of the victim as people who'd like to quote on this saying tends to do even without them realizing it. Even worse when people who does not suffer from the act is the one handing out forgiveness to the perpetrator without the consent of the real victim. What kind of bs is that? Like I said, I do believe in forgiveness, so supporting the victim through the ordeal and advising them to let things go is the correct way, but only until certain point. Some people only learn their lesson when they learn the pain of the victim themselves, and even then, some don't. And if those kind of people who don't learn their lesson commit something as serious as robbing someone off their 'eyes', maybe those people should better off be blind. Else even more people would be their victims.
@@arurueruru9177 the saying can also be interpreted to mean that vengeance has far reaching consequences, like in the extreme example of murder if you avenge a loved one by killing their killer, you have now most likely taken away someone else's loved one making you the target of someone else's vengeance. basically vengeance or "an eye for an eye" will always lead to more destruction until stopped by forgiveness.
In the world of the blind, the one-eyed man is king. So if you are attacked, go for their damned eyes, go for the balls, go for the kidneys and the throat. Do not fight clean, you didn't start it and the bully doesn't get to dictate how his would-be victims might respond. Stop the violence when the attacker is no longer a threat, and not a moment sooner.
I wonder how shocked Lui would be to know that many EN viewers would whole-heartedly support her brother's actions. After all, standing up for the sake of those who are oppressed is the core ideal behind the "Why" of what her brother did.
Been there, done that, usually came out even or ahead in the brawls in elementary school. The couple of bullies who explicitly targeted me in middle and high school got taken by total surprise when I retaliated, because I'd already learned that swift and decisive violence was the only real way to stop aggressive pricks by the age of 12. Let them think you're not a threat, then fight dirty as hell because you aren't the one who started it, and don't stop until *they're* no longer a threat. If they fear you, they won't mess with you or your friends. I follow a simple and reasonable philosophy - don't start trouble, and there won't be trouble.
@RanStuff Mine was in the Army back in the day, and "Never start a fight, but never hold back in ending one" was what I was taught. There was not a word about minimal force, I was told to use the maximum amount of non-lethal force and fight dirty until they go down and are out of the fight, and then immediately let off them since at that point, the threat is neutralized. This served me well on a number of occasions.
0:01 His brother has a strong sense of justice? Is he Araragi Koyomi by any chance? XD 2:06 Wait... already married? Also a siscon? Damn, he really do be like Koyomi XD
I was raised to do exactly what her brother did, only my father taught me to that if it turns into a fight, I didn't hit hard enough the first time. No surprise, but he was absolutely right. You hit hard enough, you get weight behind your words and you can then stand up and stop the bullying around you without needing to fight. Schools are like prison, you either stand with the bullies by doing nothing, tattle and be a target for everyone, or pick the biggest one and fight until it's done. Words without actions to back them up are just hot air, world is full of proof of that.
Putting aside the fact that I've never heard the last part "....make the whole blind" (Ok, Google say that it exists and the correct quote is "....make the whole world blind") Turning a blind eye every day isn't the same thing as "an eye for an eye make the whole world blind"? It's even worse because you are indirectly saying "I saw what happened but I won't do anything about it", You are a shitty teacher if you're doing it (no, speaking with the bully doesn't work, I've experienced it first-hand). If it's the victim doing it (I mean turning a blind eye) it will develop some mental problem or directly change his/her behaviour if he/she doesn't have a strong mentality, that's why I highly respect her brother and I'm sorry for him living in Japan. (Btw I wrote this whole thing because I have nothing better to do at the moment, you don't have to care about this comment)
I have things I should be doing, but I'm going to write this instead! The phrase "an eye for an eye will make the whole world blind" and its school of thought is actually a response to the phrase "an eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth". This is an expression of just vengeance, but also one of the oldest penal concepts in recorded human history. The Code of Hammurabi, a system of law from ~1750 BC Babylon, had punishments for crimes match the original crime; if you gouged someone's eye out, yours would be too. If a builder makes a house that, through faulty construction, collapses and kills the occupant's son, then the builder's son would be put to death.
Mom "No matter what the reason never hit someone" Ah the classic boomer parenting of just let it happen lmao , That's a solid advise IF everyone did just that , but hey the other guy was bullying asking to get punched
I mean Lui is the one who also agreed. "Just because he started the fight doesn't mean you have to follow" So what Lui is a boomer? The mom and Lui both are saying the bother didn't do something praiseworthy which is kinda harsh coming from Lui herself to say about her brother but you gotta remember this is japan. People over there are way more anti-violence and its very looked down upon in their society to fight as you'll be labeled as a delinquent and family gets a bad reputation too.
@@Fate862 They're both straight-up, objectively wrong. Violence from bullies does not stop until the school stops them, which almost never happens, or they themselves are stopped with physical violence from their would-be victims. Don't start trouble, and there won't be trouble. Pacifism is not a reasonable response in any aspect in the face of physical aggression.
i wanted to said that her brother was being heroic than other people who ignored just see victim got bullying,and i want to gave him a medal honor( if i have medal)
I'm sorry Lui-nee-san, but sometimes, Violence is always the answer, might not be the best solution, but it'll always be a solution. As a victim of bullying for being Phat, after I fought back against my Bully, they never bothered me again. Sometimes, turning the other cheek don't work, the world tried that before and they got WWII.
What Lui says about an eye for an eye makes sense for a justice system that already has power over a criminal, but not when it's individuals interacting. If someone punches you or someone you care about, they can get everything they want unless there is some physical resistance, and children don't always have the option of calling an authority to protect them.
"an eye for an eye will make whole world blind", good proverb for big things, but on personal matter, i would rather try to make them blind too rather than only me getting blind. I don't belittle people that choose to endure and do nothing, but make sure to make a line or you'll only suffer more.
In the world of the blind, the one-eyed man is king. Also, most people aren't bullies. If eyes were actually gouged out as punishment for bullying, the majority of the population would retain both of them. This pacifist of thought just doesn't stand against even a moment of critical thinking when someone else has already chosen violence.
Offense is the highest form of defense. I also got bullied in primary school and in secondary school too, and in both cases those bullies often came attacked me out of nowhere. Most of bullies I had faced usually one or two year older than me, they usually hold the "school tradition" of picking lower class students to beat and take from us money, as well as digital stuffs we brought to school (to play with some classmates). The way they beat the lower classes was horrible back then, that even when some poor victims gathered and negotiated with those older bullies, most time what they got back was many hurtful injuries. They also tried to speak up to the school about the problem, to the extent reporting repeatedly to the principal but no avail. I witnessed that during my primary school, and it led me to decide using the offensive method against bullied, due to no other choices. Using violence in a controlled degree is what made offense meaningful. To offend against some bigger ones, you need martial arts and retreating skill, because no matter how strong your punch is, you need to hurry up fleeing if not want being cornered by a larger group of bullies. Aside from using violence, use other methods to defend against bullying, including negotiation and concession. I was no longer being bullied after making that choice, since I got really persistent in fighting back those bullies and caused lots of trouble to their parents, they decided to retreat and not bother to touch me and my classmates. I got 2 years of peaceful secondary school life, traded off by 2 years of resisting against burglars. Keep resisting back using whatever methods, armed yourself with martial art (just some basic ones to be honest), clever negotiation skill and evidence obtaining, I believe you can be able to apply this offense strategy to any disturbed oppressors. Of course life is not that straight black and white like at school, but still the offense method is partially relevant, I believe so. That's just my long story, thanks for reading :)))
An eye for an eye describes the rights you have, whether you want to forgive them or ask for compensation is another thing entirely. People are not equal if you can't punch them when the punched you.
I think it was admirable that he was standing up for someone who he thought was facing injustice. Maybe he’ll grow up to be an officer or lawyer or something.
I remember my mom teaching me when I was a kid that if I ever get bullied, don't be afraid to punch the bully in the face. Just don't be the one to start trouble. She also recounted the story of my brother punching his bully with mumps on the swollen part of his face hahaha. According to her, his bully never bothered him again. Violence is not a good thing, I know. However, I consider a violent response to repeated provocation a form of self-defense. It shows to your bully that you're willing to go that far to defend yourself, and makes it not worth it for them since they only want the feeling of superiority, not a black eye. I also consider the advice of never hitting anyone no matter what, a stupid one. I think only people who get off to the moral superiority and feeling of self-righteousness actually believe in that, never considering whether it would actually help the people they're telling it to. In Japan though, it's more about prioritizing "group harmony" over the individual, and I think it's why bullying and being a shut-in is so prevalent there. If you're bullied, no one is on your side, not even your parents and I think that's really sad.
In all honesty, her brother did 100% the right thing imo. You can't rly talk a bully out of bullying others and going to a teacher makes the situation oftentimes worse. So ye, imo her brother did the right thing. And also to be fair, physical injuries heal faster, then some "psychological injury" so the bully most likely recovers faster from it, then his victims recover from shit he did to em.
The world is irrational and unjust. There are no absolutes other than the Laws of Reality we are forced to live by, like gravity and time. Bullies exist for their own reason, and for that, Justice exist also. Without one or the other, the dynamics are rendered into hedonism. No understanding what is right or wrong. I'm glad Lui's brother is on the side of Justice. But without the other, he wouldn't be such.
One should never tolerate intolerance, because intolerance tolerate nothing ... the paradox of punching a bully, the act of aggression. which results in peace
The mom saying that you shouldnt ever hit anyone, but when they meet each other at the supermarket she keeps saying, "you wanna take this outside?" n shit xD
"And in the world of the blind, the one-eyed man is king". That is actually the last part. Don't start trouble, and there won't be trouble. Bullies engaging in physical violence should be beaten into the dirt, it's the only way they're capable of learning or they wouldn't be resorting to violence against the innocent in the first place.
While true that fighting is generally no good, if the bully threw the first punch it’s important to get ‘em back or they will switch over to harassing him probably (because they think he’s an easy target to hit now)
"My onii-chan has already married" Yagoo is married too, but never stopped anyone- That being said, having a good sense of justice is admirable. Though it also comes with a drawback, as seen here- just and law sometimes don't really get along.
This nonsense happens in the West as well, the only real option to stop bullies is swift and overwhelming force. Everyone claiming otherwise is hopelessly naïve or privileged enough that they have never directly suffered from violence, and therefore have no right to tell those who have what they can and can't do.
Honestly, Lui’s story about her brother is only an anomaly in the issues of systemic bullying that never gets resolved in the Japanese education system. Reminder, Japan is “the country where every nail *must* be hammered down”. Teachers and school faculties don’t get either the support, training, or resources to discourage bullying, nor reprimand it without lasting consequences for the victims.
As someone who was often bullied in school, I definitely agree that Lui's brother was right and her mom was wrong. Mind you, I don't blame her mom much for thinking like that; it's pretty much the most common mentality in Japan. And on paper, it sounds real good, but in practice, it's BS. If you try to use words to fight back against bullies, or just ignore them, or try reporting them to teachers, they will just continue to do it. They see you as an easy target. The second you fight back physically, they will never bother you again, even if you don't even end up harming them. As an example, there was this guy who kept trying to mess with me every day after school, and I kept trying to ignore him, so he just kept getting worse and worse. Eventually, I snapped and swung at him a few times, but he kept dodging me and an adult saw us and broke us up before I could even land any hits. From then on, he not only stopped bullying me, he actually respected me and acted friendly with me from then on. That's far from the only story I have like that, either, though it's the one that sticks out in my memory the most. So yes, in an ideal world, we would never resort to violence and could always either avoid or work out any conflict without it. But we don't live in an ideal world. There are people out there who don't respond to anything but violence, and much as we hate it, that's not changing anytime soon.
I was on the receiving end of bullying until I started fighting back and then I scared the bullies. I guess I traumatized one so bad he quit bullying and became a coward.
There's no perfect solution to this kind of situation, there will be consequences either way. But I will say one thing, most of my life I didn't fight back against bullies and the bullying always continued unabated. But there was one time a guy I'd had problems with before came up behind me and was messing with me. I gave him a solid elbow to the face resulting in a massive bloody nose. I never had a problem with him again.
Remember kids if your being bullied the solution is simple l. Make a public example of the bully by making sure you have an audience and then lay on the hurt till he’s squealing. You don’t even have to win as everyone will immediately think your more trouble than it’s worth. Works every time.
"You should never hit anyone, no matter the reason" This is toxic and teaches people to be spineless wimps. Self defense and defending others who can't defend themselves are both perfectly good reasons for violence. Take Lui's onii out for some ice cream or something. He earned it.
sometime hitting someone is the way, someone who bullies other is a person that has a wicked intention and if you don't do something drastic they won't get they something bad can happen to them too. that bully maybe has done something worse than punch someone anyway
The brother was in the right. Saying that violence is never acceptable is a good way to raise a cuck in life, glad he didn’t listen. Always stand up for yourself and your rights. My mom always said to me, the family saying, “An eye for an eye. A tooth for a tooth. A claw for a claw.” My addition is “Gouge out both eyes.” I will die standing before I live a life on my knees.
Stand for something or fall for anything. Lui's brother did nothing wrong, it's the system that failed him and many other kids who have to deal with injustice
Tho i agree the "an eye for an eye makes the world blind" i do feel you shouldnt back down so easily but push back alittle cause once you back down once your now a new easy target.
Love Lui, but yeah her brother was most definitely in the right in that situation. I have done the same and I only regret not doing it sooner. Anyone who tells you that ignoring bullies is the best thing to do because they will "get tired and stop" has never been bullied in their life. The truth is that bullies pick on your BECAUSE you don't fight back. It doesn't matter if you react or don't, they get a kick out of it either way because that is what they set out to do. The sad truth is that no matter how you react to them it will never stop and never change. Beat their ass and they won't mess with you. If they still mess with you, beat their ass worse than the last time. I got bullied terribly as a kid. I had autism too, which explained some of it, but we didn't know that until I was 14, not because there weren't signs but because my teachers and parents just said I was "anti-social and mean" because I didn't get along with the kids who were kicking my ass. More specifically I stood up for a kid who was getting bullied, so the bullies turned to me and let said kid join them instead, so I saved no one and got screwed. So I got my ass whooped through the whole of primary school and no matter what I did or said to them, my parents or teachers, I was just told to "ignore them and they'll stop", or to "tell them to stop firmly". Because telling someone to stop doing shit has always worked hasn't it. Safe to say the bullying continued for three years all the way until I got to secondary school, and of course that never got resolved. Then naturally the bullying continued in Secondary school because I still believed in their bullshit about "no violence" and "turn the other cheek". Finally I got jacked as hell because I was sick of it, and then when the bullies tried again I beat their ass. Problem solved, took me 3 minutes tops. Three minutes would have spared me six years of pain and misery. But thanks to their stupid lessons of "violence is never the answer", I suffered horrendously through all that time alone. So no, I don't believe that violence doesn't solve anything. When you're an adult you shouldn't resort to violence of course, but the truth is teens need an ass-whooping. And the adults that need an ass-whooping are the ones that never grew out of being an asshole, they're just angsty teens in adult bodies. Violence solves plenty of things when words fail you. Don't discriminate against people for it, and don't condemn the ones that have to use it. They're more than likely just trying to exist like everyone else, or like her brother, trying to make the world a better place.
In my school there really isn't much bullying, or more specifically fights. Cause you're at the school for 5-6 years and given 100 credits at the start and they don't reset with each year. You can gain or lose credits but it is a lot easier to lose them (i.e. Not doing homework, skipping school without a reason, pissing the teacher off etc...) and once it goes to 0 you're kicked from the school.
Just like Rudeus from Mushoku Tensei said "Next time when I see 3 kids bullying another kid, I will ignore them or even better, I will join them to make it 4 against 1". Their mother is wrong here. Maybe she can't do anything and is worried about her kid that because of his sense of justice he is going to ruin his future but she shouldn't be angry at him
I just wanna say quite frankly, bullying should not even be tolerated, and often bullying comes with the threat of physical harm and more. Why should anyone who beats up a bully be at fault? Let me exaggerate it in another way... let's say isekai themed... Demon lord sends his army to pillage villages.. demons have fun "bullying" villagers. Hero comes along and "beats" up demons, in turn protecting the villagers (victim) Then suddenly, some bitch Goddess comes along and gives some bullshit line like "no matter the reason, you should not hit someone"... and punishes the hero. What do you think of that? We still have the same amount of actors and actions, context is slightly different, but when there is a clear bully-victim dynamic going on, why should the hero be punished, ever? If he had the sense of justice to know what's right and wrong, and act upon it, why should he be discouraged from protecting?
The school can only act on what they see happen. Bullies tend to get away with things by not being watched. If you retaliate right as a teacher turns around, then you're going to be the one taking the blame.
we are law abiding citizen, violent is not the way, this is what my junior high principal said to me after I beat up my sister bully. The law didn’t protect my sis from bully, it prevent me from punishing the bully……
Violence begets violence. The best option is to defuse the hostility, or to ignore the taunts, jeers and general unpleasantness. Bullies often look for a reaction when they have their target. Give them nothing, they get frustrated that you’re not giving them what they want; a rise out of you. Physical abuse is another story altogether, though. First option is to escape, but if that’s not going to happen, beating your pursuer into submission is your only alternative. I believe no-one would judge you if you were cornered and had to defend yourself.
@@madeupalias1667 I want to think that's what happens as well... reality is that teachers overlook 'minor' issues, and only care when a fight breaks out. They already know bullying is happening, and are choosing to pretend it doesn't happen. If it were that simple that all the victims have to do is stay in sight of a teacher, then bullying wouldn't happen... then how the hell does it happen? Think bro... think...
Because punching and hurting a bully is not the only way to be a hero and probably will not stop a bully from continuing to be a bully. Self-defense is one thing, but becoming agitated and punching someone is another.
