Lwm Tus Tu Siab Tau Txhob Cia Poj Niam Tu Siab. 6/3/2024 

kuv yog koj pojniam ntshe kuv twb xum cia koj tuag mus zoo dua lawm

I’m so glad that the hubby changed. Some men don’t even know how to think like this. I wish mine would.

Good that you know that now. Friends are only there when it's the good time. They won't be there when it's the bad time. But everyone will have to learn that for themselves

Txiv neej yeej lim hiam li koj ntag

Nej cov txiv neej ces yuav luag txhua tus tsuas hlub peb cov poj niam thaum yuav tuag xwb os cov sab nraum zoo tshaj rau nej peb hlub2 peb cov me nyuam es peb thiaj mus tsis tau qhov thiaj pheej lam nyob xwb os.

Hating hearing about narcissistic Hmong men

Peb cov txiv ces yeej zoo rau tus sab nraud, ua kom lawv qhuas nws. Hos kom pojniam uv tuag nthi, txhob chim, txhob hais nws, tso nws mus ywjsiab mas thiaj zoo. Pojniam menyuam muaj mob los nws yuav mus lomzem nrog phoojywg, ua tau ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws.

Peb cov txiv hmoob ces nco hlub poj niam thaum yuav tuag thiab thaum mob2 taw vwm es yuav tos poj niam nqa qhuav nqa zis xwb os tu siab tshaj plaws li os

This man is just scared cause now he’s screwed. Heart surgery is no joke. He gonna need support. Good time friends are just that. Good times only.

Koj ces yog koj Txhob muaj mob koj Txhob yuav tuag ces koj lub niag siab lim hiam qias neeg kov yeej tsi hloov li Txawm yog koj niag phem li koj ntuj thiaj muab koj rau txim ntag laub nyuam qhuav haum

Peb cov poj niam yeej hlub hlub nej kawg tsuas yog nej thiaj tsis hlub peb xwb os txiv neej hmoob siab phem

Just imagined his friends showed up. He will still be the same person. I had an uncle who was taking care of his friends and cousins. He was never there for his family. He had cancer, and yes, all his friends showed up to his funeral. In the end, your family is the one who is broke, and his children never had the love like he gave to his friends.

Txiv neej hmoob mas Yooj yim tshaj peb cov poj Niam hmoob yog tseem nco tau no thov txhob yug los ua poj Niam hmoob lawm os .

It's never too late to change as long as a person's willing to change there's hope.

A very good lesson learned for men like this guy…my best friends are my wife and kids…😩!

Peb ua neeg nyob ces yog riam hlais ntshav los ces yeej Muaj siab Muaj ntsws zoo ib yam os mog😢

Yep, most Hmong guys are walking in this exact road… it’s their friends or their hobbies before their wife and family… it will be too late for most of them. You’re lucky your wife still stand by you… if it was me… I wouldn’t be by your side anymore! 🤣🤣

Txiv dev hmoob mas thaum nws yuav tuag mas nws mam tig nco thiab hlub pojniam. Ho thaum nws tseem khov kho mas nws yeej tsis khe pojniam li nws saib tus qhua luag tus sab nrauv muaj nuj nqi dua. Siab phem npaum koj niag txiv dev ko cas koj ho tsis pauj kua zaub ntsuab lub sijhawm no rau nws kom nws thiaj paub tias koj yog neeg thiab es thaum nws mus li mus nws saib phooj ywg muaj nuj nqi dua koj es mob koj npaum li cas.

Some men ( women) will never changed; he says so many things….but doubt this will change him. Only the shovel will Change them.

Twb yog koj muaj hmoo kawg thiab koj cov dab qhuas zoo kawg koj pob niam thiaj seem nyob tus koj aw

Zoo siab koj hloov tau koj tus kheej lawm os. At least you know how to change zoo dua ib txhia tib neeg av tsis lim ces yeej hloov tsis tau. ❤

Peb cov txiv yuav tsum ua siab ncaj rau peb cov niam tsev. Mus qhov twg los yuav tsum mus ncaj los ncaj. Yus tus txij nkawm koom ib txoj siab nrog yus. Hnub twg yog ib tus mus ua kev tsis ncaj lawm ces lub ntuj yuav tsum ua siab qhia rau nws tus txij nkawm paub xwb.

Tus me txiv tsev zoo kawg koj mob zoo los koj ris siab lawm ces zoo kawg os mog casino txhia txiv tsev es mob pes tsawg zaus zoo sawj hauv lub qhov tuag lawm los haj ua phem xwb os

Lawv hais tias av tsis lim ces yeej hloov tsis tau. Koj tuag tau ib hnub ib hmos yuav luag raug av lim lawm seb ho yuav hloov tau npaum cas. Vam tias koj niag poj niam txhob mob nawb, yog mob ces koj yuav ya mus nplog ceev heev. Vim av twb tsis tau lim koj ces yuav tsis hloov dab tsi ntau😂

Txiv neej ces kawg tuag ib tsig thiab zaum laub lawm xwb mas mam pom poj niam muaj nqis. Npau taws thiab chim siab tshaj.

Dhau rooj vabteem los mas pojniam thiaj zoo nkauj tuaj, thaumno ces yuav rov ua rog quavdev dua txog hnub mus ntsib vabteem zaum ob. Tsi yog hais rau thaubno rau txhua tus txiv neej kav maum, twv txiaj, thiab cov qaug.

Cov neeg zoo li ko thov txhob cawm cia nws tuag nws mus. Nyob yuav ua ib tug qauv tsis zoo rau ntiaj teb kawm liam li nws thiab.

Tus txiv uas nws saib nws poj niam me nyuam tsis muaj nqis tsis tseem ceeb nws put lwm tus neeg los vaj tswv ua ntej nws tsev neeg ces cia nws tuag nws zoo dua. Muaj mob cia cov neeg nws hlub thiab pab ma siab tu nws xwb...cia vaj tswv nrog nws nyob pab nws txhob k txog nws.

Thaum koj twb yuav tuag koj mam paub hlub poj niam ces lig dhaum lawm nws twb tu siab txau2 rau koj lawm

Txiv neej hmoob Mas siab phem tshaj plaws ...thaum twb yuav Tuag ...muaj mob ntsuas Mas...mam li Los khuv xim txog lub neeej ...poj niam uv uv koj siab ntsws lwj tag .....lam ua neej nrog tej me nyuam lawm xwb....muaj tus niag txiv tsis tab cuab Mas dhuav siab tshaj plaws li hmoob aw....lwm tiam thov txhob yug Los sib ntsib ntxiv lawm

Muaj teb co pojniam yeej tsis sawm zoo os. Yog koj hlub hlub thiab fwm dwm lawv mas, lawv txawm xav tias yus ruam ruam no ces lawv caij tsuj yus kiag xwb. Tabsis yog ua txiv ntxhias li koj ua thaum pib no ces lawv thiaj li hlub thiab fwm yus os.

Ua ca kj yuav hai raug kv lub neej ua luaj li o tus siab tshaj li o

Cov txiv neej zoo li koj siab phem tag mam tig los hlub poj niam mas tsw tsw ncaws taw nas

Tsej muag xuab dev neeg dag, koj twb yuav tuag koj mam ua txuj los hais tias leej twg yog tus hlub koj. Koj ces khua tuag zoo dua

Koj mas thiaj Ntxawj2 hais yog kawg kiag li lawm nawb me Tub

Koj twb hais tias Koj cov phooj ywg zoo tshaj ne

Thaum koj twb yuav tuag es koj mam hlub nws xwb yog koj tsis muaj mob ces koj yeej tsis muaj hnub hlub nws li. Ib tug txiv es nws xav tias nws cov phooj ywg thiaj yog nws txog sia thiab qhov chaw so siab xwb ua cas thaum yuav tuag hos tsis mus nrog lawv nyob ne

Vin li cas, peb cov txiv neej Hmoob tsis paub hlub lawv poj niam. txog thaum lawv mob, ces lawv quaj rau lawv tej poj niam. tom qab ntawd lawv kawm paub tias lawv cov phooj ywg tsis hlub lawv. peb cov pojniam Hmoob, txhob tos ib tug txiv li no. tos tos tos, thiab koj yog lawv qhev thaum lawv tuag tes tuag taw. koj zoo dua mus nrog koj cov menyuam. los yog mus nrhiav ib tug txiv neej Meka.

Thaum koj yuav tuag es koj mam li pom koj poj niam muaj nqi xwb os yog koj tsis mob mas koj haj yam lim hiam os

Kwv tij koj paub lig dhau lawm os

Txiv dev xwb os txiv zej txiv zos xwb

Txiv neej ce thaum nw yuav tuag thiaj mam pom poj niam muaj nqi xwb o

Most people never appreciate what they have in front of them and love the person they have until they lose it.don't wait till happen to you then will realize it will be far too late. Don't always think the grass is always greener on others side..

Txiv dev tas2, twb yuav tuag lawm es mam los pom tus poj niam zoo.

Txiv neej Liam txwv ces tsuas txawj hlub pojniam thaum muaj mob zoo li no xwb tiag. Whatever.

Thaub koj tuag lawm los Poj Niam yuav mus. Poj Niam tuag lawm los koj yuav mus ib yam thiab.

Tu txiv zoo li kos ce tuag fab lwm tiam thov txhob los ntsib lm os

Txhua yam koj raug hnub no ces koj tus pojniam twb xub mob txaus thiab twb rov zoo lawm xwb os. Hnub no koj tau saj koj tus koj mob Uas koj tau muab hlab koj pojniam plooj siab.

Thaum twg kuv tus mam hloov los txawj xa li koj ntshe yuav tos txog nyob koj qib mas seb puas txawj hloov los xav li koj os mi nus 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

Zoo li ko mas thiaj paub cai txiv neej mas siab npem kuwg thiaj li paub cai tab sis qaib qua ntxov koj suwv tau lig mi ntsi luwm os mog😂

Tus txiv dev no tsuas nco hlub pojniam thaum nws yuav tuag xwb, thaum nws rov zoo mob los nws yeej yuav rov ua dev dua. Peb tsis ntseeg tis txiv dev no.

Tsis paub yog ua cas peb cov txiv tsev hmoob es ho pheej tsis hlub peb cov niam tsev thaum pib es thaum nej twb muaj mob thiab laus lawm mam tig los xam pom yus tus niam tsev es nej xav li cas . nej puas paub tias thaum peb sau siab hlo los nrog nej nyob los hlub nej ua txhua yam rau nej es nej hos tsis hlub,xav thov kom nej hlub peb li peb hlub nej thiab os tsoom me txiv tsev hmoob aw😢

Ca tsi ntxov hlub naw

Txiv neej hmoob ces tshuas txhawj mus ua txiv dev rau ub rau no, txawj mus qhaub qhia lub zej lub zov tab sis yus tsev neeg mas nws twb tsis los hlub, ua tus tsis paub tsis pom li.

Peb cov poj niam los yeej tshaw taum nej tsheem zoo zoo xwb thiaj os. Taum peb tu siab lawm, nej twb tsis ntxim hlub rau peb lawm os. Txhob thab2 peb , cov txiv neej tsis txawj xav ces ntxim ntxim ntxub. On your deAthbed, don’t be telling someone how much you regret not choosing them! That’s pathetic. Its makes no difference!

Zoo kawg uas koj kawm tiav ib qheb kev hlub poj niam ua ntej tsis tau ncaim ntiaj teb os . Muaj ib txhia ces twb ncaim lm twb kawm tsis tiav

Hau yau nej cov txiv neej ces tsuas hlub thiab nco poj niam thaum nej mob sawv tsis taus xwb ces twb ua tau tsis ntxim poj niam hlub li as

Txiv neej hmoob ces thaum twb yuav tuag ib, ob zaug tas uas tsis tau txiv neej mus nrog lwm tus pojniam pw lawm ces mam tig los uas zoo rau nws tus niam tsev xwb os.

CAs txiv neej hmoob MAs tsuas txo hwj chim thaum muaj mob xwb 😢tus siab ua luaj li os hmoob aw

Dude, now you learned your lesson. Now I'm 55 years old. I've learned that lesson 30 years ago. My wife and my family are the first priority.

Tus mi kwv tij los yog tus txiv tsev aw, mloog2 zoo li cav xav tias nrog koj poj niam zoo siab, mloog2 ho xu siab. Vim koj/nej nco peb cov niam tsev thaum nej toob kas poj niam ua qhev rau nej xwb os!!!! Peb paub kawg awb.!!! Lav uv vim peb yug los yog Hmoob lawm xwb os! Peb cov poj niam ces lam ua neeg nrog yus tej me nyuam xwb!!! Tu siab kawg mog tus mi txiv tsev aw! Kuv yeej ntseeg tias koj tus mi poj niam yeej tu siab ib yam nkaus mog!

🤣😂🤣😂 txiv neej Hmoob ruam

Thau koj rov qab muaj zog khov kho lawm ces koj yeej tsis hlub koj tu niam tsev li qub os vim koj yeej ib txwm yeej tsis hlub nws tiag os

I guess it's better late than never that you have learned your lesson! Please change for the better for good and appreciate your loving wife!

Phooj ywg kuv qhia rau koj paub meej tias koj muaj mob ces koj cov phooj ywg Xav kom koj tuag sai 2 es lawv tuaj muab koj poj niam tsuav ntsuag xwb mas

Txhob tusiab rau kev phoojywg, vim koj los tsuas hlub koj cov phoojywg li lawv hlub koj thiab xwb. Kev phoojywg txaus pab licas los pab tsis txaus pab los mus noj xwb. Phoojywg yog for fun

Yog kawg lawm os.

Every word you say is true. Glad you know and glad your wife was strong enough to stick around. You almost lost a wonderful wife.

This man is a selfish man. He only loves his wife because he can’t do anything now.

Txiv neej hmoob ces siab phem phem os thaum laev muaj mob lawm lawv mam li pom yus zoo mam tig los paub khib yus xwb os tu siab tshaj li nawb.

Txiv dev aw..thiaj txawj ntxim ntxub

Yog ib zaj neej neeg ua zoo kawm ua neej kawg nkaus li.

Hopefully all the men love the wife as you are now

Hab ha tos tais vab vaj hais tias txiv neej hmong ces nco hlub poj niam thaum pab doos qhaub nce mob taw vwm lawm xwb no it's very true .cas yug los ua hmong cov poj niam mas tu siab tshaj plaws vim txiv neej hmong feem coob ces zoo li tus no xwb

Tsuas yog tus no thiaj ruam xwb os coob tus txiv neej tsis zoo li tus no.

Niam ntsuab teev thov qhia koj tus fev rau kV xav nrog koj tham

Yog koj tsi raug phais raum phais tsib mas xyov koj puas tau pom poj niam kev hlub a😅

Cas koj tus poj niam tsis Cia koj tuag na thaub kuv yog koj poj niam ces xum Cia koj tuag mam nrhiav dua tua tshiab xwb o

Tseem yuav npam loj tshaj yog lub siab phem2

Better late than never 😂😂

Cov TXIV DEV HMOOB paub hkub neeg thaum yuav tuag li koj xwb cas hos tsis tuag mus es tseem ciaj thiab laub lub ntuj no cas tsis ncaj ncees li

May, don’t waste your time with these stories 🙄

Txiv neej ces nco thaum muaj mob xwb thaum kuv tus thaub mob stroke es nws zoo li koj ntag tab sis thaum zoo lawm yeej tsis nco txog yus lawm

zoo qhov koj yuav luag tuag es koj mam txawj xav mam paub hlub poj niam

Txiv neej ces yeej phem li koj yog cov coob xwb.

Il faut mieux tard que jamais que tu te rends compte ce qui est important dans la vie en dehors de ta femme tes enfants personne ne t'aime vraiment et tes parents

At least he admitted his wrongs and changed.

Cov txiv neej mas siab phem tshaj plaws li os thaum nws yuav tuag nws mam pom tus niam tsev muaj nqis xwb yog thaum tus pojniam mob yuav tuag ces tus txiv twb tsis tu tus niam tseem xav kom tus pojniam tuag tshuag tshuag twb maj maj mu nrhiav tus tshaj xwb os

It's not too late to change it

Yog tshaj plaws

😆😆😆😆😆 thaum koh mus koom friends ces koj tsis paub poj niam mob thiab chim npaum cas...thaum koj yog tus nyob tos koj kuj txawj mob thiab. Txawn xav kawg lawm nawb..kav tsij qhuab ntuas rau cov txiv tseem siab phem es ua li thaj thaum ub koj ua ua los nawb. Vim cov txiv ua phem tseem muaj ntau ntau nawb...ua tsaug rau koj lub plawv pab ua rau koj tsim nto rau saum yaj ceeb los hlub thiab hwm koj tus tav uas tswv ntuj muab rau koj nruab thiab los.

Lesson learned.

Yog nyob nplog teb yuav rau la ha li cas no

Yawg phem aw tsam no koj mam xav txog cais twb lig lawd , koj cov phooj ywg yog phooj ywg noj xwb naj tsis yog phooj ywg tuag ov ! Koj poj niam xwb thiaj yog tus phooj ywg tuag nawb . Thaum lawv tusiab tag lawm nws lam ya zoo rau koj uas nws tsis cia siab koj lawm

Yog koj tsis mob ces koj twb tsis care koj tus poj niam os thaub ruam siab phem2 li koj txiv neeg ces thaum yuav tuag mas man li ua zoo

Changed because you got sick and knowing she may leave you handicapped is not change. It’s just being more evil.

Niam laus a kj qhia kj tus xov tooj rau kv thiab os

Zaj twg los tib cov txiv dev li tus no nyiam nyiam khav tham RU-vid xwb. Ntsej muag dev, koj thiaj tsis paub hlub pojniam xwb. Koj tsis muaj cai hais tias txhua tus txiv neej thiab pojniam zoo tib yam. Rus xuab li koj lam hais tias twb laus lawm mam paub tias pojniam tseem ceeb. Koj twb mob lawm koj mam hais li xwb. Yog koj tsis muaj mob koj yeej tsis txawj dag li zaj no. Pab koj txaj muag.

Zoo rau qhov koj yog Tus mob os, yog koj tus poj Niam yog Tus mob CES ntshe koj Twb tsis k koj tus poj Niam es ntshe koj tseem yuav luas loj luas loo nrog koj cov phooj ywg Xwb os thaub aw😊

Ua cas koj yuav paub tau lig ua luaj li os