Madit & Serenity Catch Up | With Arlette Amuli 

Bro has a Master's degree, speaks well, very down to earth, and refuses to chase anything that doesn't show the same interest. There's nothing wrong with that.... 💯

Telling someone you met in person, they have to compete with strangers in your DM is INSANE

Dude stood on business, shot his shot, and left ball in her court. She didn't contact him so he didn't sweat her. That's what men w self worth do. She let her EGO get the best of her. You can hear the EGO at end of video. Kudos to homeboy. Handled perfect.

Madit represented South Sudan very well 🙌🏿🙌🏿. That’s how well raised and educated South Sudanese men carry themselves. You’re a gentleman and a scholar sir!!

Majit dodged a bullet. She got a little attention in her DM’s and that was enough for her to demand more pressure from him. 😂😅. Crazy!

I’m with Madit! We’re not kids he asked her on a date and she was busy he told her to let him know when she’s free she never did why should he chase her? Unacceptable.

She bout to find out real quick what the men in her DM's are about 😂 You blew it Serenity. ✌🏾

He ate with this one 😂😂💯💯 to be respectful and knows his worth . Validated her emotions and etc. Respectfully walked away 👌🏿💯

She essentially said “now that I got options, I ain’t worried about you” typical story

11:34 he dropped bars 😤 “if I chase you, I want to see the interest. I don’t want to go ins room and you checking to see who a better version would be”

Madit seems like a great man. Whereas Serenity’s true energy came through. Congratulations sir. This is a W

I was rooting for her too.. Shes full of herself. The dynamic of reciprocity and gratitude is everything to a man. She got exposed to more men and decided she was going to explore. He was right in not wanting to waste his time. To chase the emotionally unavailable is insane.

He’s actually right a relationship without reciprocity can’t last

This show is jus pure entertainment at this point. None of the matches finding love, a date, a phone call or a text.

Serenity CLEARLY missed out. He is seemingly very well rounded in all aspects and super respectful

She was mad that he tested her, when she literally tested him to apply pressure 😂

Im with Majid. Men need interest shown as well. She need to admit she not into him. If she truly was she would have made time

I hope Serenity reading these comments cause the people is not on your side with this one 😂

In reality she probably found someone more physically pleasing to her in her DMs. My thought is the people who DM'ed you after you get a match is not for you in the long run. In their eyes, you are taken, but still hit you up. That means they are people with no integrity and just trying to smash.

Man i remember everyone trashing those men that popped their balloons 🎈 as soon as she walked in. Seems like they dodged a bullet. The brotherhood spidey senses were tingling. 😂😂😂

Let's get some clarity: 1. He popped and then reconsidered because he realized how superficial a bracelet was. 2. He asked her out because the club scene wasn't it. She had things planned and had a busy schedule when he reached out the first time. 3. He texted her to find out when she was available, to no avail. All you had to do was pick up the phone and text when you're available. Acting like using your thumbs is hard to do. Please. Not to add she goes in to mention that she has dudes in the DMs, kind of disrespectful. This man shown plenty that he was interested. And let's be real, 10 years in a relationship that a man proposed 2 times and still couldn't get a yes. There's something more to that. This woman can't be satisfied. Madit, keep rising!

He is very very professional I love seeing this in black man the way he spoke and responded showed how mature he is ❤

Madit is a great guy. We was blinded by this lady but she's for the streets. Rooting for Madit 💯

Man ain’t nobody about to be doing all that. I feel him, I’m not about to keep saying “hey when you wanna go out? Hey when you wanna go out?”

That lady rewatched the episode, read them comments, and got in her feelings. She was angry and embarrassed at the way she was treated, and she loving the attention she’s receiving.

Serenity had me fooled...she a WHOLE red flag

Congratulations Serenity, you played yourself.

She did read those comments and it hit a nerve. Serenity never go with the crowd. You came on this show to win. This brotha is solid.

So Madit was supposed to know when Serenity was available without her telling him? Is he supposed to be psychic? That is wild. Everyone on this show is exhausting.

So basically, she wasnt THAT interested because she suddenly got more options. The dude didnt play her game and here we are😅

She was in a 10 year relationship where the guy had to propose twice and still got a NO. That tells you all you need to know Madit woulda asked her 50 times and her schedule would have never opened up.

Dude is a gentleman and he respects himself 💯

she seemed more friendly and approachable on the first episode. now she seems full of herself with all her DMs and plenty of eye rolls. lol

I see both sides but i totally understand Madit’s view of not wanting to play games and chase. At their age just be upfront. Communication does go both ways

"apply presure"😂😂 Man Madit...you handled that like a real one

When I first saw serenity in the show I thought she was intelligent and knows what she wants boy that’s why you need to take time get to know a person. He telling her he want to pursue her and she wants to be chased that’s is so immature on her part. He is very intelligent, very well spoken, educated and got his business down , very high confidence and knows his worth, very respectful and ever validated her point of view in respectful manner and even try to giver her another chance for date and will to work on the offer with out chasing other options while she wants to be chased by every guy on her dms. And when he said ‘as long as you take me shopping to’ he wasn’t being sassy he was telling her relationship should be based on giving and receiving on both parties.She lost a treasure. There a few men like him in this world.Good for him she didn’t waste his time and he saw right through it.

Arlette’s aura and social skills are truly underestimated! I pray and claim for her so much further than RU-vid. This is just the beginning for her! 🤞🏽💯

Serenity was by far the best woman on the show, but I can definitely understand where Madit is coming from. I've never asked a woman twice for anything. You're either interested or you're not. Them DM's kinda went to her head I think

Good luck with them DM's Serenity!!😁🤦🤦🤦😂😂😂Madit dodged a bullet

Bro aint no simp, on to tha next

She definitely fooled my ass. “Men in my DMs were applying pressure”, yikes.

This was on her…at their age and their level of maturity he was clear and concise the ball was in her court to respond and be communicative.

Girl! He asked you on a date. You guys matched. Why would you expect him to chase you down? You should have followed up.

A lot of women don’t know what “applying pressure” mean. If I ask you on a date and you decline because of your busy schedule, it’s not my job to reach back out and ask again. Let me know what day you’re available and I’ll plan something, it’s that simple and I don’t blame ole dude for falling back

This really shows that those other guys who popped their ballon’s saw what we’re seeing now

This was my FAVORITE COUPLE! Both level headed, humble, sincere....too bad they didnt work out but i agree with him. Her needing to be begged is just a no.

This lady is so funny. A gentle man came to the show, paired with you out, later on took you to clubbing, propose a date on a weekend(unfortunately you were busy with birthday and all), asked for another free day for him to take you out and you ignored talking about putting pressure. He’s already putting pressure by trying to take you on a date. Just remain single girl ain’t not time for playing games as if you’re 18 or 19 years old. Big red flag🚩🚩

Great job Majit. You understand your worth as a man (a high value one at that) and decided to keep it stepping. Be open to all opportunities and all shades because someone out there will treat you correctly.

She was the only woman I ever liked on this show. 😂

She said keep applying pressure don’t leave me alone lol who tf about to keep chasing a woman around that ain’t making the time for me to take her out

Her style fits her personality LOL makes sense why everyone popped their balloons

I agree w/ Bro. Chase some one who dodged you and you are suppose to still chase. She is an opportunitist for the highest bitter. He did a great job standing on business.

my man stood on business. ain't no applying pressure, we grown. she should have reached back out once he tried to schedule the first date.

Tbh this is a very different side of Serenity that wasn’t portrayed on the show. And it’s giving petty, immature and rude. Yes y’all are both single however if a man reaches out to you to make plans, you’re busy so he says let me know when you’re schedule opens up to plan something, and you don’t hit him back sweetie: YOU’RE WRONG! It’s all about reciprocation. it sounds like you let them other niggas that DM you get to your head 😂. A man is to pursue you not CHASE you. All you had to do was tell him yea I’m available this Saturday and see if he makes plans or not. Sorry but I’m with Madit on this one he dodged a bullet 🤷🏾‍♀️ EDIT: Additionally why were you in a 10 year relationship with someone that proposed to you twice and you said no? What was the point of the 10 years? Serenity it’s giving red flag 🚩 🚩🚩

I came to see how their date went. I just knew he bought her a nice timepiece. smh Serenity let the DM's gas her up. She SEEMED like a good catch. Much success to both of their businesses

Have to admit, the hostess (Arlette Amuli) is very professional. I love her vibes.

If other guys are applying pressure and as a woman you are entertaining the pressure you were not interested from the door. Just keep it simple.

Being 30 and talking about applying pressure....

😳 He dodged a bullet! I'm so happy for him 👏🏾

Seems like them DMs definitely got to her head. When she first appeared on the show she was meek and humble. Now she’s finally getting the attention she longed for after that 10 year relationship. If she only seeks for applied pressure then she’ll forever be in the mix because us men will apply pressure til the pipes buss 💯

Arlette’s fashion is always on point. Pretty, classy, sexy and flawless. I always look forward to what she’s wearing.

She’s annoying me! Apply what pressure ma’am?!?! He invited you out on a date and you were busy being blinded by DMs😞😞

If she was going to hold his words against him later, she should have just left him there. The fact that he popped his ballon was telling enough to let her know he had doubts. If you like someone you like them, no doubts. Doubts indicate you are not sure and are not fully into the person. Asking for a balloon back is not a compliment. It is a contradiction.

She got alot of likes and now her head swole smh 😂😂😂😂😂😂

She sure enjoyed the comments on the last video. I know for damn sure she won’t enjoy these comments😂

I agree with Majid! Reciprocity is paramount!

He stood on business!!! Good for him!

Madit I’m praying for a wholesome woman for you! You’re amazing and you handled this interview well

NAH SERIOUS QUESTION IS THEIR EVER A HAPPY ENDING IN THESE MATCHES???‼️‼️ GOD DAMN🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾

I'm so glad you do follow-ups. If she was really interested in him, she would have made time to go on a date.

I'm learning to re-watch the episodes to get full clearity of what fully transpired. Because, I'm noticing when I take the time to do this I am less blinded by any preconceived emotions. Honestly, I think everyone should try it and pay attention to the clearity received the second time around. It's like taking off a fliter.

She had us in the first part not gna lie. Should've sit this one out and let her 1st impression reign supreme.

They are not interested in each other...just be honest...

Damn Serenity...WE WERE ALL ROOTING FOR YOU!

Amazing dude cool, calm and collected

I was rooting for Serenity on the show… what I’m seeing on this video is the complete opposite. A walking red flag 🚩 Madit, you’re a REAL GENTLEMAN 👍🏾 you dodged a bullet with this one

I like this brother, stand your ground, love relationship is a two way thing and he did his part, she’s the one who did not. But acting like he didn’t do his part. Talking about applying pressure BS , he reached out and the ball was on her hands

Let’s be real, the dude is in a far more successful career than the woman. He asked twice to take her out and twice she said she was busy. He told her to tell let him know when his schedule opened up. These women want you to grovel at their feet. There’s always going to be a simp that puts a woman over his purpose. This man did not. Kudos to him 💪🏽💪🏽

She shouldve been real and just say he wasnt her type. I could respect that.

I may be attacked for this but I feel the same way as Madit. If I show interest and go out of my way to ask you on a date, yes I understand it may not be a good time for you I totally respect that, but don’t expect me to apply pressure if you haven’t gotten back to me. I need SOME kind of interest shown from the woman’s end. I don’t mind going out of my comfort zone and breaking the ice but I need some effort on the other side.

Glad she brought up Madit's seashell shirt, cant come for her style while wearing that 🤣

I think Madit is handsome and dapper. My Floridian eye enjoyed the seashell shirt 🤷🏾‍♀️

Man I loved this match so much 😩

Brother dodged a bullet because this girl is a red flag - Madit shows interest by asking her on a date (something different from the club scene) - Serenity’s schedule that week is busy, So Madit says let me know when you’re available next week and we can work something out - Serenity has other options starting to roll into her DMs, yet wants Madit to continue applying pressure to ask her out when he was respecting her busy schedule and waiting for her to tell him when she is available for a date. If Serenity was actually interested she would not be paying much attention to the DMs and would have let Madit know when she is available for a date considering she was busy before when he asked. I bet you if it was a guy she was truly interested in, she would have let him know asap when she was free next. She the type to play games it seems.

He spoke well and I could respect his transparency and ‘pov’

Madit did the lil' Kim dance moves and DODGED all her bullets. Ma'am!!!! This man knows his worth and we see it. You're trekking blindly sis.

Love seeing Arlette cracking up 😂 😂

Him commenting on her clothes while dressed like a seashell was crazy

I’m sorry I find it so funny that Serenity mic hand shakes, her adrenaline was pumping. I think she has a temper that she tries to hide cuz she definitely went in and I don’t think the situation needed all that. 😂😂😂

She blew it. I love him!

I love his fit. The orange and his skin tone 😍😍😍

Bro is a solid guy, I think she just doesn’t want to straight up admit she wants other guys and instead she’s blaming him. I gave her mad props for her character being solid on the show but she’s being sort of mean.

Great explanation Madit. Very well versed. Thats a good point about not having her look over her shoulder for something better and for her to also show interest, because it’s true we don’t want to chase for no reason when our interest goes beyond the physical. And you never got petty and shown respect the whole way and took the beating. Respect brotha! Lots of guys would get catty back and show lack of maturity.

She pulled a bait and switch. She was cool and humble on the show. She now comes off as someone with "The Prize" mentality ... Bro is solid. Go find someone else

There's something about Madit's face, like he has a perfect face sculpture 👌

She wanted to throw him under the bus but I love his response. No need applying pressure. She wanted to ride on the temporary fame she’s got from RU-vid. Good luck all 🙌🏾

there is a difference between applying pressure & begging for attention. obviously her business comes 1st to her

And basically she got attention on socials after the show and then loved the attention more than getting to know a man who she met in real life. He dodged a bullet. Good man. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

wow arlette looks so good afer haing her baby! she is working so hard!

Calling men "sassy" over the littlest things has ruined women's mind lol You either interested or you're not. She wasn't that into him. She said her DMs were popping so that was her way out.