I know how you feel siphokazi, the best thing to do is to find help and not do everything alone, emotionally it will finish you. When my Mom was diagnosed with it in 2019, I didn't understand how this superstrong woman I've known has become this way. Get a caretaker who understands how to support their "new" mind.
Hang in there babes,, I took care of my grandmother with my mom, and my baby was 6 months , it was hard,,, but I'm glad I was there for her and I'm grateful I helped her and took care of her the way she did for me all my life... 😊.
I started my channel 3 weeks ago. I am only at 60 subscribers . I was inspired by the current state of unemployment in my country South Africa. I received my degree in 2016 but have been unemployed since then. I am looking for alternative ways to create income. This video is an inspiration to push harder. We all have different reasons why we start our channels. Let's grow ❤❤❤❤
When she spoke about letting things break. I felt that. I feel like the past 3 years I was breaking and now God has started a new thing inside of me. It’s so scary but I’ll let God lead.. Thank you ladies ❤
Mahalia, just reminded me that I am no longer in my 20s or early 30s. I am now 37yrs heading for 40yrs because of trauma and so much that happened. I emotionally got stuck at 16yrs old but physically I grew. Only now when I am dealing with it my age is catching up with body and man. I am not able to do what I used to anymore. Especially the moving of the whole house furniture when cleaning, while washing and cooking. Then going to clean the yard. Its getting harder. I now understand why a lot of people have helpers its not because they are lazy.
@@nommynkonyane3404 Babes, I have made peace with the fact that I truly need help,there is no use to play tough. Pray about it though, our homes are sacred spaces so ask God to send you someone who will not destroy your home but be a good helper and sister in Christ.
This was just amazing. Feels like we grew up with Hali. I always get awed by her wisdom and humour when she speaks. Watching this I’m reminded of a time I was on a fast and fell so ill in the middle of it. Continued with the prayers but on the third day it got crippling worse. Words weren’t coming out of my mouth. I put on Heal Me Jesus by Mahalia and as the song playing I could feel the knots leave my body and I was completely healed. Still a big big song in my life. The Lord works through this lady immensely🤍
Mahalia Buchanan I would always call her like that lol she is divinely gorgeous.😊😂❤ Thanks Mpoomy for this awesome and insightful conversation and the invite is not far fetched.
Had to relocate back home and resign as I couldnt continue to ignore my mum needec one of us full time besides aunty....jooooo not easy. You must become a parent and you have a parent you dont know anymore and she says anything.........but I wont change it for anything. I want my mum to have the best time of her life on her last days....I take her placez and do things to bring back that joy in her.
I loved the part about serving our families. My dad has been sick for the past months and I forgot to see him as human. I always expected him to be the strong one and 'hero' in my eyes. The pressure has also been hectic as the responsible one. Lovely Episode
The season of being angry with God… to date, I’m even scared to pray authentically cause man oh man, I don’t want flames again😣. Is that what fear the Lord meant?
What a beautiful and authentic conversation ladies. May your mom rest in peace. You definitely don’t look like what you have been through. God builds piece by piece. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Love when she speaks on her relationship with God. I have recently learned that to pray alone and spend time in his presence, make time everyday , prioritise God and putting him first is essential in our lives because we get to know Him, what his will for us is and it is easy to be guided in everything we do. My pastor said that you get to know someone when you spend time with them and the same applies to God. Be blessed. ❤
Firstly you guys are so beautiful ❤️Also you too remind me of Hello Gorgeous! 🥺💛It's beautiful to watch you guys grow and continue to inspire me! My two favorite people, I love you guys so much and thank you so much for such an amazing conversation ❤️❤️
Shuu this conversation for me was quick hectic (funny and scary at the same time) especially when it comes to aging. I'm turning 19 next month, and there's certain things I wish I could do with my body, like playing sport and just enjoying my body. I just feel so uncomfortable with myself. I look in the mirror and I just see a oversized chubby girl and it's just challenging for me to feel excited about dreaming big about the life I would want to live before I get to the ages of 30. Where I can proudly say that Oh yes! I really enjoyed my teenage years and early adulting years. Thank you so much sis Mpoomy for this conversation it really was a moment of self introspection and I am just so emotional typing this message.
I was a chubby teenager, infact I was never thin my entire childhood, never participated in sport etc but at 37yrs I had a six pack! It doesn't matter your age, it's your will that pushes you. So fret not, when you're ready to face yourself and make the necessary changes with commitment you'll achieve your body goals and run a marathon even, if that's what you want!😉🏃⛹️
@@IamTheOne247 Wow thank you so Makhumalo Mzilikazi Ka Mashobane, what a beautiful and encouraging message. This is such a push for me it's never too late to change♥️♥️
Oh my gosh! Two of my favorite women in one room i'm so happy and enjoying the conversation as well..... Can't wait for the music, her voice heals me❤❤❤
Thank you so much, I really needed this, I was just telling God about the things that pains me, and I was like God this enough,,, indeed sometimes God needs us to be that vulnerable to him, and I loved it where you talk about the breaking season, I felt that
When one of your favourite interviewers interviews one of your favourite celebrities. Mahalia is so adorable🥰🥰🩷 Just what I needed for the end year fatigue Beautiful interview 👌 👏 🙌
It is incredible and very powerful how Mahalia can communicate/express her previous pains/insecurities/failures/difficulties without allowing it to get to her. This is showing how acceptance is very important in this unexpected journey of life. I love the part that she spoke about “Going for it, Having the faith even without sight” very strong and communicates with me. How sometimes we have just have to not be scared on failing and starting again/fearing that the walls will break. If they break let them break and trust God to rebuild a strong foundation with you .🙌🏽
Wow soo much wisdom from Mahalia, you cnt be always a superwoman allow things to break & build up again 👌👌👌the fact that she was honest that shes angry at God and we must have real relationship with him tell him how we feel i felt that
5:09 Hibiriiiii!!!! 😂😂🤣🤣😭😭 ❤❤❤🎉🎉I remember the exact moment i heard the song for the first time. My friend and i were in a South beach taxi from botanical gardens in DBN😂😂😂my friend and I side eyed each other because the lyrics 🫣🤭🫣🫣🫢
Love is sacrifice....❤🎉❤😊indeed...yoh Mahalia is wise ...❤❤thnx fo making me think about tht statement again ...n making me feel tht i was n am still on the right track... love n light on ur journey thru life❤❤❤
Ao bathong I don’t remember when I was 30 im turning 43 and only now I have some perspective on my life. I think since last year I have been very prayerful and I kinda know where I am going in life
Mahalia please check if you're not anemic. I started wearing socks like all the time because I noticed that my feet are always cold. It turned out that I had iron-deficiency anemia. But thank God I've now recovered
@@Xolspij81 I got iron supplements and took them for 3 months, then went back to the doctor for blood tests and my iron levels were fine. Now I just make sure that I include foods that are rich in iron in my diet
