Hello mam, jab b jhagda hota h to dono hi गुस्से मे hote h to main silent moad pr chali jati hu and after 2 or 3 days normal ho jati hu forget kr deti hu baato ko.. Kyuki gusse me hum bhut ulta bol dete h jo nahi bolna chahte.. So agr healthy relationship chahiye to do baate sikhlo Forget and forgive...
आपको और संजीव जी को विवाह की बहुत बधाई🎉. दस लाख से बहुत जल्द आप 100 लाख हो ही जायेंगी. कारण सिर्फ दो है पहला आपकी ईमानदारी और दूसरी आपकी मुस्कराहट. Love you❤ मैडम🙏
Many Many Congratulations for 1 Million..You deserves many more as you are one of the most Geniune and honest person..Sanjeev Sir is the most favourite person in my mayka.. Love your smile too much....
Firstly i loved ur sarees 😅😍 and the way you told your whole story was literally very much inspiring and the way you accepted sanjiv sir was like i have no words and also sanjiv sir had told their kids the permission before marriage was really so respectful and in last aap ne bohot sahi kaha ki its all in god's hand like literally thats so true what ever happens who ever you meet in your life is all his planning and i really hope you and your family to stay happy healthy and always happy 😁❤️
Here's my answer : me and my partner start by saying "I love you" and then addressing the issue , sharing feelings/ expectations/ what could've been a better way of doing something. Also being aware of actions and reactions . Coming out stronger together.
Hiii Lata ji... Aapke videos bohot hi motivational hote h...😊 To mera jawab ye h ki... Couple ho chehe friends ho... Undono ko aaps m baat kerke man m jo bi vichar aa rahe h ek dusre ko batana chahiye kyoki baat kerne se hi baat banti h... 😊
As a couple we have to fight against the problem and not against each other...so consider the problem as an outsider and fight it out together...this vl make the couple into a team...and they can win the battle together...
When we fight then in initial years of marriage we used to talk it out now after 5 years we give good space and talk about it when we both are ready after 1 day
लता जी. किसी भी रिश्ते में नरमाई होना आवश्यक है. एक अगर गुस्से में है तो उस समय दूसरे को शांत रहना चाहिए. फिर बाद में आराम से अपनी बात स्पष्ट करनी चाहिए. इससे क्लेश नही होगा.🎉❤
Main khud ko apne pati ki jagah rakhkar unki baton ko samajhne ki koshish krti hu to mujhe jyada Aur jaldi samajh aa jati hai hamare jhagde ki wajah aur jhagda bhi jaldi khatam ho jata hai. Isliye jab bhi pati aur patni mein bahas ho to dono ko ek dusre ki jagah khud ko rakh kar dekhna chahiye❤❤❤❤
my dearest mem jb mera hubby se jagda hota hai to me unki acchi bate or ham dono ke acche moments husband ke sath beete moments yad karti hu or mera gussa gayab ho jata hai. muje lagta h har insan me acchi or buri aadte hoti h to kyu na acchi bato ko socha jaye. be positive na ❤
As a couple hmlog bht fights krte hai lkn kbhi ek durse se baat kiye bina ni reh skte jb koi badi prblm hai toh milkr short krte h lkn bina baat kiye kbhi ni sote hmlog...mera manna h k jb v fight ho aapps m toh btt kr lena chaiye usse ek durse k point of view pta chlta h kbhi bina btt kiye ni sona chaiye isse fight bht aage tk badh jati h.... main iss mamle m bht lucky hui k mera partner mujhe bht pyar krta h bina btt kiye kbhi ni sota chahe ho kitna late ho jaye kam krte v lkn bt jarur krta h mujhse❤️...i love him a lot 🥺❤❤🫂
Happy anniversary mam 🎉....... sometimes we fight on very silly things..... sometime v see what v doesn't have. We have to see that God has given us such good life that my people doesn't have.In a marriage couple should give equivalent space to each other. Problem can be solved by understanding each other problems calmly.
It's very simple Pyaar se baat kr k❤ Yeh Mera tried and tested hai ki agar aap kisi se bhi pyaar se baat krte ho toh it is very easy ki voh Maan Jaye husband or wife/either girlfriend or boyfriend or friends koi b ho. PYAAR SE KUCH BHI SAMBHAV HAI❤️💜💚💙💛🧡💖💞💕💘❣️ Nd this video I liked d most 1st one aap sarre mein bohoot beautiful😍 lg rhe hain aur second one mujhe shaddi ka Darr hai kisi unknown person se hojayegi n I don't know him n all the restriction, changes after bt women's toh har situation mein adjust kar leti hai that for that I liked more dis video much much💞 Thankyou sooo much😘❤️
Mam agar dono ka jhagra ho I think understanding is the key jisse jhagra solve ho sakta hai By the way I m a 10th grader and mujhe yeh saree bohut pasand aye so I thought to comment my opinion below.... And YES...I am your big fan from vivah to yrkkh.You are just awesome ❤ your tips are very helpful
Sabse pehli baat to apki wedding story bahot pyaari hai❤ touchwood. AAP ek bahot ache insaan ho😊 I'm a married woman, aur jab kabhi bhi Mera mere husband ke saath kisi choti moti baat PE zagda hota hai, to ek imp baat ke hum baat karna kabhi bhi band krte, wo hota hai na gusse me log baat nahi krte aur isse kya hota hai log solution se aur dur chale jate hai. Hum ek dusre ki baat achese sunte hai aur ek dusare ki opinion ka respect bhi krte hai. Aisa hota hai ki shayad turant hum agree na kare lekin kuch time baad hame hamare partner ka point of view samajh aata hai....❤
Mam kisise bhi jhagada ho lekin pyar ke bina jhagda hota hi nahi.jis relationship me pyar hota hai to jhagda bhi hota hai..lekin phir bhi agr jhagda hua to use shant hokar discussion krke solved krna chahiye or sorry bolna chahiye..agr khud ki galati ho to jis se jhagda hua hai use special feel karana chahiye..oh person hamare liye kitna important hai ye use ehsaas dilana chahiye ...
Jab humara kabhi jhagda hota hai tab hum dono apne reasons rakhtey hai ek dosre ke saamne...usse clarity aati hai ki kahan misunderstanding hui aur kiski galti hai...aur fir jiski galti hoti hai wo apologize karta hai...fir uske baad hum uss baat ho kabhi yaad karke ek dosre ae dubara nahi gussa hote❤❤.... Love you loads Roopali
Hii mam m sochti hu ki kya bat hui hmari kyo ldai hui meri nazar me mera kasur ho to m sorry bolti hu agar husband ka kasur ho to unhe pyar se btati hu ki aapki kya galti thi to pyar se wo apni glti man lete h problem shi or jindgi me ek dusre se kuch chupao mt juth mt bolo shk mt kro kbi rishta khrab nhi hoga
Hello ma'am This is Shalini ... Hv been following u since very early time ... I m nt married yet but gonna marry in March.. so during this courtship period what i hv learnt ki jb samne se koi alrdy gusse me h aur kuch keh rha toh at the moment aap sahi hote huve v apni baat uss tk convey nhi kr skte.. isliye wait till the time dt person calms down phr apni baat keh k sort out kr skte h fights .. put ur ego aside and accept ur fault when u r guilty nd just wait fr the right time to explain when u r right .. thnku ma'am for making us learn so many essential lessons for life... Adore you really.. keep growing ❤❤
Happy anniversary❤. Solve karna best solution hai baat karna. Always talk to ur partner. Communication is best in anything. As lack of communication can lead to wrong things.
Hello ma'am....you are very true....so innocent ❤.... Mera jab bhi jhagda hota he husband se....us time hum dono chup hojate he....dono taraf se kuch na kuch galti rehti he......agar sachha pyaar our ek dusre ko respect karte hoto ......time wise problem solve hojayega....i believe bhagwaan bhi apna saath dete he....
Hello mam Is ka answer mein kisi do nahin main married hun nahin koi esa ha lekin hota to jesa aapney apni bitiya rani ko samja key sasural bheja tha ki chup rahey na hai vesa hi kar ti . Kuki kabhi kabhi chup rahey na. Jaruri hai tab hi Jevan achey sey chal ta hai Thank you 🙏
Jab aisi koai baat ho to mai ye sochti hun ke ye to mera ghar hai sath rehne par thoda to soch me faraq hota hi hai but jab apna samajh ke dekhenge to aage badh jate hain. Thoda sa adjustment aur apne dill bada rakhne se zindagi aasani se guzar jati hai..
Hi lataa ji....u look amazing 🤩 I totally agree with you that marriages are made in heaven.! Mine is intercaste marriage. Jab bhi kabhi hamare bich koi anban hoti he toh hum dono hi ek dusre ko time de dete he cool down hone ke liye say for hours or just couple of days.... because we care for each other,we can't stretch the fight for our ego or for anyone's fault.agar aap trust karte ho apne partner ke pyar pe toh let go karo aur 25th ,50th ....... wedding anniversary hasi khusi celebrate karo 😊
I feel ladayi bhi apne aap me pyar jatane ka hi ek zariya hai..hum ladte ya gussa b usi se ho pate h jisse pyar krte hai..aaj k daur me gairo se koi ni roothta.. gusse k piche chipe dar, loneliness ya koi subjective reason ko smjh k khud bhi thora time le kr thn clearly pyar se apni baat rakhni chahiye or yhi pyar sari ladayi ko khatm b kar deta hai.. 😀 also ek pyari si jhappi ke sath sb thik ho jata h..
Whatever the cause of the tussel is be truthful n honest with each other..only then can you find a solution to the problem which led to a quarrel or an argument.. solution found thus will have a sanction of both. But I feel honesty is the best policy. Hve been married for 36 yrs n found this time n tested formula. Best wishes
Question ka answer hsi -- Meri sadi ko 11years ho gye And humari love marriage thi. Toh meri family specially father humesa bolte the ki love marriage success nhi hoti but fir b unhone hamari sadi achche se karvayi. Aaj Tak him logo mai esa koi jhagda nhi hua jisse humare riste par baat aaye.. But haan jab husband kisi baat par gussa karte hain toh mai us time par thoda saant hona jyada theek samajhti hun, Isliye fir baat aage nhi badti hai. Or thodi der baad sab theek ho jata hai..
Hello mam Mere hisab se . Sab husband aur wife ke bich zagde to hote hi hai . But dono me payar k alava . Do ke bich ak dusre ke liye respect main hai. to zagda khatam ho hi jata hai. Life mai payar k Alva respect ak asi jai jo kbhi khtam nhi hoti hai.
Time always heals. We give time to each other to understand the reason and then forget it till we fight again. Maximum time it’s my anger which is bad. I cannot control it. ❤.
Hello mam Solution yahi hai chhotti cheezon ko ignore karna No one is perfect so forgive and forget small mistake and should say sorry from both sides if they feel their mistakes
When we fight.... पहले तो प्यारवाला रुठना होता ही है लेकीन उसके बाद या फिर दोनो अपना अपना time space लेके बैठ जाते है बात करने के लिये... अखिर मे एक प्यार वाली , you are important वाली *Sorry* बहोत कूछ केह जाती है... I think in every fight time is the real Healer. When we become silent we can listen other person's silence ( intention) ❤
Happy anniversary lovely couple ❤❤.. My answer is that k kabhi bhi kisi bhi Baat ka zagda ho use usi din solve kar lena chahiye. Bedroom tak use leke Jaana Nahi chahiye. Agar ye practice karenge to apne aap hum solution jaldi dhundh payenge n Baat aage nahi badhegi. Sone ke pahele issue solve.. That's it.. Eventually understanding bhi badhegi.. Stay blessed 🎊 💐 ❤
Happy 15th anniversary both of u. Mera yehi manna hein bat krna chaiyeh ek dusrese humesa bat krne sei Har bat ka solution milta hein. Relation mein kabhi bhi attitude nhi Ana chaiye ghussa mukh p hona chaiye dill pein nhi r pyr dill pein rehena 6aiye mukh p nhi
We both respect each other in fight . Even if there is argument we solve this peacefully keep it away our ego aside and says sorry . And respect the decision also.
Hey I totally love your sarees The way I sort things with my husband when we have any misunderstandings or arguments Firstly i will give some time for both us to relax our heart and mind so that when we start talking again there can be peace of mind to listen to each other Second thing I will let him speak first and understand what he is feeling inside Once he finishes I will tell him my point of view And we both will come to a fair conclusion where we can adjust things in life
Happy anniversary both of you 🎈🎉🎉..... Ma'am m to raat ko apne husband k sath coffee share krti hu ....ya koi romantic movie chla k popcorn k sath baith jati hu......or unse b request krti hu...or sorry bol deti hu....baat khatam ho jati h....hum dono morning me bhul jate h .....meri shadi ko 8 yrs ho gye h..but kbhi b hm next day tk muh bna k nhi rkhte .....
Kbhi Kbhi jhgda bhi Hona chahiye Varna life Jine ka maja nhi ata. Jha pyar hota h Vha Jyda Der narajgi rehti hi nhi h. Jhgda apne ap hi solve ho jata h. Bs vo jhgda pariwar tak nhi jana chahiye kyuki mera manna h ke ek Bar ko Pati Patni ka jhgda pyar me badal skta h but pariwar ke samne gyi hui izzat Kbhi vapis nhi ati. Happy marriage anniversary dear Ma'am an sir.
Dear Lata ji kisi bhi ladai ya jhagde ki umar pyaar se badi nhi honi chahiye😊 ...hamesha baat ko ladai ko khtam Karne ki pahal honi chahiye husband wife me❤ ...ye hone se aapka ghar bahut khush haal rahta ha🥰👍 ...apni galti ko samjh kr pyaar se rishte me aage badhen or ek doosre ki baat ko samjhe or ahmiyat den...ek achi shadi me understanding or Transparency bahut zaruri ha👍🥰❤aap dono ko bahut sara pyaar lots of best wishes🥰🙏
Hii mam. Aap bahut khoobsurat lag rahi hai. And my answer is vese to mere husband ke saath bahut kam kahasuni hui hai lekin jab bhi kabhi hui hai to me us time vaha se chli jati hu. Fir baad me badiya si chai bana kar ham baat karty hai or mamla shant karty hai 😊
प्यार के लिए शादी करना जरूरी नहीं होता वो भी उस समय जब सामने वाला शादी सुदा और बच्चों का पिता हो प्यार पाने का नाम नहीं त्याग करने के लिए होता है जो तुम किया वहीं तुम्हारे साथ होता तो
Whenever me & my husband fight I make your I was making his favorite food , little pamper him & most imp confront him , discuss things , take half day break from my job & meet with him out & leave the topic ....
Jb hum apna apna bolkr gussa nikal lete h to sochte h kyu tme waste kiya chup chup rhne main let's solve it nd the major reason of our quick friendship is our 1 Yr baby honestly God gift for all problems solutions ❤❤❤ na main na mere husband sad face ke sath rhh skte h uske aage
Jo chize badli jaa sake wo badal de Or jo badla nah ja sake usske sath adjust kre ya uske sath jina sikh le kyu ki koi bhi perfect nhi hota sabti apni apni paribhasha hoti hai jivansathi ki. ❤bs chizo ko dil se na lgay
Jub bhi hamari koi fight hoti hai ya naraazgi, hum ek doosre ko kuch hours dete hai uss baare main sochne ka.kai baar ye waqt hamin hamri galti relaise karne main help karta hai or Kai baar saant hoke uss matter p phir se baar kar k solution nikalne main help karta hai.iss se hamara relation accha bana rehta hai
Hello mam... Dono me se jo jada pyar karta hai vo hi pehle sorry bolta hai... Chahe uski galti ho ya na ho.. Vese to dono ne sorry bolna chahiye ak dusre ko or respect karni chahiye ❤
Hi Mam, u r looking so lovely in this red saree. Mam hamare beech me jab bhi kabhi kisi bat pe jhagra hota hai to hum ek dusre ki bat ko sunte hai, kya taklif hui kyu hui kis bat pe hui, iin sab bato ko sunte hai n ek solution pe aate hai jisse ki future me wo bat fir se dobara na ho oor hum dono me se kisiko taklif na ho. Khulke bat karte hai without any ego, but with only love n respect for each other. Love for u Mam.
Mam...me nd my husband always try to find a solution bcoz every problem comes with solution only...lots of love ❤️ to you lata mam..nd happy anniversary 🎉to u both..stay blessed always ❤️
Jab do logo ka jhagda hota hain for sometime you are angry but love always over power it.n we start becoming normal.as we start thinking about it from opposite perspective why the person has reacted that way n discuss your perspective as well
Sabse pehle to dono logo ke bich Mai understanding equal hona jaruri hai phir agar rishta hai to ladai hona naraz hona chalta he rehta hai .....Lekin is nokjokh mai kabhi long time ke liye Baat band nahi hona chahiye ....dono mai se kisi ek ko jhuk jana chahiye aur apas mai Matter jo bhi ho solve karke agey badh Jana chahiye Chothi si to zindagi hai yahi soch ke ....pyar se waqt gujar Lena chahiye.......🤗 Happy Anniversary both of you 💐 Lata di aap bahut pyari lag rahi ho red saree mai😘
Lk done beautiful mam ❤❤❤❤ congratulations 1 million ke liye🎉❤❤ jab mera aur mere husband ki fight hoti hai to pehle ladti thhi ab chup rahti hu nahi ladti ab
Apne sanjiv ji se shaadi k liye Haan isliye kiya kyoun ki sanjiv ji Kaafi suljhe huye hai. Problem solve kar letey hai. Ap se pyar bhut kartey hai. Sabse badi baat ap longo ki understanding bahut acchi hai.
Jb hum dono ki ladayi hoti hai tou mai ye soch kar adjust kar leti hu k kbhi unki galti kbhi meri..alag ya chup.. 2 ghante bhi rah nhi sakte..fir kya karna apni ego ka...?? Chodo hum sath hai bus ye he sachhayi hai.
Hi Mam good evening this is Shirley from Goa... My suggestion is if u r angry on ur partner or if he is angry on u ist take Gods name to help me n then try to say sorry for ur partner bcz after all one has to b polite n talk to ur partner in a loving way n try to explain his mistakes to him n u both will find out the solution n nt to involve the third person to tak ur decision after all u both have right to tak ur decisions this is wat I feel Mam God bless u abundantly.
Hello di Very nice to here about your pre wedding memories these are really nice .. But jesa aapne bola saadi ka faisla thoda soch samajhkar lena chahiye at least aaj kal toh har riste ko aage badane k liye achche se sochkar aage badna chahiye