I admire you both You have a strong marriage I come over from strong successful males channel So I know how many Relationships fail My late wife had an Obsession with a pop singer Like a man being obsessed by an only fans model It was very poisonous She died young from a Heart attack I am sure the lovemaking after your Maintenance is very powerful and intense
When you do a domestic maintenance spanking do use bare hand , leather strap and or wooden paddle? Thx guys… and how many strokes or spanks And if you do a punishment how does that vary …
We use an acrylic paddle for maintenance as well as punishment, we have nothing against other implements but this is what we have found to be effective in our discipline.
If I understand correctly, up to 8 sets of 50-60 blows... More than 300 blows... This should be quite painful, even if the blows are light? I just started listening to your podcasts, but I want to say a huge thank you to both of you for such constructive and useful information, because I myself want to bring domestic discipline into our relationship (where I am submissive to my wife) and you are helping me overcome my fear and understand how it works .
Maintenance and punishment is an ever evolving process and every couple will have a different approach to meet the needs of their unique relationship. We have changed our approach slightly since this podcast, maintenance is slightly shorter but build to a higher intensity overall, probably in the neighborhood of 200 swats total, then punishments very between 100-200 very intense swats after an initial warm up. If you are able to join our Patreon we have another couple in our discord group that have a female head of household, where the husband was the one who brought the idea of domestic discipline to his wife.
‘Yielding’ looks like being soft in attitude, having a sweet demeanor, not being resistant or guarded, really ready to assume the role of submission fully.
If you live in the southern States, why do you not have one if those awful southern American accents. You both have no accent. You say it's cold there. Good thing you don't live here in Canada. I love this discipline idea. Every woman should have this mindset.
We have lived in several areas and are mindful to speak clearly. Coda is a professional voice worker so that also helps. It is nice to hear that we have avoided having a thick or distinct accent.
I feel like your husband is not dominant enough for you. You crave more strictness. He says he's sorry too much. He's there with you but you are the knowledgeable one. No offense to him but that's just how I see it.
