MAKING FRIENDS IN GERMANY | Why is it so hard ?? Individualism?  

I arrived in DE in October 2021, lived and attended a sparchschule. Bremen was a nightmare for me, I was extremely lonely. I returned to SA to visit family and came back end of February...I wanted to give up, but my little 12yr old son gave me the advice I always give him " complete your mission, never give up"...wise little boy! I arrived in Hamburg to start a new life and the moment I arrived in Hamburg, I felt the connection. So far, I love Hamburg ❤️. No friends yet, but I'm sure this will change soon! I wish everyone who has just arrived in Germany a beautiful stay...keep your eyes wide open and Sindy is absolutely correct when she says that when you find a german friend, it's forever!

Sindy you look stunning. Your hair is lovely. 🤍🤍 Thank you for sharing this info with us. I've also heard that about the Germans. 😊

I feel you ! Same happened to me when I left my island for another. Happy to relate to somebody that go through this too ! Thank you for sharing I feel like we are not alone 🫶

Thank you for your wonderful advice, as always. ☺️

Sindy I understand the situation that you facing there because its a different country and different rules so just make sure you are ok and as long your husband loves you that's all you need and just stay positive 👍❤️❤️❤️

I like your energy Sindy, I see us being friends😅😍

Thank you dear for the beautiful vdeo 👍 It’s the same also here in Nederlands

Making friends in Germany can be difficult, but with the right understanding of the culture and people, it's possible. Cindy's video is a great resource for those looking to settle in Germany.

Thank you so much for sharing this to us thanks

Wow, you are a really chill person who talks really slow. I had to speed the video up😄

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Oh girl you can say that again is not easy here in Germany 🇩🇪 to make friends 😢new subbie here and new RU-vidr aswell

Hello girlfriend 😘😘, Good to see you after a long time..🤗🤗..Now this topic you touched on....let me tell you, not only in Germany you might have issues, I'm in England and I also had lonely times making friends. But I have friends now. I also had bad experiences...hope you will visit London soon 😉😀, ngizokuxoxela zonke sana 😁🙌🏾

I am very proud of the fact that you are my friend! ❤

Mega love from Mzansi.

Lol thanks for sharing this! The Germans here in Hamburg are very polite. It’s the first country I’ve lived in that strangers mostly ladies always say hello to me first on the street and my mouth dropped open 😂😂😂🤣. I had to look at myself and ask is it me or someone else. Also they’re very helpful and patient while I’m murdering their language. I heard it’s totally different compared to other cities. So far I happy with Hamburg.

This is not just a problem only in Germany. This is a problem in many countries. I am also a person open to new friendship , but having lived in Sweden in the '80s-'90s and in Italy in the '90s. I only knew Poles. Italians are not as open as people think. I have friends in other countries and they also have the same problem. People work more and more and do not have time to cultivate relationships. Then a lot of people have mental problems. In Poland, every fourth Pole has them, and the Pandemic has shown us that there are many more of them. When people do not feel well mentally, they have no initiative and are closed to new people.

In my opinion it ist very dificult for foreigners to find friends here. The people here are more focused in work and are very racional. They are more individualistic and therefore they do not really enjoy the company of other people or enjoy small things like food etc. They do often only care about themselves and only want to recieve help from gevernment and institutes. So it is dificult in the day to day life. In general you can find some social partners in for ex. sport clubs or at work but it all keeps staying very on the surface

Lol when it comes to South Africans it's easier for one to make friends once there's a bit of connection the friendship starts but it's not easy to find a genuine friendship yooo i personally love friendships it's a great feeling to have friends imagine life without friendship i wouldn't find it easier..Thank you for sharing this ,

I am living in Germany since 7 years. Most of the people are mean cold hearted and rude , it doesn't matter what nationality. I have lost my mother in this month. Nothing is left for me. I am broken mentally.

your lights puuuurrrrr

i will like to make a new friend from her

Please help me find a friend in Germany 😢

Hello Cindy. Du siest gut aus. Warum redest du nicht auf Deutsch.

try bumble bff babe

und wie ist das in deiner Heimat in Ghana?

Friends in Germany. Geht sometimes with other nationalities. With Germans 😂😂😂 only with your husband's friends. A lot of jealousy from German women towards us black women. Our features, slim ess, lips... 😅😅😅😅😅. You don need them!!!! Work and love your husband.

Hey, when you have 5 million views, why don´t you just buy friends ? Problem solved !