MAKING OUR 5+ YEAR MARRIAGE WORK

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In their 5+ year marriage, the Egbanes have learnt to love and blend with one another. One word to describe this conversation is “therapeutic”.
This conversation was deeply relatable, vulnerable and healing. The journey of marriage is one of growth, patience, learning, acceptance, humility and willingness to change.
We know you will enjoy and learn from every bit of this conversation.
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@StoryTellerMediaGlobal 2 месяца назад

To our dear audience, we thank you for watching. Please leave only kind and respectful comments. Our wonderful couple have shared their story and journey. With every episode of Winning Together the vulnerability it takes every couple to do this should be honoured and respected. We genuinely appreciate your feedback in the comments section, but please keep them kind and temperate. Thank you.

@mosesnwokoye5105 2 месяца назад

Thanks for always bringing in amazing couples on board to share their journey so far. At least singu pringus like us can take cues and learn what it is like being in marriage and understanding the signaled from our partners before it escalates. Our marriages won't fail!

@josephadunola37 2 месяца назад

I feel we all need to appreciate the height of vulnerability to come on this platform. The man has works to do (as said by previous comments) though not there but he mentioned that he's working on it and the wife admitted that he's trying (though could do better). Marriage is a lot. Personality differences can take a big toe on relationships. I love you guys, the commitment to eachother and just keep working on getting better. God bless your marriage.

@tolusonubi5666 Месяц назад

This is so beautiful to watch.. Reminds me of our first 5yrs of marriage. Been married for 20yrs. The key is to choose to always be kind to each other ❤

@folakemiabiodunoladimeji9986 2 месяца назад

I feel exhausted watching this episode. So many questions to ask. So many words to say. I don’t think anyone deserve to be in a relationship where they are begging to be cared for or to be loved affectionately. It’s hard to influence someone who is set in his/her ways. I pray this couple find rest and ease.

@krystall0078 2 месяца назад

Oga you are not filling your wife’s emotional tank, she’s running on empty. He is not emotionally sensitive towards his wife even after she explained why it is important to her. He is not taking any accountability or even acknowledging her feelings. Unfortunately if he doesn’t change she will have an unfulfilled marriage filled with resentment down the line. Sometimes the things our partners want don’t often make sense to us but we do it for them because it makes them happy.

@amyamoah679 Месяц назад

First and foremost, I would like to thank the couple for coming on and sharing their story and their perspectives. It is not easy to be as open and vulnerable as you were with this difficult conversation. I see several comments that point the blame at the husband, and initially, I was in the same boat until I realized #1: marriage is the union of TWO imperfect people. This discussion is an important eye opener for both men and women preparing for marriage: please, please, the man or woman you are courting now will be the man or woman in the marriage. Don’t turn a blind eye and hope/think he or she will change in the course of marriage or things will get better if the person does not see it as a problem themselves. We must reflect and ask ourselves, if the person is unable or unwilling to change, can I live with this “imperfection” for the rest of my life? Not from the standpoint of “holier than thou” but from a place of knowing your limits and understanding whether or not you have the ability to accommodate, pray through, etc. the issue with your partner being imperfect yourself.

@folakemimartins4597 2 месяца назад

This was a really vulnerable conversation. I am trying to see it from the husbands perspective but what do I know. The lord continually leads and guides them.

@peace-peter 2 месяца назад

Omo. This one is deep oh. My prayers are with them. I pray this man can see his wife's cry for help... how can you not see that this woman is wanting something deeper than you are giving her. God will help him. It's not easy to change but if you want to have a fulfilled and happy home you have to be open to change

@saduwafavour932 2 месяца назад

This lady is very patient woman I admire her,witg everything she said stil no remorse from him only excuses ,he still doesn’t understand her feelings

@zeea6507 2 месяца назад

Life as a mariied perosn is different to when you was single. Communication is not only speaking but listening to understand. It is not always about what you want but also your partner. Hopefully he makes effort to change because this is not giving good vibes. Emotional inteligence, kindness and genuine care are very important.

@biolutife 2 месяца назад

This independent Man/Woman thing has it's way of shaking things a whole lot more than we realise!!!

@gistwithmotayo9109 2 месяца назад

The man said 'I am not in the space to accommodate some stuffs from you, I don't want distractions.. At times ''read the room'' to a woman yearning for attention. Your wife, bro!! Everything she mentioned and complained about is geared towards communicating and bonding with you more, an amazing woman that wants you present is what you've got bro.. Anyway, them no dey put mouth for couple matter

@deborahbamiyooyelakin7292 2 месяца назад

I feel really bad for this woman. Her husband is not listening at all only justifying everything she is bringing up. If you loved your independence so much' why bother marrying and tormenting your partner. Many men don't realise that you can be married to a woman for over 20years and she mentally checked out. Believing you CANNOT LOVE HER AS SHE HAS ASKED.😢 Then all her love and efforts go into the kids. I hope he will listen because when she said " make you dey your dey and I dey my own dey" that spoke vloumes

@nathankylo6810 2 месяца назад

She is yearning for a relationship

@chidinmaloveth5208 2 месяца назад

Omo! I'm not married, but I'm triggered and this is because he is mirroring my personality about being a lone wolf,but a bit extreme version. I love the fact that she is expressive I love the strength it took to have this conversation. I can now see the strain, honestly I understand him and her... Honestly,there's alot of unmet emotional needs... He doesn't understand how to meet her love language... I hope for a progressive adjustment and a happier home ❤

@blackbeautifulganni1 2 месяца назад

I pray for divine guidance and wisdom for this couple. Uncle is very emotionally absent in this relationship. I also pray for divine strength for aunty.

@faithokolie3017 2 месяца назад

A lot has been said and advised. Prayers has to be made for heart transformation. The couple needs to be willing to study God’s plan for marriage from the Bible (most importantly) and Christian marriage book ( that has been prayerfully sought out) The woman’s attention is to turn to God in prayer and commit her marriage to God ( praying for the heart of her husband as well as hers) the effectual fervent prayer of a righteous women for her HUSBAND availeth much. Please don’t give up mama, you hold so much potential and your marriage too if you both work together. Dear LORD I pray you help this couple sort their differences and realize their potentials working together as ONE. Amen!!!

@martekimartey7649 2 месяца назад

You’re so so right!,I believe by the help of God,this marriage will turn out beautifully and many will get to learn from it!

@martekimartey7649 2 месяца назад

And his group of friends I think may be one of the factors but may God help them. Let me be when the two have become one May God help us to do marriage according to His perfect plan I’m also learning that there are important and difficult things to discuss during courtship sometimes,it helps Don’t overlook things that happen during your courtship God help us all in Jesus’ name

@nathankylo6810 2 месяца назад

Bro as a bro like you, honestly speaking your wife is crying and you are not understanding her or rather looking at things from your perspective......her pain is hidden behind the smile. Take some time to know her, she's craving for it. (With all good intentions)

@martekimartey7649 2 месяца назад

I believe there’s a lot of knowing each other that needs to be done and may God help them

@blackbeautifulganni1 2 месяца назад

You are 1 million % correct.

@oluwadamilolaaishat2754 2 месяца назад

To be honest five years is still short to see the blend that marriage brings , they are doing well for the age of the marriage,

@oreoluwaadeyeye3294 2 месяца назад

Hmmmmmm…….. I wonder why he got married??? It seems he believes his role is only to provide financial stability and security. It’s a great shame, that she’s now learnt to seek validation and emotional support elsewhere….. He’s too caught up in himself, to recognise what awaits him ahead. This is the type of couple, when the children grow up, the woman will visit her children and leave the man at home for prolonged periods. At which point, he will complain, she’s abandoned him. Unaware to him, he initiated this emotional bridge.

@anjolaoluwaacquah6280 2 месяца назад

It’s so sad to see. He is not willing to meet her emotional needs

@eden_energy 2 месяца назад

Life doesn’t revolve around you sir, you can do this for others because it matters the most to them and you love them enough to want to show that you love and care about them.

@praiseemanerame6826 2 месяца назад

I feel that the man has a lot to work on. Marriage is not just about yourself alone; it's about compromising.

@BalogunTobi42 2 месяца назад

True

@ayandaglory6228 2 месяца назад

Whooooshh! I wasn’t expecting to comment. This was a peculiar video. I respect them for going through with this conversation. Here are something’s I observed; 1. He never admitted to any of the things she spoke about. He always had an excuse to cornerback. So many things are blamed on “this is who I am”. It is ok to evolve and grow regardless of your upbringing. 2. There is such an emotional disconnect. 3. Throughout the video, I like that there were able to laugh at some things. 4. I genuinely enjoyed her ability to have a conversation, stating her reasoning, and even giving him positive feedback. I hope they are able to work through their significant differences and make positive changes in their relationship. Thank you stortellermediaglobal!

@nthabz_mv 2 месяца назад

You took the words out of my mouth. I feel for this lady but I trust that God does a supernatural work in their union 🙌🏽

@stellagodswill5237 2 месяца назад

I hardly comment on Social media platforms. But i think this couple needs proper marriage counselling, especially the man. He doesn't really understand what marriage is all about, he is still full of himself, so self centered.

@sannitaiwo6694 2 месяца назад

He’s not listening!!!!!

@Simisola_Akeju 26 дней назад

Holyghost and therapy!!!!!!

@dunmztv5767 2 месяца назад

I feel so terrible for this woman 😢😢

@eden_energy 2 месяца назад

I think this man is emotionally absent, probably his upbringing playing a fast one on him. He doesn’t know how to be emotionally available. God help them both ❤

@henryijeoma2228 2 месяца назад

First five minutes and hes already blaming everything on upbringing. Its tiring. The lady is very patient. I understand thr man, but he needs to do better.

@OmololaOluwawemimo 2 месяца назад

Omoh....

@heraldshalom2979 2 месяца назад

I just dey vex

@mosesnwokoye5105 2 месяца назад

Lol. On top another person marriage? Sip chilled zobo abeg

@graceeyoma1753 2 месяца назад

Did they not date for a while before they married? It just seems as if she didn't know him at all before they married. Didn't they talk about things and their expectations during their courtship? It's like they just met each other, rushed into marriage and now they are stuck with each other because from what I am hearing this man is not willing to change or even take accountability. He has an excuse for all her genuine concerns and now she expects him to change for her. The woman too is the type that wants what she wants, when she wants it whilst he is a very layed back person that wants to take his time. What they need is marriage therapy. This one no be church pastor counselling issue but rather a professional marriage therapist.

@inspiremoi6882 2 месяца назад

People change my dear. Before the marriage we talk but the truth is when you are confronted with the situation, the reaction or the reality are different

@inspiremoi6882 2 месяца назад

This was painful to watch. Sincere prayers going up for him. The man is a sikent killer. A bad communicator and he is NOT focused on Loving his wife. He can't seem to get out of his own ways to compromise and meet his wife Half way. Just LOVE THIS WOMAN NAH!!!!! what is hard about it? She will give you the world and do the most for you. She is crying for affection. SHOW that you care. Once she logs out emotionally, it will be harder to make a U turn though its possible. That she can handle a lot doesnt mean she has to go through a lot.

@Oinako 2 месяца назад

Pray fr him fr God to change him, just talking to this man won't work...

@Olutemi Месяц назад

A man set in his ways 😞

@loretaeloho2792 2 месяца назад

This kinda leaves a bad taste in the mouth, I see some level of Ego, Pride and abit of selfishness on the Husbands side, its fine to have different personalities, however being able to meet in the middle and make sacrifices for each other is the only way to make a marriage work. The marriage feels too one sided and with time the party that makes all the sacrifices would run out. Sacrifice, learning and unlearning is very important to make a union work.

@inspiremoi6882 2 месяца назад

I pray for her. It must not be easy to be crying for love and affection to the one person that is supposed to give it. He loves his job more than her and he is not willing to love his wife. He is not behaving as a married man . And for the woman , I suggest she starts caring about herself more than she cares for him ( it's scriptural). When he will notice less attention she gives him he might miss it.

@marthaodoh 2 месяца назад

Hmmmm

@nthabz_mv 2 месяца назад

Yhooo 😰 this painful to watch. Kunigi 😓

@ofonemmanuel Месяц назад

I am so worried for his wife. Only 10 minutes into the conversation, I am feeling sorry for her. This episode stressed me a lot. His wife is screaming for connection but he is acting like a single man. My opinion can be faulty but this man is not adjusting, he is not even acknowledging his wife's complaints. There were many times he could have said "oh, I am sorry, I did not know that's how you felt". This man needs to allow the Holyspirit work in him

@ayorindeoluwayemisi2828 2 месяца назад

Half way through and we need a therapist/counsellor

@ayorindeoluwayemisi2828 2 месяца назад

Dear people, you might be calm, and “unproblematic” and that is okay. But when you are married, you owe your spouse all of you, you married each other and signed an unconditional order to be in each other face and space. If you don’t want it and can’t meet in the middle, please stay single. Secondly, Christ died for us because he loved us not because of himself. So whatever you do, let it be for your spouse first and then you come second. That is what being married is and do it selflessly- please don’t count it or stay single- if you want to count😩. It’s not by force. We come from different backgrounds, but don’t make your spouse repeat some things, it’s emotionally draining and tiring which is not good. Listen, don’t assume and don’t defend. You are one! And if you cannot start your statement with “babe, I understand but understand me too (followed by you still doing what your partner want) - see a therapist because you don’t understand 😂maybe it’s because what your partner is demanding is wrong- which is fine, so see a counsellor to help you explain it better. Period - (all these from a single lady- God abeg😂)

@saduwafavour932 2 месяца назад

This is the way most urhobo men think ,I just had a bad experiences with you .They are not ready to move from their comfort to support their partner .This man has an excuse for everything and is the most little things this lady is asking for

@Oinako 2 месяца назад

This man is single not married, very self centered... The only way the marriage is working is because of the women, he needs prayers cz talking to him will not help no matter wht

@inspiremoi6882 2 месяца назад

Very very true. I was so sad for her watching this

@inspiremoi6882 2 месяца назад

She is in a very difficult situation. The husband is blinded by his job, his friends, his wants, his will that he FAILS TO LOVE on the person he is doing life with. It appears that he thinks the woman is there to just bend over for him and he has to do NOTHING for her. How can some men be this self centered? You are no longer alone in your boat. Validate the feelings of your wife. You will see that the nagging or complaints will stop.

@veronicaameh8953 2 месяца назад

This man needs to learn from a male mentor. He needs to understand how to receive help from a woman. he is too independent and may weary her in the marriage. the worst thing is he is still not listening to her even on TV, he keeps giving excuses and with that he isnt ready to change. he needs help. usually women in this kind of relationship become closer to their children and tend to enjoy staying away from their men. I really do hope he finds help

@inspiremoi6882 2 месяца назад

Oh Boy YOU ARE DESTROYING your home. You are not serving your wife.

@saduwafavour932 2 месяца назад

You enjoy your friends company compared to your wife ..all these woman men are just the same .The see their spouse as nothing