I've never understood why you give birth and favor others.. As a mother you can sit your children down and sort your difference because you can never get another mother.. . Where should you run to if family disown you... Pole sana
THANK YOU SYMO K FOR SHARING THIS TESTIMONY ON MAMI AUGAGA NINDAKOMIRE NA BABA,ATHUIRE MUNO ANJAMBITIE ITURA GUOTHE NA AKAMENITHANIA NA CIANA CITU. THIS SHALL ENCOURAGE MORE PEOPLE TO EXPRESS WHAT THEY'VE GONE THROUGH BEING BROUGHT UP BY TOXIC PARENTS, RELATIVES.
Sometimes we are forced to move away from a certain area because your blessings might be somewhere else and even disconnect from certain group of people especially family members
Eheria ciana ciaku Kou itikone uuru.... Op Gatumia Karia karogi ka nahau kianda gatiukaga Kou tondu ma... For the sake of your kids destiny, keep off that home. Wihoke Ngai niwe uheyanaga mbeca. Faith and trusting God is everything.
Wanjiru thengiu muno. Nii ndiri ndakaigua kana ngakona guku no afadhali ucio uikaine ni murogi, aya niguo angi mathiyaga kanitha cia ihonoko cia kuraihu na nio ooru muno mararuta mawira o macio mehithite kanithaini. Here most attend salvation church so peace should be overflowing but ile mambo inafanywa na hawa watu, acha tu.
Move out of your parents homestead.... work on yourself also you are so bitter with everything and everyone....Waithera no one owes you anything in this life....live your life and just expect from God 🙏
Thanks. I partially agree with you because this bitterness is as a result of pain due to injustices against me ad so many unresolved issues by family. I have been suppressing all this pain but I trust God will heal and restore me to be the person I was, jovial
Emily I will not just leave, if I am going to leave, I have rights, I didn't just come into being, what I am demanding from her is that she shows me who my father is if Thuo wasn't my father. That way I will leave to search for my father who I strongly feel will accept my children and I. Am wondering how is she able to relate with these women some having been married with grown up children? It's nearly impossible to leave a built house in my father's home then I start from zero, get her let her explain why she has been maltreating me at least even if I leave I will know the exact reason. That way we will have solved. Emily you so biased by telling me to leave parents homestead but not sitting this mother down ad get the answer to the dispute. Today's society is so corrupt.
There is something unique in you Ur God's seed,I support you quit the place Be strong I faith at tyms you wonder how the clergy can assist someone,am glad coz there still God faithfuls. Ur blessed and on the right platform Ia sure u will be back with a happy life
I went through the exact same thing,I found peace when I moved far far away. Once you're ready to let go of that family. God will provide the finances and he,ll make a way. Pole sana Pauline you'll heal but not in the environment that makes you sick. And when you move cut communication completely even the closet siblings don't update them ur whereabouts. Until you heal.
Thanks so much for your encouragement. Imagine I have been asking myself why me coz I can tell you of so many daughters with children living peacefully under same house but me I have moved away from her but I have no peace. I don't seek any kind of help from her. When I keep quiet it's a problem when I talk I m insulting.
The best thing ahame tuu,was going through the same in my inlaws place,they hated my hubby, hadi shimo ya maji ina drainiwa sewage, I moved am happy now,God will make a way my sis
Hakwa maoni makwa mundu wothe mwanake kana muiritu ungigaya kwanyu akorwo mutiraiguana na muciari wali ukira umweherere tondu tonginya akugaire, na ndungineneha gukira muciari na mutingiiganana ona ena mahitia , ndiraria uguo onanii ngaiirwo no Baba na mami niajendete muno no nindatigire NI tondu WA rumena rwa ariu situ ngiehutiria mwana wakwa thina. Mungu atakumbariki na zako usijali.
I know this lady because I always see her every morning taking her child to school. I always see her and n our catholic Church. But I don't know much about her. She is ever neat. But there was one Sunday last year when she became emotional when fr. Julius was preaching about forgiveness. She cried loudly and some christians seated next to her told her outside. I pitied her much. If it's true what she narrates, she needs someone to help her. May God hear her prayers. Pole Pauline. Keep on trusting the Lord. You are beautiful indeed.
Thanks so much magdalene. I hv been narrating my story over ad over again to some church members who wud have helped the priests understand my problem better but it's as if they acted like judas, they distorted the information such that the priests themselves having been mocking, insulting me. I have shared with the catechist kariuki, peter kagonye ad also wa vanessa. This wa vanessa ni msaliti. She relayed wrong information I don't know whether she was after promotion misleading the priests precisely fr. Warari ad jp to be soon harsh to me. I no longer attend church services. These priests have also failed miserably since they never reached out to me to get my side of the story. I myself wud not have approached them as they have been so hostile to me. Fr. Warari wud always say ni inegene ria ngoro calling me Jezebel. It's sad that they have no heart to mediate such delicate issues affecting almost every family. These priests need to change their attitude ad be uptodate. They themselves don't have immunity to witchcraft they can also be affected. They may have had a soft life but should be able to handle who have thro pain ad suffering. It's so strange that priests have been so insensitive.
@@gladwellgithui1242AMEN. Am grateful for giving me hope. I have been praying ad weeping to God to change my story ad restore everything I have lost to the locusts. I pray so much God to turn around my life, to help me forget past, live present ad focus on my future especially coz of my children whom I have to be strong for them.
Mah waithira wona wega uthukirie Mami wanyu ritwa biu.....SYMO K this lady is my neighbor na ni yeye anatusingi mamake mchawi...ata ukikuja gatundu hapa junction we know her
Pole sana Pauline n it is painful,coz inaonekana uligundua mambo inaendelea kwenu n u try ata maombi wakataa....u cud have made a decision to move away from that homestead with ua kids for the sake of ua peace...coz inaonekana hawataki kukuona huko..
Am so sorry, is so unfortunate we can't change a parent, na mimi ningekwambia hivyo symo amekwambia, umagare úthií, Ngai níegúthondeka njíra, it comes a time in life for the sake of peace unatoka tu unaenda. May God see you through, it shall be well with you...
I have come out so that you help identify the problem ad probably fix it. Ungiigua igikaya ninume. If your own mother is fighting you everyone else even strangers Will fight you. Gwitagwo kuirigurirwo. Will be very grateful for assistance of any kind accorded to me. God bless you.
@@evakendi7966Social media imekuja kusaidia aki. Sasa ningejua aje kuna wengine wanapitia mambo haha. Sasa wenye walikuwa wanasema ni mimi shinda, sijui nakua wazimu. Twendelee kujikaza dada mungu ako.
Si utoke kwenu na uwanyamazie na u change nomber ya simu watakutafuta na Simon Kibe siwezi pata even single minute ya kumbishana na mtu na vyenye ndunia iko kumbua changamka mama
@@gracegithinji7717 thanks so much. I would have gone long but my problem is finances. I lost my job in Nov 2023 since the business went down drastically. Since March I was surviving on hand outs such that at the time of quitting I had no savings since with the money I had already demolished my house for extension to accommodate my children. I had not seen it coming. From those I have been borrowing from for survival are now fed up. But if I can get a buyer, I can sell this house together with the land, this will enable me pay debts ad comfortably relocate. I feel really helpless coz the children are yet to reopen school.
Don't allow anyone to silence you. Speak it out. Your mum is a toxic mother. Such toxic people are good in public but dangerous privately. She is a narcissist mum. Learn how narcissists operate. I wish you can get out of that place. Keep a distance from that toxic mum. Your dad was a highly respected man. May he rest in peace.
God bless you immensely. You are the kind of people we need in the Society who stand for truth. Wickedness has been normalized so when you stand firm on what's right, they will say wi gikoro na roho muru etc when in the real sense you are being strangled.
Dont worry God above all because you cared for your father the hatred ilitokea apo me too my Mum cared for my great grand mother since vitu zikangeuka but God will bless you sorry for that
Wacheni kuekelea shetani...it just common sense if you sided with your father wakati wanapigana na mamako your mother is going to hate you......your sisters in law wil always side with your mother to protect their marriages......you have a son who is going to inherit property share ya brothers wako ipungue soo lazima wakuchukie.........No demons anyway here lets not spiritualise everything
😢😢aki mwenye amepitishiwa hii mateso ni mzazi ndie anaweza elewa uchungu yenye mtu husikia hata kusamehe ni ngumu na the same mzazi anapiganisha watoto wa tumbo yake kuko wale favourite mpka anawaambia watusi wale wengine bure😢😢😢.. Mi mpka imefikia mahali nikawa block wote nikianzia na mamangu juu nimeishiwa na nguvu kabisa ya kuvumilia matusi yao 😢😢
Sorry to learn that u have been thru this shit. Can you imagine nimevumilia haha yote but I had gotten used to mocking even from children that I didn't care any more but it has gotten worse I lost my job I stay at home while even their guests can mock me indirectly. I keep to myself, I don't care that she never supports me but she as determined to get me thru hell.
Nikulize,nimesikia ulizalia mwanaume na hakukuoa na vile nakusikia hakusaidii,then unaenda tena kuzaa na mwanaume huyo huyo tena unaleta nyumbani kwenu,bona huyu mwanaume asikupe shamba??wewe una kashida,tena unajenga kwenu,aiii,hautapata amani hapo!!utachapwa ata ya mwili,ts the truth!!
My mum alikuwa amenichukia hata masomo ni well wisher alinilipia coz nilipita std 8.chuki yake bure my friend saw everything.kupata ID alinifunguza home ati nitafute kwangu. I am now living in Europe as citizen.
Reke ngikure nie kwansa mangiyonia nimathuire todu onanie danagerera hau...dimablokaga othe kwa simu na kwa mitandao yote..no magiuka kujetha makoragwo makilila makiyugithagia thakame ni ditu kwi mae nanie ngamera nihidi mwameya niditu
Boundaries gani nisaidie kujua coz if u know me well, me i mind my own business and I really feel these wars are the cause u c we are nt fighting over tangible things
Some siblings thinks they were born better than others,it's sad when a family rejects one of their own...1 reason i thank God kwa kunipea a short wire kind of character😅😀 nobody dares me in my family, they know wakininyima peace for 1 day nitawanyima peace for 1mnth😅 you don't provoke me and think you can just walk away peacefully noooo it's not done that way. Respect is a 2 way traffic, huwezi olewa kwetu then uanze kunivuruga🤷not me😏 Thanks God my late Dad blessed us all before he died and said,his home/houses/properties belongs to all of us.
May God continue to hold your family in unity. Siblings fight when the mother has a hand in it or has secret agendas. A mother has the power to hold together or separate her children ata kama amezaa na wanaume mia mbele. I know of a woman who when she raising children as a single mother, she was mocked so much by her fellow women that anaenda kutafutia huyu mtoto anapata mwingine, it's true her children are of different fathers but her family is enviable, she was able to educate some of her children to university, they love each other ad I have never heard of any quarrel in that family. I wish she can read this ad support what am saying.
Ukiwa hujaolewa wanakuona kama kitu bure ni kama bwana ni tikiti ya mbinguni😢 madam toka kwa hiyo boma awa wazazi ni stress.babangu alitaka kuuza shamba nilipoanza kupinga alinikibiza na panga.....na ujue dugu zake do wanamuongoza.ata hajui vile inauzwa na ni mrevi.....sahi ata ten bob hana.alikua akisema atanikata shingo nimeficha title.na nilikua nimeeka kwa bag fulani kwa nyumba. Nikabia mum mpatie auze.na nikaeda nrb .sahii ata bob hana.na nilipigiwa nkabiwa ananitafta na panga😅 eti aniue
I swear by the grave of my late Dad, I will never forgive them. They have inflicted a very big wound in my heart, have been nailing my heart mercilessly, adding more salt to my wounded heart, they never cared about my children. If they succeeded in their mission, my children would now be orphans or even end up in the streets, my heart is bleeding coz of ceaseless wars. I have known no peace, I have lost so much coz of their wickedness, have no friends nor social network coz of assassinating my character. They are never remorseful, they were at times claiming I had gone crazy... I will never even in my grave.
Hmm I never thought I had neighbors!! Being a neighbor you are, have you never heard even for once what was going on? What effort hv u done t even understand my /family problem. So coz nanyamazia kama watoto wewe umefanya nini kunjua nini nanyamazia kama wewe ni mtu mzima sio mtoto? How on earth can one go silent to everyone? I can say you are a pretender / hypocrite! This is not one year but years of suffering!!!!
Wacha wewe,,you are so brinded by pride such that huonangi watu,,@symo k huyu mmama tunamjua sana,,as I said b4 kuja ground usikie kutoka home,, shushu(mamaake)have ever being good to her,,
I have got every reason under the sun to be proud. When I was being killed silently where were you? Am alive by God's grace. I have survived against all odds, You seem to be soo bitter, why?
Not bitter just angry how on earth can you insult your mother,,ama you think hatujui,,,we know alot ,even you have gats to call our fathers 'ihii',,,,,@Symoh K you should visit shushu and the other family let them narrate their story
I know provoking everything out of your heart is a part of healing,but what I can advice you stay away from your homestead,and forgive them nd forget, usifikilie kuna mtu atakuheshimu ukiwa hapo ,my sister kama huna ndoa , don't expect the members of your family will respect you,na sio wewe peke yako , mwanamke akikosa ndoa anadharauliwa sana na familia
see beyond ..pack your stuff and woman up rent a place and start all over mtoto wako cannot become someone in future ukuishi hapo na mamako n all the toxicity
Thanks. Those who would have helped are the ones misleading my mother. Surprisingly they were my dad's friends. They know everything about the family but have not been willing to solve the matter. It's really painful that the family has been divided to this extent under their watch.
Awache kulia anajua ukweli .huyo mamake ya huyu mama amekomaa anajua mengi kutuliko.kwangu mtoto umezaa na babako ni kigege hawezi kuwa normal coz ya genetic factor. Gajane umbaya unajua mengi
U r so quick to judge. They themselves they Know the truth. They know the father of my children very well. Villagers know the family very well ad who is the problem.
I lost my job in Nov 2023 ad since March 2023 I didn't receive any salary coz the business had gone down drastically, I was surviving on hand outs so by the time of quitting I had savings on me coz I had already demolished my house for extension to accommodate children. It's incomplete but still living in it anyway. Am in a mess surviving on borrowing this have accumulated huge debts, children are yet to report back to school. It's horrible am telling you. Am hoping the God am faithful to will make a way out.
If i were you i would move out,but all in all ata wewe uko na kashinda kiasi.i listened to that story an its like everyone including strangers have a problem with you.wìthuthurie onawe. You dont hv to stay there,take a step of faith ona ithuì tùrìokuo na tùtikaraga guitù
@lydianyakio7661 that is the fact, thank you..... She will make it only when she move out... In Gatundu when you have 2500 you have a big single room for a start.... Ala
I blame her mother she is the head of the family why this to one kid 7th born out of 10,yaani hata wakuolewa ndio wako na say this so bad n painful waithera God will openways for you utoke kwa hio mboma sio laxima ukae Muranga county Symo k hii stroy iko na wengi i hv a friend of mine yy huniambia hivi but different is wazazi walikua waxuri na yy juu she is disable sasa mabros na bibi zao ndio walibaki matharau anaonyeshwa ako pande yake pekee yake no one what to see her na yuko kwa wheel chair u can imagine the life she is living with painful spirit akiongea na mtu naaonekane kaa atasaidika bro yake mbio kukatisha na kuongea machafu yake weeee tikwaga Symo
You have been making sure that you choke my voice not to be heard since your secret society network is wide. Nyungu ya ngai ndiagaga muteng'uri that's why Symoh is there. Were it not for symoh my problem would not be known. May God Almighty expand Symoh K Official youtube channel beyond million subscribers. Amen
You have all this problem kwasababu you have two kids na mwanaume the same ukiwa kwa mama yako..... Seriously?? Why don't you move in na yeye.... Ama you move out rent a single room Gatundu is very very cheap then you will get your peace of mind...... Nimezaliwa uko raised up in Gatundu town. Amka mschana ... You are the one who's bringing tension to your family ... Your mom don't know what to do coz your brothers are against you.....🤔
@@Divinemercy24 murega akirwo ndaregaga akihetwo... My mum was single with 4 children, alipitia kama wewe, at last alihama na akatulea, na mimi ni single na 2kids,,, believe Yourself, move out you will make it...... Don't think that am against you.. Utanikumbuka pia... that is the fact
Don't compare me/my family with your family, your mom case is not my case. Get me right that it's known she is the one inciting my bros. I know them very well being peaceful. It's mother hiding behind them with her secret agendas. If it will be possible for part 2 you will c that yourself.
I have the blessings from my Dad reason why they are jealous. I was informed about it last year by a retired chief who was my dad friend. Their mission was to make my life miserable I kill myself as has been the norm in the family; sudden deaths by headaches, suicide, fatal falls etc.
@@Divinemercy24 this is good Now that you know this go away from that homestead and the get a true church and get deliverance they'll look for you for forgiveness, I promise you this. God loves you.
Shinda gani hiyo yenye haiwezi tatuliwa. I hv fought so many battles mostly spiritual. It's so sucking coz the battles don't cease. Thanks for noticing that.
Kindly those speaking on behalf of the accused, why don't you let her come out ad speak for herself? Wa njango come out, set yourself free, set the family free, save your family ad future generations. You are being cheated on, your house is on fire while these so called women friends families are well guarded. C they r hiding behind your name while their names are clean, you are a big group, mbona uwabebe. If possible, name them. You have the key, u know the truth ad you know i know everything. This is the time. Nyumba yako inaendelea kuungua kama zao ziko sawa, wewe ndio unaonekana peke yako namko wengi. fungua familia. Ngai hii vita imeanza kwa familia, kijiji, kanisa sasa imeingia kwa social media. Watesi waku mnanifuatia nini jamani? You're not offering any solution, why?
Pauline gacira karia wagerera no ukuura, wagithie mummy wanyu thayu nanikuo wakiite? Plz umagara ta andu aria angi ukione thayu but respect your family
@@user-qm2xq6or8jare you sure? coz hii story iko na huruma sana. Anaweza ndaganya? Unamjua vizuri ama uliskia na maneno huko ya watu, basi kama una mjua ni sawa.
Wewe hunjui curse ni nini ulidhurumu your mum na kulala na bwanake sasa unataka upendo utoke wapi?endelea kupewa mate mbaya na your mum. utakufa kama my brother alitesa my mum mpaka kifo.sasa utawachia watoto brothers zako nani brothers?maundu mamwe maa😮ondokea your mum huko ni kwake!
Stop hiding but come out clear. U r bitter coz uchawi yako imekatizwa ama?!!! For your information I have the blessings of my Dad and God's favour upon me, may be umejaribu kukatiza maisha yangu pamoja na hawa wachawi sugu wa hii area mkashindwa that's why you're spitting all these venom. Your issues seem even more grave. Kindly seek help from the relevant people please ad leave me alone.
aaai hata kama uko na makasiriko ya kiujinga sana unaweza aje ita bro zako ihii? 😢😢😢 uko na bahati coz kama korwo wetire angi ihii ungiaguthirwo ta hiti!
My opinion, afadhali utoke that place uende utafute nyumba ya kukodisha kwanza.that mother is bringing conflicts between her children.mum God is with you 🙏
Thanks so much for your encouragement. I have never in years been given even a word of hope not even my sisters. But out of this show will family come back together. I feel it.
You are depressed muone psychology. Ndio unasikia mawe kwa mabati.those wives wa bros don't hate you wanakuchukua kama step mum wao.unafanya nini huyo kama wewe si Co wife ya your mum?wewe ni home breaker
You are planting a seed by calling her a lesbian. May you reap in plenty. Hiding behind keyboard doesn't mean you have hidden from God. May God hear this gal's cries and avenge her
