This video's example explains why men don't want to date single mothers. The father will always have a way back to the mother unless she can't stand his existence.
Any father that brings drama that causes the cops to show up has got to go!!! Shame my father didn't think that when he was kicking the sh*t out of me and my mother for years. This is not one way traffic, so don't make it sound like it is. 🙄🙄🙄
As a childless black man, this is why I don't deal with single mothers. And once the police are called? Relationship is over. He spent way too much time and effort and words on her. Like you said Phil, he just needs to move on. He's wasting his time on her.
EXACTLY. Once she calls the cops, it's a wrap. That ish can get you unalived in this day and age. You'd better 🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️ as fast as you can in the opposite direction!!!
@@notmebutyou8350you damn right!! I had my mother in law called the cops on me 24 years and till this day I don't talk to her! Any woman that calls police for a non violent incident so be left alone. Never go back to any woman that calls cops just because of arguing.
PSA fellas: Once I dated a single mom. I'm taking her back home after a date. It's MIDNIGHT. Baby daddy sitting on her porch, chillin, obviously waiting for her. She tells me, "Oh he just came by to see his son". At midnight?! I ain't that stupid, needless to say that's the last time she saw me 😂
@@nicholasnorman4179 What he means is it should be over. Those staying after are playing with fire, because they are messing with a woman who quite frankly does not care about their lives.
Naw, if she called the police he wouldn't be allowed in her house to make a video. I bet he was the one who called the police to get his things because hoes will try to fight you when get tired of their shti and leave
don’t get mad, don’t argue, don’t say anything, just leave and never look back. that’s what pops told me years ago. thanks pops for the real advice! rest in peace pops! ❤😢
In about a year... She will contact him again. In 8 months, her and the bio father will fall out again. Then she's gonna run around in the streets after for a few months. Then she gonna call him back into her life.
As a man, he failed and the only thing he should do is gather his belongings and depart with dignity and never look back. If he continues with this, then he shall be labeled a "SIMP," and respect removed for all eternity.
You Ain't Lyin', He's Grinning, Chatting, And Blindly Engaging With That Hyena ..... I'd Get ALLLLLL Of My Belongings, ESPECIALLY My Valuables And LEEEEEEEAAAAVVVVVVVEEEEE.
@@Johnshaft1970 straight up 🤣🤣 he better gone go ,instead of trying to argue with a hyena, calling the police is definitely a bad idea ,he shouldn't never look back
Dude raised the kid and then the real father comes in and she’s ready to get back with the real dad. She will always have a place for the actual dad. I don’t feel bad for the stepbf
I don't feel sorry for dudes like this. Too many women out here for you dudes to be playing step dad. Start your OWN FAMILY! At the end of the day it's still his Child.
Dear BM, when yall hear us say "yall need to have standards" please understand that includes not dealing with this mess even with BW👀..typical in this video everything
I'm assuming as in "when y'all hear us say" meaning women is telling us this but that cap because women are the main one Shaming us when we said we don't want single mothers
You'd be surprised how many cops in these situations secretly sympathize with brothers and understand how trifling some BW are. That brother wanted to give her a kid but thank God it didn't happen. That is not the type of woman you give a child.
She will be thinking in the future how come i can't get a good man that loves me and my kid the one i had was good but I messed it up for my sorry pookie baby father.🤦
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. THESE TYPES WILL NEVER ADMIT THAT "THEY" MESSED IT UP. THEY WILL SAY THAT THE GOOD GUY WAS WEAK AND LAME AND PETTY SO SHE LET HIM GO.
Bruh, get your TV, and all of your belongings and leave. When the baby daddy comes back he';s going to be mad there's no tv to play his games on, then he will leave.
She has no respect for the man that is taking care of her and her child. That's the bottom line. If she respected him, she would not have put him in a situation to be disrespected by her child's father. 4-15-2024(Mon)
Men are different! My ex can never talk to me or ask me for anything because my hate for her is that strong. Any woman who leaves cannot come back into my life. But women , on the other hand , would allow a guy who treats them dirt back into their lives in an instant.
You can tell he was raised by a single parent. There is no way in he'll a grown man is going to get into an emotional argument about a child that is not his.
Unbelievable‼️ This is absolutely CRAZY. As a female I don't co-sign any of this BS. What I will say is don't put all single mothers in the same box because every female is not the same. This is a small percentage. Also men and women need to do a better job of picking partners 💯 I see there is a total lack of accountability for picking trash ass ppl to partner up with.
Sorry...the danger and risk to a man is too great ..most single mothers take the step daddy for granted. and Step Daddy is last in line in that type of relationship. I have done it twice in my youth....never again.
I don’t blame the baby mama at this point, he’s got to have low standards to step into someone else’s family instead of creating his own family, this is why step fathers get no respect because the biological father see the step dad as a competitor and a line stepper…
Leave Her Trifling Behind, Take Your Belongings, Document The Whole Thing, And NEVER RETURN Brotha. Don’t Let Her Bring You Down. You’ve Been Vindicated Brotha, Move On.
Whatever stuff that he has in there he just needs to collect and leave, don’t even think about getting with another woman until he gets his business together (own place, car etc) and even when you do don’t date any single mothers again, consider this a lesson learned.
I don't care what anyone else says or feels about it or how hard it is to find a woman with no kids and running the streets. I refuse to ever again accept or lower standards to deal with a single baby momma ever again even if the intent is to just get cheeks because it's too much drama and stress and a price to pay with all that. Men talk about being kings well if you are then dealing with a single baby momma should be out of the question and forbidden no matter what, cause no real king is contributing to another man's seed and kingdom. Get your own queen and kingdom don't try to build off someone else's it's impossible!
Most chill police officer...EVER!! And that's a great thing, he's leaning on the counter & chilling. Cop is like: "do my people have these kinda problems? Oh yeah, we do. It just not usually on camera & the internet. Just don't do too much yelling you two, don't hit each other & just have a nice calm convo; don't make pull out my taser or handcuffs! Let me be chill by thus counter & just observe y'all!!"
Pookie ain't got to work Put food on the table Pay no bills But can get a place to stay Access to the debit card Access to the car Access to the drawls Whilst you get stuck with the bill, couch and jergens. God Bless America
I blame him for dating her, not her for allowing him to be the simp that so many single mothers are looking for. He knew better, he saw the red flags, I'm sure he was warned, and he STILL chose to put the cape on. Hope this is a lesson learned because true defeat is only when you repeat the same mistake again.
Nahh she needs every bit of blame .....is the guy naive and stupid..Yes..most likely raised by a single Mom. But passing blame to the victim is letting low life women like this a pass.
They die off eventually if her kids don't find God they right behind her keeping that cycle goin let them play them games ain't got nun but left over twat anyway
She was definitely dressed in smack down attire. That Playstation wasn't the only thing getting played with that morning. This story is a shining example of why no guy should sign up to be a step dummy.
This why some men are against dating single mothers. If that baby daddy got a pulse he can ALWAYS come back 😂. No need to feel sorry for him. This is what he chose to be apart of.
Wow, I am a female, and I was a single parent, that decided to stay by myself until my kids got grown, but this situation makes me say wow!!!! Bro, leave her alone and get you a woman with no children!! they’re out there, and they’re looking for a hard-working, nice looking man
I've learned that when you attempt to be in a Relationship with single mothers, you are getting in the way of The Most Highs Punishment he has in store for them being Disobedient...