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Man Gets Abusive With His Girlfriend On A Plane After Getting Drunk 

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On October 14th, 2023. Officers were called to the airport regarding a man who was physically abusing his girlfriend before boarding and the duration of the flight. Multiple witnesses on the flight stated that the man was extremely belligerent towards her, to the point where he took off his watch and threw it at her. When officers questioned the man, he stated that he had to much to drink and couldn't remember what had happened. When officers had questioned the woman, she said nothing sever had happened and was trying to protect the man, instead of stating what had happened.
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@the.h.is.silent
@the.h.is.silent Месяц назад
I was NOT expecting her boyfriend to look like her grandfather 😅
@queserasera7395
@queserasera7395 Месяц назад
Gold digger and sugar daddy.
@PsychotropicThunder
@PsychotropicThunder Месяц назад
Ya wtf? There’s definitely something more to this. Possibly sugar daddy situation, paid for her vacation and everything. Thats why she’s protecting him most likely. Unless she just has a thing for guys old enough to be her grandpa. No clue.
@lauriharding6286
@lauriharding6286 Месяц назад
He is gross and she's desperate for $$$!
@EnlightenedOne432
@EnlightenedOne432 Месяц назад
​@@PsychotropicThunderIt's not rocket science. Mutually beneficial relationship.
@scottdavidson526
@scottdavidson526 Месяц назад
How old was he? Probably sixty.
@TheNoonie50
@TheNoonie50 Месяц назад
Thank you police, for protecting this woman, and most importantly, give her good information and things to think about!
@SamH-zh9sx
@SamH-zh9sx Месяц назад
the fact that she was apologizing for this happening speaks volumes
@zarasbazaar
@zarasbazaar Месяц назад
She's trying to smooth things over, so he doesn't beat her worse afterwards. I hate bullies. I hate abusers.
@Biggestbank
@Biggestbank Месяц назад
Cop is great. She needed that conversation.
@Alwaystaykind
@Alwaystaykind Месяц назад
Keep your daughter away from this predator
@joetucker7497
@joetucker7497 Месяц назад
i admit this is the first time I’ve given respect to a man wearing a nickelback shirt
@bradishler5967
@bradishler5967 Месяц назад
Dude obviously got some money to have a wife/GF that looks 30+ years younger than him. Probably only reason she stays is the money
@vwboymom85
@vwboymom85 Месяц назад
The money and trips from this sugar daddy is not worth it. She needs to walk away and never look back. He will do worse behind doors.
@markieman64
@markieman64 Месяц назад
It honestly makes me quite sad to hear this lass apologise and try to explain how it's her fault that he drank so much. It sounds far too much like she's apologised for one or several people in the past for behaviour which is 100% on them.
@Richie8a8y
@Richie8a8y Месяц назад
What a beautiful policeman to offer his counseling to Amanda. Very heartfelt. And the abuser “just wants to get back to Amanda” I bet he does so he can control her narrative and continue abusing her.
@jefflibke7461
@jefflibke7461 13 дней назад
He should never been on the plane
@cjlomas
@cjlomas Месяц назад
What he´s telling you lady, is that he has seen your situation multiple times. Do something now, because it´s only going to get worse. Now it´s you, tomorrow it´s your kid too.
@MH-yj4qq
@MH-yj4qq Месяц назад
That’s so sad that she immediately is making excuses for him and saying the window shade slammed in her face was fine. Leave him!!!!
@TheUluxian
@TheUluxian Месяц назад
Imagine how big of a jerk you have to be that people will voluntarily hang around the airport after a long flight just to make sure the cops get your statement.
@notyourbusiness4387
@notyourbusiness4387 Месяц назад
🎯
@illmeeillmee9373
@illmeeillmee9373 Месяц назад
No, those people are good humans. One man says he will not stand to see a woman being hit because a man doesnt hit women. Standing after a flight is minor compared to a woman getting justice. This drunk could of killed her and ppl dont want the thought of that
@kimj1741
@kimj1741 Месяц назад
There’s no way that guy doesn’t remember what he did. He’s just trying to blame the liquor but he knows what he did. He’s a typical napoleon complex guy and she either thinks poorly of herself or has nowhere else to go and is reliant upon his money or house or some other financial benefit she gets from staying with him. All the witnesses said the same thing and that woman acted like it was no biggie so she’s trying to protect him for whatever reason. What a jerk he is and just imagine how he is in private.
@utubegirl00
@utubegirl00 Месяц назад
@@kimj1741the reason why she’s trying to protect him is because she’s a victim of domestic violence, she has probably gone through this many times with him and she feels like she’s going to make it worse (the abuse) if she tells the truth
@carrow1057
@carrow1057 Месяц назад
@@notyourbusiness4387 NOPE. He is getting nailed.
@jenniferrandolph4115
@jenniferrandolph4115 Месяц назад
If he does this in public, what does he do at home?🤔
@imsiyrenz
@imsiyrenz Месяц назад
Probably all lovey dovey and would NEVER hit her !!
@freespeech.7254
@freespeech.7254 Месяц назад
He is a keeper😂
@mmc9828
@mmc9828 Месяц назад
And she is way too pretty and also too young for him to have to put up with his crap!
@DMPSITIDS
@DMPSITIDS Месяц назад
Fun stuff
@DMPSITIDS
@DMPSITIDS Месяц назад
@@mmc9828he paid for her so.
@LittleHanoiAndMore
@LittleHanoiAndMore Месяц назад
This policeman, who took her to the hotel, is a great guy. He explained her the mechanics of domestic violence and opened her eyes. Her spontaneous hug was a proof that she did understand. Great, humane, police work.
@deborahbarksdale826
@deborahbarksdale826 Месяц назад
This is community policing at its finest. Showing care & compassion as well as providing important education and resources. Awesome job 👍🏽
@Lucy-f2o
@Lucy-f2o Месяц назад
Opened her eyes? Just how naiive are you? Do you really think this is her first rodeo? As if it were that easy. You talk like a child. Or a religious person.
@gillypiexo
@gillypiexo Месяц назад
​@@deborahbarksdale826 exactly 💯❤
@jonnysalvino6568
@jonnysalvino6568 Месяц назад
Cop of the yr for the win at the end
@cnhamilton1982
@cnhamilton1982 Месяц назад
As a DV victim that made me tear up. Thank you to that incredible officer!
@joepangia4413
@joepangia4413 Месяц назад
It always makes me nervous when physically abusive people use the erroneous phrase “I Love her to Death”
@1927su
@1927su Месяц назад
Oh me too!!
@jacquelinebutters1201
@jacquelinebutters1201 Месяц назад
Yes that comment from him could mean literally 😮.
@c.s.7266
@c.s.7266 Месяц назад
Indeed
@LuvsTruth-fs5nd
@LuvsTruth-fs5nd Месяц назад
IKR. He could be predicting the future with that statement.
@Iwoasasaned
@Iwoasasaned Месяц назад
And some take it literally 🙈
@66Cardiff
@66Cardiff Месяц назад
Alcohol doesn't make a-holes. Alcohol makes a-holes drunk!
@forallthestupidshit3550
@forallthestupidshit3550 Месяц назад
I am putting that in a shirt!
@cherylclick1664
@cherylclick1664 Месяц назад
right you are!!!
@lovepet4565
@lovepet4565 Месяц назад
Theyd be a cute couple! He liked her too ;)
@freespeech.7254
@freespeech.7254 Месяц назад
😂😂😂😂
@JoeCrow5542
@JoeCrow5542 Месяц назад
“Instant A-Hole”…..just add alcohol
@brooklynnk8667
@brooklynnk8667 Месяц назад
Her blaming herself for letting him get to drunk says it all
@whyamIbeingarrested
@whyamIbeingarrested Месяц назад
because he is going to blame her for him getting drunk and she will believe him.
@goodmorningsundaymorning4533
@goodmorningsundaymorning4533 Месяц назад
Exactly
@lightsoutisay
@lightsoutisay Месяц назад
yeahhh as soon as she was downplaying it, that made me sad for how much he's probably manipulated her :(
@ZzzMMZzz
@ZzzMMZzz Месяц назад
Look at her. Look at him. He just paid her way to leave the country for the first time at her big age. She's in the bag right now, and she wants to stay in it. 😂
@alisong2328
@alisong2328 Месяц назад
It's too bad. The airline is blaming her, too, for contributing to the situation.
@geraldfarr8279
@geraldfarr8279 29 дней назад
The airline shouldn't have banned HER from flying. She's a victim.
@lesbleus71
@lesbleus71 28 дней назад
Agreed! She didn't do anything wrong.
@krismartinez47
@krismartinez47 26 дней назад
I scrolled way too far to find this. American sucks.
@SerenityNow1962
@SerenityNow1962 25 дней назад
She wasn't banned only he was
@brnoamik
@brnoamik 24 дня назад
They dont want to shuttle barflies anymore. Those days are over friend.
@iMsOiNsO
@iMsOiNsO 22 дня назад
@@SerenityNow1962they banned both
@Esther-lm6pm
@Esther-lm6pm Месяц назад
She said "everything is fine... I promise" positive sign of an abuse victim.
@forallthestupidshit3550
@forallthestupidshit3550 Месяц назад
Along with "i'm so sorry. This is my fault. I'm so embarassed."
@dubrob210
@dubrob210 Месяц назад
Lol she isn't a victim. He's her meal ticket. He's probably frustrated with her spoiled ass. But that's his fault for putting up with her.
@shady62minx
@shady62minx Месяц назад
@@dubrob210 wow
@catgarza4947
@catgarza4947 Месяц назад
It doesn't matter. Nobody deserves to be disrepected in such a manner. Regardless of what her intentions are with him, he's a grown ass man​ and can date who he wants. He is still responsible for his actions, not her. @dubrob210
@globe2555
@globe2555 Месяц назад
@@dubrob210 Does it matter if he is her meal ticket? No matter what, he has no right to put his hands on her. She deserves a good life.
@eh-i1841
@eh-i1841 Месяц назад
He doesn’t recall anything he did,but he recalls perfectly everything he didn’t do.
@sandwichman100
@sandwichman100 Месяц назад
why is a pretty girl with an old drunk creep? being alone is better than this
@zarasbazaar
@zarasbazaar Месяц назад
"But I wouldn't drive!" He would totally drive.
@notyourbusiness4387
@notyourbusiness4387 Месяц назад
​@@sandwichman100money
@lindsayhendrix480
@lindsayhendrix480 Месяц назад
How convenient.
@c.s.7266
@c.s.7266 Месяц назад
Yep
@sweetpetite3689
@sweetpetite3689 Месяц назад
"I love her to death." Yeah, with guys like him, that's how it ends a lot of the time.
@annamariavalatka636
@annamariavalatka636 Месяц назад
All the time
@Bredaxe
@Bredaxe 29 дней назад
She's 31? What is she doing with that old drunk?
@andreoneal5337
@andreoneal5337 Месяц назад
this cop earned that hug and a spot in heaven if he keeps being like this
@SumatranRhino
@SumatranRhino Месяц назад
Please, young lady, leave this relationship! Listen to what the cop wisely told you at the end.
@LibraryLizard
@LibraryLizard Месяц назад
💰💵💰💵💰
@JayeK47
@JayeK47 Месяц назад
The second she bolts then that gravy train she's on is going off the rails.
@domjonasxo7641
@domjonasxo7641 Месяц назад
These young girls see on TikTok about using a rich man and you’ll never have to work a day in your life again. It’s so sad seeing intelligent, young, beautiful girls put theirselves through that. Work for your money.
@lolaottinger3038
@lolaottinger3038 Месяц назад
Without long term counseling, she may leave him, but she’ll find someone else just like him, because that’s what she thinks she’s worth.
@MissHWilson
@MissHWilson Месяц назад
When the officer mentioned needing to stay with him for financial reasons, she nodded. I really hope she gets the help she needs and protects herself and her son.
@fluffy_mcflooferson4635
@fluffy_mcflooferson4635 Месяц назад
It's awful watching HER apologize and downplay his behavior. He makes my skin crawl.
@deborahbarksdale826
@deborahbarksdale826 Месяц назад
Controlling her with his money. I’d be thinking about my kid witnessing this kind of disrespectful behavior and abuse. Make the move for him if not for yourself.
@brookelynnwu8016
@brookelynnwu8016 Месяц назад
The FBI investigating and possibly putting him on the no fly list is pure karma. 😂
@dagfincarp1113
@dagfincarp1113 Месяц назад
I grew up with an abusive stepfather who would beat my mother and then later say "Hey I was drunk. I don't remember what I did. Sorry." Those are the vibes I get from this scumbag.
@enasniec-neicsnoc9591
@enasniec-neicsnoc9591 5 дней назад
Wow, sorry you ever had to live with that scumbag. Sorry for your mom too. F**k people who do this, seriously.
@jenniferscott375
@jenniferscott375 Месяц назад
That cop was incredibly clear with the possible repercussions of women allowing abuse. Bravo Officer!👏
@waynebeasleymastermind
@waynebeasleymastermind Месяц назад
Very kind of him to make sure she checked into the hotel safely and counseled her.
@scottmichaels12
@scottmichaels12 Месяц назад
I think the fact that he told her that he totally believed that it happened will probably go a long way with her in the future. She may not get it right now, but she will remember his kindness and compassion and she will remember that this officer didn't automatically take the man's side just because he too is a man.
@Babette-cr2zu
@Babette-cr2zu Месяц назад
​@@scottmichaels12and it's not the first time he's hit her. She did a very unconvincing head shake. This officer was fantastic and has definitely seen a lot of domestic abuse in his career.
@barryberkmanblock
@barryberkmanblock Месяц назад
"That cop was incredibly honest about the likelihood of domestic abusers' level of violence increasing over time" is a way to phrase this sentiment that doesn't put the blame on women who are victims of abuse.
@DeviceAnathema
@DeviceAnathema Месяц назад
No one abused ALLOWS IT. You goddamn idiot.
@laurie5804
@laurie5804 Месяц назад
The police officer that brought the woman to her hotel is worth his weight in gold. He was 100% correct in the wisdom he shared with her on how these things typically escalate. It's not worth it. Ever.
@stickybearskinrug2046
@stickybearskinrug2046 Месяц назад
I was in tears that he let her hug him. What a special man to talk to her like a daughter. I don’t necessarily think that an age gap between partners is a big deal but abusers love younger people because they can control them. She also works in social services, so chances are she’s an empath/ always sees the good in people, and he is a bully, maybe a narcissist, who has her in a constant state of deregulation over what is real. I hope she gets far away bc there’s no way he hasn’t put hands on her before.
@ReneeC1
@ReneeC1 Месяц назад
Love that officer at the end of the video.. but she probably won't leave the AH. Classic Stockholm syndrome/abuse victim.
@hakimbandaru1915
@hakimbandaru1915 Месяц назад
These types of calls never lead anywhere other than wasted resources on an uncooperative woman.
@DaVoltaire
@DaVoltaire Месяц назад
@@hakimbandaru1915 You are a hateful, lonely person, I can tell.
@adamc2837
@adamc2837 Месяц назад
That guy was a creep! Why is he giving her life advice?
@lindas5719
@lindas5719 Месяц назад
I’m glad bystanders stood up for “Amanda”. You see something, say something..
@tbell7935
@tbell7935 Месяц назад
@lindas5719 just sad that Amanda won't stand up for herself more than she stood up for him.
@jeannerogers7085
@jeannerogers7085 Месяц назад
This is a good development in society.
@deborahbarksdale826
@deborahbarksdale826 Месяц назад
Definitely. Be nosy, contact the authorities and report what you see.
@kimberlyschultz1238
@kimberlyschultz1238 28 дней назад
I called the police on a neighbor, who was assaulting his live in girlfriend and not allowing her to leave. He totally harassed me, my family, and was threatening me every time he saw me. The police eventually arrested him but it was the worst experience!
@Jumping-cholla
@Jumping-cholla Месяц назад
I’m so glad that witnesses came forward. It’s so common for people to just turn a blind eye and say “not my business.”
@cindybostonpitt
@cindybostonpitt Месяц назад
I applaud this cop for taking the time to give such great advice to this woman.
@johntavolacci3594
@johntavolacci3594 Месяц назад
Is it me or does guy look way too old for her ? He looks like he could be her dad
@user-peach408
@user-peach408 Месяц назад
She is older than you think
@here4funyadig
@here4funyadig Месяц назад
Consistent alcohol ab*se definitely ages you
@ProudNana78
@ProudNana78 Месяц назад
@@user-peach408 She’s 31, I guarantee the man is at least twice her age
@helenmorgan7767
@helenmorgan7767 Месяц назад
I havent seen him yet, but could she be working? Oh yeah - they are not a couple!
@Mahyia-y6i
@Mahyia-y6i Месяц назад
It’s obviously a sugar daddy relationship.
@debbieroso8749
@debbieroso8749 Месяц назад
This cop is absolutely correct. God bless him for warning her about this drunk !! She can do so much better
@Sara.Rose.
@Sara.Rose. Месяц назад
What an insult it would’ve been to the witnesses too if they had just ‘written a report and let him go’, like the guy in FBI advised the officers. This particular officer especially was so polite yet gave her such proper points to think about
@nopenoway9875
@nopenoway9875 Месяц назад
I was expecting the guy to be mid thirties at the most, and d-baggie Then that gross midlife crisis pos walks in.
@32SQUID
@32SQUID Месяц назад
She can do better with me. I'd take her in a heartbeat.
@claudiadesoto2378
@claudiadesoto2378 Месяц назад
I was so proud of the officer, thank you sir , and your right she does not need him , she has a son that needs his mommy. Get away from the old man , that won’t stop doing what’s first in his book booze. Thought and prayers
@notme2day
@notme2day Месяц назад
You really think this is the first time she's heard that information?
@Sandra-dm8rd
@Sandra-dm8rd Месяц назад
She hesitated briefly when the officer asked her if this was the first time he had been abusive. That speaks volumes.
@Sara.Rose.
@Sara.Rose. Месяц назад
Yes, it was very obvious 😥... & oh! Of course he loves her to death
@billmelater655
@billmelater655 Месяц назад
She should be arrested for contributing to the delinquency of a Sugar Daddy.
@Mafia1977
@Mafia1977 Месяц назад
That's because he's probably been beating her azz!
@lorischellenberg3219
@lorischellenberg3219 Месяц назад
I agree, she was lying to protect him😢
@jncc1701
@jncc1701 Месяц назад
@@lorischellenberg3219she better change or she’ll end up a statistic
@jaynicoleproductions9611
@jaynicoleproductions9611 Месяц назад
Her telling the other passengers that if she moved her seat, it was going to make things worse tells me this isn’t the first time something like this has happened. She needs to leave! She doesn’t want her son grows up to become an abusive alcoholic but sadly I don’t think she will leave. And thank you to the passengers who defended her because a lot of people see things happen and don’t say a word!
@projectj3494
@projectj3494 Месяц назад
You can tell by how she responded in the elevator it wasn’t the first time she was just scared to say so..
@jaynicoleproductions9611
@jaynicoleproductions9611 Месяц назад
@@projectj3494 Exactly she couldn’t even confidently answer the question when he asked
@evil3794
@evil3794 Месяц назад
Broke my heart when she asked “do you really think it’s that bad?”
@rickdrewes6938
@rickdrewes6938 Месяц назад
@@evil3794 😱🥲
@deborahbarksdale826
@deborahbarksdale826 Месяц назад
Yes it’s that bad. Women must learn to value themselves more. Abuse is never ok.
@Kimmi-om2nv
@Kimmi-om2nv Месяц назад
It's her sugar daddy🙄 I don't feel sorry for her I gotta tell ya. Look at the man? He's what 5"5? 70yrs old? She been with him a year? Come on! She is putting up with it. He is probably paying her bills. ​@@deborahbarksdale826
@rodolfobeans3531
@rodolfobeans3531 Месяц назад
She's most likely dependent on dude for everything or she "loves" him😂
@allieblovesyou
@allieblovesyou Месяц назад
@@rodolfobeans3531yeah financial dependence is a manipulation tactic abusers use to make the person feel like they have no choice but to stay… so yeah if that’s the case it makes it extra sad! Disgusting take btw
@Booboofuzzbucket
@Booboofuzzbucket Месяц назад
Why does it feel like “I was drunk and I don’t remember” is a mantra well used effectively to escape consequences??
@bryanspink8042
@bryanspink8042 Месяц назад
He remembers every damn second of that flight and everything he put her through. That’s a classic case of controlling through intimidation and she’s scared to leave him. She needs to take a long look at that relationship and I would hope that the money isn’t worth the physical and mental abuse. If he does that in public I’d hate to see what he does behind closed doors.
@momsterzz
@momsterzz Месяц назад
Yet he’s blaming the tequila
@kimj1741
@kimj1741 Месяц назад
You can see he’s doing way too much to look harmless to the cops. He knows exactly what he did. I can’t believe the cops didn’t snatch him right up after hearing the witnesses. He’s a little shrimp with a big chip on his shoulder and for whatever reason she is protecting him unfortunately. The cops don’t need her to arrest him in a lot of states. I don’t know about Texas though.
@notme2day
@notme2day Месяц назад
@momsterzz So is she. Typical victim in denial.
@jimbo1959
@jimbo1959 Месяц назад
He wasn't too tough in front of grown Men was he??
@agentnightmare6486
@agentnightmare6486 27 дней назад
When they were patting him down he says "don't worry about the watch, it's broken", no delay or hesitation in answering. He 100% remembers everything. Speaking as an alcoholic here, if he truly didn't remember, he would've been surprised to find that out.
@k9momoftwo
@k9momoftwo Месяц назад
Things you don't want to say when being investigated for domestic battery..."I love her to Death"
@JudithGolding
@JudithGolding Месяц назад
I have told college students my entire teaching career to pay attention to that statement. The speaker may just mean it.
@whyamIbeingarrested
@whyamIbeingarrested Месяц назад
He wanted to go to her as fast as he could to finish the job he started on the plane.
@drill4206
@drill4206 Месяц назад
Herald laundry 😂😂😂 or as my pops called him H...H got away with it in Louisiana...but not overseas 😊 murder behind the walls or mansion ID channel. His brother was my dads best friend. That was the quote the ended the show with my dad was like H!! Wtf!!
@jacquelynn2051
@jacquelynn2051 Месяц назад
He has some money to spare and she’s afraid to fend for herself. I’m assuming she has no kids so girl leave this fool. If a man his age mistreats women it’s not getting any better.
@lornalewis9798
@lornalewis9798 Месяц назад
Yep. OJ said that about Nicole.
@cheryldavis2010
@cheryldavis2010 Месяц назад
Being drunk is not an excuse for assault and battery. (DV) The officer did a great job with her. And go Texas for upholding domestic violence laws!
@virg0_lem0nade
@virg0_lem0nade Месяц назад
lol yeah i guess Texas decided to take a two-second break from their constant punishment of women! Aaand break's over, back to criminalizing women who want medical care. Texas!! 😂
@TrueCrimeJunkie973
@TrueCrimeJunkie973 Месяц назад
There is NO excuse for any type of assault. Period. You do not get to justify putting your hands on another person without their consent. EVER.
@BradleyVolk3
@BradleyVolk3 Месяц назад
Not stickin up for this jerk but I used to live with a woman who insisted I drink with her every night before bed and wed both get smashed before sex and passing out. On several occasions I woke up and she was sleeping on the couch. When I asked why, she told me that when she would cuddle up with me I would push and kick her and I NEVER have been abusive and she never angered me. I had absolutely no recollection of what she was talking about. EACH TIME. I just wasnt a frequent drinker like her. Alcohol CAN DEFINITELY bring out that Jekyll and Hyde. Yeah, just like this, wasn't exactly a healthy relationship.
@disneyee7643
@disneyee7643 15 дней назад
It's my fault that he drank too much. Typical. How sad.
@Triatharob
@Triatharob Месяц назад
Great advice from the cop at the end. She needs to dump this guy now!
@crazeretass
@crazeretass Месяц назад
Doesn't look like it, she wants to be with him forever, dumb love of a woman
@Six3SixTay
@Six3SixTay Месяц назад
It’s because she’s don’t wanna leave that lavish life style he’s able to provide her with. So she’s now trained & programmed herself to put up with his bullsh*t to keep living that life & having that type of money. #SorryItsTrue🤦🏽‍♂️
@elizabethd8147
@elizabethd8147 Месяц назад
You can tell by her reaction she KNOWS he's right. You could see her thinking and acknowledging he's right....she just is like every other survivor and thinks he'll change and it's not that bad
@sandwichman100
@sandwichman100 Месяц назад
too often vulnerable women get involved with men like this end up under his control relies on his home, his car, his money loses contact with her friends and family look at him, hes an old nasty drunk
@rachdachamp6047
@rachdachamp6047 Месяц назад
This an example of a great cop. He is giving advice and support, professionally and genuinely. He is not judgmental or condescending, he is genuinely trying to let this lady know that this is the first step in the cycle of abuse. It seems small now until he IS beating you and injuring you. I hope she takes his advice. She looks to be far too young to let that senior citizen treat her like that.
@justjoanish
@justjoanish Месяц назад
I was wondering about that apparent age difference. That usually happens when somebody doesn't have a great support system or sense of self-worth..
@lapukas
@lapukas Месяц назад
He's the meal ticket. That is why she doesn't want to leave, he has all the money. Very common for abusers to make there victims financially dependent on them.
@GrainneDhub-ll6vw
@GrainneDhub-ll6vw Месяц назад
@@lapukas I don't think she's a gold digger. I think she's looking for someone who makes her feel safe... and he does, until he gets drunk. Right now, he doesn't get drunk very often and she can "usually" talk him out of drinking too much. But if she can't manage his alcohol intake, then it is all her fault when he abuses her because she failed to regulate how much he drank. In other words, I think she has daddy issues.
@deannajarrett382
@deannajarrett382 Месяц назад
​ you should not expect the girlfriend to restrict his drinking. He is an adult and needs to learn to regulate his drinking on his own. Trying to restrict someone from drinking additional alcohol is very dangerous. She has known him for 6 years and they have been a couple for a year and I'm sure he has done this to her multiple times in the past. If she does not want to remove herself from the relationship that is her choice. However, she knows the options that are available to her. I don't believe the man actually blacked out, he is using his excessive alcohol intake as an excuse to hopefully keep him from jail.
@GrainneDhub-ll6vw
@GrainneDhub-ll6vw Месяц назад
@@deannajarrett382 I didn't communicate clearly. I don't expect her to regulate another adult human being's choices in any way, she has accepted his expectation that it is "her job" to do so. He's set it all up so that no matter what happens, he can blame her for the outcome. I think what is holding her in the relationship is a lot stronger than mere financial support. She has daddy issues and he has found the ideal victim.
@flowernbloom6727
@flowernbloom6727 Месяц назад
Poor woman was blaming herself for "letting a grown old man drink too much". He's the only one responsible for his actions.
@honestandfair1572
@honestandfair1572 Месяц назад
Therapy not vacation
@officebear4637
@officebear4637 Месяц назад
Poor woman? Lmao she needs to grow a brain and should’ve dumped him ages ago.
@elijahishere
@elijahishere Месяц назад
​@@officebear4637 I would go on a tirade about the cycle of abuse and what it does to someone mentally, but something tells me you know that already. So I'll just call you an asshole and a troll. Either way you get the attention you wanted. Loser.
@suelily4281
@suelily4281 2 дня назад
There's no way she could have stopped him anyway. If she had tried he would just have been abusive earlier.
@jackieharris4681
@jackieharris4681 Месяц назад
He looks old enough to be her dad !!
@valealmirati
@valealmirati Месяц назад
I love this Police Officer, good guy vibes, intelligent, to the point but with kindness.
@madmommy
@madmommy Месяц назад
What I noticed is the fact that three different couples, who probably just want to get through customs and get on their way, felt strongly enough about what they witnessed to willingly remain with the officer to be questioned. It’s what would be categorized as “reasonable third party” in terms of witnessing something. They have no ulterior motives, whereas the girlfriend may be an abuse victim who is unwilling to speak up.
@beautifulmess3217
@beautifulmess3217 Месяц назад
This woman needs to spend time not in a relationship and work on loving herself.
@JayMich29
@JayMich29 Месяц назад
💯👏👏👏
@patricblack1
@patricblack1 Месяц назад
Not really. What she needs to do is stop messing with Gross, sloppy, crusty, decrepid old men just for money. It's sad.
@phillipfuller7382
@phillipfuller7382 Месяц назад
👏👏👏👏
@alexlogan202
@alexlogan202 Месяц назад
But what about the house and the car?
@momsterzz
@momsterzz Месяц назад
And supporting herself
@amenunley
@amenunley 25 дней назад
The verbal abuse the witnesses heard tells the entire story. He called her a POS, bitch and the “C word” He’s done this so many times, he was comfortable talking to her like that in front of ppl. Imagine what she goes through at home.
@minorca1
@minorca1 Месяц назад
He is nothing but a coward and a bully. Blaming on drinking and not remembering. She can do way better than that “ thing”
@christianaschnabel9832
@christianaschnabel9832 Месяц назад
Oh my goodness, please leave this creep, you can do so much better than he. He's not gonna change, he's a drunk, you're a beautiful lady, and deserve so much more. Move on from this guy
@notme2day
@notme2day Месяц назад
He wanted a trophy looking GF, she got a bowling ball looking a-hole BF.
@Jeff-sp7bg
@Jeff-sp7bg Месяц назад
Strong and independant
@virg0_lem0nade
@virg0_lem0nade Месяц назад
She wants the old man's money lol😂😂😂
@staffryte951
@staffryte951 Месяц назад
💵💵💵💵💵💵💵
@vivelaresistance3239
@vivelaresistance3239 Месяц назад
To the man in the Nickelback T. Thank you for speaking up.
@emilyanderson148
@emilyanderson148 Месяц назад
Rat
@AnnaNotSmith
@AnnaNotSmith Месяц назад
So Emily if a child tells police they got molested or beat does that make them a rat? How do we make an acceptation for a child and not a victim of domestic violence? It’s not like he’s snitching on a drug dealer. He’s snitching on a POS
@lindapowell1565
@lindapowell1565 Месяц назад
Yes!! Thank you for all speaking up!
@emilyanderson148
@emilyanderson148 Месяц назад
@@AnnaNotSmithThis analogy is absurd! Two consenting adults and a child are polar opposites. Your comparison is ignorant and preposterous.
@johnsampson6387
@johnsampson6387 Месяц назад
@@AnnaNotSmith The woman didn't ask for him. A lot of women are messed up and choose to stay in abusive relationships. Honestly, don't bother trying to help them because they will side with their abuser and then turn on you for trying to intervene. It's totally different when the victim is actively asking for help.
@PoliceCamView1
@PoliceCamView1 Месяц назад
A man's true character comes out when he's drunk
@shawndashno6022
@shawndashno6022 24 дня назад
That's a true statement. My friends actually enjoy drinking with me, when I do, because they say I'm the entertainment! I'm usually the guy that gets things going. Games, movies just shooting the shit! It's nice to know my friends not only enjoy my company, but trust me to be drunk around them. 😂😂 Some people are just intolerable or downright violent. That never makes for a fun night.
@JHeyHeyHey
@JHeyHeyHey Месяц назад
Being drunk doesn't create your personality traits. It reveals it. This wasn't the first time. I hope she finds the strength to leave.
@Decbaby15
@Decbaby15 Месяц назад
Mic drop
@SFNena415
@SFNena415 Месяц назад
Money, lifestyle, and ego will keep her there.
@Foreverarose8
@Foreverarose8 Месяц назад
I don’t think it reveals your true personality, I think what it does is impairs your good senses and makes you act like an idiot. This man most likely abuses her while sober too.
@PuPuChangg
@PuPuChangg Месяц назад
False
@ByHerHand
@ByHerHand Месяц назад
@@SFNena415actually, what will keep her there is fear.
@kristiebrown5808
@kristiebrown5808 Месяц назад
I'm just sad she doesn't know her worth. Run girl. Don't settle. EVER.
@IAmRetiredSoon
@IAmRetiredSoon Месяц назад
She knows her worth. She is with an old guy. And he probably has a lot of money. And the money is keeping her there.
@elterrifico9522
@elterrifico9522 Месяц назад
Says the cat lady
@apollonia-ava
@apollonia-ava Месяц назад
⁠@@elterrifico9522Says the Stone Age Guy 😂😂😂
@slobodanreka1088
@slobodanreka1088 Месяц назад
@@elterrifico9522 You're going to get ratioed back to prehistoric times.
@danielleday4345
@danielleday4345 Месяц назад
She's making excuses for him which is what most abused people do its not how he really is at home.. which we know it really is!
@janisecristina4238
@janisecristina4238 Месяц назад
That’s his girlfriend but he has on a wedding ring 🙂 I bet the wife is happy he’s on that ‘business trip’ SMH
@Mr2cool_4u
@Mr2cool_4u Месяц назад
😂
@lizerbeams
@lizerbeams Месяц назад
I had a hunch!
@tomh.7586
@tomh.7586 Месяц назад
It looks like she was wearing a ring as well.
@OmphaleOpsimath
@OmphaleOpsimath Месяц назад
That officer was lovely toward her. She needed those kind words from a good man.
@keg1976
@keg1976 Месяц назад
Good job on the passengers for reporting it! God Bless and protect her from that evil man. Girl you deserve better ❤. He is not worth it.
@karenneill9109
@karenneill9109 Месяц назад
Yeah. When you have three couples all concerned enough to intervene, there’s something really wrong. Good on them for stepping up.
@johnsampson6387
@johnsampson6387 Месяц назад
They didn't change anything. She won't leave him. They should've just minded their own business and not wasted their time. She could've left him already if she wanted to.
@mrshappilymarried1
@mrshappilymarried1 Месяц назад
He's a 'wise guy' and an asshole but he Pays The Cost to Be The Boss...that's why she stays...
@mothom323
@mothom323 Месяц назад
She needs to get far away from him.
@forallthestupidshit3550
@forallthestupidshit3550 Месяц назад
But then who will pay her rent?
@dihe1392
@dihe1392 Месяц назад
But the money keeps her going back to 😢
@patricblack1
@patricblack1 Месяц назад
Dumb women like her stay for the money. As gross as he looks she's with him. Nasty. EWWW!
@kdallas3966
@kdallas3966 Месяц назад
She needs to learn close quarters combat skills and get some self esteem
@PAMELAPORTER-ci7mr
@PAMELAPORTER-ci7mr Месяц назад
​​@@dihe1392 She's missing self-esteem, self-worth, & needs help. This happens when children are traumatized.
@DianeNims-gg7lf
@DianeNims-gg7lf Месяц назад
Fact: my niece’s husband was abusive, police called, arrested him, took him to jail, let him out after a few hours, he went home to my niece and two children, he soon after killed my niece and himself before sunrise. Children had nowhere to go for a time. Get help!! Don’t wait another day!! Get out!!
@gulfbaby230
@gulfbaby230 Месяц назад
I’m so sorry that happened to you. So sad about your niece. I wish she could have gotten help. I hope her children will be okay one day.
@Please_Dont_Call_It_Frisco
@Please_Dont_Call_It_Frisco Месяц назад
I'm so sorry that happened to your niece and her kids. :( People are wondering what he's like at home. I don't have to wonder. My ex-husband is a monster. Behind closed doors, you get thrown across rooms, tied up with orange electrical cords and left in the dark so he can creep up behind you and hold a knife to your neck while breathing into your ear "How does it feel to know you're about to die?" It is being dragged around the house by your hair until you have bloody patches where your hair used to be. "Now you're so ugly nobody will ever want you. Then shoving you in the car and shoving you out in the middle of traffic with a half-bald head. It's manipulating your family until they side with him because you've done such a stellar job covering for him over the years. It's a fucking nightmare. Even after it's over.
@LLJerseyGirl
@LLJerseyGirl Месяц назад
My condolences for your loss and prayers for those children.
@amir4r803
@amir4r803 Месяц назад
Blessings
@barbi3fr3sh06
@barbi3fr3sh06 Месяц назад
I’m sorry about your niece…but your comment does her a GREAT disservice. She sought help and the police DID NOTHING. That is the REAL ISSUE. Women literally get told by law that there is nothing they can do unless something “more serious” happens. The real problem is that law needs to take this more serious so more men will understand the severity of their actions and learn that women are not merely objects that they are entitled to.
@rakeshk761
@rakeshk761 Месяц назад
She is just with him for $$$$. Props to the cop that gave her life advice, he is a guy with heart of gold.
@meeofcourse4152
@meeofcourse4152 24 дня назад
Yes. Sugar daddy ... Taking her out of the country for the first time. Did she say she has a 5 year old?
@iMsOiNsO
@iMsOiNsO 22 дня назад
Yup
@carmen.g440
@carmen.g440 15 дней назад
And he’s just with her because he sees her as young and easier to manipulate
@brennanleckey4264
@brennanleckey4264 Месяц назад
It's crazy that 5 strangers reported this because they thought she deserved better. Unfortunately it doesn't seem like she does for herself.
@DetectiveTrupo203
@DetectiveTrupo203 Месяц назад
Very well said. The disparity between how nonchalant she was about it compared to how concerned random strangers were about it says a lot.
@alisong2328
@alisong2328 Месяц назад
I'm sure she's trying to downplay things out of fear of more abuse. It takes planning and support to leave abusive relationships.
@zarasbazaar
@zarasbazaar Месяц назад
She's terrified of setting him off more. That's how abused people act. She's also probably numb to it at this point and doesn't see anymore how bad it is.
@zeppelin462
@zeppelin462 Месяц назад
She’s in an abusive relationship and clearly scared. The way she acknowledged the love and support of the cop at the end of the video shows she knows she needs to get out. Cut her some slack.
@bethdavis6863
@bethdavis6863 Месяц назад
Then she needs to think about her child!
@barbarareynolds3506
@barbarareynolds3506 Месяц назад
This guy is very used to bargaining his way out of domestic abuse.
@matkakinder8549
@matkakinder8549 Месяц назад
When he said" It's my credit cards that paid for the trip" I could see his true self
@trishayamada807
@trishayamada807 Месяц назад
Yep, he’s paying for her and she takes the abuse rather than work for a good life. They are both pathetic.
@matchahorchata5404
@matchahorchata5404 Месяц назад
​@trishayamada807 she is the victim. He is the predator. Go find a different video w the narrative you're trying to push. You're actually the pathetic one 😂
@bullcrap9409
@bullcrap9409 Месяц назад
@trishayamada807 So you know she doesn’t work or study or take care of kids or run a business or…? Can you tell me where in the video you gathered all that information?
@trashfire9641
@trashfire9641 Месяц назад
​@matchahorchata5404 Big mad 😂 The comment you were replying to was 100% correct. No need to be so nasty. 😂
@trashfire9641
@trashfire9641 Месяц назад
@bullcrap9409 Now she runs a business and takes care of kids? Huh, wow! That's some amazing narrative there.
@kkerr1993
@kkerr1993 Месяц назад
My son’s father abused me for months! It started with shouting while I was pregnant. Then he shoved me for the first time when I was 2 weeks postpartum (I had a C-section). Then he stole and destroyed my property, he hit me in the face and when he put me in a chokehold, that’s when I finally had the courage to go to the police. I have a permanent restraining order, full custody of my son and the best advice I can give is to LEAVE IMMEDIATELY! Don’t wait till you get your airway cut off!
@dianefisher8646
@dianefisher8646 Месяц назад
I dont agree with the airline banning her when she's done nothing. She's the victim. They shouldn't ban her!!
@robincarroll2779
@robincarroll2779 Месяц назад
She is not a victim. She’s a volunteer she could’ve gotten help right then in there.
@velcro-is-a-rip-off
@velcro-is-a-rip-off Месяц назад
She volunteered to be abused? Are you okay?? Just evil!! ​@@robincarroll2779
@pyrobison2002
@pyrobison2002 Месяц назад
She can’t fly without her Husband, might as well
@scottmichaels12
@scottmichaels12 Месяц назад
I agree, but she claims that she's not a victim of anything. Don't get me wrong, I totally believe that he did everything the witnesses said that he did and he is an abusive a**hole and I believe that she's too scared to speak up. But if she says he did nothing wrong, then it probably is best for the airline to ban her also because at the bare minimum the two of them caused a major disturbance on a plane at 30,000 ft. That is extremely dangerous!
@patricknoone171
@patricknoone171 Месяц назад
@dianefisher8646 I'm not there yet but that's bonkers. She should get a free ticket anyway in country to get away
@baileygray404
@baileygray404 Месяц назад
God, that hug at the very end broke my heart into pieces. Run, far and fast. You'll be okay.
@BigRed-Heron
@BigRed-Heron Месяц назад
Run Forest Ruunn!!
@SoCalNative67
@SoCalNative67 Месяц назад
American airlines banned a victim from flying with them? I completely understand why they'd ban him & she NEEDS to leave him but banning her is BS.
@laram00
@laram00 Месяц назад
Good for American Airlines both baned👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽‼️
@djarumz
@djarumz Месяц назад
Well that's some Grade A bull. She was 100% a victim in that situation, AA just couldn't be bothered to do a proper investigation, easier to just ban them both. It's just laziness and easier on their part, they don't give a crap, plenty more unbanned customers they can take money from. AA would probably do the same if someone tried to punch you on a flight, and you just defended yourself .. they will go well both were fighting, both banned. That is their lazy corporate bottom dollar culture.
@rinlo1424
@rinlo1424 Месяц назад
​@@laram00Why should she have gotten banned?
@kathrynstankiewicz5926
@kathrynstankiewicz5926 Месяц назад
@@laram00, why is that good? Wouldn’t you want the VICTIM to be able to fly home? Remember the VICTIM is not at fault.
@hotsnatchfever
@hotsnatchfever Месяц назад
@@rinlo1424Some people don’t understand or agree that the abuse cycle is real. It’s not anything you should work yourself up over. Some people ESPECIALLY on the internet are just horrible and lack humanity. Don’t worry yourself about it.
@CP2417hd
@CP2417hd 25 дней назад
Girl run as far away as you can from this “man”. Get out of this relationship.
@altdeadpool8509
@altdeadpool8509 Месяц назад
This isn't the first time she's been hit by him. The way she's talking about him reminds me of how I used to talk about my ex who was abusive. It's really hard to break free of relationships like that. I hope she leaves him.
@annamariavalatka636
@annamariavalatka636 Месяц назад
Been there. Got out
@jennywinget1144
@jennywinget1144 Месяц назад
@@annamariavalatka636 Me too.
@TheRealDevilDoll
@TheRealDevilDoll Месяц назад
Same here. I made excuses for him, took the blame and downplayed everything. Congrats to all of us who freed ourselves from that shit! 💖
@nickTeeKaystrickland
@nickTeeKaystrickland Месяц назад
What a great officer. Guy went the extra mile for sure. Nice seeing cops who legitimately care about people.
@cherylclick1664
@cherylclick1664 Месяц назад
aww be real... most of them are like that
@xXsharpiescarsXx
@xXsharpiescarsXx Месяц назад
Hit me right in the heart when she asked him for a hug lol, just shows you how far even a smidge of compassion can go.
@Dawned-13
@Dawned-13 Месяц назад
Many of them do…
@selina9091
@selina9091 Месяц назад
How was he so drunk, so much so that he blacked out, but now he's just fine ? He needs to be taken in.
@isaiah9634
@isaiah9634 Месяц назад
Damn on the elevator when he asked her "is this the first time he's hit you" you can tell she wanted to say no but she is STILL trying to protect his character. Very sad.
@drjbruh7387
@drjbruh7387 Месяц назад
This cop deserves a medal for how he handled talking to her about domestic abuse.
@melziporlin4559
@melziporlin4559 Месяц назад
Sobriety is a beautiful thing.
@carolbeehave
@carolbeehave Месяц назад
Truer words were never spoken.
@marydumois4242
@marydumois4242 Месяц назад
Amen!
@DDBBK
@DDBBK Месяц назад
It sure is, especially when you've lived on the other side of the fence.
@patricknoone171
@patricknoone171 Месяц назад
@melziporlin4559 alcohol doesn't make you abuse women. I'm 53. It will never happen
@91KP_SilentEchoes
@91KP_SilentEchoes Месяц назад
Such an understatement 😌
@meeofcourse4152
@meeofcourse4152 24 дня назад
She said it ... She'd never been out of the country before... He's older, she's 31...= Sugar daddy she doesn't want to give up. May she go on the right path.
@cynthiakritika5047
@cynthiakritika5047 Месяц назад
Ladies, never waste your good years on a mean and abusive man. Your self worth is worth more than anything that money can buy.
@scottielover5415
@scottielover5415 Месяц назад
Well said!
@jonnysalvino6568
@jonnysalvino6568 Месяц назад
He is her meal tix if I had to guess she has a kid with someone else no guy girl wants no old drunk
@sharoncollins7722
@sharoncollins7722 Месяц назад
I wasted my best years but now have been on my own for 12 years. 👍🏻
@fran6872
@fran6872 Месяц назад
Period!!
@cynthiakritika5047
@cynthiakritika5047 Месяц назад
@sharoncollins7722 👏🙌
@lisafenno4563
@lisafenno4563 Месяц назад
Girl......run as fast as you can. This is a major red flag.
@tp5561
@tp5561 Месяц назад
I really don’t think she cares one bit, he has a wedding on
@catherinedoyle1194
@catherinedoyle1194 Месяц назад
Aint that the truth!
@mazwide9400
@mazwide9400 Месяц назад
His going to be super mad at her now,and blame her for his behavior. She better leave him.
@EdilaLewis
@EdilaLewis Месяц назад
This type of guys just escalates to worse they both need professional help
@Tallblondesmile
@Tallblondesmile Месяц назад
That’s very true.
@Klisa21
@Klisa21 Месяц назад
She will be just fine
@Jason-TheChad-Muska_circa1995
@Jason-TheChad-Muska_circa1995 Месяц назад
Guys we are all jumping to conclusion here. His behavior is absolutely despicable. I personally would have reacted badly watching him do that because I don't stand for men putting their hands on women and I'm always willing to catch a charge in that situation too discipline them for their actions. However, it is Absolutely possible that this may be a complete one-off behavior for him. It is possible. I have had friends who have known since I was in middle school end up going out and getting drunk and going overboard on a type of liquor that they normally don't drink and turn into an absolute monster for the first time in their lives and do some reprehensible things that is absolutely outside their character and never happen to get after that. So that is definitely possible here. We don't know these people one bit. We can jump to conclusions all we want due to the fact that we're used to watching these videos and used to seeing men who do this repeated behavior or women who do this repeated behavior. But we simply just don't know.
@susiekathryn8570
@susiekathryn8570 29 дней назад
One awesome police officer!
@Rebbalicious
@Rebbalicious Месяц назад
That last cop was amazing, he is so right - she needs to stop protecting him and tolerating the abuse.
@maskedman1337
@maskedman1337 Месяц назад
Good on the bystanders for saying something!
@sherrydaum6860
@sherrydaum6860 27 дней назад
I don't care how much money he has Why else would she be with this creep
@justd4377
@justd4377 Месяц назад
You have a 4 hour head start on the guy, get on the next flight to Florida, when you get home grab some stuff and stay with a friend and get a PO...never speak to this guy again. He said he loves you to death......and that's what can happen to you. Listen to the cop he sees this daily.
@John-bu2xt
@John-bu2xt Месяц назад
The majority of Woman aren't that smart. They will never figure out such common sense things.
@frigid4real
@frigid4real Месяц назад
What's that paper really going to stop?
@notme2day
@notme2day Месяц назад
@frigid4real You'd be surprised at just how much that piece of paper can and does stop some people. I was granted a lifetime RO against my ex husband. Someone who's not crazy just very abusive and controlling, who's very sucessful with a lot to lose, ... that little piece of paper can stop more than you'd know. On the other hand, someone with nothing to lose... yeah, that papers less than worthless in too many cases. Although sometimes that piece of paper leads police straight to the suspect. No comfort to you if your gone though.
@arribaficationwineho32
@arribaficationwineho32 Месяц назад
Whzt is a PO?
@GailButcher-dw5fi
@GailButcher-dw5fi Месяц назад
​@@arribaficationwineho32a PO is a Protective Order...
@kathykaehler7304
@kathykaehler7304 Месяц назад
This Officer is outstanding!!!! Not just as an officer with his professionalism, but with his humanity!!!! Hope she takes his advice!!!
@graysquirrelss
@graysquirrelss Месяц назад
A boyfriend grabbed my arm once in public and wouldn’t let me go. He was angry because I wanted to leave the date. I eventually broken away (because a man intervened). I called the cops and waited for a ride to pick me up. I never dated him again.
@deborahbarksdale826
@deborahbarksdale826 Месяц назад
That’s how you do it! 👍🏽
@Shannonbarnesdr1
@Shannonbarnesdr1 Месяц назад
im glad people were concerned and spoke up ! i hope this woman wises up and gets out of this relationship ! she is apologizing and acting like its no big deal, she was getting beaten bullied and harassed, in public, on a damn airplane, so imagine what he has done to her behind closed doors.
@Kaiagirl93
@Kaiagirl93 Месяц назад
Disgusting.
@peggyking9543
@peggyking9543 Месяц назад
Her young son may need to stay with Dad for a while. Don't ever expose him to that abusive "boyfriend". And if the Dad sees this video...
@tp5561
@tp5561 Месяц назад
He said they’ve known each other 6 yrs and her kid is 5, he could be dad. I wonder what his wife thinks of that?
@TrailerPark_PI
@TrailerPark_PI Месяц назад
I want to hug that cop, too! I pray she's able to get help for herself so she can make healthy choices. I've been there; it's a lot of work, but when you come out on the other side free of whatever is driving the insecurities, it's amazing.
@Illustriouss13
@Illustriouss13 Месяц назад
This officer is an angel for talking to her as he did. My girl died from DV. Blunt force trauma to the head. Her abuser now raises her son. It’s been terrible trying to get justice for her. If you are in a DV situation please get out. I can promise your family doesn’t want to be fighting for justice like we are 😢 Rip Emely ❤ we will get there for you my girl
@bd12544
@bd12544 Месяц назад
I’m so sorry. What a tragedy.
@32SQUID
@32SQUID Месяц назад
Are you freal about your girl dying from domestic violence?
@Illustriouss13
@Illustriouss13 Месяц назад
@@32SQUID yes her name is Emely Nieves from Lowell Mass. We have a change petition with over 25,000 signatures. Brooke McKenna covered her story.
@madamaurore3563
@madamaurore3563 Месяц назад
I'm so sorry for you and your family. That is gutwrenching.😢
@Illustriouss13
@Illustriouss13 Месяц назад
@@madamaurore3563 thank you. About 9 months after my friend died her abusers mom was arrested and then bailed out of jail the same day by the mayor 😕
@alyson9710
@alyson9710 Месяц назад
Anyone notice the wedding ring on his finger? 👀
@kerrys1881
@kerrys1881 Месяц назад
Me...right away! What the heck?
@mistybarillas3599
@mistybarillas3599 Месяц назад
Props to the officer.. Ma’am if u ever see this please get out. I was there. Not on a plane but it got to where it was everyday. The controlling, mental abuse & physical abuse. He paid people at my school to watch me. This was someone i knew since we were little kids. I finallly got the nerve and strength to leave. He stalked me for 7 months. He started dating someone else and still stalked me. I seen her one day at a store with 2 black eyes and i couldn’t just pass her. I told her all i went through and she said she knows. He calls her by my name and she couldn’t say anything. Even when they were in bed she had to lay there and take him calling her my name. She tried to get mad in the beginning but she didn’t want to get hit anymore. I asked her why does she stay and she said she loved him and has noone. Her daughter’s now visit her at the cemetery and take her grandchildren there too. If there are so many random people seeing what you’re denying then there’s a problem. Please get out. They will promise and beg but it won’t change. Great job officer 👏🏻👏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@UranusKiller
@UranusKiller Месяц назад
Well said! It was really great to see that officer attempt to get her to connect the dots and see the light. He did an excellent job. He wasn't preachy or overbearing and was very conscious of his words and affect.
@lindatobin2123
@lindatobin2123 Месяц назад
Wow your story is incredible,and I’m so glad You got out,and to the women he killed RIP
@tt14life90
@tt14life90 Месяц назад
This is a sugar daddy situation. He's twice her age. That's not a boyfriend. He treats her like shit cuz he pays for her time. She's part to blame staying and excusing this. He could be her father he's so much older than her. This is a pay to play trip. He's rich and she wants that money.
@k9momoftwo
@k9momoftwo Месяц назад
I love that cop for his advice
@sandpiperlane9309
@sandpiperlane9309 Месяц назад
Great advice but unfortunately I think it went in one ear and out the other.
@kimely9621
@kimely9621 Месяц назад
I love that officer talking to her at the end, I really hope she rethinks the relationship
@LancerX916
@LancerX916 Месяц назад
She is a classic victim. Apologizing for his behavior. You know this was not the first time she has had to talk to cops about him.
@KingKong_CH
@KingKong_CH Месяц назад
They are made for each other
@here4funyadig
@here4funyadig Месяц назад
As a gal who has been in this situation, it is such a weird situation to be in. The ab*ser is usually a jerk even in public and it is very embarrassing and humiliating to try and explain away exactly why you are involved with a person like that. Also, when talk to someone about it, then someone will be holding you accountable by asking you about following through with separating from that person, and it's never an easy task to cut them out of your life.
@LancerX916
@LancerX916 Месяц назад
@@here4funyadig I am a male who was in an abusive relationship. I did leave when she started throwing stuff at me and damaging my property, like my car. Was it hard? Yes, but it had to be done. She even stalked me for a few months until she met her next victim. So I am speaking as someone that has gone through this before.
@here4funyadig
@here4funyadig Месяц назад
@@LancerX916 I'm glad you got out ! And I hope you are living a wonderful and happy life now ☺️
@johnsampson6387
@johnsampson6387 Месяц назад
Everyone needs to mind their own business. She chose to be with him. Maybe she gets off on being abused? I dunno...a lot of women are strange like that.
@DeltaDawn22
@DeltaDawn22 Месяц назад
Wait, their only Boyfriend/Girlfriend yet he's wearing a Wedding ring, hmmm? 🤔 He claims, "blackout" drunk, STOP drinking, you HAVE a problem! 🤦‍♀️
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