It’s the hardest thing that any medical personnel have to do, and I wish you much strength & courage when you need it and never forget you are never alone. There are plenty of people who do what you do I say this because of known plenty of nurses who have gotten to a point where While they have been the miracle workers that have saved lives I call it miracle workers OK I mean they’re not performing the miracle but it’s the job they do is there’s no word for and I have known at least one that has taken their own life only hear about it months later my own family was afraid to tell me I lost too many people that month.
New metric of loneliness: If you call someone, tell them "I just wanted to say I love you". If they immediately start worrying about you possibly dying - yea you're pretty cooked.
Listen, this really depends. I don't tell people that I love them. I should, but I'm scared it would get awkward because I never have. If I out of the blue tell my best friend of 16 years that I love her (platonically. Which i feel like id have to say because I'm gay, which would make things more awkward), she'll probably be concerned or weirded out. Because I've never said that. If I call my parents and just say "I love you" they wouldn't be weirded out by it. But that also depends on how I say it. It all depends on how you say it and who to, and if you regularly say "I love you" or not.
@@PheonixLoveas the straight friend in the relationship, you don’t have to qualify it. She tells me she loves me. I’ve told her the same. She’s been my friend for over 20 years. When she came out to me, I just said “ok”. It changed nothing about our friendship. She’s still basically an aunt to my kids. She visits me more than her family. It’s ok to just love someone. I love her too.
I have the last voicemail left by my best friend of 50 years before she died on Nov 3rd, 2023. I was listening to it last week and thought I had erased it. I was hysterical until I realized I hadn't. That event was comparable to reliving her death... I miss her so very much...😢😭
Hugs. I am sorry for your loss, I understand. I remember the day I realized my Dad’s last VM to me was cleared off our home phone 20 years ago. Now I hear his voice in my head and the world is okay for a moment
I'm a caregiver. I have had to make the phone calls. Even held the phone for the entire conversation. It is very hard. Listening to final words to loved ones. Having to console those left behind. One of my clients even had a conversation about this with me. He asked me if he was going. I didn't want to answer. But, he gave me the "dad" look. Straight answer. No BS. I told him he was. To see the acceptance on his face was heartbreaking. He did not last long after that. I was there with his family. Never let a moment pass you by. Time is limited.
Not many people get a chance to say goodbye. I just lost one of my really close friends a week ago he was 39 years old extremely healthy no medical issues at all didn't smoke hardly ever drink he went to work as usual he pulled his service vehicle into a Walmart parking lot and he just passed away. He was sitting in his truck for about 3 to 4 hours until a nurse drove by and saw his head hanging out the window and he was slumped over and his work truck. Live everyday like it's your last we are not promised tomorrow. Never go to bed angry resolve all the issues before you close your eyes for the night.
I'm very sorry for your loss. I feel your sorrow through your words. Wishing your friend, you, all his family, and friends the very best and Many Blessings
I lost my uncle like that they said he woke up sat up and then died his he had heart issues and it just gave up. He was found slumped over in bed with his dog trying to wake him up
I had 2 people close to me pass within a month of each other. My aunt, who was admittedly elderly but had still never been sick, got hit with a strain of covid that went right after her brain (most viruses can’t do that, covid can). It wasn’t really sudden but it was devastating and confusing. But, I did get to say goodbye. Then my best friend broke the news that she was out of treatment options for her cancer (we all thought she would be fighting it for years yet, I think she did too) and she was starting palliative care. She passed about two and a half weeks later, but there was a kind of live wake organized (she wanted to be there 😂! Bless her heart.) So I saw her one last time and gave her a note that I am sure she was able to read. I am still crushed, but knowing that they both knew how much I loved them is a huge, huge comfort.
I tell people all the time, if you get the chance to say goodbye to your dying loved ones. If you don't then you will regret it for the rest of your life.
He knew he was dead. Hung on long enough to say goodbye. Happens alot more than ya realize... Love is so powerful.. Another episode (idk if same show) where a father died right after they found his children alive. Dropped dead right after. He held on till they were safe
My cat waited for me at the vet and died in my arms within 30 minutes of me getting there. It hurts but I do believe that to a degree people will hold on for others.
adrenaline is also a powerful drug its one of the human races greatest defense mechanism as it allows an individual to essentially break limits that he shouldnt be able to normally but it comes with a heavy cost as it puts so much strain on the body that once the adrenaline stops the man or woman can yes and there are real cases literally drop dead as that adrenaline is the only thing keeping the organs going which include heart lungs and brain
@@theofficialcovenoffuckery its not just adrenaline, maybe its not even just humans It truly is just spirit, there's nothing more to it, not in this sense
A co-worker of mine and her husband said "see you at lunch" in the parking lot. The husband walked up one flight of stairs to his workspace and collapsed, he was gone before he hit the floor. Always tell you significant other you love them before going the other way.
I had a chance to tell my mommy goodbye but I couldn't. I couldn't say anything cause I watched her suffer and fight for life for weeks with no other family around at all but to hear them tell it they done everything and I haven't been right in my head every since. My brother would pop up pissed cause she's sleeping and couldn't wake up cause he's always wantn her to go for rides like a dumass and sorry for the language cause I don't know what makes people soooo stupid unless it was dope. I'm pretty sure that's why my sister left and stopped helping me plus she always knows which buttons to push with me. I'm the youngest of 3 children but the only one that has common sense cause I watched them while I was growing while learning what not to do and to not play follow the leader with em. I miss both my parents but I never thought that I'd be the one to have to tend to em cause my brother and sister always had bad things to say when they're exactly like myself, they haven't achieved anything throughout their lives except for the fact that people got fed up with em and I don't need the people they thought was their friends..This is such a sad video but goodbye wasn't in my vocabulary at the time my mother passed. I couldn't say anything and I feel sooo bad that I'll never be able to 4give myself or shake it..God bless all and always try to tell family that you love em nomatter how many times per day it is 😢😢
@carl5536, Oh baby, don't feel guilty, sweetheart! You were there and that spoke volumes over simply saying the words! What courage you had to simply be present! BTW, tears are falling right now! 😢 Please realize what a gift you were and are! Luke 7:47 "Therefore I (Jesus) say to you, her sins, which are many, are forgiven, for she loved much. But to whom little is forgiven, the same loves little.”
Who do i call with my last moments alive My birth mum and dad who are together still and have been amazing my whole life Or Call my ex (mother of my kids) and the kids
