Man to Man: Challenging Perceived Masculinity | Karega Bailey and Jay Barnett | Black Love Series

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Toxic masculinity. What is it? Is it really an issue or is it some buzzword? We brought in two brothers to have a conversation about masculinity in all forms, but especially centered around being Black men: Karega Bailey, artist, educator, and angel father, and King Jay Barnett, author, speaker, and mental health therapist.
Perhaps more important than the question of what is toxic masculinity is “how do we acknowledge behavior that is toxic that seems to be consistently perpetrated by men”? Honestly, there are so many questions and points asked that this is only one piece of the framework necessary for healing. But we have to start somewhere and this is a great start with two phenomenal brothers.
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@coachwhitneysmart Год назад

There is nothing more healing and inspiring to me as a Black woman than seeing a group of beautiful Black men who are self-aware and emotionally intelligent, be vulnerable enough to share their inner thoughts and challenges. This is how we help heal each other: holding space, truly listening with our whole bodies and listening to understand and not to respond🙏🏾🥹✊🏾💗🔥🔥🔥

@tracyb246 Год назад

This was broken down so simply. It’s worth a rewatch ✨✨✨

@sharonroseman5918 Год назад

Beautiful conversation between Beautiful, self aware black MEN. KAREGA has such a calmness to his presence

@divifemtv Год назад

Give yourself grace for the daily practice... Whew! 🙌🏾 Beautiful conversation💛💛💛

@nnena3631 Год назад

As a note, one premise of the term "toxic masculinity" stemmed from men defining Masculinity by toxic behaviors. In my understanding it was not a matter of villifying Masculinity but villifying the expression of harmful behaviors categorized as "Masculinity." There has been very little pushback from men up until now regarding this concept because one of its earlier iterations was "man's nature" whereby men were often excused for displaying negative nehaviors under the premise that they just couldn't help it bc they were a man, and that's just what they do, i.e. fits of anger, cheating, not communication, lack of self control/regulation etc. This served men by providing a scapegoat for them to hide behind. Admittedly "toxic Masculinity" has become anything people don't like. Healthy balanced masculine expression is as necessary as feminine. Recalibration is necessary. In this video, it's good to redefine the premise that Masculinity is nuanced, encompassing assertive, non aggressive traits. This is a message most NEVER hear, or embrace.

@malambongwenya9617 Год назад

So succinctly put I concur its not as you said it's not villifying it but calling out the toxic behaviors allowed or given a pass saying it's the innate nature then perpetuated until it's a norm which is being highlighted.

@kiyawilliams3140 Год назад

This was amazing to see as a black woman. My teenage son will be watching. ❤

@vjsim1 Год назад

You men made me cry (in a healing way). I learned so much from this conversation. Beautiful.

@marvinrobinson2767 Год назад

… dopeness 🔥🔥 I’m connected & familiar w/ Jay … but Karega is just as relatable in his calmness.

@inthereign Год назад

This was so massively transparent and inspiring! Thank you Black men for breaking past every negative thing that the world labeled you and breaking new ground for men to show up and get the unity, clarity, strength and transparency that is so needed for our leaders to become the leaders GOD made you to be!

@shavonhampton3535 Год назад

This is a powerful collaboration! I love the language of these brothers. It’s masculinity at it’s best. It’s beautiful. Beautiful masculinity. I love their work individually, so to see & hear them together is just beautiful.

@shescultivating Год назад

So much poetry in this conversation.

@debrawilliams2781 Год назад

It wonderful to hear dialogue with 3 beautiful Black Men. God Bless! I think a good starting point for men is for the more knowledgeable ones get together on the regular with less fortunate ones where you get to have open dialogue where you come in peace, egos left at the door, no judgements allowed and there is free talk, period! Where women talk freely and truthfully, good or bad unfortunately MEN DO Not HAVE that, they mostly BS WITH EACH OTHER!

@shanialeann1248 Год назад

I loved this conversation so much. It was so refreshing, revitalizing, and restorative to me because a young female I try my best to give men the freedom and the space to be themselves but the grace to continually evolve. I love Jay's mantra if you will, "that a man who finds his voice finds his way", but I'd take it a step further not excluding the focus and say that a people who find their voice will find there way. An today i'd argue that today the Black community is full steam ahead in that regard to evoke sustainable change.

@armonieasley1788 Год назад

Just thank you for BEING! This absolutely is amazing!🔋👑👑👑

@enolagoodman Год назад

This was really, God. Thank you, guys. Much Love❤

@shanesalomon7191 9 месяцев назад

This podcast spoke on everything I’m going through right now. Right now I am experiencing anxiety/panic disorder and I’m learning what I been needing for myself from myself. Im learning to love myself, what it means to show myself grace, and to be proud of myself. Yeah, this was an amazing podcast!

@129_C0ll Год назад

These 2 men….. I can never turn away when either of them talk. They always leave me speechless!

@Shaqt0418 Год назад

Thank you for this conversation guys. Really

@kimberlyw8666 Год назад

All I can say is BEAUTIFUL ❤

@princessreesepieces Год назад

This is very insightful ....understanding principles of male/female energies and the correlation to power/authority/presence/etc. Sharing this. Thank you

@imaninyla Год назад

I am here for people being honest, accountable, and intentional.

@MsHJones Год назад

This was BEAUTIFUL.

@sonniebates4989 Год назад

A Master Class. THEE most enlightening and insightful conversation facilitated by men I’ve ever heard. Captivating.

@SiriusAspirations Год назад

Such a beautiful powerful conversation, so needed by our brothers ❣️

@ShadyBabe31 Год назад

As a woman this was beautifully said … thank you 🙏🏾 for this wisdom

@abhitaaustin3384 Год назад

This conversation is so incredible! Thank you! Shared it already with so many of my peeps.

@revriggs Год назад

Y'all helping me brothers! 😭

@fazetharu6826 5 месяцев назад

It’s me I’m nigkas but I’m watching these videos trying to be a better version of myself for myself and my community around me. And I preciate you brothers for the content that’s helping me on this journey

@jadeclement4175 Год назад

This was amazing 👏

@albertbrown359 Год назад

Masculinity is connected to the nature that a man is created.Not only our physical appearance but our thought processes as responsible beings.

@JessicaWhiteheadAKA Год назад

Powerful.....in every aspect !!!!

@anisarenee7042 Год назад

This is an amazing discussion for both men and women. I wish I could blast this all over the world ❤ . It so important especially to our black men to give themselves grace first that habit will naturally envolve into giving the rest of the world and your especially your partner the spcae to be human

@pamcochran2546 Год назад

Thank you so much for being the two gentlemen on learned so much 💛💛

@kwamestar968 Год назад

Insightful

@Cierra00x Год назад

Great discussion

@dwightwatson6895 Год назад

This is my tribe and train of thought. Found through random search.

@lasavinegivens9295 Год назад

I can listen to these type of men talk all day. Why? Their energy is inviting, calm and a secure place . They all speak in a matter they are heard , and it is not a debate. This is what make women feel safe. They are coming from healed place.

@nathanjosephalard 9 месяцев назад

As men, we have the capability to hurt and love. It's condescending to say that women dont have the same. Emotional control is required, period - it's not a masculine vs. feminine issue - the masculine vs. feminine conversation is foundational to feminism.