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I was married for 17 yrs, Was in a relationship while going through the divorce for 4 yrs and recently just ended a 3 month relationship and I can honestly say that I could care less if I am ever with another woman again. Its so much less complicated and less stressful to be by yourself. I'm done jumping though hoops trying to make women happy. I'm 51 and the only person I plan on making happy for the rest of my days is me!
Yup! I am 49 and never wanted to get married! I had hundreds of women! My only son now 19! I can careless about sex and relationships and drama and bs and blah blah blah! The sex is not worth it anymore to waste my time energy and money on women. Good luck guys. Single life till I die now debt free zero health problems!
I disagree, granted you need to find a place and women that value marriage and family. Only reason marriage in usa sucks, men dont do the work and let women and governments walk all over them. They aren't men, boys the usa raises.
@@thefreakkk naw, but lived in USA for 32 years California. But traveled the world since 2008. Most the eorld doesn't think like Usa or Eu. Classic example metoo Vietnam. Government told woman shut uo, go home, be responsible for your own actions. Hence not one protest or riot ir case.
My father got demolished once 17 years ago when he divorced my mom. He got the business(which was nose diving into the dirt) and a lot of debt, my mom got literally everything else. Some years later he married again, he fell for this old lady that obviously married him for the little he had left. After they signed the papers, she changed completely. My sister(who has special needs) couldn't go to their house to visit anymore(his own house, the one we grew up in) and she is making his life hell since then in hope of a divorce. She had the fucking nerve to straight up ask 600k BRL(100k USD +-) to "go away". She throws his food away if he doesn't come to lunch in time, he has to wash his own clothes and hang them in the back room of his shop and sometimes sleep out of his own house in a futon when she feels like it. It's the saddest thing I've ever seen, and even though he's my dad and I feel for him, """providing""" is all he knew his whole life, he just traded one plantation for another, willingly. He is 70 now, spent literally his WHOLE LIFE slaving away for women, no retirement, and will probaly will go to the grave working, without any rest and little to no joy in life. Even though he made bad choices in his life, he didn't have the info we have today. There is no excuse for getting trapped today by a woman, do it at your own peril.
That was a different time when Manning up was what was expected by religions and society. His legacy will live on though by the new generation who are now being schooled against this type of expectations, they will be free
I don't know what's wrong with you guys!! Marriage is great! I enjoy being stripped from my manhood, being told i can't see my friends but she can see hers. Fearing i'm about to lose my house and my car, not having free time, being asked how many beers i've had.
@mike a Never heard of starfish sex. I know about hallway sex. That is when you pass each other in the hallway and you say to her Fu*k you and she replies Fu*k you too.
@@georgew1857 .... it didn't get that far cause thankfully she found an Alpha Bad Boy from prison and took off with him.... but the scariest thing about it was last year she kept asking me if the Life insurance that I had on myself was up to date.... that's when I started telling my coworkers if I go missing tell the cops about her Side Boyfriend
@@RN-gx7wt lol, dude...the question was rhetorical pertaining to the video content. I will help make it simple for you...the man was married and got divorced and want to get remarried. I asked why would a man escape a prison only to ask to serve in another prison. Does it make more sense? You seem to be the only one having difficulty understanding the analogy.
@@RN-gx7wt sometimes, no matter how hard you throw the ball, it just keeps bouncing off of the wall. This conversation has been like masterbating with a cheese grater...slightly amusing, but mostly painful.
Best of luck Reg. You would think 18 years means you are past the divorce hump, but grey divorce is huge these days, with women filing the vast majority of them. Mine walked at 25 years. And at that point in your life it can be a financial disaster.
I understand wanting more kids as my daughter has turned out to be one of the best things in my life and a big part of me wishes I had more kids. That being said it breaks my heart what she has to go through being raised in 2 different households and I think having more kids with another woman would make her situation even harder
Yeah, men without kids do not get this aspect. I re-married to a heavily vetted professional woman and now I'm divorced again with two more kids shuttling back forth between houses. So men, if you want kids....plan on divorce, child support, etc.
Yeah it can be rough for the kids. My folk got divorced when both my sis and I were approaching adulthood (19 & 17) It was awkward as they both moved on with other people and we were too old for stepparents and wanted no part of that shit show. We both ended up leaving home, the country and are all in separate continents. Looking back, the divorce decimated the entire family.
The guy who sent the request is very blue pilled in his mindset. I hope that he can make some good decisions so that the remainder of his life doesn’t get ruined.
I have been married three times. First divorce due to late onset mental illness (diagnosed by medical professionals). Second divorce because she lied to herself and me about an addiction to illegal drugs. My third marriage is in year 17 and just keeps getting better. Can it happen? Yes, but the odds are HEAVILY against you. Proceed with EXTREME caution. I have several videos that explain my take on 'the war of the sexes' but to condense advice to a comment: If your criteria for a mate does not have honesty as your number one requirement, or if 'looks' are in your top ten, you are shooting yourself in the foot.
As soon as my ex read my will and saw all went to my children from my only marriage and nothing of mine was willed too her kids it was over for us,, l told her they shouldn't have disrespected me..
@@lawalemmanuel6027 l was 38 when my wife left me and our 3 Young children and knew then I would never be fool enough to get married again,, woman are special creatures that you never really know but not worth the risk
Glutton for punishment much? Divorce rates a on par with restaurants. They have a 46% failure rate. If you marry a woman who has already been divorced the rate skyrockets to 70%. Family law absolutely incentivizes woman to leave you. Catch and release bro
Man, I've taken so many other men's wives down it just truly reassures me that marriage is worthless. Women out here lying, still giving up the poon, then can walk away and he'll suffer, smdh
I love when you speak about marriage. The one thing always stuck with me was when you said marry on your level or higher. It reduces the amount of money you pay if anything was to go wrong. Stop dating these broke women!
Yep. Often marriage itself isn't so much the problem; it's the type of women we choose to marry. Entirely too many guys go the way of Johnny Depp, who wasn't content to simply saddle up a remarkably fit
Rich women do not marry down, ever! So stop thinking you will ever pull that off. At best you’ll marry across and that is providing you are better looking than her or have higher earning potential for the prospective future, and in that case she is marrying up the potential. My advise, never marry!
@@lapiedra7121 It definitely seems to be true that the daughters of the proverbial 1% don't marry outside of their own social circle. While I suspect that there are a minority of women on the lower rungs of the upper class(talking here daughters of high priced defense lawyers, women who hail from families made up of hedge-fund managers)who marry guys who's backgrounds are textbook middle-class, and moved up a notch on the food chain(Sons of city supervisors, who are the first in their family to complete university, subsequently end up as accountants at Goldman Sachs), I'm not sure whether or not these marriages prove to be any more durable than the average union. Or the frequency with which the women in these marriages begin finding the guy unsatisfactory sooner rather than later, subsequently trade up, and leave their accountant ex for the CFO of his company. Not sure what the stats are on nouveau rich guys who marry women from old money You'll sometimes find women doctors who've married a mechanic or electrician. These also seem to be those rare couplings wherein she has the power, and both man and woman are happy that way. The former never starts wanting more for himself, and the latter never tires of having to be The Man
Well I was a slow learner and did it twice.. If he thinks it will work this time, he can delude himself all he wants. With mountains of incentive to divorce her man, why the hell would anyone even consider it these days? There is no benefit, ZERO... for the man to get married. I got to finally live my life and not be indentured when I turned 46. I would rather take a .45 ACP to the brain stem long before I will ever get married again.
Man, been going through a 2 1/2 year nasty divorce and ran through a lot until I then jumped right into a relationship due to my business collapsing (which was mainly my fault due to the emotional wreck I had become during the divorce as it involves my son and was being extorted to the extreme by the system) the relationship I jumped into has ALL of the red flags that you speak of and actually just got out of jail due to a domestic situation which also wasn’t on me and she I guess feels the guilt whatever bailed me out took me home and has requested all charges be dropped. But that has then effected the divorce process I’m still in and further fucked my situation. I wish I had found your videos much much sooner. Trying to dig myself out of the shit storm I have placed myself in, but just wanted to thank you as I have already learned a lot from watching these and I believe if more men would watch these it could potentially change the course of men’s and women’s life’s in a much more realistic and positive way.
I went out with a woman awhile back and she asked me if she saw myself getting married again I said no and that was it for her she never talked to me after that. I have no desire to get married again, one and done.
This guy is playing high stakes poker after just winning an all in call at another table.. my advise be thankful for your win and never return to the casino.
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16 KJV, Jesus Christ is the only way..
I recently just got exhausted at the whole dating game. After my marriage ended I liked the single life while dating. But now I’ve realized I’m just too busy to deal with it. Time to cut the fat.
Madness. I've known a number of guys who jump back in and then come crying when it turns sour. Why the fvck do they do this? Its literally playing Russian Roulette with you life's work and wellbeing.....
To each his own. I don't preach to Men not to marry. I've had only my experiences from marriages and learned from them. I'm 36 own my cars and house. Haven't met any woman that is worth the dive. Good luck to him.
getting married a second time is like putting your hand on a hot stove twice. it's still gonna hurt and be hot as hell. you'd think getting burned once would be enough for some folks, guess not.
I'd like to know what percentage of "high value men" are developing this mindset. When enough of them do, you can rest assured it will become a hot topic in mainstream discussions.
I think it is a very small percentage of men unfortunately. The process of getting married is ingrained in every culture around the world. Young men are indoctrinated from birth through their families and their wider communities.
@@Anonymous-md2qp I agree that at this time, it is indeed a small percentage of hi-val men. But we are at least four generations into the "Epoch of Hyper-Gynocracy". Most Boomer men are write-offs at this point, but the subsequent generations have experienced the world very differently. Change happens at the margins. It would not take too large a percentage of men to spark a "panic" among a population of women already increasingly desperate to find Mr. Right. Time will tell.
And yes all my ex gfs wanted to control me and run the relationship and that’s why I never wanted to get married! Now every single one of them are divorced 2x , sick, over weight, or dead
Sounds like his family is pressuring him into walking the plank. It's a shame all that money can't buy common sense. Don't do it bud..you'll regret it.
I have two brothers - married 3 times each. I mean it happened so frequently that every time I'd see a vaguely familiar looking woman in the street, I was inclined to ask her if she was an ex-sister in law. Now, both of these very decent and hard working men were used up and spat out each time, in spite of their misguided beliefs in marriage. Statistics prove that if you don't make it the first time, your chances decrease markedly with Number 2 and exponentially with Number 3. To be brutally honest, its vastly safer for a man to remain single, especially in North America and the First World in general. Embrace the lifestyle gentlemen and just say "No".
Why do men come to you for permission to do something that they know is wrong? They want to justify a bad decision. If you do that, that’s the clue it’s not the best thing to do.
What a bad argument. Its perfe to fine for you to advise men against marriage because it places us in the correct mindset that the wrong woman will ruin your life. Its a completely different story to say NEVER marry. Even if only 5% of marriages are successful and both parties are fulfilled, who are you to say any individual person wont be that 5%?
Idiots like this deserve every bit of what they get. No compassion or one single eff given by me any more. If some dude even utters any form of "whatever the boss/significant other/wife says", ever complains about any relationship involving a woman or says anything to the effect of needing permission to do anything, I completely ignore him. If you willingly create a situation that you cannot control, and furthermore agree to be bound by said horrid situation, you deserve everything you've asked for. Everything else is an excuse. There are now tens of thousands of hours worth of TRUTH in these videos from various great producers available to you 24/7/365. Never invest in anything with a zero or negative return. Never marry. Invest only in yourself: health, wealth, exercise, knowledge. Leave them to their cats and misery.
The only reason I think he wants this is because he didn't get totally divorce raped from the prior marriage since she made similar money to him. Had he gotten destroyed there's no way he'd be sending questions like this. You can't beat hypergamy gentlemen, but you can hedge against it by making sure she makes similar money to you and dating down in looks.
@@immortal2641 Don't date your looksmatch (assuming they don't already think they can do better), date a girl that's one or two points below you in looks. That acts as a hedge against hypergamy, because a stable relationship can only exist where the woman thinks you're the best man she can get. If that's not the case, the relationship will not last. It also as I said hedges against hypergamy. By dating down in looks, but across or even up in terms of money, you've hedged against her hypergamy and getting divorce raped. Got it?
I had a woman with 6 kids (some by different dads) ask me out. I have no kids and I’m happy with that. Why on earth would I want involved with a woman with 6 kids 🤣🤣🤣
A woman with 6 kids is not marriage material? Who knew?🤔🙄🤣😂🤣😂 pump and dump she not only hit the wall she is the wall with 6 bricks you will have to mortar up and build and the Mason will never be you because your work will always have another man's name....yep cold hard truth!
Yep, I was engaged with a professional also. She was on board for family. We had a kid, suddenly she wanted me to stay at home with the kid. I made 3x as much as her. But her job came first. We would talk about this over and over. She would agree, then do everything to screw me and my job over. She was perfectly ok with having a 3rd party basically raising the kid while she worked. It was mind boggling.
Sounds like a boss bae type girl...she just wanted to be seen as someone who has a ring and a husband while also being able to be the 'independent woman.'
If you don’t want to get married…. Then don’t. Marriage is not easy. Neither is anything else worth having in life. Seems there are many bitter, angry, hurt men in these comments who have just given up on their woman or women in general. That is weakness not strength. My husband & I know how to be EQUALLY mean to each other. We’ve had many difficult times in our 17 marriage. There’s no perfect man or woman. I know 100% through our good times and bad it’s completely worth it. It’s your choice to love your spouse everyday, and forgive and be patient with them. Love hard the same as you work hard in other areas of your life, or spare women and just stay single.
I had a prenup and it saved me, but if you get it wrote up you have to go to two different law firms to have it wrote up. One for the woman and one for you. If you have one attorney do it they can throw it out of court and claim there was a conspiracy. That's why some say they don't work.
I dont think people GRASP the FUNDAMENTALS about red pill. This guy wouldn't be asking this question or thinking this way if he understood Rollos 1st and 2nd book in particular.
Women are unable or unwilling to constrain their nature. The responsibility falls on you when interacting with said women. Leverage is your best tool for this task. It is best exercised by having multiple options enabling you to easily enforce your boundaries by choice. Marriage removes this choice, removes your leverage, thus impeding your ability to constrain the worst of female nature usually ending in disaster made possible by your poor decisions.
This is great stuff rich! I really think a course on how to as you put it "walk into the slaughterhouse" with your eyes wide open and knowing how to protect yourself would be incredibly valuable to guys who still want LTRs and marriage(Puke).
My brother is going down for the third time. Twice married, twice divorced and is out a few hundred thousand dollars as a result. And he's doing it again.
Casually mentioning to a girl that you're not the marrying type (with her friends as witnesses) very early on, when desire is high seems like a good strategy. She will be ok with it because she just wants you. When she presses for the marriage, you remind her that you aren't the marrying type and would ONLY do it with severe pre/post-nups. She can't accuse you of being an a-hole because you set the game rules early on.
She won’t marry you with a severe prenup. Also, severe prenups and that seem unfair to the women are overturned in court and deemed invalid for their unfairness.
well. personally i feel most times when we ask for advice. we already know what we want to do...but we just like other people's opinion to justify whatever action we take...
That is so true, thats whats happening most of the time and it's a bad way of asking advice. When asking advice one should be open to "REAL ADVICE" not only words that support the ideas that we already had in the first place. It's the stuff that you didn't think of to begin with is whats most valuable.
I agree with prenup and postnup 💯. Periodic nuptial agreement though I'm sure will undermine a good marriage. There are some good women (although a minority) out there who would start to feel unappreciated when you asked them to sign shit every 3 years. I'm considering marriage in the first place because I know we men will lose our interpersonal market value overtime too and we don't get to have young beautiful intelligent women forever. Even if we did, they'd be in a different stage of their lives and we wouldn't be compatible.
The issue is not "what kind of woman" he marries - you can point to a million reasons why someone is insufficient. The issue is "what kind of man/person" he is. If he is under sway by all of these externals - doesn't matter who he marries, or even dates. He will continue to be controlled by circumstances.
Wait until she learns from her more experienced friends and brace yourself! Rain is coming if you think she is dumb and won’t figure it out. Men keep underestimating women and disrespecting them until they get fed up and become smarter and smarter. Women start plan these things out carefully ahead of time the moment men are bad men to them.
I’m 30yrs old and am red pilled for life thanks to Rich. However, I feel discouraged and I can’t believe we need to thread lightly and consider women like danger or road mines that can cause a world of hurt for men. Fkn crazy days we live in. Makes you wonder... can’t have decent one to one, quality interactions anymore.
Marriage is a religious ceremony so making your marriage legal in the eyes of the state is sacrilegious in my opinion!! If you are getting married for spiritual reasons the only thing you need is the ceremony in the church. Fuck the prenuptial agreements, tell the woman you will have the ceremony, she will take your name as well as any children. As far as I'm concerned any woman who insists on getting married wants to make sure she gets more than child support if things don't work out. That being said she is obviously going in with one foot in the door and only concerned for herself!!!! Let's face it, between the abandonment of religion, corruption in politics and other societal trends, marriage no longer means commitment!! All facts considered any woman who insists on marriage should be seen as a red flag.
Let the blue-pill man get married again, maybe with a dog groomer or a day care provider, with no pre-nup. I guarantee a personal visit to the family court "law" system will cure this man of his "gotta be married" validation identity.
Prenuptial agreement, pay get to sign it, and pay for her attorney to review. Then put your property into various trusts. If you get divorced you will still have child support so that will always kind of suck.
Ask him if he's considered hiring a nanny and a housekeeper. Duties are defined and stable; you can fire them without having to pay child support or fight a custody battle. If he's making 3-400K I would think this would be within his means.
Women WHO compete with you. 🤦♂️ If you’re going to make your living with words, use them properly for crying out loud. WHO refers to people. THAT refers to objects.
Marriage is the only institution where the inmate freely walks in the front door, assigns his own life sentence and then complains about the accommodations.
I think you've missed the point about the phrase "the pen is mightier than the sword." It means that entire world changing events, such as wars, or individuals or entire groups of people can be executed, rounded up, imprisoned, and so forth, all which can be inked which writs are mightier than the individual sword. IOW, you can kill individuals with a sword, but you can topple nations or execute millions with a pen.
"Bomber Command, this is Truth requesting dock permissions. We need to refuel on Red Pill Wisdom." Time and time again Rich is spitting facts! Keep it up brother!
I love how idiots "book" you for "consultation" 🙄🤣 As if you're a lawyer or as if you're gonna say something you haven't said since the inception of this channel 🤣
The man who thinks the woman will accept a pre nup, a post post nup after the wedding, another post nup after 4 years of marriage, and then an ongoing process of post nups, let me tell you, stop drinking the Kool aid...
