Man her fiancé or husband is blessed. Not because she is beautiful, but because she understands her role as a real helpmate. He will really prosper. Black love elite
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it.
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
Connect, Construct, Convey, and Communicate your message in an effective way, which will ultimately Convince me of your issue. Don't yell at me and insult me because that will put me in masculine energy to defend myself. Some men don't like a woman with a backbone, but hell if we don't stand for something, we will fall for anything. It's not what you say, it's how you say it. Tone, attitude, and body language. At this time, Im embracing my solitude, forgiveness, and healing all while changing my mindset. ❤
I’ve been watching Love Dorsey for years and I’m still listening to her now I’m 54 and still learning and listening, she is so intelligent and she has gotten me through a hard time when I was in love with a woman and she taught me to love myself and stop being so emotionally invested in people when it’s not reciprocated
"Don't go up!" Yes ma'am, because I have no problem with a man saying he didn't like something, but you're NOT gonna do is yell or insult me. Now I'm gonna get into my masculine and match your energy
I love this discussion it is so raw and real. I left for college thinking I knew it all and was ready for the world and I came back a different person that was not for the better. I was not prepared to be on my own. I didn’t have a sense of responsibility. I didn’t know who I was. I had very low self esteem and I fell for it all. I had to learn the hard way for everything. I didn’t know how to be a young lady and even a woman when it came to the time. I am in my mid 30s now and I am just now learning about being a woman and taking care of your home and cleanliness. What I want out of life and my likes and dislikes. It is a lot and I wish I was prepared earlier but I know if I have an offspring I will change that and prepare my child for the world. School is secondary to me. School did not prepare me for life either.
Please both of you do a conversation on the dilemma young girls have with boys. If you stay celibate you might get a boyfriend but you get embarrassed when everyone knows you’re getting cheated on. And then if you have sex you still get cheated on. If you don’t have sex you might not get a boyfriend and you want a date like everybody else. So by the time you get out of high school you’re confused as hell and not prepping to be marriageable because no boy you met approached a relationship as if he was looking for quality because he’s being told to buss down as many girls as possible. And he’s confused and has no clue how to look for a woman that is wife material or what his goals should be to take on the responsibility of being a husband.
😮 these folks are AMAZING!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Omg.! I resonated with this entire episode…. Just subscribed to the channel because chile y’all know what y’all talking about. My family caused so much trauma, I thought I was the one crazy for a minute. “Sometimes the tribe you were you born into ain’t yo tribe” whew, hit si hard.
WE NEED MORE!!!!! Love to see Dorsey still chugging and going at it! Love that woman. Been watching her in silence for many many many years. Thanks to the both of you!!!
I love this keep dropping the knowledge of elevation and self love,self observation,self and emotional control for feminine and masculine male and female awareness/betterment….
Great conversation topics Growing up in a household where there certain needs has not been met from the parents or guardians And one of the biggest impactful trauma that a lot of people has been involved in neglection.. so just like what love said in order for ppl to survive they had to use certain mind skills in order for them to get a hot meal that day… People had to manipulate certain situations so they wouldn’t get abused by their father or family member it was a way to survive that now as they become an adult it became habit for them when they get into relationships
Maaaan hold up!! 😅 Yall went 0 to 100 real fast,No brakes all gas lol! Great Job, Pure Pressure. I'm only 15 minutes in,I need to Pause & Process!! Lol
21:11 No reasonable person is going to sign up for bad behavior in a partner… If you sh-t test, the relationship is over, whether they pass the test or check you correctly or whatever…
I can agree with a good portion of this.. but it definitely borders on line line of male worship at times.. I see a LOT of this from her.. but hey.. this is her lane🤷🏾♀️
I disagree with the initial premise of both speakers. I belief that many of our deficits and barriers are deep rooted in tradition and not culture. Culture is merely the shared characteristics of a group of people. Traditions are those beliefs and behaviors that are passed down from generation to the next generation. We have to address traditions of a group before we look at their culture.
Do you actually speak one on one with people.When I agree with him, he says I'm manipulating him when I disagree he says I'm not open and then he sends me your links.
What if your mate only knows how to communicate by projecting his voice immediately while expressing his frustration? Secondly as a woman during this voice projecting you calmly asked why are you yelling and he doesn't agree instead say this is how I talked,what are y'all opinions on dealing or reiterating that projecting his voice is not needed to communicate and to express himself. Help
Are y’all arguing or are y’all having a discussion? ask him does he know you are listening(if I can hear you no need to yell also I’ll stay quiet until you’ve finished conveying your message) no need to yell your right there to listen to his concern. Explain to him what yelling does in communication, yelling is a form of communicating combativeness, aka not being solution oriented. If you are having a discussion in a leveled tone you are communicating openness to listen and finding a solution. Yelling triggers an emotional response for further escalation, it gears you up for an argument, loss of focus of discussions true intention which is to voice and listen to concerns and finding a agreeable solution.
Silence. When the voice reach a certain level, respond by lowering yours or say nothing. Disrespect in the form of yelling is soooo common and acceptable that people just do it. There is a lot of females who loves it. So they get under the skin on purpose just to get a need met. It's very upsetting for those who don't live their life like this.
