Burlinda: You are something else! I am not going to even try to understand that mentality. I may be wrong, but I am quite sure while she's home ALL DAY WORKING, part of that time the kids are down for naps, and part of that time she's relaxing on the phone watching TV. As a mother, I am definitely not minimizing what a stay-at-home mom does, but be real. Many don't realize who the women's liberation movement was for and who benefitted the most.
@@lb.3199 Most of young women work though. If he the only one working then 1000% yes she should take care of the home kids and rest. But ya can't expect a woman who works to also do other things.
Helli yeah ! I have been a stay home wife / part time outside the house worker. It is all about planning, NAP TIME AND a schedule. Certain meals can be prepped over nigh. Air fryer and pressure cookers are a help😊
I wouldn’t want my husband to see all that goes on while giving birth. My husband was in the room when I gave birth and I was happy that he was there, but why would you want him to see all of that stuff… Also, I don’t know why women think that men are going to be the heavy in taking care of household responsibilities and child rearing, especially when you are a stay at home mom. I worked, cooked, and kept my home clean. My husband cooked a few times a week, washed dishes occasionally, took out the trash, and took care of the yard. I also did yard work and took care of the garden. He spent time with our children and even changed diapers and babysat when I needed him to.
If you have wild friends you may need to switch that up after u get a husband and children. Just like your spending habits..try to look at yourself instead of blaming your spouse for trying to help you grow up.
She married him while he was in jail?! SO WHAT!! It was HER CHOICE! He didn’t put a gun on her temple to marry him while he was there! She doesn’t deserve a medal for that! She is entitled as hell and doesn’t know the real meaning of the word ‘sexism’ HEY LADY!! COOK THE MAN A MEAL! IT’S NOT HARD!
If your home and have kids and house hold you can cook clean 7days a week ask him agreement for 5 days of cooking when he's at work then weekends he can cook or take everyone out just petty fr sad my grandmother's never complained when the bills are paid they get to be home most of the time
Maybe she actually was putting on. Maybe if she cooked, he would be more tolerating. She is selfish. She wants to be treated like a wife. But acts like a teenager.
This case is completely out of hand now you going to make my man love and assist, if he doesn't want to don't want him to do that, you work for 12-hour shift I would want some help but it would be minimized, I worked and had to grocery shop cook clean the house.. She's not appreciating her husband.. He said he helps sometimes that's all he needs to do. Give her a break sometimes, but the only other side of the corn who's giving him a break.. Definitely not his wife..
she expects him to shower her with money and live free in the home but he cant get a meal? thats literally all i heard him really complain about. a working man that does all that and likes you staying home with the babies, deserves at least a hot meal every day. go the extra mile and cater to him. i get it motherhood is a never ending job but when you sign on for the life it is what it is. its a blessing. she shouldve spoke to him before marriage about roles and capabilities bc no ma'am but he do need to work on that ROMANCE bc that can make a woman give up after years and all them babies
3 kids aren't all that much to take care of while doing housework. I have babysat up to 14 kids a day & kept my house clean, laundry done, etc. I just don't understand when Moms complain about taking care of 4 or less kids while doing housework!
I agree that she needs to cook for her husband period but let’s not compare babysitting to be long a stay at home mom. U give those kids back. Mother is 24/7 zero breaks. U better sleep when they sleep cause if not u not getting any.
I think judge needs to come harder on the defendant. You have 3 children. So you must love having him. She expects too much!!! How old are the children. Sorry on this one. The defendant is wrong. She is going to lose a good man. She needs to appreciate him He could be going out with his guys.
It always amazes me women always put overemphasis in the conversation that you have two or three or five ETC. but you always have a choice not to children that is choice. Why not get yourself fully together financially before having children therefore this would never be a topic 🤔🍀✨🍀
being at home with kids is not as hard as working a job, a job requires you to work at all times outside of your designated break. at home parenting has its moment everyday but not as consistent as a job. plus the kids go to school for most of the day and grow up and out the house at some point. You get to take breaks when you want for the most part cleaning can all be done at a specific point. i did it during COVID and i had a system with keeping the kids in order and doing their school work since the was remote school. I'll trade it in for the work i'm doing 10 hours a day if i didn't love what i do.
I like this couple, they don't have a lot of drama. It seems that they are getting complacent and need more romance in certain places. Take it from me, appreciate what you already have. The only thing out in these streets is idiots, pretenders and wanna be's. Go to therapy if you think it will help. Make a good thing better. Remember: the divorce rate is 50% in the U.S.
Baby listen my son father almost did t make in the hospital. He hates needles and anything hospital. When I was giving birth they told him to have a seat they didn’t want two patient’s!
Got to be something they are married.... HELLO it's her mouth for me she needs some growing up....First she needs to learn how to cook and stop being a consumer... doing things for likes she's still learning
I was married for 43 years abd had 4 children, we were 12 years apart, worked well, I married a man not a boy, goodness, I was 23, inexperienced but educated. The bad part is that he died before me, that is the sadness.
I need women to teach men so men can teach their sons what it means to woe a woman. What it takes to live on a woman & a woman is not your mom, but your servant but there to be your partner in life n elevate your entire life journey experience. What you put into a woman you get back tenfold. Stop being a selfish lover
Deep down they get along, they need downtime. Get a housekeeper one day a week, daycare one or two days a week to get ahead of the obligations and room to breathe.
If she's doing everything in the house hold and yard work and doing school online he should come home and fix his own sandwshich like I hate when men say want a hot meal well get up and fix you something your arms and legs aren't broken
