This is a fact. When you get rejected by your own, then you marry an "outsider," your own is still on your case. Even when they didn't want you, they still have something to say.
That's within any race, I'm from New Jersey and Dominican Republicans are the same way, it's all about culture race has nothing to do with it, that typical of Americans to use race on every aspect of life
Bottom line is this it has absolutely nothing to do with races all culture and American generations dating back to whatever slavery was you couldn't do those things that you can do now and a lot of the parents then are still living in the old ways where they prefer their child to stay within their race but as the generations started getting older they started turning away from the tradition and start saying hey I'm going to go over there and date this person I'm going to date this person it has nothing to do with a black woman or black man and the way a woman's attitude because the way black women are that's the same way in every other generation you can find some good and some bad plain and simple so all these men that are talking all this trash about black women and all these black women talking all this trash about black men educate yourselves and talk about the experiences that you had don't put everyone in a single category and speak for all because that's not true
And for the record yes Dominicans are black but they are Dominicans that you can consider White or light just like any other person so yeah they may be speaking Spanish and all but a lot of them date outside their race and a lot of the Dominican Republican parents prefer them not to date black Americans and that's a culture Gap that's all that is but a lot of them are getting older now and they're like you know what I'm not going to follow my parents tradition and that's when a lot of the parents turn it back on their own kids because they are not doing what they was raised to do well this is a different world now times have changed we don't have to say I want to date a Chinese woman I don't want to date this Dominican Republic I want this Puerto Rican woman I want this African woman I want this American woman we do what we want to do there's laws and things that have broken the change and the culture Gap whereas people do what they want to do and date who they want to date no matter what the parents say and it may be strange to a lot of people because they eyeball you and look at you and all different kinds of ways bump that whatever makes you happy be happy I don't care what color she is or what color is be happy cuz at the end nobody truly cares they're not going to take care of you they're not going to give you the love that you're getting from whomever is giving you the love they're miserable because you're happy and misery wants what company
I never understood that quote... Donald Glover was a theater nerdy brotha, you couldn't tell me he couldn't find a sista that wasn't into things he was into, in his adolescence. Some nerdy goofy sista was there but was getting overlooked by the fellas too. Imo most of these dude shot to the top for the most attractive women in their adolescence and were in the wrong field of play at the time. Has nothing to do with sistas.
@@victoru918 thing is, it’s a white dominated field, so any black girls he may have liked where deferring to the white guys who were into the same thing.
@@ivannparker4073 That doesn't make sense either b/c the field he was may of been white dominated but we all know the moment a Brotha walks in the door they gravitate to us. So I'd the White Men gravitate to you and see the dominance in his man hood wouldn't those sistas to the same too? Just an honest question.
@@victoru918 well maybe that was his person experience like you said theater nerdy dude while I know nothing of the arts there isn’t one black girl I know that ever spoke about men like him
Yup My Girl is Mexican but it just happened because I had gotten a divorce and I didn't want to date anymore .We met been together ever since no White Women though
It's not about being broke...dudes who make good money around the way(skill trades) aren't getting the best all the time...for the same lame ass internet fukn Instagram reason...go where you are recieved..WORD
My own family found me weird for liking anime. I found people with the same interests which are my best friends and my sisters. Now I'm on the search to find my husband. But no luck so far. 🤷🏾♀️😒*sigh*
@@setsunak.5105 This is one of the things that bug me about life You and I are cut almost from the same cloth... But we'll never know or meet one another 😩. It definitely sucks
@@Gintoki_Madao not talking about y'all two specifically, and not endorsing this, but ppl having gotten married over world of warcraft and overwatch across state lines and across borders 😂. Don't lose hope y'all. Don't sweat it either. Just vibe. Relationships will test you more than you think lol. -A dude married for 6 years (together for 14)
At this point he is avoiding black women. I never knew anything about him and white women until this video so saying black women who didn't know you before don't deserve you is weird there are plenty of dark skin black women that were called burnt and ugly by black boys and many of them still date black men if they can but most black men like women with light skin complexions biracial, Asian or white so it makes it hard for black women the darker they are and the kinkier there hair is. At this point he just likes white women and he feels only white women deserve to be treated well. Most black men leave their black gf or wife once they get rich so it's not exactly going against the grain for him to be dating a full white woman because it's the norm.
Exactly, later when he become famous and well renowned in his field here she comes wanting to share in his success. Let those women stay with the pookies and ray-rays.
My Black exes didn't appreciate me and I got turned down repeatedly because I was seen as a corny, no-swag-having, fast-food employed nerd who watches Gundam Wing... Now, my Greek wife appreciates the fact that her nerdy, well-paid mechanical engineer husband would rather stay at home with her and watch Gundam Wing... ...and guess who still gets called a 'sell-out'?
@@ramseysstudioHe was with BW when he was poor and had no confidence, which means he probaby had a bad attitude as well. He was probably only able to get with his WW AFTER he became a mechnical engineer. BM never talk about this, though.
Feels like my life. I was lame, talked proper, I was light skin and didn’t care for name brand clothes. I ran into a white girl we talked about Star Wars and became best friends. She’s never treated me that way, but a black girl I was friends with accused me of hating black women. How when that’s all I’ve been around and pursuing. I just wanted to be accepted for me. It’s a catch 22 can’t win for losing.
Yeah, once in high school I was talking to a black girl about things we liked and I brought up dinosaurs. She was DONE! After I said a couple things, she blew me off. She then got with this conceited, ignorant ass ninja who she'd regularly complain about. Talked to this white girl about dinosaurs a couple months later... She was FASCINATED! More recently, I tried to explain to a black girl at DUKE UNIVERSITY what a taro was, and her response was, "why do I need to know something like that?" The next day, at the same university, I explained what it was to a group of three white girls and a group of three Latinas; their reaction: "Oh, that's neat!" I've sorta noticed a pattern in that regard. 🤔
@@jarviswright3732 hey my brotha. Go where you appreciated. It’s what I did 🙂. Also dinosaurs are cool by the way. I saw one I think the raptor looking one has nice sharp teeth.
@@Noco235 It is not just pookies and ray rays that do this. It is bm who have degrees, both of their parents are still married, and bm who are educated but forget about their protection to prevent it. It takes two to tangle btw.
@@islandgurl4927 it’s mainly pookie and ray ray. Don’t say it’s not only them. That’s what many BW are attracted to. Thugs, pretty boys and womenizers = no good men
Because the culture of people have evolved were as you don't have to date who you're supposed to speaking about history times have changed you can date or marry who you want, every culture goes through the same thing, not just black people, Asian, middle eastern, African, American and so forth
And that's a fact, for the person who started this topic he started by saying everyone he knows, so he's speaking about the men who he knows experience that
They expect folks to keep trying and keep being rejected. It’s a perfect example of “I don’t want you but I don’t want anybody else to have you”. It’s logic and they hate when you use logic against them
Yea all they have to do is walk around in tights and booty shorts an get rejected by almost nobody do you understand how rejection works when I message 500 blk women an not one reply that shit hurts cause these women look like you an they don’t find you attractive so you grow to hate your own race an that’s why those guys do that they get tired of that shit the no an it’s rare that all of them can be rich so basically if your not walking around a millionaire they won’t give most of us any play I accepted it tho I just said I’ll get my revenge on them when I become successful revenge feels better than sex itself knowing that you got back is the best feeling
To men a quality woman is always choosy. If he expects every black woman to give him a chance because every white women does that's insane. white women date black men for their perceived swagger and because it makes them feel rebellious. They're also hypersexualized as good lovers. The reason white women are coming are different.
My son is going through this right now. We just a normal bunch of folk and he is at the top of his class and plans on going to an Ivy League school. My little dude gets no play from Black girls, but the Asians and Whites really take care of him. One Asian girl that did hybrid learning during Covid had her parents drive out of their way on the regular to give him physical copies of the school work. I just don’t see a Black girl supporting him in that way. It’s sad when you think about it. Once he sparks this engineering degree, I guess they will see him. It will be too late.
@@Userhdiekejeheu7wHES NOT IN IVY LEAGUE YET. Or did you miss that part?? Nobody “hates black women” we’re just done waiting around for the right one, and we damn sure aren’t jumping through hoops to find her either.
Facts and honestly some of them were just aiming for the wrong black woman that dysfunctional crazy chick and they were not looking at the black woman that was looking at them matter fact some of them turn their nose up at us lol so you can’t claim it was just them turning their nose up the guys like him did it too and then they blamed all of us for not wanting them when the real truth is some of us did we were just not miss popularity and not what they wanted
Moral of the story: dont try to change who you are for a BW if youre attracted to them. I love my black sisters, but if they dont like you then that may be an indication that youll be better off in other communities.
It's if he's not willing to exemplify some form of stereotype that's not the best for us. When you're a brotha that's deemed different or unique, you struggle with black women, frfr! 💯
And you guys reject women who don't have a bumblebee body! I have yet to meet a black women who wants a "gang banger"! Maybe stop trying to date children, and date actual women!
I was that lame in the hood. All the dope dealers and gang bangers got all the girls. Ten years later when all the dope boys are locked up or dead I smashed most of the girls I could not get. Now I am 6 figures and ended up marrying an Asian lady.
Started dating a white woman a couple months ago and she really vibing with a brotha. I do not miss all that toxic bullshit from the past and babygirl is definitely rocking with me
When I was in a bar i could sense all The Black girls energy was off and it was alot of girl on girl action. But there whole energy changed when a white girl approched me 🤔
Lol I believe that not to laugh but it’s not a lot of unity amongst black women as I use to believe it was. Frfr I live in houston and black light skin chick it be so much animosity smh. I feel it too before I say hey it’s dry energy I gotta go out my way to prove I’m cool down idk it’s exhausting and fun with my white girl friends be more chill I’ll say in fun setting. Good point
My nigga u was in a bar...looking for a real one?? Of course u couldn't find the right one..go to a book club or the bowling alley or something not like the club or a bar or low vibe activities
@@StratoS_218 To respond to your statement. There actually weren’t. They always went for a particular type of girl then complained about said girls to others and me. But wouldn’t give me a chance. I learned a long time ago alot of black men just don’t like black women. Or don’t seek out the type of women they claim to want from their own race, they seek it else where. For example because my hair was natural, because I spoke intelligently, because I didn’t have my ass out my shorts, because I prioritized education, because I smiled and said hi to people. I was a fucking nerd to most of them, a bore, no one exciting. But once they get that excitement they blame a whole race of women for not being the way they want them to and completely ignore the ones who are. I think the problem is a lot of us black men and women seem to prioritize and find poor behaviors attractive. I honestly think it has nothing to do with just men or women. I think it’s our culture as a whole. I definitely know there are some good black men that get overlooked but it’s the same with women and you simply can’t deny that.
Here's a thought... How about pursuing black women who mirror our own thoughts and ideologies?! This is what I did... I'm married to my black wife, no drama, and I'm never looking outside my own to find peace. Be selective and wait patiently, the right one is out there waiting patiently also.
@@jermaineelliott2685 What's nonsensical about what I stated? We can't just target a pretty face with curvy hips and expect instant magic. There's gotta be more substance in our selection process.
Same for black women that date outside their race… usually when they (black women) are successful. But black men are hating all black women lately. Especially successful black women. I’m with a white man who’s been with me through a lot of trials.
In my experience most men don't feel the need to justify their choices. If a guy prefers WW he'll just say that, if he's had bad experiences with BW he'll share them, but that's it. Women on the other hand seem unable to simply state a preference without running down others to justify their actions. It was said of feminists, but there's very little difference between most modern women and feminists now: the only way for feminists to rise is for men to kneel. It's absolute truth, you can't just pull yourselves up, you want to stand on a man and put him down.
I was also forced to DIVEST! I stop dating black American men 3 years ago and married a Kenyan man. The black men I dated had no interest in seriously settling down to make me a wife. I am honestly the happiest I have ever been in a relationship and in my marriage simply because I chose to open up my options and date outside of my culture. I honestly think many more people would find love and be happy if they would take the step to date someone of A different race or a different culture.
As a black American man married to a black American women I do believe the system (policies) in place make it so that black American men & women are incompatible with each other. It’s done to basically stop a revolution, it’s working just look at black Americans we’re too chaotic as a group to build anything our women make most family decisions & the black men at best are placed on the periphery of the family. No real male leadership unless there’s an emergency but most things are through the prism of women. Only recently has men’s opinion even been discussed let alone taking seriously. Until black men unite the black community will continue to be in chaos.
Being a Mexican I feel the same but with my own race. I date Black women never had a problem that same way I did with Mexican women. I've come to believe we are just tired of following what people say and to date a certain pool of women. In the end it doesn't matter as long the person you're with got your back and be willing to roll with you through thick and thin
Deadass tho. Mexican women didn't want nothin to do with me, second I start speaking with black and white chicks. All of the sudden it's, “you think you're too good for us?” Like wtf don't get near me if you never gave me the time to begin with.
It’s the “Donald Glover Jr” phenomenon. Dealt with the same shit in high school. Pants didn’t sag low enough, I wasn’t “hood enough” grew up in a 2 parent household, so I was a “lame” lol Ain’t get no time or energy from the sistas but did from Hispanic girls and white girls. Especially in college. And while I prefer to date within my race, at 32 years old and no kids of my own, my primary preference is to settle down and experience parenthood for the first time with my partner who is similar to me, ie no kids… guess which race of women are the highest percentage of single moms 🤦🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🫠 shit ain’t looking too hot for me but it is what it is. If I get smoke for settling down with a non BW, it wasn’t for lack of trying 😂
PLEASE GO outside of your race. Please, for God's sake, leave Black women the hell alone. Matter of a fact, message me if you need help getting your passport so you can just leave. The Philippines are nice this time of year. Iceland is beautiful. Russia gets a bad rap but is actually quite pleasant. Let me know if you need help with leaving Black women .
Every black girl I’ve met directly assumed a dated white girls just based off my personality but I’m like what the hell, I can still read my comic books and date a black woman, even my cousins thought the same thing
I'm a person that always stayed to myself. Got bullied in school. And The brothers would look at me and as I walk passed them it's laughing and whispering. Some guys even told me that they thought that I was stuck up. And, that some of them thought I was dating a wm. That wasn't never the case. I was quiet, stayed to myself, and didn't fuck with ppl who had drama and chaos. I left that shit alone. And, it pissed me off bc they assumed that I only dated white men. Don't assume. Come and talk to me get to know me then judge. BTW: I have dated outside my race. But, it was never wm.
@@charliemcfadden9769I thought only us black men went through this because we have to do the approaching and face the rejection up front. I feel like we should create an organization for bm and bw who don’t partake in the degeneracy. 😂
When I go out black women don't make eye contact or give me a second glance but if I'm with a white girl they stare me down like I owe them money. I ain't never been a pretty boy and I'm cool with that. Never been too flashy. But I realized a long time ago I don't want the type of women that don't want me. Truth be told most sisters ain't been raised and started hoeing early. They don't know what a good man look or act like. Brothas gotta stop turning these little girls out for real. It ain't all nobody fault. We been programmed by the enemy to destroy each other for real. I don't see a solution to the problem.
There’s a solution. It’s what you are doing. Continue dating white or Latina women. Just don’t date the scraps that white men don’t want - you know the types!
@@qwammienewsome1357 and the black men were raised with their fathers? He’s right we’ve been conditioned to date outside and criticize our own constantly. Our community is mentally damaged
Dang that sad but when they hit the older years or get in trouble you know who they going to call they go on dating app and try to look for the good man to save her😂😂😂
This is so true. I was never cool enough. I didn’t walk right or I didn’t talk right. I was never what they wanted. Now I’m married to an Asian woman for 23 yrs and I make six figures.
A year ago I approached this black women wanting to talk to her and get her phone number she asked me what I do I told her I work on aircrafts why she say "ew tell me you sell drugs or something not no damn aircrafts" before I approached her she didn't give us "ghetto" vibes so that gave me the confidence to walk up to her
She corny for that . I’m a black a woman and I think it’s lit . Some of them do be needing a reality check Missing out on good men to date a guy that’s going to dog you out is played out sis Give me the computer geek or the tech genius
Bruh. Growing on the east side of Detroit with my name was harsh and I spoke properly (talk white) because my mother was an English teacher . It was rough in the 90s.
That's not talking white. It's talking proper. I'm pretty sure if he's around his family or friends, it a lil more vibe street talk. But it's about time & place. It's common sense right place, right time.
@@SynKyllerBruh, I feel that! 95% of the black girls who had never seen me in that time period when we talked on the phone said I sound white. They still say that... AND, non-black women say that too and have been saying that for years! 💯
I’m proud of being a nerd because that’s what get us to the bank. But I remember being bullied because I was playing soccer which people looked down on me for playing that sport that was International. The common sports in my community was basketball, football, baseball. I remember being turned down by everyone in my community especially the females and I said when I get older I will become great and I remember I was training for soccer I was working harder then even . As years pass by I ended up winning medals and awards for my team and for my school I was offered to Study abroad for soccer which I was sent to Southern France, Frankfurt Germany, and Naples Italy. Now I’m 18 years old after 13 years of hard work now I’m getting drafted to the 3 division German soccer league called liga 3.
Damn, I really want to hate you for how young, dedicated, and successful you are but. I'm too damn proud of you. Atta boy champ, if I see you in a game I'll be rooting for you. "The women of my own race don't want me" Hmm, if I were you, I'd be too busy being balls deep in some strange to be thinking about that kind of nonsense.
The same thing happens to women too. I was awkward, lame, nerdy most of the guys growing up wanted what we call the IG model hood girls too. I was always the home girl, the best friend, etc…Every time I see videos like this I already know the type of women they was doing the rejecting…and for every girl that was rejecting you there was probably a girl that wasn’t apart of the “in” crowd willing to get to know you…I’m thankful now though because being the home girl spared me from a lot of drama and unnecessary heartache and I married a black man a good friend of mine from High School lol
No man in the world is gonna turn down a pretty girl because of her status🤣 that is absolutely ridiculous😂 you either fine or you ain’t😂 a womans status and fame does not matter to a man😂😂😂
Exactly! All these so called nerds were chasing after the 304 baddies. They had no interest in black women who were also nerds. Now they in here crying.🤣 Please
@@zerotolerance2026 Nowadays, there are female nerds that are thick, curvy, and sexy! I remember one nerd that was in disbursing back in the Navy and never hollered at her only because she was white and I wasn't really into white chicks like that, but we cool on FB now. If she don't have a particular body, small waist, wide hips and a big you know what, I'm not checking for her because I need a real woman, not an anorexic little girl!!!
I feel like another reason some of us black men date outside their race is because our parents try to raise us in affluent or “better” neighborhoods around other kids who can’t relate to us at all. Then we grow up not even knowing how to interact with our own people. Atleast that was my experience
This is facts. My little brothers only ever been with Asian women for same reasons.. truth is most young black women have no idea what to look for in a quality man. By the time they mature, those guys have as well and aren’t looking for them anymore.
Facts im not really into black women anymore for the same reason I just see ghetto relationships when I look at them doesn’t matter if she’s into it or not
This is a blessing; Ive been to countries like Ethiopia, Uganda, Phillipines, and Brazil. Black American men are treated with respect there. Go overseas the women are more attractive hands down.
@@jeremiahborders2959 the same qualities that would make you high value in nearly all other communities makes us lame in ours. Being educated well spoken intellectually curious about the world non violent etc. Notice how even our college educated women spend a lot of their youth and time on the same bad boys they wanted in HS but everyone else grew up and decided to actually date men who were reliable?
@@Seancarter2010 so are you telling me that we have no black lawyers, doctors, astronauts, professors and teachers, scientist, audio engineers, bankers, politicians or government officials, loan officers, accountants, Insurance workers Museum historians, bankers and others in the black community??? We all just gangbanging, shooting, and prostituting in these streets?🤔🙄 y'all need to get the fuck off of social media and stop falling into these God damn false narratives. There is good and bad in every fucking community. Y'all never heard the phrase "white trailer park trash"??😒 there are plenty of educated well spoken black people that come from the ghettos, the trenches, and the hood. I don't get it, why are y'all so confromtable sitting in stereotypes and believing them?
These is what happened with me & my brothers. We are Nigerian. They all date or married white or Asian women. Except me! I married a fellow Nigerian black woman. When we migrated to the U.S., in early 2,000’s, we were absolutely ignored by African American women for not being “hood”. Didn’t matter that we are decently good looking, well spoken and tall. So, we never even thought about them as a possibility. Now, most of us are millionaires from hard work, business, and investments. We are all with the same women in happily married homes. Don’t blame us!
How exactly would you know why a person ignored you if they are in fact ignoring you??? Would you go as far to say that you had NO positive encounter with African Am women or would that defeat your narrative???
People always ask me why I married a white woman. And the answer is always the same: “You can only marry who likes you.” My second fiancé is now black. She doesn’t understand what this experience is truly like. I didn’t get invited to parties. I didn’t get to go to homecoming or prom. I didn’t get any attention. So in most cases you just begin to put your head down into your goals and accept that everyone is below you and work on yourself to make that the reality.
Thank you! They ignored all the black girls who were nerdy in their social scenes! It don’t matter how nice and polite she was, she wasn’t white so they weren’t even paying attention to her
This is exactly why I chose to try other races… my mom would say all the time “that’s my erkel” I was not the typical young black male. I was a corn ball, military brat. As green as you could be and not a single black girl liked me. But soon as I start dating outside my race. “Oh must hate your own women”
I was hella into anime as a kid. When I shot my shot. Black woman called me weird,green & lame. But they loved my drug dealing brother. My first date was with a Latina who loved anime too. I didn’t get a date from a black woman until I was in college
That’s why I’ve always said to go where you are celebrated not tolerated. If you have to come out of pocket, simp, or trick then you’re with the wrong girl. Stay Focused!
@@weavemademeadeadbeatdad2888 That's not what he said. Providing for your family is one thing, always paying for a woman that you're just talking to for example: her rent, car note, utilities just for her attention then that's a problem.
According to the video, the nerd was rejected by bw while he was broke. 15 years later he’s a multimillionaire and dating WW. Can anybody figure out why the WW is with him?
@jericothompson8636 he said the dude was in the "neighborhood". Then he said 15 years later. If white girls were dating him in the neighborhood, there would have been no need to say 15 years later when he was a multimillionaire. The dude in the video also rejected the nerd because he choose not to be one. Why are they defending the needs now?
@@halfurbanhalfsuburban8219 you’re making an assumption. He never specified when white women started dating him. Just like he never specified if the black women were nerdy or more cultured lol. You basically made a bunch of assumptions based off what he DIDNT say to pick this dude and his life experiences apart. And even if white women didn’t date him back then, BLACK WOMEN DIDNT EITHER. So who should he date, NOBODY??
I was considered a lame growing up. My first choice in women was black women. As I went to college White women, Asian and some latinas choose me. I still wanted black women but I just wasn’t their type. No problem, I am close to 30 no kids and continuing to pursue the different races of women who want me.
I used to judge black men who dated outside their race heavy. With all the rhetoric I see online, and person etc see why! Our women want no accountability for the foolishness of the program and that they undertaken. Our women defend everybody else
Girl, plenty of Black girls got ostracized and excluded as well. This particular issue isn't as much about how Black women treat men. This is a community issue and that idea of Black identity.
Black females be online literally coaching other black women to trick guy's, play games, they have sex with the so-called alpha males but it's funny as hell to see these same black females get older in their late 40s and 50s looking a hot ass mess because they been ran through but still think they deserve to be married 🤣🤣🤣🤣 this is why I just look at black female's like they crazy! I'd definitely like to date a white woman!, Black female's are straight up overated!
Usually 9 times out of 10 times when a black man doesn't do everything that his peers are doin or speaks clearly and is able to articulate what's on his mind? Usually his own people don't see him as one of them...so I get what this young man is explaining on this video piece 🤔
I hate to say this, but he's speaking the truth. I was always a very sensitive, empathetic, kind, reserved guy, and BW thought that I was weird, nerdy, lame, odd, girly, but the Non-BW were more accepting of my personality and they adored these traits I had, and I always felt more at ease with Non-BW, than my own. I've dated some BW though, but I gravitate more towards non-bw.
It's interesting. There are women who had similar experiences growing up. Yet BM date/marry non-BW 2 or 3 times more than BW. What's the reason(s) for that?
Straight facts dudes get looked at like lames most of these women wouldn't of talked to the Michael b Jordan of the world in highschool or dudes like childesh Gambino and I hope I spelled his name right but them dudes was dorks coming up
I hate this type of thinking. If you go to an HBCU, you will meet *all kinds* of black people, from nerds, to athletes, to pan Africanists, to people straight out the hood. This idea that black women only want one type of black man is hilarious. I mean, y'all do know that nerdy black women exist too right? Maybe you're looking in the wrong places.
When my preference wasn't black men, the main ones coming for me were black men. Yall said the craziest crap to me. I didn't say anything. I married out of race. Now I'm the only woman I know that is not a baby momma.😅
Im about to ruffle feathers... Black people are more likely to keep each other down, I mean they want to see you do good but only when it's beneficial to them, the moment you move different and they don't benefit in any way from how you move, “you are a sellout”. But you’al not ready for this conversation.
Literally me. Rejected harshly by every black women I tried to get with because I wasn’t “gangsta” now I can’t post my girlfriend on twitter without black women and men calling me racist and insulting my girlfriend👎🏿
You'd think that make sense but these guys convinced the world we don't exist . Plus, if you wanna get technical, these guys go after the same girls the pookies and rayrays go after 🤷🏾♀️
@@I_Am_NiiTAI went to white high school and college never saw blk boys there…thought I was missing out nope they all baby daddies and won’t apply for a retail or any job! Gross when they ask for money food shelter like are u able to do anything on your own without being in slavery?
I think this is a similar situation for other races as well and the opposite sex. White men were never interested in me growing up; in my 20 or 30’s. Not until I hit my 40’s white men now are attracted to me. I’ve been married to a black man for almost 11years now. I do know that black women liked him and still do. He was never considered lame.
@@steviemak10 Oh...a question with a question...smh. I don't know the true number, but I do know a lot of BW who are great wives and are appreciated by their black husbands.
I tried for several years being told that I talked to proper and the fact that I can make good decisions was held against me by black women.. I didn't do enough hood s*** even though I grew up in the hood...
Bro is just as fragile as the white man who only dates asians. You finna finna find the hard way women of all races be acting like that sometimes. No need to shit on your own
Women of other races are just nicer and a lot more approachable. I've actually been approached, hit on, invited, and asked out on dates by other races while out in public and at work more times than I can count. That's never happened with a BW.
@@MrJebusboi I hate when the reply is always “so you hate your mother/grandmother/sister?” NO we never said that that’s such an excuse. No one ever said I wanted to date my mother and my mother loves what I love she wouldn’t ever set a specific standard for me to date she wants ME to be happy. I hate when the response is always oh so you don’t like your own family like no stop that smh
@@patrickduvigneaud5857 it's disingenuous at best, the same logic can be applied visa versa for how BW to BM but it's doesn't get brought up because it's a not a productive argument point
Thank you finally the elephant in the room is addressed. Nobody speaks about this. This is the lived experience of many black men who aren’t hood adjacent.
Well maybe if they switched up their preference and went for the more educated well rounded black girls instead of hood ones they wouldn’t have put themselves in this situation. It’s crazy that he talks about “all black women” because this is not true. I can even say the same thing about blk men, but then again I realize that they’re not all the same. It really just has something to do with how and where you were raised
@@chance_C True, but it amazes me how our own people are turning against one another. I don't see other races degrading one another; it's literally just black people. It's almost embarrassing
S/O to Krew Season for this video. To the Black Men that divest, I don't blame you. The reason I say this is all Black Men that are competitive, productive, financially stable go where they are revered not tolerated.
I don't blame them either. If another group of women want to deal with the joblessness, fatherlessness, low incomes, astronomical incarceration rates, astounding violence rates, high crime rates, lack of educational attainment then that's their funeral. I just wish our non-Black sisters were getting a better deal but...
@@TomikaKelly that doesn’t sound like “competitive, productive, and financially stable” black men though 🤔 I think they’re the ones trying to figure out how the pookies are chosen over them
I’m a nerd, not by looks by mentality and I still get shunned out of the black community. I always get, “your wife must be white because you like science and mathematics”. Don’t have a title like engineer or architect; the struggle is real!!
The truest shit right here. I remember a BW told me when I was 25 that I was gay or trying to be white. Reasons... I had no kids, hadn't been to jail, didn't drunk or do drugs. And the fact I watch cartoons and collect shit was super suspect too. But then when I cussed her out the next day she said I was just like the niggas out here who don't know how to treat a woman. I became confused. Was I gay or just another nigga. Mind you she had a kid, but wanted to be with her baby daddy who left her and moved to Texas. Mind you we live in Chicago. Ahh the memories. 😆
This is literally me, except I’m with a Spanish chick who will soon be a stay home mom. They look at me side ways when I walk with her but black women hate the quiet and well spoken black man.
Black women (especially in the hood) will reject a black man for being “too nice”. /Too nice/: we’ll mannered, kind, eloquent, articulate, respectful, reserved, SMART e.t.c. Only when they are older SINGLE MOTHERS who have been used and abused by the “bad boys” do they come to appreciate these qualities in man.
