We will not invite God first then later we start to disturb the man of God .I have learned my lesson, we should never leave God behind before we take any move as a child of God.
So many women have died, some even have been maimed all because in our Ghanaian culture, divorce is not in our dictionary. The family must take it upon themselves to intervene and stop those men who abuse women physically and emotionally. It is not the duty of the pastor to make that decision. This is an eye opener. Women, work up. Don't wait till you have been destroyed by these unscrupulous men.
As bad as the situation is, the Apostle is right. He is not the one who took her dowry therefore has not right traditionally to dissolve the marriage. It is the responsibility of her family to return the drinks back to the guy's family. They can eve go drop it there and leave if no one is there and inform them later😂. No need to wait for the pastor at act in anyway. It is Abro's responsibility to end the marriage
But I wonder why the pastor is not advising the lady to be submissive to the husband but blaming the man as if he is a devil. The pastors of today don't know how to advise married people. Also the family should leave the pastor out of the marriage issues and do what is right. It seems the parents are not matured enough to solve marrital issues. Stop putting pressure on the pastor and advice your daughter