me and my husband where married at 19 and people said we where to young and we wouldnt work but valentines day we are celebrating our 20 years and we proved everyone wrong
It's sunnah to get married young, so don't feel discouraged about it. Mashallah you guys are so gorgeous, May Allah continue to bless you and your families ❤️
It may be Sunnah but its not easy finding the right partner and Ive seen many youth marrying and they dont know or even take care of themselves, I feel one needs to grow in maturity and life leaning to stand on their own two feet before settling down with a spouse.
I also agree that maturity is a factor, but if someone is trying to avoid fitnah for the sake of Allah then surely the process will be blessed by Allah.
There's a hadith that states that the Prophet (saw) said to the young people "whoever of you that can get marry young should get married young, because it helps them lower their gaze and guard their private parts. And who isn't able to get married young should fast because it diminishes their desires" {Al-Bukhari, Book 62, Hadith 4}
They seem very happy. I got married just before I turned 19 and my husband was 21 we are still together after 44 yrs. I wish this young couple all the very best and may they be happy together always.
U did the right thing to get married and make it halal, sad that people don't understand. As long as ur mature and can provide for ur wife why not marry it's all cool thn
When they look at each others lips and start smiling it makes me wonder why my relationship is so ffffff'd up 😂 I look at my partner and wanna punch him...
The society pushes young ppl to never ending schooling and education and now its even tabu to get married young. Family institution is being destroyed. I wish u best luck and may Allah bless your marriage.
Really good that you fought for things to be halal. It's a shame that people make it so hard to be halal. Hopefully things can change in the future. Really nice to see how you did the right thing, MashAllah
Well done on making it halal. A nikkah is so simple. Its a shame when family makes it difficult. Anyone else going through the same thing should just buck up and be honest with their parents. Doing the right thing shoulnt have to be so hard. Its also vital for parents to have a close relationship with their kids. Well look at it this way, you had it tough but any kids you have wont have to go through it 👍
you two are telling us{ younger generation} something so important, like its not crazy to get married at a young age. i love you guys so much. please keep you life a little private, evil eye is true. and thank you may allah bring you two together in the hereafter.
My parents would have the problem with the fact I had a boyfriend in the first place and literally never speak to me again because of that grave sin 😭😭😭
Love how open you both were with answering these questions. Great example to the youngsters dating -definitely make it halal asap but be aware it's far from easy!💗
So glad to see a young couple with a wise mind. Ma’sha’Allah The struggles you went through, you will be rewarded for... so watch this space. And hats off to you for staying strong through all the hardship.
On religious pasperpective I like how u guys dint want to get into haram relationship That's something to admire really And it's sad when families don't understand that
I got married young too. Muslim as well. My hubby is a british revert and I’m Fijian Indian. And my parents were really supportive. Perhaps the only thing was they thought it was rushed but really when you know, you know. And it’s now been 4 months since our marriage ! It always works out in the end. :)
I told my mum about his guy once and she was so understandable about it , she agreed and everything. but at the end the guy ended up only wanting me for papers to stay in the USA .. and when I said I didn’t want to marry yet and that I wanted to finish school.. he broke up with me to get married with another girl who was a citizen ,LOL ... so moral of the story I really gotta watch out on who to trust and understand who actually loves me. I’m not lucky like Tanya 😂😂😭❤️
ya allah I'm so sorry for your experience. may this experience make you the woman you are today and stronger. pls make sis for me and keep me in your well wishers. I feel I've fallen dad and only duas will keep me steadfast.
MashaAllah you guys are so cute❤️ May Allah protect you both from evil eyes and I'm glad everything worked out in the end. I lovee the honesty in this video!! ❤️ Love from Australia.
Aww bless you both😚...it is hard when it comes to telling your parents some take it well and others don't but least you guys got married in the end Alhamdulillah xx
so happy you made this vid finally😭😍! got to know you both properly& mashallah you are an amazing couple, who are so strong😰! May allah bless you with tons of happiness!😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️ Loveyou tan! xxxxxx
First of all I have incredible respect for you both for getting married out of respect for each other, your families and Allah SWT. And you guys are absolutely adorable mashallah god bless you both!
You guys are so cute. She is gorgeous! It's crazy how people of the same race go through so much crap. You guys seem very mature and into eachother for the right reasons. I'm dating someone outside my race but of course respecting my culture but it's definitely very hard. The fact your families even met and not banning you totally off is good.
I recently came across your channel. Honestly I just want to say MA SHA ALLAH you guys are just goals for eachother. I also loved the Q&A and get to knkw you guys a little better.💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙 love u guys xxxxxxx P.S. can you guys do ethnicity tag please?.
I'm intrigued to know why his family were so reluctant to let him get married... not being nosy but I feel like it's probably a struggle which a lot of people could relate to
I think it's great thing getting married young. I got married young like you guys. I been married for 15 years now. Life is great. I pray you guys always be happy together.
