MARRIAGE SO FAR...AND OUR REALITY! 

You have a healthy relationship. Discovery is a normal process and in that process self-ness and independence change toward one another. Arguing is normal; you acknowledge the need, scripturally and spiritually, to resolve your differences--your marriage grows by leaps and bounds.

Lol! Y'all too cute and honest. My first time watching. Yes when you are married and living together, the things you notice lol. Hubby and I have been married 11yrs, trust me you will gradually learn to love and or respect each other's differences. The fact that you are individually realizing your short comings this early is excellent. Enjoy each other, give each other time to grow. You seem like a really sweet, 'real' couple. Looking out for the next vid! I wish you guys all the best! God bless!

Mel God bless you for being honest about what you struggle with, both of you complement each other perfectly and God will continue to help you both grow on this beautiful journey. Love your videos!💕😊

Y'all preaching to me!! I'm single and you guys' testimony has made me reevaluate myself. I, too am a little selfish and hot-tempered---but I'm working on it. Lot's of praying. Great vlog by the way 😊

Congratulations on your marriage.... you're a beautiful couple 😁🤗

I thank you guys sooo much for sharing...often times people paint a picture like marriage is a fairytale...smh😞. Thanks for your honesty. Wish all the best if health, wealth and a lifetime of happiness...blessings. Letisha from Jamaica

Yes I’m early 💪🏽... wishing u guys a successful marriage life

Lovely couple to watch and the fact that you are both born again Christians is just amaizing.

LOL! Your intro to this vlog just made me subscribe yayyy!

Arguing is healthy "LOL".. Ok, that's a new one.. To each his own but I've been married 12 yrs (BW/WM) and we've disagreed but it's not constant or a regular occurrence :-). Hopefully you all aren't letting petty things ruin the loving bond between you two :-) Wishing you all the best. God bless!

😂😂😂 that's intro was very funny !!! Don't worry Mel you are not alone in that's situation when I get upset I really like to left alone and digest all or just have my space for other reasons... but I think recognising our mistakes or weakness is a key to resolve the issue, I also think that many people who were so independent , or just spent longtime alone by doing themselves or other things whatever it's ,they dealing with some selfish behavior... and now u guy's are not alone anymore u got to share everything, but guy's i can tell u have a great chemistry good self-critical mind good communication..and very important u have the father lord among u 💪🙏.... ( Mel most of the men are messy...😕😲) don't worry mike in a few years by observing your beautiful wife and putting some efforts u gonna probably have a B (7/10) 🙌🙌 By the way great video not to long simple and good content.. thanks for sharing wish u a very blessed mariage good long life together be blessed always😘

Mel: 'It's hot in here' Mike: 'babe, you are sitting next to me' LOL I watched that 3 times. Anyway, new subbie right here!!!

Don't worry honey it's a working progress but communication is key and patience

I don't usually subscribe to vlogs, but you guys are so lovely made for each other and your commitment to God is inspiring as well. It's cool you being out and about round London as I am a Londoner as well!!

Hey, Mike & Mel!! I loved the video! It was so funny!! ♡

Coming to resolutions is the MOST important! Best of luck to you both. :)

Hi guys! Literally just came across your video. Congrats on your marriage! It’s soooooo refreshing to see a young couple who fears Daddy God & are not ashamed of their faith. We normally put up our Christmas Tree 🎄 in November as well! Both my sons were born in December and love their birthday presents 🎁 under the Christmas Tree. Are you guys now based in the UK or Canada? God bless you both. From London.👆💍💕

You two are great together. Yeah. Going from single to a relationship. Its taught me how selfish I can be. Total respect.

Mel, reminds me of Robin Givens. In any relationship, you have learn to respectfully disagree. You shouldn't go to bed angry however does that necessarily mean you have come to a consensus, it may take 24 hrs?!? Wow, Mel and Mike love that you are soo transparent with your flaws/struggle this is key to your growth!

Hey Hey. I just found you two... Your "How we met" video snagged my heart. I love the Lord and I will wait until God introduce me to my Mr Welcome. Mel I so feel the same way on that video.💕 You two are my favorite couple on RU-vid. Have stupendous weekend. Chow😎

I totally understand you Mel,im also like when I get upset l just want to be left alone and become very silent

You both are lovely ... you are so cute ... you had me smiling the whole time !!! Congratulations!!!

showing love. Happy V-day to you and yours!

Congratulations guys! My husband is super untidy we are now 30 years in (I'm talking apple core on the floor) I'm OCD we've blanced each other out. He's a gentleman an amazing father. You fell in love always remember that. Marriage is about coexisting being raised very differently doesn't mean you can't gel. My husband is white middle class, I'm black British of caribbean decent. Remember if he's tidy up better than he did before recognise the improvement and remember that Rome wasn't built in a day. Hubby remember we all deal with our emotions differently some people need space to calm down (to prevent saying something that will regret) it might be worth talking about a what is and what isn't reasonable. All the best guys. And remember to talk respectfully the Bible talks about a gentle answer being sweeter than honey. It also talks about a harsh tongue an where it leads. I really wish and pray for you both to enjoy a blessed marriage.

I really appreciate you waiting until you married before moving in together, bless your beautiful heart ❤️, keep loving each other and praying all the time together, I love you channel 😍❤️🌸🌹🌷🌺

Don't be easily offended, above all lighten up and have fun...

Hey, you guys are a “breath of fresh air.” If you don’t judge self, you can’t deal when others seee... I love it... 1 Corinthians 11... Blessings, many children 👶 blessings, BishopB

I love the start. Such fun.

Subscribed because you said you did it "the Christian way." 😚

Beautiful couple, and that lipstick is lovely on you.

I love you two....such fun watching you...

Beautiful!!! Love vortex

Congratulatuons.. you guys your too cute together.. God bless ur union ❤❤❤

I understand what you mean by 'argue' more after you start living together. We barely fought while we were dating but then we started having more disagreements when we started staying together. OMG you are so much like me Mel. When we have a fight, I want to be left alone and given time to be mad,lol My hubby hates it. He will make you mad and then wants to kiss you the next second and i'm like no hahaha First time watching you guys and I will e subbing.

#flabbergasted,whoop whoop BTW I love you guys

'THE MIDDLE OF THE BED'!!!!!! That was H I L A R I O U S ! ! ! ! ! Too cute!!

Mel what lipstick are you wearing?

As a married woman, you will find a lot about yourself living with your other half. Since you were bold to mention you are praying about being selfish might I suggest you find superficial ways to improve self. Like allowing your partner to speak more in conversations. That was something I practiced consciously at the jump of my marriage.

One king size bed with 2 duvets!

Great video. Hilarious

omg, sooo cutee

Congrats and GodBless as well , Please!

That intro 😂😂😂❤

Is she from toronto?

wishing you well

Happy wife, happy life.

YOU SHOULD DO A SLOW VERSION ON HOW YOU ARRVIE ON THE SOFA AND YOUR EXPRESSION HONEY. EPIC ! bomb laugh !

Wait, are you from Toronto???

Great Vlog! Thanks for sharing your journey! I don't know that you all would be interested but please check out "Our Marriage Table" RU-vid channel. It's really good!

You should do vlogsmas

Hahahaha honey is Home 😂

EGO is a terrible thing... that’s why there are arguments. Check that and see how things change. Best of luck to you both.

Lol " unbelievable" he says it just like my sunshine! And he's just like him a little messy but thank God I don't need to talk for that cause he's really trying

One month and all this? Where is Jesus when you guys are acting like this. Just love each other!

Ever notice how so many of these videos are NON AMERICAN white men. I'm just saying...sisters. PASSPORT!

You look like Meghan Markle Mel

I can tell Mel has bad temper, and no patience to her husband, in just this video. It's normal to fight in a ralitionship! Wish the best!