@@Verybery7 Now it's gonna be wayyy worse..... She dumb for not doing the before the wedding.... Like of alllll the time you had.... You did it during marriage.... And it's not like she's the only one who's gonna suffer..... Dude's gonna have it worse now...... Being tagged as a divorced person is better than this
@@undead_6662 maybe she did it on the wedding day so people could take her seriously I am sure she tried ending the wedding before the actual day of marriage. Her parents could have been forcing her to get married you have to think both sides. It’s not the girls fault it’s definitely the parents
Atleast that girl stopped the marriage. I have seen a family being ruined because of a girl unwillingly marrying even after the man asked her if she was willing to marry him with her full consent or family pressure. The girl said she was willing to marry(after few days of marriage she said she didn't want to marry.. she married for her brother and family pressure🤷♀️). But after marriage the man who married her and his family had to go through hell.They had to suffer a lot because of that girl and her behaviour after marriage. So I think it is better to call off the marriage even if it is a few minutes before.Actually that man and his family was saved...Thank God🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@@shwetachettiar1597 This culture has been practising for Thousand of decades. This will not happened, India Varum ipidi.... Only pasupathy can helpds everyone...
Selfish crooks... feminists point of view - if it has happened to a girl means its a blood ,for a boy it's a tomato chutney...what a right to equality...men also has equal feeling and pain as women..
Being forced into marriage for a woman means legal rape for the rest of her life. It's obscene - and all the families involved will have know the girl was unwilling all along but they forced her into the wedding anyway and got what they deserved.
@@juanitarichards1074 Don't forget, same Goes for the Boy also...And Now He has a legal right to filed a Case Against her Bcoz, Bcoz of her and her family he and his family Spent soo Much money on his wedding....All r goes in vain with Self respect also...Soo She Should pay all his Spendings on his wedding
@@ultra8142 Her family will have spent just as much on the wedding they forced her into......after she had told them many times she did not want this marriage and they refused to listen, so in one final desperate act she did not consent to the marriage. The parents need to learn when their adult kids say no, they mean no.
@@juanitarichards1074 You are not from India ...Our Indian culture is very different from your radical leftist SJW culture....You don't have any right about talking about Indian marriages and its cultural values
why the hell isnt anyone talking about the guy here? the guy comes all the way to the day of the wedding just to see this drama? really? who deserves that? what was the harm in breaking off days before the wedding or during the first meeting? all are praising the girl on her pseudo boldness...this shows the attitude of our society...feminism has gone so deep into the heads that people refuse to acknowledge the mistakes based on gender. Sad
Typical Indian society dont understand, it not about two families pride, but about two couples whole life. Boy and girl should be free to end the engagement or marriage, if they are not happy, with this.
Wt about him ? Alantivallani kodithey medalu virige varaku kottali ! Mundhu thelidha marriage istam ledhu ani ? andhari mundhu papam aa bro ki ela vuntundhi asalu 😢
@@aiswaryasa446 If the characters are interchanged and if boy says the same then I know what your comment would be Isne uss ladki parivaar ka ijaat barbaath kar dhi!! Respect will not given just because your women!! It's earned by the way you behave!! If she does then ITS HER CHOICE? When women is at guilt then accept it give apology and then don't commit such mistakes that's it
@@yousasable it's her life. she would have to live with that man for her entire life probably, not you so I think what she did is right maybe it was not the right time to say it but what choice did she have. what choice do all of us women have in India? we are stuck at home cooking, cleaning and all that we don't have fun like the boys or can express opinions like boys so I think it's ok that she at least told them at the last minute that she doesn't want to be with this man. and also I don't want to judge if she was right or wrong or if the boy was right or wrong because we just don't know the complete story we only know like 10% of the story and yall are fighting against the woman already. the real enemy here is not women it's the patriarchal society we live in, please understand that and live in peace.
Ponnuku veetil dharma adi vilunthu irukum, but bravo! I know a bride who wanted to run away from the wedding hall because it was a forced by the groom, she didn't even love him. But, that day it was raining heavily and the surrounding places was flooded, so she couldn't run. 😂😂😂. Luckily she's happily divorced now🤣🤣🤣
Another Reason of Forced Marriage.. this is an old videos.. this has changed in most parts of India! Pls Remember Marriage is like the second most important thing in your life! So make your Right choice.. its never late than never!
Exactly said bro if they dont like marriage just inform the guy before engagement why is that all girls stop at marriage or before few days to marriage
Obviously cause the parents not listening to them so they desperate that's why the last minute in front of everyone they take drastic action because they know that strangers and most importantly the officials will support them cause they have to follow the rules .the parents might have the mentality that after marriage is ok .I'm glad she did this cause it is a lesson to all parents that your daughter has the ultimate say in her life and if you don't want to be humiliated than listen and respect her wishes
Bro we can't judge if we don't know the entire story. But I know one thing, brides life, parents' pressure are not groom. She have no right to say NO. I have seen it in family with my own eyws
@@REDROSE-be3br everywoman has a right.i Just look at the this video.she has a right and she asserted it.its matter of are they brave to use the right or are they free to use the right at that time
The comment section is quick to bash the girl for embarrassing the groom if anything both the bride and groom avoided a horrible marriage. Also instead of blaming the bride you should blame the parents instead because you can assume that the girl must have told her parents about canceling the marriage and they probably didn’t listen to her.
@@heartsoldier4830 ??? And that is why arranged marriages where there isn’t transparency with the couple and parents lead to more problems if the roles were reversed and the parents did maybe force them to marry it wouldn’t be the mans fault
@@gabbyrk87 same thing existe in love marriages n knocked up marriages.. even worst .. becoz now u cant blame anyone but eachother making matters worst n irreconcible..
Do you really think that rude girl can be forced by anyone? This girl is showing rude behavior in front of big crowd, do you think she can't refuse marriage before? Haha. She is just a drama queen nothing else, great applause👏 to groom who tolerated it calmly, if I were in his place I would have punched her on her face and kick her out of mandap.
Now She Should pay all the wedding spending of the Groom...The Groom has the legal right to filed a case... Bcoz of her he has spent a lot of money on this wedding...All r goes in vain with his self respect.... Anyways he deserves Better..... The Girl Isn't Beautiful as well
At the wedding, the girl's family spends more. For gold to the venue. As this is a wedding in Kerala. I'm sure her family is at a huge loss compared to the o groom. Some family spend everything on girls marriage
@@wallflowerwords31 Soo what.... That's not the Business of Grooms Side... whatever They Have Spend ( Groom Side ) , The Girls family Should Return that Money.... She Leaves the wedding that's her family problems her Problem not the problem of the Groom and his family
@@ultra8142 Let's not assume that he didn't know she was willing. Some guys go ahead with it because of the dowry and think the girl won't dare. She dared. Since it's South India, I highly doubt that he didn't get the chance to speak in private with her. Or else she could have found out that he was controlling or gets angry easily. My aunt found out her fiance was very vulgar the day before engagement as he called her a lot of names. But with all of the above reasons, she went ahead with the marriage, because of honour and other bullshit. After six months she escaped with her life and one and half years after marriage she got divorced. Now she's married to a guy who treats her well. If she had said something before, like a day before, then the relatives would have threatened her to shut up and gotten her married. This way, the marriage gets cancelled hundred percent.
To people blaming the bride for calling off the wedding last minute and that she is not "disciplined enough", here is what I have to say - discipline doesn't mean sacrificing your future by getting into a forced marriage. Many Indian men still have this mentality that women's are chattels and can't/ shouldn't speak up for herself. They suppress Women under the name of "discipline'. And a message to the publisher of this video - doesn't matter the women calls off her wedding last minute or 10 years later, it's her decision and you are no one to judge here. She decides who she marries and spends the rest of her life with. Be thankful she stopped the marriage before it even happened if you know what I mean. Peace brothers ✌️
Oo plz kya bakwas hai ye If she doesn't want to marry then she must have cleared it before, behaving like this in the mandap and insulting the guy is totally unacceptable. Jb itna dam hai hi ki sbke samne drama kr rhi to pehle hi dam dikha deti shadi se mana krke.
It's obviously her choice but she could have avoided the embarrassment the groom faced and the money their family wasted if she had called the marriage off before
Ye lo overacting feminist spotted Kuch be bollloo Bass hum Feminist right he bakhi sub wrong Kisiki suneege nahe hum Ab Us groom ke halat kya ab Kytne thakleef hoge usko feelings girls ko rhte h kya
@@intelligencdenny0077 lol brother you are funny. You clearly don't understand the consequences of an unhappy marriage. Why isn't the man questioned here? Why didn't the groom ask the bride well in advance before the wedding if she is interested in the wedding? Perhaps, he didn't ask her and just wanted to marry her for many reasons I don't want to get into right now. But one for sure is dowry. So stop questioning and judging the women for your very own selfish convenience disguised under the name of "emotional feeling" blah blah .... Aur bakwaas ki baat chodo. Ye socho agar ye aapki behen ya future mein aapki daughter hogi toh kya aap use bhi aisa judge karonge? Peace brothers. Everyone has their reasons so please let's not judge one gender (female ones mainly) and punish them for choosing what's right for their life. Cheers, I hope you have an enlightened day!
Y’all can. Use this comment as dislikes .Could see the the title of the video itself portrays a girl instead why can’t they write parents . Can see this is how india still portrays the blame on ahhh I feel disgusted
She want to get arrest .There is groom arrested when he stop marriage .Why bride won't arrest.If it happen to boy it fine when it happen to girl the boy become rascal, criminal this is called feminism
@@shwetachettiar1597 ask this question to your father or brother or anyone in your family members they will tell you the correct answer.you may get your answer
Let's not assume that he didn't know she was willing. Some guys go ahead with it because of the dowry and think the girl won't dare. She dared. Since it's South India, I highly doubt that he didn't get the chance to speak in private with her. Or else she could have found out that he was controlling or gets angry easily. My aunt found out her fiance was very vulgar the day before engagement as he called her a lot of names. But with all of the above reasons, she went ahead with the marriage, because of honour and other bullshit. After six months she escaped with her life and one and half years after marriage she got divorced. Now she's married to a guy who treats her well. If she had said something before, like a day before, then the relatives would have threatened her to shut up and gotten her married. This way, the marriage gets cancelled hundred percent.
Dont dare to blame groom or boys here. This was f*cking miscommunication between bride and her parents. Its not only abt dowry or other blames you put on boys. It could be she loved someone else, pregnant and forced to marry this guy. This brave girl should have communicated atleast to groom before to avoid this.
i don't know whom to blame. i am not sure whether the girl was forced into this marriage. whatever it is, this is way too embarrassing for the groom. anyway she is no beauty.
What you are saying is true. But you have no idea what happens in a brides life. She is pressurized from every side. Her parents won't even listen to her. She might have said NO a lot, but they just care about their prestige. They don't care what her choice is. No one cares. No one. This is a very rare case a women stand for herself. About lakhs of girls just don't have the courage to say NO in public like this. Better to stop now than getting divorce later.
Ask compensation from brides family through community's leaders or boycott her from community if she fails to pay compensation...and same should be applied if reverse happens 🙏 Make people to pay for their mistakes, then it can be a lesson for others 🙏
There is no need to blane the girl when she is forced to marry someone..only on the marriage day, she could voice her opinion till that time she was told by family to keep quiet
As per analysis.. KERALA GIRLS ARE NOT STABLE IN ANYTHING as like this... Eg. Jesi in Vennai thandi varuvaya. Attention Tamil Men! Don't believe mallu girls, they won't be with you when you are in struggling.
*Other* *Indian* Girls plans before Marriage : What should I wear for marriage *Mallu* girls plan before marriage : Is this Guy OK for me or I should wait for a more Liberal ( 🤪in spending money for her) one . I think I can think 🤔 till the last second.
Thats a really sexist thing to say.. mallu girl or not, a girl who wishes to get married would want a guy who respects her and her decisions. Its not about money.. 🤦♀️🤦♀️
