mrblackalchemist "By the way you are a woman." ROFL! Thanks for the "newsflash" alchemist! If it hadn't been for your revelatory insight, I would never have known! "Significant issues between bm and bw" I like seeing interracial couples. I'm of interracial descent myself. But interracial relationships should always descend from love, not rejection of others. I'm speaking in general of quite a few of the interracial relationships I've seen in real life. Sorry, I will always stand for Black women. My grandma was Black. My mother is a woman of color. Black women in my family. And I've known of Black marriages lasting for decades, like my grandmother and grandfather...any issues, in my opinion, should be resolved positively. Interracial marriages and relationships involving Black men and White women where love isn't the primary factor, isn't going to solve any of the "issues" existent between Black men and Black women. It's just going to create more.
Sepia Rose You don't get it do you? You are a woman. What the hell would you know about what a man likes in a woman? Most men don't find black women that attractive. You can stand for $3 bills as well it does not change that most black women are not marriage material.
mrblackalchemist The only unattractiveness I see is in your comment. What an ugly statement. And I fully 'get' it. I get it better than you could possibly ever hope to get yourself. I understand the nastiness in society towards Black women and the underlying sentiments of it very well, where it comes from, and why some Black men have accepted this propaganda despite descending from Black women themselves. This whole "black women aren't considered attractive" bit doesn't even make sense. Not even by THEIR OWN MEN? Who are of THE SAME RACE? Who SHARE THE SAME SKIN COLOR? Who HAVE THE SAME FACIAL FEATURES? Black people are beautiful, men and women. They're a gorgeous group of people and always have been. You can't speak for what all men find "attractive". Despite the unfairness I see vented in general on Black women in society, I still see plenty of African-American women in happy marriages, with men who love and respect them. Some of these marriages are Black and some are interracial. But despite how many people want to make out how Black women are supposedly "not that attractive", many are *still* thriving. Still leading happy, productive lives. Still being beautiful. Still being amazing human beings. And no amount of anonymous keyboard drivel from anonymous keyboard posters is going to change that reality. Have a marvelous day!
+Esme Seyfried how are black men the bottom of the totem pole when we're the most sought after. One of my homeboys got a free trip to Hawaii b/c this older white woman is infatuated with him lol. Everywhere I go, I see black men with women .... normally I see black women with their kids, alone, or other girlfriends.
+Jss Pss The guy that was treated to the trip to Hawaii is a bimbo. That's nothing to be proud of especially if you are a man.  You're not even smart enough to realize that you are being completely emasculated.  As far as Black women being seen with men It's no surprise that Black women are often single when you consider the high murder rate and incarceration rate among Black men. That would also be the reason Black men are sought after if that is even true.  I'm sorry but Black men say a lot of stupid things on social media.  It's a real shame.  That's another reason so many Black women are single.
If a man really had some pride in himself as a man he wouldn't be sponging off of desperate women. Nice people don't use other people. Everything that you just said about Black women has become a cliché that I've heard on social media for years now. So what if someone is over weight or has bad hair. I'm not insisting that you date them. But why do you feel that you have to be cruel and say mean things about them. You Sir are a bully. Furthermore, you might want to seek some divine guidance about what a mans should be and what his responsibilities are.
No matter what anyone says. Men that do not take care of their women and children are not respected. Men that sponge off of women are not respected. Besides that being a user of women is only a sustainable career until you are about forty five. Then what?
+Jss Pss OMG! Are you freaking 12? What country is control solely by a black man that is not considered 3rd world? What major civilized society do black men run without any help from another race? What town or city in the world do a black man run that is considered civilized? Africa is a continent full of many black citizens but yet the white man able to control it from Europe. WHY?
Wolfpack8706 Why not? Check out Tommy Sotomoisture and all the comments below his video. That's not the media, those are black males that hate black women.
I call bullshit. It appears that they found some men that didn't want to marry black women and used them as the bell weather. What is very interesting is that they didn't make the same admission about Asians that auditioned on the show and in fact they have had 2 Indians that did not want to be paired with a Indian partner. Last season was a woman who was clearly stated that the most important thing to her was to be paired only with a white man and this season it is a man who is paired with a white woman. There is a clear preference by the producers for pairing Jewish partners as was seen in the first season as well, but this is not held out as being....distressing even when it is clear that sometimes those people would have been more compatible with a person who happened not to be Jewish. What is more clear is that the show does not seem to want to pair blacks with anything else. Last season there was a white man that would have been more compatible with a one of the black women and he was paired with a white woman and it didn't work out. Same for the black couple. Now what would be interesting is to see a black/white or black/other pairing. It seems that the show only wants one black couple period. Or rather one black man and one black men. How about one black couple and one black/other couple? And better, how about adding some diversity to the selection panel that can understand the issues of couples of color?Perhaps a expert with a mixed race family, either as a marriage partner or adopted children?
rosey312 so then how come it's so easy to find countless black males of all ages who say this about their own race of women yet NOT ONE SINGLE GROUP OF OTHER RACES OF MEN too??
I don't get some guys. I like all women black, white, Asian, Hispanic. I just don't get it. If the person treats you right what difference ethnicity makes. My wife is Caucasian but I do not love my wife because she is Caucasian, I love her for the type of person she is. If would have met a black, Asian, Hispanic women with the personality my Wife has I would have married that woman. My wife and I just connected, really does not matter what color she is.
No, it's just reality. Black women need to stop seeking after men who don't want her. "Chocolate". smh I don't see any Black men making that request. She looks stupid and desperate.
