This is for lawson .. I know that Tiffany has been into acting , how would you feel if she had been given a leading part with an amazing pay but had a kissing scene ??
My marriage advice is focus on changing yourself, not the other person. Also, keep your parents and siblings out of your fights. Women especially run to their parents in fights with their Husband. You will move on, but your parents will remember what you told them about your spouse. So, keep arguments between the two of you.
Does that mean changing urself to make up for what ur husband is lacking in what u need from him. So if u need more reassurances and he isn't giving it I need to change? Sorry I have no parents or siblings to guide me
@jenniesmith9788 HI Jennie! I mean, we can't change the faults we see in our husband. We can't make them do anything we want. Wives and husband's both fall short and have failures. I mean, focus on changing yourself to be a better wife....you can only control you. So many times in marriage, and womwn especially....we try and change the other person. We can't change or control someone else. If you need more reassurance, words of affirmation may be your " love language ". You need that from him....but, you can't make him say those to you. You don't change what you need, but you work on being the best wife you can...because you can only control you. If you have expressed your need for more assurance and he doesn't give it, then take it to the Lord. Nagging won't help.
I come from a family of “3” there’s my older (half) sister Rachael, then there’s me (the middle child), then there’s my dog/fur brother Tyrone (the baby/the youngest) ik dogs don’t count as siblings but he was the only way I could get another “Sibling”
I really liked this Q and A. I think some people have the idea that you have to "wow" us to keep us watching. I actually like the day to day things. What projects you work on? how you spend your time? What does Tiffany do? Does she have projects? Are you learning new skills? It would be neat to join you in learning that even if it is just someone coming over to teach you how to cook something. There is enough drama in the world around us. I enjoy watching as a break from the drama on the internet. But then again, that just may be me.
Lawson, have you thought about making Tiffany a permanent part of your singing career. She has a wonderful voice and was taught to sing professionally.
I love hearing about your love for the Lord and desire to follow and live for Him! We met the Bates family many years ago and even went to their church while in town visiting our family. My husband and I have now been married for 30 years. Best marriage advice: the closer you both are to God, the closer you will be to each other.
Yep, That's the Truth!!I've been married 50 years in September. It's been very rough those first 5 years!! Them he went through a midlife crisis and we almost divorced!! But I married for life!! I've had 4 Step Mom's and 4 step dads do I made up my mind to work our our problems!! It's been better since 2020 then again things happen but hopefully that was the end of it. Things are better now and we are involved in our church of 2 yr.s so Please Pray that Hod eill Bless our Marriage and our family. Thanks !!!
Marriage advice that has helped us in our 17+year marriage is understanding that who you married on your wedding day is not who you'll be married to in X number of years. God has big plans for the growth of you and your spouse and allowing your spouse and self the space to grow into that future warrior is vital. The friction comes in making sure you stay unified, on mission and growing TOGETHER as well. There will be times when God is stretching you in an area and you'll feel vulnerable. Invite your spouse into that space and ask for prayer as you grow. Plus LOTS and LOTS of laughter!
You guys are amazing! To be able to say we all need a Savior is so true and isn't it wonderful you can say that and be totally honest with your life and have the peace that only a Savior can give. It doesn't matter what others think. Keep living your lives with your Savior. Love the Bates.
I asked this question on another forum hopefully you will answer it next. Tiffany, did you ever watch the show Bringing up Bates or United Bates of America before you met Lawson and if so what did you think?
I’m the oldest of 10, we have 5 boys and 5 girls (plus we lost two babies) I LOVE having the amount of siblings I have, always would’ve loved to have more but this is how God wanted our family and it’s wonderful!! Love listening to answer all these questions 😊
I am an only child but I have alot of cousins, the best advice I could give you is at least have two babies. I have two and at times they drive each other insane but if one needs the other they are there. As for marriage advice just be 100% honest with each other and don't let those little things turn into something huge. Don't let outside influence come between you and say I love you as much as possible. Y'all are sweet God Bless
@@margarethicks8833 My parents always brought a friend of mine on our vacations. When they passed I didn’t have siblings to bounce plans off of. I did have my husband and adult daughters.
@@rondamiller4206 I have adopted sisters that I lean on, I don't know what I would do without them. God definitely Blessed me when he put them in my life.
Marriage advice: honor and love are key. Discuss disagreements and hear each other out. Speak those love languages often! I grew up in a 4 child family but unfortunately our family was not Christian and my Dad was married 4xs, my mom 3xs. I was the youngest and ther only girl. My two oldest brothers had the same mom. I was born 12 years later then my dad's last wife had a son who was 4 years older then me. He and I were close but I did sometimes wish I had someone else to play with and do things with. None of my brothers have much to do with me or my family so sometimes its crummy being the youngest and being left behind. We have 5 and homeschool and are Christians so we are the weirdos in our families 🤣. I pray our children stay close and involved with each other all their lives.
Lawson, how has your relationship changed with your siblings since being married? Tiffany is being around Lawsons Family and they’re all there ever overwhelming for you?
If it's on your property, the neighbors don't have a say in whether or not a fence goes up. If it's an issue, that's what it is, their issue. That's part of the importance of making certain your land has been surveyed by a licensed surveyor. Kudos to you guys for not drinking. 8 years sober right here and it's NOT worth it.
I do agree with you that if you're able to only kiss your spouse, that is a special blessing. When I got married my husband was the only man I ever kissed. Though, after his death, there was one man I kissed. I hate that I let him wear me down, because I since have found it best to end that relationship. Please let's take our kisses more serious and not fall for the "test drive" theory. It can be such a slippery slope
I really wanted to hear Tiffany share more of her life. Did she take singing lessons or all natural talent? How did she get into Acting? Any future roles? What are her dreams, fears, etc? Something new she'd like to learn or do? I just love you two so much.
Love watching you two are the sweetest together. My husband and I have been married for 29years and together 32 year in April. Best advice I could give is never got to bed angry always work it out even if you have to stay up all night to work it out. Best part of arguing is making up. Truthfully I can't even get mad at my husband he makes me laugh too much.
Marriage is GREAT! 25 yrs and never a fight! It is possible! Disagree like mature adults! No need to say harsh words that leave wounds!! God made marriage to be WONDERFUL🌸❤️🌸❤️
Loved the Badlands, Mt. Rushmore, Tombstone and etc. In South Dakota. Got to check it out. We did it on a motorcycle trip. That's a way to take it all in.
You all are such a adorable couple! 😊 the talent is endless... Lawson I see your beautiful momma at Clinton Walmart two days ago and just like I told your sister you can see the lord all over that women... beautiful! ❤
I would love a tour of the big house. Curious if your family has set it up for adult children's visits. Also, interviews with Toris family 😁 love your videos!
I appreciate how this Q&A was done. It pleased my heart to know that you both have the heart to ministry to someone who may been struggling with issues. You seem very relatable. I was encouraged 💛
Hi Lawson and Tiffany🥰 Great video😉 I am Adopted I grew up with Two brothers who were also Adopted were all 4 years apart. I Thank God our parents adopted us.. We were so fortunate to have the life given to us❤ Have a Blessed Day you two.💛💚 from Wisconsin
My husband is Mexican and I someone asked once what it was like to be in an interracial marriage and I was absolutely puzzled. We had been together for almost 5 years at the time, and it had honestly never been a second thought to me. It never even occurred to me that we were as strange as that sounds. We've never had any issues with each other or anyone else for that matter. So I definitely understand!
It does seem like an odd question to ask in today’s world but the person posing the question may be a little behind the times - but that’s okay as long as the question is asked with a good heart and no underlying prejudice.
I'm a gen-x and I think it's an incredibly rude "one of these things is not like the other" type question, but today everyone and everything is racist so race has to be an issue and it's suddenly ok to bring up that we're all different (aka better or worse race) and oppressed or oppressor.
@@ssh6414 I actually disagree with the both of you. For the most part, people who ask are just curious. I'm in an interracial relationship and going into it, I never thought about some of the struggles (based on our differences in race and culture) we had to work through during our first year. God really blessed us, because we are stronger now after those conversations.
Love you two and love that you're willing to answer such personal questions. I would like to know your secret for being able to afford all the traveling you do. I didn't know recording and singing was so lucrative. Do you have other ways of making income?
Um... Tiffany didn't answer the first kiss question. Since Tiffany isn't on BC, there are other bc options... interracial? There's only one race... HUMAN. ❤ y'all's I ❤ y'all day. My ultimate is Israel first then Greece. How do y'all earn income?
Me and my hubby have been together for almost 30 years... He is black and I am white... The advice I have for the both of you is there is no problem to big or to small you can't fix together... So never go to bed with anger... And always have trust and communication....
One of my favorite shows is the Dick Van Dyke show too, I love all of the old shows!! I love Andy Griffith too. Thanks for answering all these questions.
I live in “Mayberry”. For real. It’s the town Andy grew up in and based the show on. Pilot Mountain (Mt Pilot on the show) is right south of us. The city is called Mt Airy NC. Andy is huge here.
10 years in and best married tip is to have your own self identity don’t get lost in each others lives…. Be alone with out each other once a year at least learn hear from god keep god first spouse second then kids
Not even in a disrespectful way but because Tiffany's culture is White America and she holds the believes as you, I feel like that's why it doesn't feel like you're in an interracial relationship. Besides your skin colour, you're culturally the same.
I am the oldest of 4 children. I did not get married until I was 29. I miscarried twins before we had our only child, a daughter, when I was 31. We started trying for a sibling for her when she was 18 months old, but it was not in the cards for us. I now know I suffer from PCOS. My daughter suffers from the same thing. She had 7 miscarriages and had 2 stillborn daughters before she was blessed with our first grandson 16 months ago. His name is Bennett, which means blessed one and he is definitely a blessing for our family. They are trying to expand our family, but we will see what our future holds. I hope that she is able to give him siblings because being an only child has been lonely for her. Now that we are older, she knows that soon her Dad and I will leave this earth. We have been married 33 years. My advise is to just enjoy each other, some years will be wonderful, some will be trying, some will be hard but in the end spending them together is a blessing. We try to never go to bed angry with each other and to communicate well so that when there are disagreements so that you can resolve your issues together. Do not be afraid to ask for advise from someone you trust when you cannot resolve an issue without help. If that means seeking counsel to help you communicate better, then get some help.
My old neighbor welcomed herself into my house. My sister in law was staying with us and left the front door open to smoke and she just waltzed right in 😳
My advice for a good marriage is to make sure you’re growing together. It is very important to cultivate your own identity and nurture that, but ultimately you’re a team so you need to “check-in” with each other and make sure you’re still rooted together. When issues do arise, there’s no shame in seeking counsel from your loved ones, they see you from a unique perspective and should be invested in the success of your commitment to each other. Always choose kind words. Even if you’re the most angry and hurt you’ve ever been, always soften your words. Piling hurtful words on top of an already bad situation can leave permanent damage. Give grace but also expect the same respect in return. All the best to you! 💕
When/how did you learn to yodel? Are you and Carlin the only two in the family that do? I heard you yodel recently (instagram?) and i loved it. Keep it up.
?????????........ Tiffany, I'm not aware right now of films you've been a part of, Lawson, your music 🎵 writing is tops. My question ❓ is for both. Being in these types of business, are you aware of types of well, evil included? Like, hand symbols used, numbers, black and white flooring in movie's, all the Illuminati type used in everything? Have you seen the control, types of celebs involved in things opposite of Christ?
Love watching your videos and those of your siblings.....the only way to keep up with your family! I have watched your family from the very beginning! Wish you could come back to tv!
BEST MARRIAGE ADVISE IS NEVER EVER GO TO BED MAD AND LOVE HARD ALWAYS SAY IT N SHOW IT BC LIFE IS WAYYYYYY TO SHORT N YOU NEVER KNOW IF SOMETHING COULD HAPPEN SO LOVE BIG AND HARD N MAKE SURE YOU ALWAYS SAY HOW YOU FEEL N WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO KNOW ENJOY EVERYDAY AS IT'S YOUR LAST LIVE LAUGH LOVE HARD XOXO YALL ARE GREAT
Lawson learn to listen to Tiffany and allow her to have a voice. Give her a chance to talk and really hear her. You guys come from good supportive families and have had a good upbringing that will also help you both with your relationship. Best wishes to you both on your journey.
I noticed that too, but it seemed the questions he was hijacking were ones she may not have wanted to answer like how many guys she kissed before Lawson, drinking, and what mistakes were made while in the Hollywood scene.
We had a neighbor who didn't want us to put up a fence. She even went as far as to try and scare off the fencing people. We were extra gracious and went a whole foot in from the property line to try and appease her. She never fully recovered from it 😜
The lady that lives next door did that also, because the lady that lived in our house didn’t want the broken rotten fence taken down. That was the first thing we did when we moved in. The neighbor that installed the new fence has since moved and we have replaced the fence closer to the property line. There is a row of hedges that separate our front yards and I told the new owners they were responsible for trimming it. They don’t so I put up a 4 foot fence so I didn’t have to look at how trashy it was. 😂 now their side catches all the leaves and I don’t have to rake as much.
I do have a half brother but didn’t get to see him much. I have tried to reach out but he don’t want to. So I was pretty much the only child . I enjoyed it . I had cousins like brothers . Other than that I have one son because that’s all I wanted . I think it should be preference on how many kids you guys want. You guys are so cute
You are such an adorable couple and your love for the Lord is going to take you far. I also live the same shows that you do!! I watch them all the time!
I'm one of 9 kiddos, I would have loved to have a whole bunch of kids but God had other plans and I'm thankful for the 2 that made it earthside and cant wait to see our baby in Heaven. Im sorry people ask such personal questions. I like to learn about people, but when they are ready to share.
I love BIG families. Although my Momma only had 4 of us. She was one of 13. So I love them. Yall are so perfect for each other. I have no marriage advise for you other than listen to the Lord over anything else in your life. Put Him first and then each other. All will be ok.
I would love to put up a fence and I know my neighbor would give us so much grief if we did, only our finances won't allow it. As far as the show the " I Love You" episodes were my absolute favorite, then the weddings and births.
By the way Tiffany, if you plan to travel from Scotland to London, there is a train you can travel overnight from either Glasgow or Edinburgh to London, it is called the Caledonian Sleeper, you can look at a RU-vid video showing the train, it is meant to be really nice and it travels overnight
I have been wondering how that young girl that you helped bring to the US is doing....I believe she had heart issues. And when was the last time you got to see or speak to her? I loved the Q&A!!! Y'all are great!!
Sorry I missed the opportunity to ask questions earlier but I have several questions for you now what is your budget strategy and how do you stick to it? my 2nd question is Tiffany are you nervous about being pregnant and raising a children? 3rd question is Are you going to continue acting and if so, what type of roles would you like to play in the future? final question is How do you plan on raising your children TV or no tv, home school or public school?
Love this! Also love how you answered quickly and got more questions in. Easy to watch and fun! Love You two! Sometimes utube folks ramble with a lot of extra unnecessary words and they’re hard to listen to. This was perfect! 😊👍🏻😊
Grate video thank y'all for sharing you guy's are so cute together I am so HAPPY for you guy's love all your video's hope y'all have a wonderful weekend God bless your little family stay safe an health from Harlan Kentucky see y'all next video by for now .
I'm from Texas and my husband is from Minnesota. We're a military family so we don't live near either set of family right now. When we do go home we always notice each other's accent come out. Hubby will still end a sentence by saying something like, "Do you want to come with?", but around his family he kicks it up a notch "doncha know". ;-) I don't have the typical southeast Texan accent, but I can blend well with my parents.
I’m the oldest of 3 girls. I always wanted an older brother and would’ve loved having at least one more sibling. I’m in college and not in a relationship yet but I would like about 5 kids
Love keeping up with you guys and all the Bates! With all the traveling, do you ever visit Alyssa or Katie? Out of all the Bates kids I hardly see Callie. Is she doing ok?
