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Married Sex | The Naked Marriage Podcast | Dave and Ashley Willis 

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Dave and Ashley sit down with bestselling author, Gary Thomas, to discuss his new book, "Married Sex." Gary Thomas is the author of multiple bestsellers including the modern classic "Sacred Marriage."
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Комментарии : 35   
@sabrinatoglia4729
@sabrinatoglia4729 2 года назад
Great discussion! Something we all need to hear. Unfortunately so many people are emotionally immature. Merry Christmas, and many blessings to you both.
@AyameJak
@AyameJak 2 года назад
When your single, not even dating and learning all the good stuff before hand lol
@ZulyGarcia90
@ZulyGarcia90 2 года назад
So so so good!!! This is so needed!! Thank you for facilitating these podcasts and conversations.
@annpruitt951
@annpruitt951 2 года назад
I just watched my grandsons this weekend while y'all were in Opelika Alabama. They needed it and really enjoyed it.
@amandafranklin1770
@amandafranklin1770 2 года назад
Love this video and discussion! My husband and I are going through Sacred Marriage right now, the book and the DVD. It's so good! I'd love to read Gary Thomas's new book. So thankful for people like you all who are open and honest and biblically based about sex. Growing up in a home and church where the topic was taboo caused struggles and difficulties that didn't need to be there. You guys have helped me in many ways, and I'm sure you've done the same for others.
@jessyjonas4988
@jessyjonas4988 2 года назад
Excellent content Thanks GT Thanks Dave and Ashley
@lindseycochran901
@lindseycochran901 2 года назад
He said a mouthful @ 25:55. Jesus paid it ALL! I hope this blesses someone like it did me.
@karinashevchenko4857
@karinashevchenko4857 2 года назад
I would suggest that some people check out the reviews on the book. They aren’t really what you expect
@gomolemokelaotswe6250
@gomolemokelaotswe6250 2 года назад
I really love you guys ❤️❤️❤️, Thank you 😊
@blixsnix792
@blixsnix792 Год назад
Love and Responsibility by John Paul II, Christopher West and Theology of the Body
@blainetrahan8883
@blainetrahan8883 2 года назад
This is awesome. I wish I had someone like you guys to talk to. My marriage is great but the bedroom sucks bad.
@heatherluna5075
@heatherluna5075 Год назад
Give her a full body massage with coconut oil without expecting intercourse.
@blainetrahan8883
@blainetrahan8883 Год назад
@@heatherluna5075 thank you for that piece of advice. Only one problem is that she HATES massages. I wish she did.
@zakayothuku
@zakayothuku 2 года назад
Merry Christmas To You too
@rivansubars
@rivansubars 2 года назад
What if I am not attracted to my spouse because i married a divorcee and she lied to me that she was forced to have sex with her ex husband and he got her pregnant she was forced to marry him due to that and he was with her as he wanted to gain citizenship and that after that she never had sex with him again as she hated him but she had to go for staycations and dates to make her marriage work due to her our stepdaughter but never found him attractive or loved him ever but it was an idea that she was in love but that she was stupid until she had the courage to get a divorce due to his emotional abuse and mental abuse n torture after being married for 4 years.Then she met me me and told me she never felt what true love was and the chemistry we had was something she never had with her ex.We dated and that was what I was told and we fell in love and got married and i love her and i found out through coincidence past texts and she did have sex more then that and when i confronted her she became defensive and she then said she had sex with him a whole lot more and their texts to each other were lovey dovey n that she even said I love you to him and she did all that due to stupidity n lack of courage thinking it will make her marriage work n that it was only always one position done with a condom.he never saw her naked or either of them did nothing else in bed and now that the truth is out,She admitted the having sex part but he wld put a condom on,No foreplay,just his bottoms off n her panties on he would just stick it in n only one position til he climaxed in her.she never enjoyed it.Now we are married and my heart is broken and i can't trust her as i had to ask difficult qns and she sticks to the one position n no foreplay n nothing else.But the texts msges shows she did care about him n love him n the fact that she gave him sex to try to make it work.And those contradicts what the texts msges said.No sexting but still lovey dovey msges.And when i asked further she said she cant remember due to the trauma of the divorce due to her parents emotional torture due to their disapproval and the trauma during marriage.Yes he was emotionally n mentally abusive and she also has hyperthyroid which also has an effect on memory n causes depression.I just cannot believe her story and I love her n I want to make this marriage work but i found out only before Christmas.I have so much pain,anger,hurt and feel so betrayed n i did take my anger out on her,I cried and prayed but i cant believe her story n questioning her more i will receive the same answer and she feels hurt n ashamed of keeping the sex part from me and she wants to be forgiven but i tried and I can't.Reached a point where I am spiralling down with my emotions n my thoughts going crazy.I do not know what to do anymore.I love her and my stepdaughter to bits n i dun want to divorce her even though I know she would have never told me if i did not find out on my own and this is after being with her for 4 years,married for 1 year 2 months. She was also getting sexual assaulted not penetration but as young as 10 her older brother would try humping her and he even tried molesting n raping her several times til she was 18 n he stopped.Her family knows about it now and she did try to tell her uncle but he almost beat her up for bringing the family honor n pride down so she kept all of this within her til she met me and we both were Christians and we spoke about God and it was our sharings that she eventually told me after we got married.And when I confronted her family,they got angry and put the blame on her n protected the predator instead and she forgave her brother since she had the strength to fight off n he never raped her n through the strength and grace of God that she does not want to make reports as there was no penetration n rape n she is afraid that since its been more then 10 years ago the cops wun do anything with no evidence as her own parents are protecting the son due to family honor n pride. I feel so lost,so emotional as the thought of how they protected their son made me angry and I'm even more protective of her and my stepdaughter now.I feel like my marriage is going to end due to all my feelings and I need advises and prayers please.I do not want to lose my wife yet i can't forgive her.I sound ludicrous.Like a diliusional guy.Please help me.God have mercy on me.
@intownvlogtv8123
@intownvlogtv8123 2 года назад
She was married to this man before God,he was her husband and has to do her wifely duties so you should not be so upset and hurt about things she did in a past marriage you should be focusing on your marriage with her now and trying to make new memories with her,stop asking about her past marriage that is really not your business because he was her husband .
@rivansubars
@rivansubars 2 года назад
@@intownvlogtv8123 The man she married lied that he was a Christian but thats not why im upset.It's because of the lies said to me for those years.Yes it may be none of my buisness but everyone has the right to know what they are getting themselves into.And i was painted a very different picture.It's the lies and betrayal of trust that hurt.Not what happened in her past.If you were with someone for a couple of years and was always told one thing then it comes out and you play the victim instead of realising you shattered my heart and broke my trust.Yes she did not cheat on me.But by choosing to lie or omit and manipulate it is cheating me emotionally and mentally.I would have accepted the truth,may have taken time but i would have.I'd rather not have been lied n betrayed for 4 years and that i got married with simply lies being told me n I believed her cause i love her.How is that fair to me?Dun we get a say or even have a right to feel anything?
@AnnaRiveraSheerBeautybyAnna
@AnnaRiveraSheerBeautybyAnna 2 года назад
​@@rivansubars Sure you do get to have the feelings that you want to have because everyone has a right to their feelings Billings. However, I do think that that being her past that she did do what she said she felt she had to do and it sounds like she has a lot of trauma so maybe she could not differentiate between the 2 . I hope that you're able to forgive her and and love her for who she is and where she's at and I pray for her for her healing as well as well. None of us are perfect and we all handle things different so I hope you give her the grace that she deserves and understands that I understand that maybe she lied because she felt dirty and ashamed.
@AnnaRiveraSheerBeautybyAnna
@AnnaRiveraSheerBeautybyAnna 2 года назад
sorry my phone is adding words as I type
@heatherluna5075
@heatherluna5075 Год назад
Grace Grace Grace.
@Nzazaaa
@Nzazaaa 2 года назад
I’ll never reply understand why people think they can get married and not have to have sex. That is the very thing that separates us from being friends. My husband really just wasted my time.
@AnnaRiveraSheerBeautybyAnna
@AnnaRiveraSheerBeautybyAnna 2 года назад
I agree. pointless and very hurtful. 💜🙏🏼💜🙏🏼
@happilyeverafter898
@happilyeverafter898 2 года назад
My issue with sex comes from abuse and rape. I am self conscious about how my body looks. I just don't think any man could be attracted to me or my body. I'm also nervous about the spiritual and emotional connection sex creates. Mostly, I'm afraid of getting hurt again. I haven't been with anyone who didn't cheat and or abuse me. I have poor judgement picking a godly spouse.
@moneyvester1726
@moneyvester1726 2 года назад
Hello sister! I want to encourage you in God's Word 1 Peter 3:3&4 which talks about inner beauty which is most attractive & most important to God and godly men. I am sure you are beautiful inside and out as I know God has amazing plans, healing & comfort for you ❤ Blessings
@sabrinatoglia4729
@sabrinatoglia4729 2 года назад
Dear sister, I feel for you as I too struggle with body image. I have asked the Holy Spirit to heal me, my wounds, and self image. You are a child of the most high God, you have to learn to receive that. Many blessings to come your way, and ask God to reveal to you the man he wants you to be with.
@railroader95
@railroader95 2 года назад
You must see yourself as God sees you! Healed whole complete! When he sees you he sees his son JESUS…I promise you that if you submit your entire life to God & if you ask for the right spouse, God will not fail you, he wants this area of your life more than you know!
@debbiefayta6286
@debbiefayta6286 2 года назад
I too have a poor body image but I am working on it. I can't imagine a man not being turned off by my body.
@AnnaRiveraSheerBeautybyAnna
@AnnaRiveraSheerBeautybyAnna 2 года назад
I really truly resonated with you on your very FIRST STATEMENT I feel many have missed.....ABUSE AND RAPE. Those are sadly 2 very real and hard traumas to heal from. I was also beat and raped. I have had body dysmorphia at 90 pounds feeling too fat or comfortable at 300 pounds. I am in therapy and I am trying to decipher whether or not I am comfortable heavy to feel safe and non attractive to avoid getting raped for a 3rd time. Or am I truly comfortable being who I am now? Either way, Those traumas are very real and my prayers are with you 🙏🏼 I was also molested for seven years as a child. God is healing and mending me and I am learning to stop thinking I deserve abuse because of the traumas or that I am too dirty to be loved and treated well. We all deserve to be truly loved and happy and I know God can and will heal you. Blessings and prayers 🙏🏼 🙏🏼🙏🏼
@michellemccrea7224
@michellemccrea7224 2 года назад
Since I was 20 I been with my husband.30yrs.we have not had intimacy in a year.its sad n isolating
@AnnaRiveraSheerBeautybyAnna
@AnnaRiveraSheerBeautybyAnna 2 года назад
🙏🏼💜🙏🏼💜🙏🏼💜
@heatherluna5075
@heatherluna5075 Год назад
Just start with coconut cooking oil and give full body massage 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
@rhhamlin08
@rhhamlin08 Год назад
Read the reviews of the book 1st.
@heatherluna5075
@heatherluna5075 Год назад
🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
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