Heavenly idk if you will see this, but imma tell you the advice my aunt gave me about my brutal honesty. I ask myself these questions before I speak: 1. Does it need to be said? 2. Does it need to be said right now? 3. Does it need to be said by me? If the answer to any of those is No, just keep it to yourself. It’s helped me so much in my friendships. Not every friend can handle brutal honesty & sometimes tho we mean well we do more harm than good
Toya is the one that should forgive and move on, like you're really upset about someone not attending your party,SMH or having an opinion about you throwing meaningless parties.. Girl bye!
RIGHT i totally AGREE...and that's why I'm so glad Countessa husband checked her ASS at her party...annnd I'm glad Countessa has checked her ASS couple of times but she also tried to b the bigger PERSON to Toya...and dis heffa still GOT to nerve to STILL want her to explain to her why she didn't call HER.. Like huhn 😒 bih BYE i DIDN'T wanna come..NOW wat BIH
Contessa feels like there isn't an issue because there really isn't one. Toya is mad at the comment she made last season and brought it over into this season. It's just not that important. So I'm with Contessa with this one.
@@k.b.8763 But Contessa apologized and Toya excepted it so that should have been the end of it. Why bring it up again? That's what Contessa has a problem with now. She thought it was done.
@@k.b.8763 And contessa was not only her friend,but she was talking shit about toya to these women. And toya only made contessa sound like a bad ass G.I. Jane and thats how she pay toya back please
I think Toya lacks the bandwidth to understand what’s going on with Contessa. Contessa’s emotional IQ, and IQ in general, is higher than Toya’s and that’s where the problem lies.
Toya could seriously be a party planner. She knows the right people and with her kids in school she has the time. That way she will not have time for all the petty BS she is always in.
I don't know where y'all think Toya so stupid. She has a master's degree, she was a Pharmaceutical Rep as well as a teacher..need degrees for both of those jobs
Quad shouldn’t have to explain anything to you all. She is a grown woman going through something. Y’all have a problem with giving each other space! And Toya is so ditzy until I can’t stand it!
Dr. Heavenly... You said you wish Dr. Contessa would forgive Toya, but Toya hasn't apologized or acknowledged that she was wrong in any way.. so I'm confused
Toya's so self-absorbed she doesn't get things aren't always about her. She was told by Scott, Contessa had issues with her dad and she still couldn't show empathy. Mariah is low down. THIS is why Quad avoids her at all costs.
maverickj2k what the hell does this have to do with Mariah, stop being a hater for no reason like Heavenly who's such a bandwagoner that she forgot that she personally don't have a beef with Mariah but borrows from the other castmates beefs prior to her even being a castmate and calling Mariah a liar is uncalled for becauseMariah never lied it was the truth that hurt these ladies.
after saying what I've said I'm out because I will not support Heavenly and her channel, I just stopped by to see what she was about and in true form she had to copy her mentor, idol , subject of her envy the queen bee , Mariah which did this for always the innovator
I think you had a breakthrough when you said Mariah reminds you of your sister. I think bc she does, all of your aggressions for your sister is being projected onto her and she, in turn, goes into defense mode and hit you where she knows is going to get to you and that is by attacking that which is most dear, your husband. Mariah attacking Dr. Damien is the equivalent of you attacking that which is most dear to her, her mother. You apologized but continued to attack her mom. You need to let her know the root of your issue with her is not Mariah herself but her reminding you of your sister. Maybe you and she should do a joint session with Dr. K🤔
Actually Mariah brought up her husband 1st then Heavenly talked about Mariah Husband.... the clip is very clear. Not condoning what Heavenly said was right.
Im sorry but Mariah only brought up Heavely and her hubby's teeth AFTER Heavenly said something about Mariana teeth. To go from teeth to genitals is well, nuts.
I think you are trying! You are doing well with a couple of slips with the momma jabs lol. I think Toya is selfish I don’t understand her getting an attitude for Contessa not showing up her Husband was there to represent for the both of them. Toya just wants conflict.
This was a Great episode. I think Toya legitimately feels hurt from Contessa’s reaction to her last party. I think Mariah is making things up to be hurtful. I like her but I absolutely love you..😆😆you are the funniest and I think you forgive faster than any of them.
Heavenly needs to set a better example for her daughter. How can someone be so smart & immature at the same time? I would be so embarrassed if this was my mom on National tv!😫😫
Niema Knox and you can tell when her daughter talks on camera and the way she looks at her mom at certain times she’s disgusted. Her daughter talks with more sense than she does.
I think Heavenly gave Mariah the ammunition on the last reunion. Heavenly said she wanted to be more transparent about her own marital issues after she witnessed the support Dr. Jackie received when Curtis cheated. It felt like she was admitting to having the same experience!!
First of all .. No woman can come to me and say my husband is cheating and come into my house an eat my food and chill.. Second coming to Quad defense in real life you don't want to talk about your feelings about your relationship with ANYONE because right now you doing your best dealing with a public catastrophe.. Toya is a selfish person along with the rest of you ladies who think your parties are more important than a person real life situation.. If you ladies think that Contessa owe Toya a phone call because she was not at the party and she was dealing with her father health .. You are some real insecure women.. With no compassion and you are Doctor's and hospitality goes a long way..
The Toya Contessa stuff is stupid. Contessa is dealing with a parent who has cancer and Toya is upset 5hat age didn't get a phone call about her party? That's petty on Toya's part. Being that I had a parent who had cancer and subsequently died when you're in the midst of that, the midst of life and death everything else is irrelevant.
I fee like Toya is not all that mad at Contessa about not attending Eugene party but she is angry and still upset about the comment Contessa said last season, which is stupid. I think that Toya is also trying to create her a storyline but Contessa is not agreeing to it. I love Contessa. She is a class act to me. I like you and Jackie, also. I want you to tell Toya when you all get the next season why don't she let us see her storyline about her getting a job. We would really be 1. Surprised, 2. Supportive, and 3. Satisfied.
Dr. Heavenly I think the fact that you acknowledge that both you and Mariah have some hurt feelings and trying to push the "well she started it" button says alot. I hope Mariah sees this and you guys work it out.
What I love About the show is it’s emotion packed, I was screaming at the screen like don’t cry contessa, toya sit down somewhere, and belly laugh at Heavenly.... let’s move forward, that’d be a great T-shirt for next week Dr. Heavenly!!! You are inspiring and I’m glad that you’re so self aware and want to improve!
Dr. Heavenly i wouldn't say u MEAN u jus real af 😂 and ppl CAN'T handle IT..but i do THINK it jus by natural reaction too b upset if someone coming to u and saying they know for a FACT ur husband cheating and u aint showing me the Receipts 😒 then hell yeah its on BIH
It's called emotional control. It takes a lot of focus & emotional control to become an established dentist with her own office! She must raise her frequency & stop feeding unnecessary energy! Geesh, she's a professional, a MOTHER, wife & friend. It's a lot she can LEARN from Dr. Contessa 4 real!!!!
Dr. Heavenly, I think you’re on the right track. I can certainly take a page out of your book, you’re working on doing better by getting help and taking ownership, instead of continuing the cycle of hurt and dis function. Great Job👸🏾🙏🏽💪🏾
Dr. Heavenly I pray you are able to reach out to your sister. Life is short and tomorrow is not promised. Take a play from Dr. Contesa’s playbook, forgive, forgive, forgive.
Dr. Heavenly, I like a person who can stand in their truth and not afraid to speak the truth. Some people rather be fake even when they know recognize fake. I like you, and I think you're funny!
I love you Dr. Heavenly, please keep growing. I promise you are naturally funny and I respect you for how you work around your families hrs to make the family feel like your a stay at home mom. But you have your own practice, but understand its not a good time for full time work. I have made the chose myself and it appears to bother some of my siblings more than my spouse so thank you for sharing ur thoughts on family😉
Dr Heavenly is a Scorpio ♏️ as am I . That’s why her mouth 👄 is foul and reckless, And at this age , I cannot understand why she doesn’t be quite and practice humility and just shut up 🤐
Toya is mad about that comment last season and just needs to say that but she won't because she knows contessa was right it was VERY shady but it was the truth
I was expecting growth and some kind of maturity from this but I can’t with Heavenly. She is so childish and I don’t want none of that shit rubbing off on me
Dr Heavenly, I know you are trying to do be better and be a better person, but you got try harder now, why cant you and Mariah forgive each other and build and bond, like the rest of the other ladies in the group instead of tearing each other down. Come on now we are black women who is suppose to be supporting one another, helping each other in times of need.
Heavenly you've got to dig deeper. You're too surface. Dig deep into your deep roots issues and stop being ashamed of your upbringing. Be transparent...that's the only way that you'll ever be able to grow spiritually. Until then your spirit will continue to be vexed.
Girrrllll,. I think your messy yet I love you. I wouldn't watch the show if you and Mariah wasn't on it. You both could have a spin off show...love you girl!
I don’t understand how these women can be so reckless with their mouths. These women don’t ever stop and think about how what they’re about to say could affect someone’s child, someone’s spouse, someone’s parents,etc. People need to be more mindful of the things that come out of their mouths.These are real educated working professionals with degrees and businesses yet they act uneducated and tacky.Seeing minorities on TV in the field of medicine is something to be proud of. Dr.Heavenly here’s a tip for you whenever you feel like foul language is oozing from the tip of your tongue remind yourself that you are an educated, self-made, intelligent business woman who’s vocabulary is too broad to be using such language. Profanity is used by people who usually have a limited vocabulary.
Dr. Heavenly, you’re gonna have tests and they are gonna be difficult, but take it one day at a time. You’re human and we all are learning. Have a great one!🤗
I enjoy your commentary and I’ve seen your growth from season 1 to now and I believe you are a genuine person and people just don’t understand you. We’ve all learned a little bit more about why you handle things the way that you do now that you have opened up about your past we also understand more about you and Mariah’s relationship. I think that maybe you should invite Mariah to one of your counseling sessions to assist you in trying to mend not only your relationship with your sister but also you and Mariah’s relationship especially since she reminds you of your sister. I think that dealing with the root cause of your issues head on will only increase your growth in the journey that you are currently embarking on.
Thanks for uploading. Dr. Heavenly is human first and foremost. Dr. Heavenly definitely is not perfect when it comes to responding to certain people out of anger/disgust. The "your momma" is extremely petty. Like, elementary petty (regardless of who started it). On the flip side, it is beautiful watching Dr. Heavenly acknowledging her flaws and open to learn from them. I really enjoy Dr. Heavenly's commentary. Much love.
I feel if you Dr Heavenly would have been shown/told that your mom and sister says I love you or showed some love affection from the beginning growing up - things would not be like they are today. YOU are a nice person you just show tough love. When ppl say mean things to you - just turn the other cheek and be meek about it and ask your heavenly father to forgive that person for they know not what they say or do. Those girls love you but they feel you are hard to talk to at times because u may take it the wrong way. Anytime your mom calls u out a bad name growing up that should not have been becuz that is wrong to do then you have your child growing up and think it's ok when it's not.You'll be just fine - you are learning and getting it at the same time- remember nobody is Perfect😉
I lived in Atlanta twice and, yes, bugs are everywhere. It’s the country, but I couldn’t deal so I ran back to California where there aren’t as many and they’re normal size.😂😂😂
I think that as a person who has so much valor you should be able to control your emotion cause when you dish out anger its from within, so are you an Angry person
You just have to continue to evolve, no one is perfect. So genuinely mean that you will do better and you ladies can mend your issues. Praying helps alot! Also forgive your sister! Let that be the past and try and be the bigger person. Life is to short. Love the commentary!
IT WASNT ABOUT THE PARTY. It was about the distasteful comments Contessa made last season. They obviously hurt Toya and she wanted to discuss it. Contessa dismissed her feelings. Regardless if Contessa thinks it’s important or not. It was important to TOYA and as her friend she should have just listened.
Dr. Heavenly, I had a situation similar to the one you had with your sister. Mine was with my sister first. I got that resolved then I had to do the same with my niece! I had to get her all the way together. You're right they do resent your success! 🤷🏾♀️
I love you Dr Heavenly! I wanted you and Mariah to interact a little more in this episode ( but know some things can be edited) , but it moreso seems that she wants to hold something against you.
With the Contessa/Toya situation is more of a ‘Toya, I got to be heard’ situation. Toya’s emotional IQ should be higher. Contessa was genuine in her apology and Toya still wanted to have a moment over comments that were truthful, but not that damn serious to still be mad about over a year later.
Hey Dr. H., I'm so proud of you for your efforts to being a more compassionate and less reactive person. Keep it up! However, don't try to emulate Contessa because she is not so together as you might think. I saw her at dinner with Toya and she was just not listening to what Toya was saying. She accused Toya of picking a fight when in fact it really was Dr. Contessa who was not coming from a good place. Sometimes people lack the ability to see themselves as others see them and I think Contessa needs lots of help. So, you do youi, Dr. H. You'll be great because you want to be great!
Dr.Heavenly I feel that your very passionate with a big heart which you guard sometimes with jokes to keep from being hurt. That's why we ❤ you. I know I can count on you to keep it real it might sting when you say it but no lies will be told by you.
Great Review Dr. Heavenly. I dont think you're mean. You're honest and some people cant take honesty. They would prefer someone that will sugar coat things. I see an improvement in your attitude. Keep up the good work.
Girl luv me some Dr Heavenly 💜 u & Ms Jackie are real k....Mariah needs some counseling on being a big mess of narcissism 🤭 did I say that green 👁 mess? Hmmmm
I haven't watched the video yet, because I haven't watched this week's episode, but I absolutely love you and your family. I like how real you are, you are a little crazy but I think we all are. 😂
I would like to see all the ladies respect each other, you don't have to like each other but respect I hope you and Mariah's relationship can get better. Keep going to counseling though, that's a good track!
Huuuunnnnyyyyy Heavenly Queen I admire and Im heavily inspired by your truths and realness and especially the fact that you are able to acknowledge your weaknesses and seemingly to me; SINCERLY willing to make yourself vunerable (which is so hard in this world today 😮) to air it all out and literally do the work to grow and become the BEST YOU in each and every aspect of your life...😍💪👍👏👐🙏💎 Keep it up hun.. Never know who your journey is empowering in their time of need..😏
I think Toya is selfish to an extent. She wants everyone to react or feel the same way she feels in certain situations or "they're not really her friend". Contessa stated over and over again that the issue for her was not that big of a deal and she was over it. Toya should have left it there. She keeps trying to pull things out of people that's simply not there, therefore, creating a bigger issue. I feel she is far too vested in her friendships and she expects them to be the same way, which is not fair to them. If she wants friends like her self, then she needs to find them and stop trying to force people to be a certain type of friend to her.
