Hot Sauce made a great point about supporting her family. It’s a check on her. She steps out of line, the gravy spigot gets turned of. And it’s her fault. That’s a way to keep the star systems in line…
9:45 Interestingly, if you marry an ABW, even if she isn't a single mother, you still have to help extended family. Men typically in ALL family structures have to help out extended family. This is why, traditionally, SONS were more valued than daughters. So, it's a moot point to say "oh you have to help her family back home." There are guys right in America right now supporting single mothers, another man's kids, and helping her mother and cousins. Indeed, in the gynopotestal family framework, black men are handed lut like tools to other women in the network anyway. His resources, labor, and even his very life are all readily available for the gynocracy. Quite frankly, many black men in America end up as son husbands to their mothers. So if that is the case, he is already helping extended family and still doesn't have a wife of his own So, what is the actual downside to taking care of someone's family abroad with remitances and taking care of a broken family in America? You will take care of extended family either way. One is just cheaper.
This is 💯 true. Oftentimes, sending money out of the country is cheaper because of the value of the dollar. But the payoff is a more beautiful, cooperative, and loving wife as opposed to one you have to keep an eye out for constantly.
Brothers need to form a Jack and Jill for Passport Bros. That way the women can socialize with other women who they can relate to and living the same lifestyle and ideals.
@@BGSIBMOR Wow, Black women are just like colorists, they are just colorists in the opposite direction. Nothing wrong with a preference but their reasons are colorist and stereotypical. I have been told by dark skin and brown skin that they were not attracted to me but I was nice only because my skin wasn't dark enough. And light-skinned Black women treat me like a panhandler. The colorist is hurtful shit I have been told by dark skin and brown skin Black women they are not checking for light skin black guys. Darker-skinned Black men lean toward light-skinned black women but Black women are just into dark and brown-skinned Black men and some of them are into white and Hispanic men. They are not into light-skinned Black men like that. I use to be really loyal to Black women off idealism and that pro-Black shit but the reality is I got to keep it pushing. You can keep using studies from the 1980's but I'm a light-skinned Black guy and you are not and I have had Black women choose Hispanic and white men over me. And I am tall and not ugly and in shape. BGS you always are in denial about this. You talk about this trifecto but I don't have the trifecta and I don't see this trifecto light skin Black guy thing. I have no issue attracting other groups of women. Click the video link below. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-aGjIwLsyNu4.html
After a 2nd viewing 2 things stuck out in my mind. 1. He’s correct about age window for marrying a Latina, if she’s been married or 2nd marriage. 2. The point that he missed was that by that age she knows the hand writing on the wall, she can make a deal or continue to struggle for REAL!! ✌🏾✊🏿💯
How so? Nearly 3/4 of your women here in the US have uncurable forms of STDs are grossly overweight, are masculine, and are also foul smelling. It's obvious why the better Black men here have chosen to search for better women abroad.
Great video. Which is why as the man you need to find a way to live and adapt in her country. I understand that it's easier said then done for most people though.
I'm age 72 and courting Latinas between the age of 25-35! I only date Latina that are professionals, working a 9 to 5 jobs own their businesses! VIVA COLOMBIANA'S!
A lot of the guys dont take into account the age difference. I will say the ones that go to asia do have a better handle on this area on average. If he's way older and shes much younger I've noticed that he keeps her out of the states. If they are closer in age then its usually better and they bring them back to the states more.
I have major issues with even the ideal of marrying in South America due to their history with black Africans. It is what it is that greengo card is amazing
LATIN AMERICNS ARE VERY ANTI BLACK, LATINAS ARE RACIST AGAINST BLACKS AND BLACK MEN, COLOMBIANS ARE ALSO QUITE RACIST TPWARDS BLACK MEN,,,IF YOU ARE A WHITE AMERICAN, IT IS SOMEWHAT EASIER AND DIFFERENT, BUT BLCK MEN OF AFRICAN DESCENT FROM THE USA OR ANYWHERE ELSE, IT IS NOT REALLY A GOOD IDEA TO GET A LATIN AMERICAN WOMAN......THERE IS ALOT OF RACISM AND COLOR PREJUDICE IN LATIN AMERICA, YES YOU MIGHT HAVE A FIRST WORLD PASSPORT OR AN AERICAN PASSPORT,OS MANY OF THEM WILL WANT TO HOOK UP WITH YOU AS A BLACKMAN BECUASE OF THE PASSPORT,,,,BUT OVERALL NOT A GOOD IDEA.....AS A BLACK MAN I HAVE SEEN SO MUCH RACISM AND PREJUDICE HERE IN LATIN AMERICA AGAINST BLACK PEOPLE
I know about dealing with the extended family of a Latino or an Asian in their country that's a given and in some cases that's not a problem it's a lot better than dealing with the westernized crap I deal with now
Probably will all even out when the guy is in his 80’s and one of the family members taking care of him cause he still has resources for the family.In America the funds would probably be used for a Nursing Home cause that’s where they would put him .
