masculine parties with options but always wanting you D.F. people spy on you & compete with you. 

This masculine is a charmer he has many options that he parties with, he makes it quite clear to them that he still want you D.F. these people are in competition with you as they are just options to this man/ female.
Your busy making healthy choices . This masculine wants your sexual energy and time. Watches you alot and so does his options.
Shalom,
Clara.xxx