A man should be single until he is in a stable position. As it is harder to fail in the face of your woman. A premature relationship can cause him to take less risk
i was dealing with this. all i was ever taught was to do was to make a woman happy(grew up in a all woman household). i never learned how to be direct because i was rewarded due to adapting. never being ten toes. i caught this video in a time of change. thank God and thank you keys! time to get right
I am not someone who writes anything on here, but this is the best video I've seen on the topic of masculinity. It was clear enough for me to understand and with examples of what feminine and masculine energy would look like in clash of "what are we having for dinner". Coming from a family of generations filled with females that demised the males, made it very difficult to understand great examples of masculine and feminine energy! So thanks for this video. I now know how strong a masculine focus is! And where I was this at times in my life. I will need to work on this now!
We both have to balance our masculine & feminine energy while simultaneously looking to understand which you are operating from. For women, like you mentioned it comes in the form of goals & ambitions which is fine but it becomes an issue when you are required to operate from the masculine energy to achieve that goal! "Pressure is built for shoulders not hips" For men, operating in the feminine usually is healthiest, in my opinion, in the form of a creative hobby. Like he mentioned "the creative" is feminine & has to slow down to flow properly so whether it be making music, dancing, singing, drawing, painting even rap is all creative, healthy feminine energy for men to balance their energy but to remain in their feminine is to lose their masculine energy which we see in today's society. Hope this helps someone!
I love everything you said King! My only thing is women have masculine thinking as well. It has become a problem for a lot of men. We have goals and ambitions that we would like to manifest too. We want to be more grounded and be that mountain that a man can stand on top of ! Can you please go into feminine thinking more and how women should think? Especially when they don’t have a man to lead or was never lead by a man. Peace King! 🙏🏽
Positively thinking instead of negatively thinking, this is for man and women... Women are supposed to be submissive to man and man to woman for the better outcome of things. .
These days with so much content on the net, I'm very careful of whom or what I invite in my mind space. This is by far one of the most profound message I've heard relating to masculinity and feminity. Logic and Emotion counteract each other in order to create a neutral way of thinking about being. The key is each role must respect the other to maintain a harmonious positive frequency. When one over powers the other, it creates friction, hostility, explosiveness and a competitive power struggle btwn the sexes. Man and woman must discipline themselves to not allow external forces rule over what God primitively designed by divine. We cannot selectively due to our self-pleasing nature, think we can cheat, duck and hide or elude life's spiritual blueprint. Until we take ownership and be accountable, responsibly handling and operating in our role duties , we'll forever be at odds.
I love 19keys content. However this is all easy to say when you're coming from a position of strength when things are working out. Perhaps this "feminine thinking " is just a season for a man where he needs the support of other men and reassurance from a woman. This rarely happens so the man must find a way out without being too hard on himself and keep it moving. I'm speaking from experience.
Most men don't begin their journey from a position of strength. Most men don't have it easy. The feminine thinking is what causes a man to be "too hard on himself" which he articulated very clearly.
So well said! I can see the growth in your delivery. I have been following you for years! I just told my friend I need to start learning and absorbing more information in walking in my femininity❤
This series is gonna be sooo good. I believe that every point is valid and we have been duped in this world and in this economy. We are taught to seek everything outside of knowing ourselves first. So discussions like this can help to shift our thoughts. ✨️ ✨️ ✨️
Peace and unison , This is definitely clear However . I do want us to get away from “versus” because you truly are explaining the difference and how they compliment one another. This shall bring forth a higher level thinking for both who are struggling to find balance within self. I do honor your and respect your approach. It’s all needed.
This is the FIRST time I do not agree 💯 with Sir 19 Keys. To say there should be a certain way to think based off “sex” is an individual belief. An individual should adapt and think based on environment and circumstance. There have been plenty of WOMEN who have paved the way by ways of “masculine” thinking. I DO believe men have a certain role in the community, and it has been severely weakened. But when it comes to “Thinking”… every individual has a separate path and as they master self no man can say, “nahh, you’re not suppose to think like that.” If I’m meditating, fasting and praying and certain thoughts keep flooding my mind- I’m not letting another man tell me to stop thinking that way. That’s not speaking to the unfortunate state that we are in as far as man, woman and gender roles. But I believe 90% of the people are not tapped into self and thinking AT ALL. But that’s just my brief take on it.
Think of "masculinity" and "femininity" in the aspect of energies. Yin/Yang is the perfect example for this -- yin represents feminine energy & yang represents masculine energy, however they each have a portion of the other within itself representing the interconnectedness. A balanced person consists of both masculine and feminine energies -- environment and circumstance paired with discernment/wisdom/knowledge determines which energy leads in the situation. What he's saying: challenges come about when a person man/woman sits in an energy that doesn't progress the situation at hand.
@@19KEYS I meditate to connect with my higher divine: to quiet the mind from my everyday distractions and grow closer with my spirit. This may sound weird but I also want to have controlled out of body experiences. I would like for my every movement to be intentional and purposeful.
See my problem is I can make that decision, I can see what's right in front of me, but either some part of me or someone around me reminds me that I might not know for certain and then I start wondering if I'm too arrogant, but overall I come to the realization that I should focus on what is just the facts of a situation. Logically I think if anything has a negative aspect that is out of my control it isn't worth pursuing. Only pursue the things you can control, but that in itself is kinda arrogant, but I'm not tryna be. All this confusion but at the end of the day I always tell myself to just keep working, TMH's got you, no point sweating
Very powerful brotha even myself in this very instance could use the pull up because I fall short too but like chess were tryna make as few errors as possible...& I definitely believe our brothas & sister's need to hear this...keep up the good work king 👑 your growing in your leadership! I expect there'll be many challenges but like the soldier you are, stay calm...
I love your work through the years ; thank you I’ve grown into a goddess a feminine goddess and you have been instrumental. Thank you brother. Greetings from Nairobi Kenya
(FACTS OVA FEELINGS). While Ultimately the Choice for a Man to Step into His Masculine Power Lies with Him and Not with Any Woman there is something that women can do in order to play a role of an ally to a man's masculinity caretake a man's confidence
Yes ❤ we learn how to have strength be independent have courage be a better leader and be assertive and have strength and to see the big picture and don't spend too much time looking at the little picture look at the big picture thinking positive always calm cool and collective always known that it's going to work out let it flow and conquer.❤❤Thank you for this message.❤❤🎉🎉🙏❣️💯🫶🔥🙋😘
I see your point. I've always accepted for myself an equal balance of both innerG's. 100:100 normally with the flexibility to adjust based upon the experience, as in 120:80; wherein one has to submit to the "skill" of the other. Theory based on each having a unique skillset, enabling them to complement each other. "As I decrease my master (partner) increases.
High level thinking as always. It’s some contradictions however as it pertains to personality types and human design. Which you’ve spoke on a few times. I’d like to hear a segment on this.
The message was clear and understandable. But it was not factual based at all in regards to masculine and feminine thinking. Just because someone rationalizes what could or could not go wrong does not mean that is feminine thinking. It is simply doubt. Just the same as if you only think about positive outcomes, that in and of itself does not make it masculine. If a woman decides to open a business that a man thinks will fail based off of what kind of business it is, location, profit margins, etc, than he's using his logic to rationalize why it would not work, and the woman could think it will just based purely off of emotion. I don't think this was a good example to explain this at all. No matter what gender, you can think negatively or think positively. Has nothing to do with masculine or feminine thinking. Masculine thinking is simply using LOGIC over EMOTIONS and feminine thinking is the exact opposite
Great message❤ yes dig deeper on the feminine energy topic. I would like to know why masculine energy is threatened when a women is resting and doing absolutely nothing. Why is a break from the rat race seem to scare men? Please explain what resting in the feminine really means to men.
I think the younger homies should learn stoicism. It’s a philosophy of controlling your emotions and persevering as man. It be dope to know your thoughts on Stoicism and how you apply to your life. 🗝️
I m trying to point my guy in this direction because I feel I understand where he's missing the definition of operating in this space... he is starting to hate me for it😢...what am I doing wrong? I mean him no harm, we (his mom, daughter, I) need him to grow...
You have to decide--are his objectives aligned with yours. If there's no alignment, there will be no Peace. If he's good & you're not, no Peace. If he's not leading y'all towards good success, & isn't willing to learn, why are you still considering him. If you're not married, you're not obligated to remain in a space that does not serve you. Focus on your goals and self improvement. God will inform you of your next moves!❤❤
Positively thinking instead of negatively thinking, this is for man and women... Women are supposed to be submissive to man and man to woman for the better outcome of things. New day, too many reversal of roles.. All in all working together to build a better invornment for the goodness of man kind is an important part of the masculine and feminine conversion..
@serenitygranted9336 New day, too many reversal of roles.. All in all working together to build a better invornment for the goodness of man kind is important. Life conversion is easier when understanding from both sides is shaped for good business.. So many issues stem from misinformation and not accurate facts. The better outcome of things for both sides is to elevate the reasonable way.
