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My son has been a lier since he’s been a toddler. During that age where “kids don’t lie”…yeah. It’s important to see your children for who and what they are not what you want them to be
😢agreed I didn’t want to admit that but some are just born bad and it runs in the boys in my family…I wish it was just the lying…my baby is sadistic especially to his brother who thankfully is not like the rest…but this one…aggressive, defiant and malicious by nature…no love or discipline could change it
@@go_off_Sis my 3yrs old son will look me dead in my eyes and lie and not bat an eyelid…. Smh 🤦🏾♀️ and I’ll see him DO THE STUFF HES IS DOING and he’ll still lie🙎🏾♀️
When you can't sleep comfortably in your own home, they have to go. If he is on 10 different meds he needs to be placed in a home with resources and staff for kids with those issues.
I’m binge watching your videos and I ran into an article about this valedictorian deleting his mother… saying they had a great relationship and he did it because she was irritating him
Males are natural mutants. The female’s body rejects them in the womb because of the mutated chromosome. Estrogen is over produced and targets the male zygote to try to make it female. Also, young boys and men have been killing mothers and wives for decades. This is not just because of advances in technology. I was in high school in the 80s and I remember two friends/classmates of my younger brother who killed women in their families. One beat his grandmother to death with a baseball bat because she told him to stop shouting at her. The second teen shot 6 family members (4 females 2 males) because his mother wouldn’t come pick him up.
My brother s3xually assaulted my mother in her sleep while she was asleep with by my little sister. I almost tore his face off when I got my hands on him. I wanted his soul, man. Even though she treated me and my sister like sh*t but coddled my brother, I was still her protector. Daughters are the ones who hold it down no matter what.
It's getting real out here... a 6 year old Lil boy intentionally shot his teacher In Newport News, Virginia! I'm convinced, praying for the best for all women with sons... mercy.
I was just about to comment about this. Something's seriously wrong with them. Now the topic of gun control is in the forefront again but they never address the real issue. Girls that grow up with and have access to guns aren't doing this.
It's like the XY does something to the mother's make up in order for it to survive. Boy moms become male identified, can no longer emphasize with their own sex, loses the ability to think logically, and loses her self preservation instincts. And I agree, we don't need anymore people. Stop bringing literal demons into this over populated world.
@@chocolate_cosmos This is a fascinating, entirely plausible theory that I haven't heard before. Very cool, and it makes a lot of sense! 💜 It also reinforces Princella's point that (forgive me, I'm paraphrasing here) it can be inadvisable to include mothers of males in one's Liberation work, as they may not be trustworthy.
@@jonquiljones It's honestly just an opinion I've formed these past few years. I don't have science to back up these thoughts. I see it with women that want/have male partners. The man's male nature could be playing in her face but she'll make excuses for them. I swear many have to bury those same abilities in order to be with men or else their intuitive sensors will continuously sound. Idk if I'm making any sense though. Edit: Whenever Princella mentions her community, I always say no boy moms. Either he's sent off by 7 y/o (maybe younger) or none at all. Since it's their child I understand when they put them first but it's always at the expense of other girls/women. It will end up being a never ending "boys will be boys" club🙄 They disrupt classes, touch and destroy things just because it's around, fight when they don't have their way etc. They're unnecessarily too much.
The schools AND Parents reward inappropriate behavior in boys. Boys for example, get a whole basketball court for themselves to play on when they don’t function at any level. I was nearly disciplined for failing a member of our school’s basketball team. I didn’t care. From then on I wouldn’t allow any member of sports teams in my classes. I justified my actions based on the fact that almost all of the high school athletes are illiterate. I was absolutely amazed in recent years to find that Richard Sherman, football player graduated from Stanford U. Kyrie Irving is intelligent and articulate AND Plays pro basketball. SHOCKING! I have donated hundreds of children’s picture books to begin to address the illiteracy issue. Also, Too many women are with illiterate men. That’s a separate but related issue.
Princella can I join the community my boys moved with their abusive daddies? I already realized my boys were incapable of love. I have serious conversations with them. But ma'am you have opened a entire new can of worms. I am honored to have come across your videos this new years 1/1/23. Thank you !! Cuz my male bf thought I was crazy how I speak about and to my boys but I keep it real no matter what.
I am male and I watch her videos and I don't know why 🤣. Like, after her affirmations I analised my own behavior and somethimes is true, most of my male peers need someone to tell them what to do, like my behavior
I was blessed with TWO daughters. I admit I did want a son for my second child only bc I wanted one of each but now I’m soooo glad I have two beautiful girls because that sister relationship was always what I wanted growing up (only child) and I get to see that with my girls.
I so needed to see this! My youngest son is by a narcissist who I met when I was getting out of a bad situation. He trapped me with our son and left me and wants to pay no bills or anything for his child. Our son is acting just like him. He’s only six, but he doesn’t want to help do anything, he is very disrespectful when he doesn’t get his way. He doesn’t even want to sweep the floor! I am working my hardest to break him of His scrub ways before he is a teenager.
He doesn't respect you because he probably doesn't even feel loved. Of course, why would a child respect a mother that blames the father for his existence? Like come on? You deserve whatever shit that kid gives you. You got pregnant because of your actions. You're the one that baby trapped the man.
My uncle shipped his 16 year old son to the service. He noticed that his child was off the wall and the military was a last resort for him. Well my cousin passed every test physical and mental. The military scooped him up. He was very unstable. He was in the Army for two years. The higher ups in the military decided to give him an honorable discharge. The moral of the story is that you cannot help males. My cousin existed in his own torment. Nobody could help. After his discharge my uncle was able to get him committed to an insane asylum. He died in 2020.
Sheesh. The reason why men are doing this is cause the older women are condoning these terrible crimes. Then the older women are terrible with their daughters and daughter-in-laws.
I agree, but atleast if it's people of color at the root helping other women of color- the message has to be for the WOC to wake up and take positive action in their lives not unstable reacions to everything. But I agree and have seen that too...
I missed the live, but I listen the call ins. I agree with you and I knew this as a mother of two sons. I guess I raised my sons as if they were girls because I reigned in my house after I got divorced. I didn't want a man in my home with my children. I raised my kids with old school ways with a mix of new age. I whooped that ass then we had a conversation. I treated them and my daughter the same. My boys feared me because I understood that you can't reason with a toddler. As cute as they were, I always saw them as the men they were going to be. You are so right, if you haven't laid that foundation before 5, you will have a hard time. I saw it in my family when my aunts failed their sons. I would tell a mother with a small son, don't beat him, I'm not speaking on child abuse. Discipline is more than a belt. You have to instill in them control of themselves. They need a leader in their home. They need chores. They need to learn how to take care of themselves. My sons are grown now, no jail, no baby mommas, no violence. My oldest son will come to me for advise before he goes to his father. I was stern, my kids say I was mean as hell, but they are great adults. I felt it was my job to make them respectful human beings because I brought them here.
I raised my sons the same way, with the same results. I received a lot of crap from my family about how I treated my sons, but they are fully functioning adults now
You don't know what they are out here doing to other women. You created males. Don't slap yourself on the back with the congratulations, please. You created males.
Wow. I’ve spent a large portion of my life believing that my son became who he is because I spanked him too much. I had him at 17 and his father went to prison shortly after. I was under a lot of stress and definitely didn’t have the capacity to regulate my emotions… but I also distinctly remember him being very sneaky and disobedient. He now has two daughters and is not allowed in their lives.. and frankly I can’t say I blame the mothers. This is heavy, and scary.
I am soo happy I'm a mother to only a daughter. At first I wanted only boys because I didn't want to raise a girl in this harsh world because I went through bit I'm glad I have a daughter instead of a son. I live in an area where a lot of mothers here are boy moms and I see the stress they go through, yet they claim boys are easier to raise? False. A lot if these little boys have issues, mental health, anger problems with other kids at school, they dont listen etc.
I have 3 girls and one boy. They’re all grown and I raised them equally. He works hard pays his own bills and doesn’t run rampant at all. I can’t say the same for some of his peers
@@intentional-joy I understand how you feel and that’s your opinion. He’s a single father due to the child’s mother passing away from leukemia. He’s not dating or even trying to date. So he’s no risk to you or anyone else. He’s sad but not lonely.
I just noticed that on the thumbnail of this video, the blurred background is the main hall of the Spencer Mansion from the remake of Resident Evil. That is genius and i love it. ❤️
Currently pregnant with a son. I really wanted a daughter but there’s a reason he’s coming into this world. Glad I found this channel and my duty is to really work on him and instill discipline. Already have plans to get him in martial arts as soon as he’s old enough.
Congrats. I can attest to martial arts as a big way to socially reform a lot of r e t ar ded and unstable males. I have done brazilian jiu jitsu for almost 3 years and it's been amazing as a woman and extremely challenging. I am so so thankful I found decentering male content/lifestyle on my own during training- because I encountered the sneakiest abuser alchohlic training partner- who abused me, groomed me etc... point is MANY Of them are fatherless and wouldn't be able to function without martial arts holding them together. It works
@@georgejuravlel1352 It’s the women who have sons but treat them as if they were her husband. This is actually very common and I have a sister that does this to my nephew. Even to the point that she tells him women are no good so he can continue to pay all of her bills. It’s quite sickening!
Girl thank you for your knowledge..thank you for making this public..thanks for sharing ur wisdom..thanks for the light u are shining..princella I saved another one today. I couldn't put my finger on it ...but u pened it down for us. I have been sharing your work with many ...u are helping so many people...thank you for this channel and your book.
Great Content Once Again Pastor P… Thank You For Continuing To Shine A Bright Light On This Extremely Important Dialogue, That Needs To Be Had… You Are Literally Saving & Changing Women’s Lives Worldwide. My Favorite Quote From You Showing Us That One Pastor Is: “Something Is Wrong With Their Minds”…🤣🤣🤣
Princella has suggested before to look for an appartment for them and pay a month's rent for him. Perhaps set him up with a job too if possible. A man with ADHD can take care of himself and control himself. Unless he is mentally impaired, it's no excuse. Don't give him a key of your house once he's out or change your locks. You deserve your own space where you feel safe.
You are generous saying they can stay until 15. They can have these mini nakers in check by 7 or send them packing by 9. Send them to their daddies or military school period.
I wish I had been around for this live. I love my son but I rule with an iron fist in my home. I have chosen alternate schooling for most of his young life. As ex military I get in his behind regularly. He has had therapy since a young age. I don't do soft with my son.
@@themusictherapychannel5521 coddling them is the result of our community today. Coddling is the result of these podcast. These "boymom" need to raise these males like they do their daughters.
@@BLKfootIndianthis is the statement that cements what TQM is talking about. They have to sink and swim And my sons have shown me at a young age that there is a certain type of glove you gotta handle them with. If they can't keep a job or start a business that he can keep up with, then they need to go into the service or something. Like, I really understand now, why moms will encourage their sons into the service.
I once read, “The words we say to our children become their inner voice.” If that’s true, the goal of every parent should be to create an inner voice that is empowering, encouraging, and never limiting or demeaning. My question is what type advice would you give mothers who are raising young sons?
I teach mine to verbalize his emotions and I don’t tolerate any disrespect. I tell him what the consequence will be (taking away tv or phone going to bed etc) if he doesn’t act as expected to me and his younger sister. I express pride when he does things to take care of himself or our home. I discuss why it’s important and I have in depth convo about mens problems. He is 8. Kids are smarter and understand more than we think a lot of times. I walk him through the thought process and reasoning behind why I’m setting these rules or standards. I rarely ever yell and never hit him. So far so good but that T hasn’t hit yet and I’ll change the game plan if needed in the future.
@@aleciaandrews5687 if you think about it, the oldest fossils found have been female. The fossils belonging to male don't appear until later. For me, this means that women were alone on this planet for sometime.
I have a son he's not exempt neither tell the truth straight facts 💯 the best I did to raised him there not exempt neither jump on his own mom believe it
Around 1:18, lady, you have to actually teach the children HOW TO CLEAN. For a few years, I co cleaned their rooms with them. You can’t just tell them clean your room, this is how I like it done. Have them watch some cleaning videos on RU-vid
I was thinking the same thing. You have to show them correctly and I never asked my kids to do anything. I didn't promise anything either. It was done because it was needed to be done. My boys did their own laundry from the age of 9. My older son did his younger brother laundry until he was old enough. I had peace in my house.
Listen to what she said again. She said when she offered an incentive, the boys did a good job and she corrected them on what they could have done better, so she did "teach" them how to clean. She said when no incentive was offered they did a half-@$$ed job. So her assessment of them being lazy was correct.
The last caller had a very interesting take... boy moms believe they created a male ally in this patriarchal world, but I also believe that boy moms see themselves as useful, and superior since they were able to create boys, and I think this is more so in women/girl-dominant families because the men are gone (absent, died, or in jail).
My grandmother had my mom and mostly boys (9) only one who turned out to really do something are the ones that went to the military. The rest should have went to the military as well
Have you heard of the movie, women talking, directed by Sarah Polley. I think it would be an interesting movie to discuss, as it talks about a Mennonite community where the women have been attacked by the men at night. And the victims discussed what it is that they should do.
That movie is based on true events!!!!!!!!!! Real events that took place in a Mennonite colony in Bolivia between 2005 and 2009. I wish women would realize it’s “all” males given the opportunity, and if they choose.
Goddess on high 😢I wish I couldn’t relate to this story… I didn’t get Murked out but I kinda wish that , that was the route that was taken against me , instead of what happened
@@KhadijaBey-g9cI am a boy mom.... And the ex husband fought me tooth and nail in court over the boys. Fast forward 2 years later, I realized he did me a favor. I knew before the 1st one was born, that The care needs to be primarily by the father once they turn 3.... Lord. My 11 year old has shown me that he needs to stay with his dad. I sometimes feel sorry for the new wife, but she signed up for her role. I'm totally shocked that my perspective can change and that my children can behave the way they do. Now, I want to adopt motherless little girls.
Just ordered your book finally! 🙆♀👏 Going to be super hyped when it arrives in the mail 😂Also, I think we all need this chocolate you're eating sis lol - They should be sponsoring you!
@@QueenofBluntTruthmaybe tune into your inner masc energy? I alternately summon both aka feminine and affectionate and summon my stern inner masculine when im disciplining. My kind voice doesnt work. The thunder voice does.
No. A parent doesn't have to do anything or do much to a child for the child to think about taking the parent out. Children have a nasty habit of self pity/loathing and an unhealthy longing to fit in. This alone can be triggering.
This is why I don't want sons, Men are unable to love. Just look how they treat their mothers. Seriously can't we just buy female sperm and have our daughters? I know most mothers turn a blind eye towards sons, one half sister of my mother has problem sons she laughs when her sons bully and hit other kids but become enraged when her sons are hit. I don't like mothers especially the ones with sons.
@@georgejuravlel1352 You love sex more and your own desires than the ppl around you. Men aren't wired that way. The only thing you love is what makes you feel good. Another dude just shot his mother and I don't want that.
@@georgejuravlel1352 Yes, because they raise your children while rather be a passport bro chasing some pussy overseas. A friend of mine got passport zoned and he left two sons behind, And of course involuntarily singe mothers always get to blame when sons act out. You are unable to love. You see women as property and you even have all the religions on your side and tradition to justify that. When women get cancer 70% of men file for divorce, When women are pregnant men are more prone to become abusive towards them. You can only love yourself. You are too selfish to love anyone but yourself.
I love this show. I wish however that the callers would try to focus a little more on the content. The calls are rarely on topic and callers tend to ramble, tell long personal stories (unrelated to the topic) and I feel like there may be an issue with comprehension. This seems to derail the show. Y'all please try to pay attention to the content. Try to process it and make sure you understand it before calling. Write notes. Ask questions if you don't understand something. Be respectful of the platform, the audience and the host by staying on topic. Thanks for this content, Princella💗
I think the same thing and everything she says I have other callers to get to they act like the are winding down then work themselves up and keep talking lol. I'm like woman can talk our butts off 😆
