I have been very tired of the “all music - all the time” thing for many years now. In this case you are stuck with it. Drives me up the wall. It is not natural for humans to be forced to listen to music that is not of their choosing. I prefer silence. Music in stores drives me out - esp because it is usually stupid music fir teenagers. I out of here. keep your music and your teachings.
@@tramarthomas6105 how am I a J but sometimes a P? I’ve tested differently on occasion lol. A bit deeper, my Ni and Ne (extroverted and introverted intuition functions) are both competing for dominance.
Another INFJ here and when I read about MBTI, lots of people say a lot of INFJs are mistyped because we are supposed to be the rarest type yet there are so many of us online..but really I think it may seem like there are loads of us simply because more than any type, we seek this content out..same for INTJs and maybe all the intuitive types
This is THE BEST overview of MBTI dichotomies I have EVER seen. I've been researching MBTI topics here and there on my own for over 15 years. Watching this video, I learned some new aspects and descriptions I have never heard before. Great video. Who is this guy and why isn't he making more great videos? Edit: He's Ken Meyer. Got it. Thanks, self.
If you want to learn a lot more though, and you want to become very accurate. You should watch this guys videos. He's really good. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-kQxzwJfdWDQ.html MBTI is pretty much the flawed version of jungian analytical psychology. This guy can teach you how to quickly and accurately type people, and will give you a much more in depth understanding of each type.
I'm an ENFP, and am the secretary/receptionist at my job, and I've never been more fulfilled at a job. Getting to talk to people all day fills me up. I was in a cube before for 6 years and hated it.
I'm an INFJ... I think that's why I fell in love with you so quick! Lol Just joshing with you, Miss!... but ENFPs really are great... to me. There is, a certain type of... "Animal" attraction between two INFJ's though. They can fall madly in love with each other pretty quick... Then be in a war zone before the hood of the car even cools off... after an evening outing together. If they get into one of those... "Intuition Battles" Reading into WHAT the "Other" one could have been meaning??? When they went... To that OTHER Bathroom!!🌚🧘♂️🤔🎎🧐🧘♀️🌝 But if they are not fairly developed, and open minded towards each other. They can be a "Danger"... to each other's health... Literally!! Lol... That's those neck choking and throwing hot pots of stuff into the bed types of relationships. Girls destroying cars and burning everything in the yard!😬☻😅 Can't live with you, Can't live without you scenes... Until one of us is in Grave Danger. Lol
@@NeckbonesNRice606 Fellow INTJ and I work forward-facing customer relations. It isn't hell when you learn how to insulate yourself from the drain, focus more on the tasks than the people for myself.
Seeing this was so relieving to me, especially the part was explaining the bias against introverts. I've felt that through my life I have been in a very real way discriminated against by others, especially by my fathers with his extraverted family, who heavily judge me for not enjoying social events or being around people in general.
5Gonza5 That really sucks, sorry ): My parents and I are introverts, sometimes we just fight because they’re thinkers and I’m a feeler, but I definitely understand what you mean, I can’t think of specific examples but definitely feel the pressure to be more extroverted sometimes
Wow, I thought I was the only one that thought that way. Not one person questions those who talk too much, want to be noticed and accepted by all! The introvert is always seen as troubled, depressed, or something else when in fact I find that these types are happiest when left along to enjoy their inner peace. Don't change who got are especially when it works for you!
I am very strongly a thinker, and what hurts me the worst is being lied to. When feelers lie to me in an attempt to spare my feelings, that is the very thing that hurts me the worst. I can deal with unpleasant truths, and I will respect the messenger for being honest, but I will resent someone who cannot even afford me the dignity of honesty. The worst is when I tell a feeler "I value the truth. I will not be offended. Honesty is the most important thing to me" and they STILL lie anyway. It is like a slap in the face.
Agreed, feelers often think that lies are necessary and there’s no harm in white lies but for me I feel like lying to me is like saying I can’t handle the truth and I’m unreasonable in some way.
The surprising thing is I am a feeler but insanely honest & loyal and literally lost so many career opportunities & was exploited in many ways all my life for being the loyal open book that I am 😔
@@rsaug Fi dominant, probably. Introspective judgers (Fi and also Ti) struggle to deal with other people, we're such self centered that people around feel like we ignore them/their needs, because our values are simply the most important thing in the world, despite what other people think or agree/disagree. Otherwise, you'd be a Fe dominant, however, those aren't know for being honest nor loyal, they go with the flow easily, taking the less friction path possible.
@Dr Jp I dont know much abt Fi, Ti, Fe...I need to investigate into this. But you are spot on about ideologies & values. I am all abt my core values & I dont budge on those at any cost. Ppl say I am way too perfectionist & idealistic to be around 😔
I’m the same “type” as this guy. It makes sense to be obsessed by these characteristics, and intrigued by figuring out how people think, for our kind of people.
I knew you reminded me of my dad 😂 he is an INFJ too! I’m an ENTP. We have great debates. He has learned a lot from me and I from him. If it were not for him I would not be a Christian. I love my dad.
20:20 I'm actually highly in tune with peoples feelings. I'm an intp and I share an office with an esfj at my job. 🤦 needless to say I have to pretend most of the time.
Oh boy... Don't scare me... I am an ESTJ and I want to go travel with an INFP I just met... It is probably going to be complicated... Since she is an Introvert and a Feeler, she is probably going to have a harder time saying what she wants. I am aware of it, but it is still not that ideal... And I don't want to hurt her feelings, but I might not even realize that I did...
INTP here, researching my personality to gain a better understanding of how to work with my tendencies to; be indecisive, obsess over 'unresolved' conceptual problems , and... procrastinate.
If you don't lie for the sake of your colleagues feelings, you're out. If you can't be diplomatic to your spouse, you're definitely out. Best wishes =)
John Witt But what knowing the truth would make you sadder than the lie would ever do ? (Sounds like a matrix situation lmao) I mean, imagine a situation which you can lie to your advantage, like flattering your boss, the « logical » thing (at least egoistic logic) is to lie. Or another situation: you’re with your friend or family and you must lie if you don’t want to hurt them (so it’s a serious matter) personally I’m a thinker (entp in fact) and I would say whatever makes them happy bc im too lazy to deal with the consequences of hurting someone
The Introvert and Extrovert in mbti terms means do you prefer to be in your inner thoughts or do you prefer to be outside of that box, focusing your thoughts on the real world. Thats what it means.
INTP here. In writing (comments, emails) I'll argue the truth without a care--demolish anyone if necessary. In person, I'm more diplomatic--don't want to hurt friends' feelings. For others, if I'm stuck in a situation with them or they have something I need, I'll keep quiet...and just be content to know that they're morons. I'm a natural procrastinator, but am always punctual where it makes sense to be. I cannot figure out people running for a plane or walking late into a movie. And I do have respect for others' time, so I am punctual for appointments.
I lean more toward the judging as an ENFJ although I am borderline on everything which prompted my psychology professor to say she distrusts people like me because we chameleon in social situations. I argued that just further cemented my ENFJ-ness since we are altruistically inclined so we become whatever fits the situation best. Although of all the criteria, the E-N-F stays unchanged, my J-P changes based on what I'm doing or who I'm with.
I'm kinda torn between Perceiving and Judging 1. I walk very fast, I drive even faster, it's like if I'm not going faster than the next guy I'm not satisfied 2. My posture is OK, not bad not good 3. I often leave things 2 the last minute but I also don't want to or like to do the thing I left till last minute so is that just what everyone does? if I actually enjoy doing the activity or task in question, I would not be leaving it till the last minute 4. I don't like it when others are late but I can sometimes be a little late coz I like to leave leaving till the last minute coz being early and waiting for others is a waste of my time 5. I usually like to wait and see what happens until I've formulated a pattern in my head then I'm not gonna wait for anything and just assume the same pattern is gonna unfold next time So am I P or J?
I'm a very very extroverted introvert. I love hanging out with people, talkative, blah all my personal business to the whole world, can talk to anyone, am comfortable with crowds... BUT I'm always in my head. I'm always talking to myself and i run back into my room to be with my books and phone.
I'm INTP. I'm a mesomorph with instinctively great posture (Because that's actually comfortable), I make sure to get a couple hours early for work so I can relax before work, and I walk fast because I'm hardly ever comfortable due to social isolation. And actually, people who grow up socially isolated are introverts who can't stand not being around people. Introverted and Extroverted only mean that Introverts are Introspective and Extroverts are Extrospective. That's all they actually mean. But unlike Judgers, we introspective perceivers do instinctively stair at the ground a lot. The letter other dichotomies are also inaccurate. Thinking is actually an analog for rational Feeling is an analog for Harmony Sensing is an analog for Limits and Intuition is an analog for potential. Also, Judging actually just means Brash While Perceiving actually means Wary. EJ/IPs are called the Judicious types and IJ/EPs are called the Precarious types. NF/STs are Blue Pill types (Blissful ignorance) and NT/SFs are Red Pill types (Harsh Reality). Fi = Bliss Ti = Facts Fe = Even Te = Ranks Ne = Facets Ni = Wants Si = Needs Se = Tools And I've got a lot more research graphs if anyone's interested.
I honestly think if a person has to work every day for a job they do not find satisfaction from, they might as well just... die. Because that's what a zombie is to me. I'd rather get a job I love even if I have to struggle to support myself financially than living like that. (I'm an INFP :) )
What a wonderful interview and discussion on these MBTI types. I got a few MBTI ideas for my channel. I discovered your channel through the RU-vid algorithm. Fascinating!🔥🔥🔥
There's not really such thing as being ambiverted, you should look into cognitive functions, they're much deeper and precise than MBTI (it's actually where MBTI came from)
Wrong, this description is extremely bad actually, for example introverted feelers, they are feelers, but they dont care about harmony, only extroverted feeling cares about harmony, there are a lot more mistakes like this in the video, INTJs for example, even though they are a Thinker, they have a strong sense of morality and justice ( their Fi) which means INTJs depend a lot of their decisions on feeling as well, etc, its a lot more complicated,I think you simply are not into the cognitive functions yet.
I find the ‘music’ very distracting. It costs me tons of energy to filter it out. I can’t manage half an hour of this. A pity because I’m very interested. I don’t understand the choice to add the music. The content doesn’t need it. Would much appreciate an upload with no music.
You are probably high sensor, then. I'm probably high N and I barely noticed (at the end of the video) that there is a music playing in the background:-D
I don't agree that Feelers are 'more empathetic' than Thinkers, though it can seem that way. Feelers just don't like conflict and thus avoid it. They can be just as mean, jealous, and conniving behind the scenes as Thinkers are straight upfront.
with reference to the use of the right hand over the left, children in Africa are actually taught to use th right hand, and reprimanded for using the left hand, like for eating.
best explanation ever for MBTI, but the moment you stopped showing graphics on the screen behind you , I got distracted, as I'm learning through vision :(
I'm an intj (i guess like u) and i badly want to grow and improve my self And i have no idea how I wanna reach my full potential but I don't know what my full potential is like
Wait wait wait. I enjoy hanging out with friends and other people. It just depends who they are. LOL I get people who say I’m outgoing and others think I’m a hermit. I change or adapt to the situation. I m not saying being fake. I m saying “adapt”.
so as an INFP that means.. I am energized by solitude, I put meanings to the world subjectively, and act upon my feelings, with an overall crative yet chaotic lifestyle? no thanku
I am literally both J and P. Is that possible? Super flexible, last minute, like to keep my options open but also, can be planned, start tasks way too early so as not to stress last minute, like structure and my worldview is more black and white than grey.
Sameee I have a habit to retake my mbti tests roughly every year and it keeps oscillating between J and P all the time and yk the stats they give at the end where they tell you what percent J or P you are? It's always like 52% J 48% P or the other way around. It's always a 50-50 :D
what's that funky chill music? I need to know dude I am an intp ennegram 5w4 melancholic dom with high openness and neurotic also with high existential musical verbal and logic
Why we do what we do well neuro plasticity the more times we do something the more easily impluses can move though out our body which's composition is depend on our environment and dna which is also dependent on our geological location with even natural selection accounted for their interaction as they collect food as they can not breed with everyone and there is a limit on how much you can procreate you have very refined set of possibilities of each existing organisms and how they interact
Crimson, I'm an INFJ, as is my Dad, and we take a super-long time to make decisions unless the topic is one in which we are already expert, or are already decided long ago. Yes, we LOVE planning things and carrying-out those plans, however, we take our good ol' time deciding what needs to happen and when. That said, once we decide, we push toward achieving that objective until we have obtained victory.
