They keep on calling him rude but they are the ones that are being rude, if he wants to stay in a hotel and eat alone then they should not force him to do otherwise. I wish he would be more forceful and tell them no!
As regards with dr. Qing Ming's attitude and why he wants to be alone was that he had a traumatic tragedy that was happened to his family way back before. That's why he wants to be alone and not socializing to anyone because of that trauma. This series was a back story of how dr. Qin was started his forensic journey. That's why he is way more young looking to this series.
I don't like how they keep disregarding his wish of personal space. I find it disrespectful. Dragging him to room full of ppl after he said he didn't like to eat with strangers. Handing him food. I know he will eventually get over it but yeah that's a no for me.
haha, this is a typical Chinese society. This a way some traditional Chinese show their kindness. However, more and more young Chinese have changed to accept the Western habit of not inquiring about other people's personal lives.
I don't know why I hate it when a character makes it clear that they don't like socialising, gets forced to socialize. As a person who likes being alone I'd probably snap 😩
@@angelofdeath095 this is kinda a tone-deaf reply, if you can't respect a person's wish to be alone at times thinking you know better then that's simply just disrespectful towards that person
Hopefully this will be as good as Ep 1 which was excellent. As a retired nurse of many years , and a scrub nurse in theatre I understood every word. Fascinating and interesting, no nonsense. Can't wait to see more.
I like the forensic and mystery part of the show, I don't like the interpersonal relationships, they make plans for him without asking if that's what he wants and they force him to do things he has said he doesn't want to do yet they have the audacity to tell him his behavior is rude.
Poor Qin Ming, he just wants to eat his meal in peace but with so much questions firing at him, it’s so overwhelming. I know that feeling very well as a person who’s autistic and with so much people time, it can make you drunk in the head and tire you out easily.
I like this ML cuz he doesn't want to be touched by the FL ( Tang Min) I remember, " Xiu Chuming," told heartly to Shin Jiner that he doesn't want any man to get closer to her nor touching her...she only belongs to the general,😍💕LOL😍💕
Oh mi gosh. Selecting gender in utero, and killing the other foetuses while she's still carrying. Okay. This is sincerely horrifying. But a great series.
I hate when people are so assuming. There are people rather be left alone. Guess I am with team qin ming. As long as he does his job just give him the space that he wants.
ok I think I need to come back to this on another day when I can deal with this 'social BS' better because the way they walk all over him and disrespect this wish to simply be left alone for a bit is making my skin itch as an introvert if you don't allow me to decompress alone after a day out in the world I would snap, being out & interacting all day is fricking exhausting mentally and overwhelming
11:28 dr qin he already explained enough for you to understand yet you don't, he doesn't have to tell you anything that he doesn't want to tell, you don't know him so don't go assuming
People in comments can't really understand why he had to socialize if it is his personality it's ok for me but it feels like he has a trauma so obviously he had to face every situation so that he can leave normal life like others
But the people around him don't know that he is antisocial due past trauma, therefore forcing him into doing things without knowing why he chose not to do it is still a big no no.
it's not up to other people to force someone because 'it's better for them' if he wants to be alone that should be respected without need for explanation or the need to change him just because...if he wants to deal with his past that's up to him how/when and some people just like being alone after a while trauma or no
wait, huh? at 12:12 it was shown that his parents was divorced and his mother died of drowning... I remember on the first season, they're clearly a complete family and his father was klled on his seventh birthday, his mother became depressed due to that and followed soon after.
I definitely relate in wanting to not be touched not too much socialising need my space, i have ocd i wear latex gloves at all times i order every two weeks boxes of gloves different ones i wear for everything, i don't touch anything or anyone and i dont like anyone or anything touching me. Im mostly introverted since i was a baby, im a bit extroverted now. He not being rude he nit trying to be rude he is totally understandable,they being pushy and the guy cop don't know space and boundaries. Its so quick on how all accepted him wanted him to join like from the first episode when introduced to the others.
people say its blessing to become a mother but it has become curse to be a mother .............. how cruel it is for the surrogacy. but you people should not make Yao like this, l love him in 'the best of you in my mind'. n Tang, she is from 'general's lady'. l started watching chinese drama because of this drama.............
Honestly compared to medical examiner Dr Qin the survivor this season isn't even that good they are more focused on personal stories/feelingz rather than solving cases
42:05 these people being aggressive and rude and rushy and not understanding and comforting and this whole thing sketchy like why girl why you doing this.
I am sorry FL is annoying... Role doesn't suit this character I think she works in Criminal department but thier behavior.... I am not that impressed with this series bcz of characters
33:33 she should be mostly to blame for being with someone like him a total bum a jerk a homeless type guy theres nothing there with him . Jeez love makes people that stupid and blind
There ain’t nothing wrong to welcome people I know he’s doesn’t like to social that why FL is trying everything to make him feel welcome you all act like this is a death threat 🤦🏻♀️ if you are working together you gonna study that person that why FL is trying to make him feel welcome
this isn't 'making someone feel welcome' this is disrespecting his needs and ignoring his wishes to simply stay alone for a bit, making someone feel welcome is making a person feel like they are respected/seen/heard as a person, this is the opposite...