What she is using is called Little Space, it’s actually a coping mechanism for stress, reason as to why most people like it is to relieve their stress. It can be sexualized yes, but in this instance no it shouldn’t be sexualized. There are different types of littles, like some could slip into little space more often than others depending on the stress level. Some people maybe aren’t stressed at all and just genuinely enjoy it. So this is a normal thing and shouldn’t really be made fun of. I just educated you all on Little Space. You’re welcome :)
Age regression is actually a quite popular coping mechanism. Usually suggested by a psychiatrist. With Agre, (age regression) it is not sexualized and is used to kind of create the stress-free moments that you get as a child that they never had. And props to you, since this is the most respectful reaction I have seen of it so far.
It’s called DDLG or DDLB MDLG MDLD A lot of people do it. Some people do it because of stress some do it because of there childhood. And it’s called headspace or little space there’s a little and a caregiver.
It's just age regression. Most reason people regress, is due to traumatic experiences during childhood. They use it as a coping mechanism. People that do this are also called; littles.
cierra Ddlg is not always a kink, it’s just who people are, I’m an age regressor, but I still consider myself part of the ddlg community because I don’t like to explain to people, and it is just easier to explain.
Honestly it makes a lot of sense for this to be a coping mechanism for child abuse or childhood trauma because typically those children are forced or end up growing up faster and not having a childhood or not having a good one and so living your life or parts of your life as a child and getting that sensation is comforting to them
Is it just me or is her “baby” voice is really cute😂she can be who she wants to be though, she’s probably really nice and normal irl though who agrees?
They are called "littles". Its a form of kink. It can be sexual or not. You are supposed to have a "daddy" to take care of you (if you know what I mean).
Ok so I feel that almost everyone thinks that little space is a kink, but it’s really not. People are able to slip into a headspace that’s called little space. It’s usually caused by a traumatic experience. Little space enables people to go into an age regression that creates a carefree mindset. Now the whole “daddy” this is WAY different than a kink. Usually little space’s have what’s called a caretaker. Their caretakers are usually the little space’s partner. They might call their caretaker mommy or daddy because if the age regression. Uhh, hoped this helped for anyone who didn’t know much about little space.
Shannon Paresa As littles we are not always in our headspace. I have piercings and tattoos as well but that simply has nothing to do with it. It is all based on our headspace atm. We can be 100% adult sometimes and not other times. Just like how we can be any size, we don’t have to actually be little/small. We all look different, act different, etc.
Little space is for multiple reasons Child trauma Depression Anxiety Stress Or just taking interest in the community Being a little doesn’t mean being aesthetic and looking nice, it’s about being yourself and doing what you love. Personally, little space helps me deal with anxiety and stress! :)
As I always say ...if you're not harming yourself or others...you do you. No judgment here. Seems like there's a lot of healing happening there. So, kudos to these two.
I’m childish when I’m not in little space so I’m always cute 😂😂 but this is my little account and all my friends and family kno I’m in into wittle space
They don’t “think” they are babies. They know they aren’t. It’s the DDLG community. It’s not a disorder, it’s a lifestyle/hobby. It’s not even role-playing. It’s just a hobby. There’s numerous people who do this. And it’s not even weird to do it if you actually sit down and start thinking about it. Some people do it BECAUSE they had BAD childhoods. And it helps them cope. Melanie Martinez is similar in that way but instead of doing the DDLG thing, she just keeps the style.
My boyfriend does little space, i love to take care of him, and it really does make things stronger and have a tighter bond in the relationship. It's our way of escapeing from the real world I like to think. (Lol for anyone who gives a heck he broke up with me but I like to think we had a good year😅)
as long as she respects others and is mature when she needs too then let her do her thing. i think it's called a ddlg relationship. I respect that lifestyle as you know when to be mature ^^
@@promoteroflibertyfromgloba8225 Not everyone deals with things in the same way. I suppose this works though or people wouldn't do it. Different strokes for different folks.
I know this is completely off topic, but let's just get some appreciation for Stephen Hillenberg. R.I.P. Spongebob will always rest in my childhood heart.
I respect that she does these things. I’m bullied for being bi and growing bumps on my bones, so I know what it’s like to be ur self and be bullied for it. So I respect her.
I got bullied just by my appearance that at the time I couldn’t really take care of.. and considering I still watch little kids shows and color and draw like I’m five when i was 15 (2019) I decided why not give this a chance and now I am a little! It is because of trauma that started when I was 8 and I don’t care what anyone thinks of my little side I do it to help me from thinking to much and stuff like that
Sometimes childhood abuse takes away your childhood so then as you get older you have a harder time growing up since you miss out on so much as a kid and I still watch kid shows a lot
Priscilla Alvanos actually therapy recommend this for those who’ve had really messed up childhoods or who have great childhoods and just want to relive it due to the trauma that ruined the rest of it.. for example before I was 8 I was very happy and didn’t care what anyone thought about me and now I care what everyone thinks of me after being bullied and self harming for years and this helps me when I want to do bad coping skills for my pain
If you’re still confused I’ll *try* to summarise: Little space is when someone goes into a younger headspace. It relieves people from stress. It’s usually called ddlg (daddy dom, little girl) mdlb (mommy dom, little boy) or swapped, it can be sexual or not though in little space, focusing on non sexual. The ‘little’ acts like a baby (or around that age) and the ‘caregiver’ is like the parent. It’s kind of like a type of therapy to some and helps them get stress off their shoulders. (I believe this can be described in other ways to so I’m sorry if that isn’t too accurate)
Some people rely on little space to help cope with depression and anxiety (me). For me, I was abandoned by my dad when I was 3. When he was here he never took care of me so I fell on a nail and it went in my cheek now I have a scar. I grew up quickly because I blaimed myself for my dad leaving and then as I grew up the friends I had a bunch of trouble making abandoned me. I was lonely and bullied when I was 5 and I still get bullied now. I think for me little space is just helping me forget about the 'adult' world/ 'teenage' world. So Its different for everyone.
I agree! He’s got my subscription! Big heart. Raised right. I love binkie princess. She is the queen of ddlg. And honestly I think Jess and her daddy Stephen (not David - guy in video) are super cute. I chose age regression/little space and ddlg, when I seen binkie and her daddy. I am an extremely capable and normal adult. But outside of that I enjoy the ddlg community. 🥰👨👧
@@maddyanddaddy4316 I think they just weren't happy with one another anymore. They haven't said anything about it, but Jess deleted her RU-vid channel, but Steve still has his up.
I honestly thought that she had a disability or something but then I saw, and I was just like WOW. but you know it’s a free country, you be you, I respect that
