MEETING MY MOM'S SECRET FAMILY / My Grandma's Long Walk in Vietnam. a Kyle Le doc.

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I've been wanting to meet my mom's secret step family for years. The chance finally came up after I begged my Uncle 7 to take me down to My Tho to visit them. It was so surreal seeing how similar they resembled my aunts in America. I learned a lot about my maternal grandpa on that day and I'm proud and happy that I went down there even though it was against my mother's wishes. My family's story is not unique by far. Many Vietnamese families and other people in the world share similar stories. So this one is for everyone who has family issues. Try to resolve them. As much as my mom was against the idea initially, she ended up sending money anyways. At least it's a beginning. Better late than ever!!! It's a complicated situation. Every story has many sides. Just try to connect with your family. Even if it works or it doesn't work. Just try.
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About Me: I'm Kyle Le and I used to live, travel, and eat in Vietnam and many Asian countries. I'm passionate about making videos and sharing modern Asia to the world. I've traveled everywhere in Vietnam, from Hanoi to Saigon - Far North, Central Highlands, Islands, and Deep Mekong Delta - I've visited there. In addition to 15+ countries from Indonesia to Thailand to Singapore, you'll find all of my food, tourist attractions, and daily life experiences discovering my roots in the motherland on this amazing journey right on this channel. So be sure to subscribe- there's new videos all the time and connect with me on social media below so you don't miss any adventures.
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@TheNeeyang 6 лет назад

So savage Kyle straight up called their mom a home wrecker lol

@aprilpeach4340 6 лет назад

Your grandmother sounds like an amazing woman. Faced with many options she chose to stay composed and be a good role model to her children by demonstrating that two wrongs don't make a right. It must have been so hard for her, but her children were able to see first hand that life can be what you make it; that you can push on with a determined spirit and not let other people's poor decisions overrule your destiny. This example of a fighting spirit and determination to overcome hardship is what the Vietnamese are renown for.

@okayq 2 года назад

April, that is deep!

@dienhuynh1643 6 лет назад

Its good that you met them, but don't force your mom to meet them Kyle. Because seeing them would bring back sadness memories to your mom.

@hongan3846 6 лет назад

I cry for your grandma , oh my god , she has a hard life

@tiff4637 5 лет назад

I felt your moms pain when she told the story. I hope she finds peace. Your step family kept saying you’re too young to understand or that it’s because you’re from abroad. However, it just excuses. Your grandma sounds like an amazing women! Props to her!!

@lehoang5019 6 лет назад

The will to survive and raise her kids, motivated your grandma to walk through a 20 km road every day carrying 40 kg of sugar to market.

@dulcegarcia4452 6 лет назад

I completely relate to your mom. I understand the curiosity on your part but she will always see it as betrayal to her mom is she gets close to them or if she forgives her father. It's something you'll never understand. Don't force the subject, it's painful.

@michelleparker5539 5 лет назад

Truth

@lilarodrigues2698 4 года назад

I relate too. My dad did the same thing to my mum.

@lilarodrigues2698 4 года назад

Everyone is so quick to give opinions in the matter. If you haven’t gone through it, it’s easy to say “ forgive and forget”. My mum went through 25 years with my dad and only to be swapped after 2 kids and 1 grandchild with a woman she actually knew, who smiled and confided with my mum. It hurt her, the betrayal in both sides hurts. I will never forgive my father nor the women he cheated with. I feel sorry for the daughter they have, but it’s best to keep a distance because one day she will eventually know what they did. The kid is going to be hurt by all of this and they will have to explain their actions. I told my dad that I hope that life gives him and this woman karma, but life is so unfair that normally it’s the children that will suffer the most and get their parents karma. So, in this case this kid unwillingly will end up paying for my dads and the mistress mistake. I really hope it’s my dad and this women are the ones who gets karma instead. I don’t want anything to happen to the child but I don’t want a relationship with the child. The child mother and my father are the ones who destroyed my family and cased my mum, me, my brother and my nephew to feel hurt. The things he did and what the mistress said also added more fuel to the fire. No one can understand until they go through something like that.!

@hoangdzung6983 6 лет назад

Your family would not have survived today if your grandma had become crazy and killed the other woman. She was a very smart woman having thought carefully of the future of her family and her children.

@maryyang9825 6 лет назад

Kyle! This is your best story-telling production to date technically and you also emotionally, show us what a great human being you have become. Please, send your mom my respect for her courage in letting her voice heard...

@Wheatley60 6 лет назад

When he helped the humble worm to get across the road,I knew he'd be blessed on his journeys.....Happy trails!

@okayq 6 лет назад

Grandma was an incredible person.

@jamieebron7827 5 лет назад

The older generations had steel in their blood💯. We're weak sauce compared to them!

@yzarcmw7794 4 года назад

Yes they are a lot healthier too because of the environment. The food they eat are all 100% organic, the air they breathe, the water they drink and the lifestyle in general.

@pkvstudio 4 года назад

I wonder why kids these days packed with allergies all over lol

@PhamDynasty300 3 года назад

Absolutely agreed 110%!!!

@mp3surname234 2 месяца назад

@@pkvstudiobecause the urban planners of these supposedly great generations planted the wrong trees in many cities worldwide

@D_Red 5 лет назад

I got the sense that your grandpa's second family feel entitled to help from your mom when they've never done anything for her. I'm sure they were well aware they were living a good life while your mom and her siblings were not. They seem as entitled as their mom was when she lived on your grandpa's full check with no regard for your family. Your mom is very kind. She took you going to see those people you call family better then I would of.

@phuongngo6110 6 лет назад

God bless your grandma, she's in a better place now.

@sarahjaneyoung8566 4 года назад

You may never read this but your grandmother was a great woman. She did what she had to to do keep her family alive and you going and trying to do even a part of her daily life speaks volumes about you in others words you rock as a grandson

@MasterAkiDraw 6 лет назад

I am Vietnamese American. And I am very touched and moved and are in tears. I am thankful to be able to speak and understand the language and I can connect with stories like yours because growing up in a single mom household, many stories have been told and many griefs have been expressed. Please continue to make videos like these and pursue happiness and passion. Thank you.

@tuongnguyen-qo3uz 5 лет назад

That a long road that your grand mother walk everyday of her life to hold her family together, you should feel proud to have a grand mother like her.

@Hayzelle 2 года назад

Your grandmother sounds like she was a wonderful lady. My family has a similar yet different issue with my maternal grandfather and I can’t imagine making my mother relive that trauma by doing something like this. You have a very understanding and forgiving mother.

@JacqueH411 6 лет назад

Love your videos! I think you have inherited your grandmothers beautiful heart. I love that you wanted to meet them and hear the other sides to the story.

@bw8016 6 лет назад

What an awesome video and tribute to your grandmother. She was a saint and a kind woman. It is a story of perserverance and survival. She was a strong, independent woman that did what she had to do to take care of her family by herself. I admire her strength. What a wonderful example she set for her family. She was an honarable woman. Thank you KyleLe.net for sharing your story even though it was painful.

@czogg99 6 лет назад

your grandma was a strong, unbending, and resourceful woman. Most women would have given up. She had the last laugh. She came out smelling like roses.

@thesoundofmaria 4 года назад

We have a similar story on my paternal side - my grandfather and the half siblings were reunited after many, many years apart; there was a lot of pain that was rekindled but they also gained some great memories. I can see where your mom is coming from; I hope she can take down those protective walls a bit but if she doesn’t, I wish her and her siblings peace and love.

@TonivomBananenboot 6 лет назад

Your grandmother was such a tough Lady. My mum raised 3 boys on her own. The older i go,t the more i appreciated it. Great video

@TheRiceguy78 6 лет назад

Bro this is one of the realest vids i have watched on your channel. usually its just food. Ironic how i was talking to my father yesterday about my family history. It is not perfect but i understand why you had to see for yourself. Major props and bless your grandma

@tIanne70 6 лет назад

Kyle great respect. I'm a Buddhist Chaplain. Not long back from Vietnam. My teacher is Thich Nhat Hanh. The Buddha taught us that the past is gone and the future hasn't happened, we only have this moment. You are living this.

@toannguyen214dallas 6 лет назад

Kyle le. This is one good story to share today. My family were Carpenter we make boats. Make a story how your family came abroad to America. Now that’s an eye opener if you haven’t. Ask. We made boat for the refugees . I got crazy story. People dieting and what they did to get here. Some tempted 20 times and never made it anywhere.

@elainejackson5156 6 лет назад

This video was really touching for me ... my grandfather had a second family as well. One that none of us have met, one that I was never supposed to have found out about, but accidentally did because i walked in during a private conversation between my mom and her siblings. But my grandfather never left. Either family. He was a hard man. Seemingly unloving and severe. Always sombre and serious. But he raised and took care of 10 children with my grandmother and who knows how many more with his mistress. And my grandmother is the most caring woman I have ever known. Like yours, my grandma loved all her children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. I haven't seen her in almost 20 years aside from the yearly Skype session. And my grandfather has since passed. Watching your video has made me want to get to know his other family ... because i have more family! My children have more family ... that's an amazing thought.

@PhyllisMichelle 6 лет назад

I love this video very much. I loved Vietnamese people, in Que Son, Huang Anh, Quang Nam. I loved being in the village every day! I make many friends. I walked road sweep for mines every morning at daylight. Many kids were our friends, sell us soda $.50 and sweet ice cream and Thuoc Phien. They were all wonderful to me, were kind to me and I missed them all my life. I always remember them. US Marines. I cry many times when I watch your show.

@1951kvk 5 лет назад

Your grandma understood what true sacrifice was even if it caused her great suffering. She put her children first. That is real love. And your right, all stories have more than one side.

@crustytravels 6 лет назад

Much respect to you Kyle. It's super difficult to come to terms with what happened in the past, but the trying is what counts. Keep your chin up man, you're doing awesome in the world.

@linbui5849 5 лет назад

Admire your honesty, and willingness to share your family's personal stories, and misgivings! Really enjoyed your mother's insight, but really appreciate your kindness, and acceptance to what transpired through your grandfather's bad choices!

@liznguyen873 6 лет назад

Again, I'm loving these videos lately and the direction your heading in. Thank you to you and your family for sharing this story with us. In our culture, these things are rarely discussed so openly and I understand how hard it must have been for your mum to not just talk, but share this with us all. You can hear the pain in your mums voice and I understand why it's so hard for her to let it go. Technically, the children shouldn't have to suffer because of your grandfathers mistakes, but as they say, the sins of the father... Also interesting how your grandmother struggled so much and the mistresses side reaped all the benefits but looking in from the outside now, it seems your mothers side came through better off in the end.

@liznguyen873 6 лет назад

I may be wrong, but the Kyle I used to watch seemed quite detached from his own family in Vietnam, yet now you've made a conscious effort to not only visit, but understand these "hidden" relatives. Seems to me you've really grown and matured as a person and I really like its in turn changed the direction of your videos too. Good job!

@kyleledotnet 6 лет назад

+Liz Nguyen after my grandpa died everything changed.

@kyleledotnet 6 лет назад

+Liz Nguyen ive always been interested where i come from...one of the reasons i moved there but as i got older i approached it differently

@Pixlanta 6 лет назад

Well done Kyle, great perspective and intense story..made me cry, sad, filled with anger towards Vietnamese men like your grandpa generation..your mom is honest and brave ...and I loved how you had her voice on the phone while you walked your grandma arduous footsteps daily. One of the most passionate storytelling from you to date..so raw and real..👏🏻😥❤️

@aaramzee 6 лет назад

Kyle Le, perhaps this was the best part of your journey, meet the step family of your mother against the wishes of your mother but then you earned about how great your grand mother was. Those were old day and perhaps it happened like than those day but what a wonderful true story of a family in Vietnam.

@AnnieLinh 6 лет назад

I totally understand your mom opinions and thoughts..! My dad also left for another women leaving my mom with 4 kids.. honestly Im kinda suprised u wanted to meet the other family.. I feel so upset just thinking of it.. but thats of course is my personal opinion.. :) great video ! It felt so personal for me..

@kyleledotnet 6 лет назад

They were fine and decent people. They spent more years with my grandfather than my mom ever did, so it was so amazing for me to hear about him, his life, and more about my maternal side. A lot of that stuff wasn't recorded or cut out of the video. Maybe one day I can make a video about him. Who knows... thanks for watching.

@gaslitworldf.melissab2897 6 лет назад

I am just a bastard. I met my father once. His family owes me nothing. I will wish them a Merry Xmas for the first time this year through my half brother who is around 10 years older and retired from the US Senate as a clerk.

@toannguyen214dallas 6 лет назад

Same here dad left for four women. Left my mom and three kids.

@sgcl10658 6 лет назад

Kyle Le Dot Net Please make a video of him. Want to know his side of the story.

@KL-sk7kk 5 лет назад

They didn't anything wrong it is your dad or the adult that create such a mess. You have no right to angry at them nor mad at them just because they are your half-siblings. I met my half brother but never hate him for it. I only piss at my father such an A-hole.

@Shugar212 6 лет назад

Great video. The pain of what they went through is normal, but family is important. Your grandmother was a very strong woman because she had to be. I couldn't imagine.

@HangTran-my8ph 6 лет назад

This is the best video in your channel. I've watched it multiple times. It's so personal, everything is just perfect. You are an amazing translator and storyteller!

@earlgrey7342 6 лет назад

Beautiful video Kyle. Thank you for sharing your story with us.

@annecorey607 5 лет назад

Sad story for poor people his grandma is very sad thank you for sharing your story thank you.

@dairyannguyen5921 6 лет назад

This is among one of the many reasons I subscribed to you, the knowledge and insight you share with us all about Vietnam and the compassion you hold for the unfortunate. This video has helped me come to resolve with my own family issues as it relates almost entirely. Growing up, my father hadn't been in my two sisters' and my life for about 15-some odd years, I was always curious where he was during important milestones and then discovered when I turned 18 that he had another wife in Vietnam with children (my half-siblings) after having me and my siblings born. Thereafter, I grew a hatred and resentment towards him and the other family, but chose the path of "forgive and forget" especially because of the fact that my half-siblings obviously aren't part of the matter. However, I still held pain in my heart for my mother who suffered in so many ways that my siblings and I had to witness but knowing how strong and persevering my she is inspired me to be a better man today and onwards. This video is very mind-opening and uplifted my spirits in terms of wanting to visit my half-siblings one day, and with that being said, I just want to thank you Kyle for opening up on such a touchy subject and having the galls to embrace it, spoke volumes to me.

@deaksbear 6 лет назад

Great job Kyle.. you are growing as a person.. so important. Agree or not it was her life and she did her best. You facilitated conversations that would never of happened. It should be your proudest moment yet ..

@kyleledotnet 6 лет назад

My perception and thoughts on family completely changed after my Aunt 6 died and more recently when my grandfather died. Those two major events shaped me current vision on family and on life. It was pretty cool to see them video chat.

@pkboi24 6 лет назад

Just started watching your videos yesterday because I’m going to HCMC in May, but I have to say great job on forcing yourself into an uncomfortable situation. That’s how you grow as a person. I also moved back to Asia after college for a while and your videos remind me a lot of what I went through when I lived abroad. Keep doing your thing, man. Your story resonates with so many of us first generation Asians and it deserves to be told to the world.

@HHT1909 6 лет назад

This really sets a flame a-flickering in my heart to explore and learn about my family tree. Thanks again Kyle

@trang1031 6 лет назад

The best video you have done! Thank you for doing this documentary. I didn't want it to end.

@raquelvlogzz1183 4 года назад

YOUR GRANDMA WAS A KIND LADY AND HAD RESPECT AND DIGNITY.PRICELESS.

@kristervoo 6 лет назад

Kyle, what a wonderful brave thing you did. Your story resonates so greatly with myself and my mom and in turn, her parents. I understand what your mother and your mother's sisters have gone through as my mom and her siblings went through the same thing. Funny how sometimes the cycle never stops, as Annie Linh wrote previously, her father left her mother. My father left my mother and as such, being a product of such relationship, its hard to forgive one's father and even harder to, in essence, forgive the step siblings/half siblings. "Why do you love them more than us?" "Why don't you even visit, call or even care?" It 's hard to "forgive" them when they had the life you (or your mother) should've had, was taken because of them. It must've been a huge deal for your mother to overcome this and graciously send money. Good on you for being a lovely son to her.

@Userjdanon 5 лет назад

I am a vietnamese who was born and raised outside vietnam. I find it very entertaining and educational to watch your videos. I also learn much about vietnamese culture

@kyleledotnet 6 лет назад

I've had the desire to meet my mom's secret step family for a long time. Growing up, I heard about them here and there but nobody in America wanted to talk about it. Many years later, I finally convinced my Uncle 7 to take me to My Tho to visit them. It was very surreal to see how much they resemble my aunts in America. Meeting them allowed me to get to know my maternal grandfather a lot more. I honestly did not know anything about him at all. (He is not the same grandpa as my paternal one who went to France ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-cKsC5Ck7QKU.html) In the end, it's not right to blame anyone for things out of their control because every story has two or three sides. I'm just glad I had a chance to meet them and spend some time with them. I'm even more glad I got the chance to walk my grandmother's walk, something I've wanted to do also for years but the right opportunity never came up. I did not finish the walk. When it got too hot and time was winding down (a scheduled appointment in Saigon) I had to call my cousin. Even though I never met her, I wanted to create something to remember her, not only for myself or for you guys to get to know where I come from, but also for my own younger relatives. One day they can at least sort of see what their great grandmother, great great grandmother had to endure and get to know her a tiny bit better. Thank you for watching. If you have any issues with your family. Maybe try to resolve them before it's too late. Connect me with me on FB, Instagram, or Snapchat for a lot more. If you don't follow me on there, you're missing out on a lot!

@add1cc 6 лет назад

Kyle Le Dot Net your mom went to high school in my tho?

@kyleledotnet 6 лет назад

Bien Hoa

@helencao5493 6 лет назад

This is definitely surreal Kyle. Thanks for sharing. p.s your Viet is very good hahaha I know coming from a Vietnamese family but born and raised up in Australia!!! @kylele

@mtong1412 6 лет назад

Oh I have step families too that I never knew about or mentioned. I could definitely relate to this video. My grandpa from my dad's side had few wives and so does my dad when my mom was still in vn.

@TuNguyen-hy4eq 6 лет назад

Kyle Le Dot Net I.

@marshateeling1081 6 лет назад

Beautiful videos! What a brilliant young man you are! Having the courage to look for the truth is to your credit.

@phatthaithuan7425 5 лет назад

You did an extremely great job, Kyle!!! You helped me a lot with this inspiring video.

@Bizzle227 6 лет назад

Thank you Kyle for sharing your family's story.

@gabisibiya2913 5 лет назад

i have so much respect for you man....Watching your videos all the way from South Africa..... All I'm seeing here and all your other videos is what connects us as human. Lo, family, acceptance, belonging, etc.. Really so much respect for what you do.

@alexnguyen8025 5 лет назад

Hey Kyle, you are such a great person. I believe your life and your family will be one, as you hope. Every single person in your family will completely be understand and see the value of life is : family , as you use to say. God bless you and your family.

@ilubnerds102 6 лет назад

feels good man!!! glad you got to meet family that you never knew you had! and your grandma sounded wonderful :D

@LasVegasEDM 6 лет назад

Beautifully told and quite motivating! Thanks Kyle and keep up the great job!

@huym6171 6 лет назад

Another great personal story. Thanks sharing Kyle.

@octoberskye8099 6 лет назад

Your channel is my absolute favorite. Your grandmother was very strong- mentally and physically, to endure so much.

@BlurryAznboy101 6 лет назад

Great video Kyle, your family seem like great and humble people. Thank you for sharing your experience

@christopherdouglas3486 5 лет назад

Hey Kyle ... Awesome video. Heartfelt and full of personal meaning for you and your family. I've been watching some of your videos reuniting separated and lost families, and watching this one has been the catalyst that made me subscribe. Keep up the great work.

@nhanduahau0208 6 лет назад

Thank you to make this video. All your's videos are meaningful like every single one. Thank man !

@jayalberts 6 лет назад

Amazing Kyle, just amazing. Really enjoyed this one. Thanks.

@longnguyendotcom 6 лет назад

Thanks for making this great video! Very insightful and great production!

@cynnguyen13 6 лет назад

Idk why but I cried while watching this video. I’m moved and touched by your story.

@mikeatgoogle501 6 лет назад

It shows poor people could get away making babies irresponsibly. Another group of people that left behind many children were the soldiers in the war. If money wasn't an issue, it is economically (but not morally) okay to have many children. How did the video touch you specifically?

@jeffreydery 6 лет назад

A very toughing video Kyle. The story of your grand mother should be told to the entire world as an example of caring for others and determination to give her children a better life than she had. We can see that she acheived that and even more. I cried when you were in the alley and said taht there are 3 or more sides to every story because I could see how meeting these people had touched you, how it affected you. Thank you for sharing. After seeing this video, I can say that I love your grand mother too.

@camiele4 6 лет назад

Wow, very touching to watch. Your Grandma sacrificed so much. 😔

@Lori_L 4 года назад

You are an incredible young man & are changing so many lives with your storytelling. Keep it up!

@CurlyViet 6 лет назад

I shear a tear with you, I can feel your pain. Always remember our roots.

@AnhTruong999 6 лет назад

Great story Kyle. It was great to watch as you seek out perspective to understand more about the past and the twist of fate.

@poetriot 6 лет назад

Its nice to see these videos of you connecting with your extended family.

@kyleledotnet 6 лет назад

indeeeed

@daphindlas3381 6 лет назад

Thank you for sharing, Kyle! I realized that this situation was very common back in the time. As I grew up, I just discovered more and more secrets. It's a little different from my family that my grandma holds the grudge, not my aunts and uncles, and I know she would keep it until the day she leaves. The fact that my family (which includes my dad's siblings and my mom's siblings) is pretty much united, really caring for each other, helping each other so that all of us succeed in life. That's why it's like you said, I feel 'áy náy' when I know that my half-family isn't doing that well. Although I'm not close to them at all, I still feel something deep down my heart. Thank you again for an insightful video!

@trongtran3459 4 года назад

Been watching your videos recently, Kyle. What I love most about your videos is the content and your down-to-earth personality. I would say the past story of your grandmother's family is quite complicated and might be hard for you to understand the whole thing. Wish you all the best, Stay safe.

@saisue676 2 года назад

Ty Kyle for sharing your family’s story…Grandma was a strong resilient woman ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@williamle253 6 лет назад

Great story and production Kyle. This may be my favorite video from you!

@mescellaneous 6 лет назад

i can't help but relate to your grandma's outlook on things. it is very stoic.

@chunligirl 5 лет назад

Your mom keeps it real. Just like my dad. He doesn't feel the need to reach out to people who don't think of him. Him returning would just mean $ and fake hospitality. He rather just enjoy visiting abroad then revisit memories that just bring up sorrow and sadness.

@LanguageAccepted 6 лет назад

Great storytelling/flow in this video, Kyle! Loved it!

@joninosaka 6 лет назад

The generations before ours were very complicated and it may be too hard to reconcile those people. But the folks in our generation and after are growing up in a different time with different values. Its there that we can start to mend the wounds and regain ties. Its brave of you to reach out when nobody else does and hopefully it makes an impact on the other people to start seeing the world differently -- especially the younger generation.

@simbatran 5 лет назад

Every families has their dark secrets, including mine. Thanks for sharing Kyle.

@misstynax3 6 лет назад

That's my moms dad tooo! He has a separate family too but they all get along now

@misstynax3 6 лет назад

Definitely understand where ur moms coming from such hurt and heartbreak

@jimmytrinhgiangchannel8412 5 лет назад

Thuong qua! cau-chuyen rat cam dong ve gd cua Kyle Le rat complicated... god bless you Kyle Le... 💝💝💝🌹

@scottymsu6063 5 лет назад

Very very hard subject to tackle... kudos for you reaching out to your Grandfather other family, or second wife. I am impressed at your Ba Ngaoi struggle as well as your mom Struggle to live with dignity and leave the past behind. Thanks for Sharing

@CuocSongQuanhTabolbol123 5 лет назад

You're a kind man. God will bless you. Thấy a đi bộ xa mà xót

@carolinenguyencuocsongmyos3455 6 лет назад

Great video thanks for sharing Your grandmother is such a strong woman.

@SailingYachtDreamcatcher 6 лет назад

Another awesome piece of work Kyle. well done!

@tinhnguyen-demary2444 6 лет назад

Wow Kylele. I'm speechless and so proud of you as Vietnamese!!!!

@neihc1589 3 года назад

What you doing is beautiful man. Been watching your videos the last couple days. I can't wait for covid to be over so I can fly back to Vietnam and see my family. I miss Vietnam very much

@michelleqtpham1779 6 лет назад

You're a good man. Wishing you the best to come.

@Spookyblack 6 лет назад

Beautiful! Congrats on 100K Kyle!

@sureynot 6 лет назад

Wow Kyle, thank you for sharing!

@504tadashi 6 лет назад

thanks kyle this is the best video ever . its touch me deeply with the story and i hope one day yall mom will forgive and move on to a better relationship with the uncles and aunts.

@khoanguyen5588 6 лет назад

Kyle, I busted into tear when I heard you said: "Don't listen from 1 side, see it from different perspectives." Things might be hard to forget, but maybe your mom should learn to forgive. The letting the negative vibes living inside of her will actually a good thing. Man, it's hard to forgive for someone who tore down your family, trust me I know how it feels. But here is my input, hardship and the endurance your mom and your aunts have been through made them tough, independent and that made them who they are. Besides, that was the past, that from the previous generation, something that we couldn't change. Taking a higher road and try to understand their story making you a better person(perhaps not having 9 wives) in the future. Great story Kyle, thanks for sharing!

@kevinvinhinhtran8458 5 лет назад

The same applies to understanding South Vietnam and North Vietnam, so that we can continue to unify the present divisions between Vietnam and viết kiều -- between Communists and Republic.

@lilarodrigues2698 4 года назад

You can forgive but never forget.

@AnTran-sx3nd 6 лет назад

Thanks for making such meaningful stories. I can only wish to bring out the stories of my grandmothers. Another story of a single mom from your family...and it continues on with Thao's mom in the present time. I Almost burst in tear when you stopped for the sandwich on the road when you surmised that your grandmother wouldn't.

@kavinh2559 6 лет назад

Your gramma have a very hard life but she was a god to her childrens..

@louisebookman231 4 года назад

Kylele you are very smart young man and I know your family is proud of you may God continue to be with you and your beautiful family

@cindyha6836 6 лет назад

I just recently found this like literally today. It’s so crazy to see u in a city/town that is so familiar to me it gives me so much nostalgia and idk just so many memories. Dad and his family after living on an island moved to that area and idk it just blew my mind how small the world is. I know this has no relevance what so ever and like no one will read this but this is truly amazing and mind blowing hopefully when I’m a little older when my family takes me more seriously about this stuff I’m going to try to figure out my family story just as u did. Cheers for inspiring me to do something so interesting and amazing.

@simoling 6 лет назад

One of your best. Very moving. It's a common theme of returnees, finding "secret" families.

@lindam4320 4 года назад

I enjoy watching your videos Kyle. Finding people and reuniting and your own story.

@trihuynh1191 6 лет назад

Thank you for sharing this video. This will help many families and many people. I see the fractured relationships on both sides of my parents' families. The childrens from spouse one and and the children from spouse two are distant. Half brothers and sisters who are angry and want nothing to do with each others because of what their parents did. It's odd to meet aunts, uncles, cousins, and siblings that your parents have powerful and painful memories of because of what their parents' actions. It's good to see you try to get a greater understanding of your history. Many of your viewers will connect with this taboo subject that we kinda heard about in the family but aren't sure and don't really know how to approach it with of the elders. Thank you again for sharing.