Well it’s different for women. With guys there’s a refractory period where you can’t arrive. I don’t think women have that so they can do wilder. It the refractory period also varies from guy to guy. Some are longer than others. Heh budm pisss
@@dishonorabledimensions1683 It's not the same but some women, myself included, struggle to do multiple in a row. Can be due to over-sensitivity or in my case, I take SSRI antidepressants so it's a struggle to do one sometimes lol.
No, there are legitimately pills made to lower someone’s sex drive. They aren’t antidepressants, even if they share the lowering libido part with them.
Fully agree. When I lived in Korea my ex-gf and I were on a vacation and we were stuck indoors due to a storm. partially out of curiosity and partially because, ya know, it feels really good we wanted to see how many times we could reasonably go at it. Even with Lube it was starting to get sore for the both of us after the 4th time. I think it's because we neglected self-care and rest. At 12 times I can see how Mel put herself in the hospital.
I have a friend, in similar work ethics as Mel, who had a stream to celebrate a milestone. In said stream, she (my friend, not Mel) went on for hours pushing her body to the “end game” 32 times as far as I can remember. I was surprised she wasn’t tired after that night, and she typically don’t reach such numbers, but it was just a wild moment to hear about
@@kreze9696 I wouldn't go as far to say that, I'm just saying that you shouldn't overdo it, if you're truly in a dark place, indulging in pleasure isn't harmful but you should still focus on your health. Don't just force yourself to have to be in misery because that would affect your mental health and no one should go through that
@@yonarulezIf I had known the correct answers to give when I was a highschool teenage male I would have given them to minimize my sex drive, I didn't like it as it felt useless to me as I received no female attention other than as a friend and I wanted to focus on excelling in intellectual pursuits sufficiently enough to achieve great enough feats in the intellectual field to compensate sufficiently for my social deficiencies caused by a lack of nurturing and neurodivergence. I never learned how to purposefully be funny and land every time due to executive dysfunction (being born ADHD with autism is not a curse I'd wish upon anyone and I'm sorry if you're like me especially how I've ended up). After taking an antipsychotic to try and wipe my mind by acting psychotic because I was tired of the cyclical nature of being a modern human with finally getting some semblance of hope of building something stable only to have missed something or the old flaws in the neurology trigger because you tried to avoid the "hotfix" of self harming to reinforce impulse control with a condition that causes impaired control and stimulants being a restricted drug class that apparently a childhood diagnosis doesn't clear you for to get what you need... I'm getting off track anyway I read online about how even atypicals could lead to "escape from life", so being desperate I did what I had to do to get them prescribed to me unaware that permanent impairment would happen I just wanted to have an easy time like I was demanded or expected to just being able to emotionlessly take tests without intrusive emotional flashbacks filling me with conflicting emotions that I had to just ignore to continue taking the test holding out for when what I was doing would become enjoyable again because there's no time to grieve losses in this world.
Yeah, anything that disrupts your life is to be taken seriously and you should take care of it. There is no such thing too embarrassing or too insignificant to see an expert about, in such case.
Definitely TMI but there's weeks where I go without it, and there's days where I reach 3, sometimes even 4 times. As for how I have the time for that, well, I just neglect other things, sometimes important things, but that's a problem for future me.
My max of just not being horny enough to bother was like a week, i usually can go 3-6 times depending on how i feel at any given moment but tbh i hate doing it at all because of PNC enhancing my depression
I'm not an expert in bodily conditions so take with a pitch of salt for what its worth, but Mel could have some sort of Hormonal imbalance since I'm Pretty sure Bao had a similar condition to mel and took similar treatment. The pills they both took I think helped Throttle down the production of Reproductive hormones in the body in order to stabilize the balance of hormones in their bodies which were thrown into overdrive, allowing Mel and Bao to "Calm Down" so to speak.
The pills were most likely either antidepressants or pregnancy pills. Both are extremely common, both are used by many women, and both have the side effect of drastically reducing the libido.
Houshou marine has talked about having similar issues to Mel and bao as well and from what I remember she said it could be pretty crippling with how bad it could get at times
It call hypersexuality I have it, it also pretty common with people who have bipolar issues or straight up autism or the two. It not the greatest thing to deal with especially in serious relationships, as guy I can’t imagine the struggle for girl who contrary to guy don’t have to wait to continue
not if you're trans. being put on hormones and transitioning is called second puberty by trans people. I'll update you when that happens for me, but I'm not sure if the hyper libido happens again
@@MagiRemmie considering how awful first puberty has been for me, not looking forward to the emotions second puberty brings. but, I already went through it once, so I have experience, and I can learn to control it. I'm curious though. how was it for you?
@@violetbean8928 Depending on your viewpoint, worse than the first time. For the first month or so I had zero libido. Then suddenly I had very bad mood swings and my libido jumped into high gear.
I remember once when I was a teen seeing blood from whacking it too many times in a day. Don't do that especially if you are a guy who just uses tissues or TP it's a terrible idea.
In the spirit of telling people not to do things you did as a horny teen, I will chime in and say "do whack it using soap" yes it feels nice and slippery like lube, but soap is literally meant to pull oils and dirt off of your skin, and the skin down there is very thin and very sensitive, and not only does your skin naturally produce oils, it is also partially MADE of oils. So if you combine that with soap and a lot of friction over a few minutes, it will feel good... And then it will start to feel very painful as the soap literally will start to *rip your skin apart.* I had to deal with what looked like sandpaper burns on my meat for about a week before I was even willing to touch it again.
I actually tore a hole in my scrote once. Tore right at the seam made from being circumcised. It formed into a scab and took like 1 to 2 weeks to heal. Stories of real problems from the people with above average libidos.
i didnt even know masturbation could feel good until i was like 22 🤯 i didn't masturbate a single time until then, problem is when i realized that. I couldn't stop jerking it.
This makes me feel better about my 2 to 3 times a day, because I've read some people only do it 2-3x A WEEK. I can't even imagine going more than a day without just once. Mel seemed normal to me personally, those #'s seem the avg I was hitting when I was going through puberty and had no responsibilities LOL
It's one of those things that sounds fun but fake, but is real and also torturous. Even 2 Nympho's together isn't a fix cause they just feed into each other and multiple symptoms. Unless the physical exhaustion from real activity manages to slow em down.
Imagine being a male and already having trouble/pain on your third attempt... biology needs to adjust these things. We already knew Mel was chaotic horni but holy moly... that is a lot of exercise to do in a day.
The colour of my skin changed to that brown colour you get between your thighs coz I used to edge it for 6 hours straight. When I went onto cyproterone it helped though.
That's actually a clever way to use the side effect of a lot of antidepressants out there, because most antidepressants on the market that I know of have the side effect that they massively put a tamper on your libido.
it's strange cause there are days that i do it once or three times and then there are times i just am awake all night and reupping literally every 30 mins or so until dawn comes and i realize I've been up all night
I feel this one. Never took medicine for it as I have a pretty good handle on myself now-a-days, but the rest... Yups. I wonder of this is a more common thing among girls as I never met a guy with this problem.
Well as a guy your limits catch up with you way sooner. Women can get multiple feelgood moments during a single sploinky session so the 3X the extreme guy amount makes sense.
Man, that's wild. Thought was the only one. It's harsh in a way; I remember days not going to university or canceling plans with my friends just for that. I remember one day at my mid teens, that i started on a friday at 10:00pm and stopped the next day at 2:30 pm. (Was so depresed and had inverted time schedule at that time) I counted it between 15-17 times. Man, probably just carving for something to feel good. (I've never done drugs or smoke. Alcohol just a little)
That's nuts. good for her for seeking help. I cant remember who, but i heard a story on VH1 rock stories about a gut who was having so much sex, his phallus split in half from too much work.
man, I wish ... likely ... I mean, it's a nice thing to enjoy if 3 times a day ... I'm slowly moving toward 3 times a _month_ ... - life is about enjoying life, right? ...
it's really hard to control your desires .. sometimes medication helps but sometimes not controllable anymore and just go with instinct...but yeah .. take care yourself people... doing it 4 times or more is kinda normal but to others it's kinda excessive... always clean up and take a break
I've seen a meme recently that said that orgasm is a "shut down" button for men... but a "reboot" button for women. Seems like that was a tad too literally true for Mel.
I could see it being difficult to decide to take pills to do it less with her other streams in mind. But, that just sounds exhausting. It's good most people are responding with actual concern and understanding from what I can see, probably because of what a viscerally unpleasant image that is. 12 times a day? Ffs my dopamine system is already broken.
Mel was doing 11 - 12 times a day, Makes sense I use to have horny friends they also had similar stories & medication. Well glad she's doing better, if she thought it was an issue, glad she's better.
male 28, a couple of years ago i could reach 6 times on my days offs but if i tried to go beyond that my pp hurt............ now it dosent hurt anymore and i go beyond that xD
it's worse for me, I used to do it about 5 times a day when I was younger...then I injured myself...legit started peeing blood a little I got kinda worried, but it did heal up, it took about a week or 2...so now I limit myself to about 2 times a day, I still can go for 3 but that's REALLY pushing it lol
I don't mean to misinform or be lazy for not reading things on the internet but curiosity got the best of me, I asked AI about "this" and said that it's possible for women to do this multiple times due for them having no *refractory period*
I never took of school to play five knuckle shuffle, but several times I for so horny in class I’d edge myself through the back half of class and then be able to quickly choke the chicken at the urinal between class in the least used restroom and then quickly get to class.
This reminds me of something I heard once. Whenever something becomes extreme distraction it's no longer the good thing it can be. I remember prof. Steven Pinker talking about obscene linguistics being taboo as a cultural evolution overtime because it's essentially forcing people to be distracted. If you are going about your day respectfully and suddenly hear an obscenity now your attention is drawn involuntarily and your train of thought broken- Although it's nowhere near as taboo now where i live compared to, say, the 1990s and before when some things were spoken in hushed voices, there is still some social rules about obscene or taboo language. People exist on a bell curve for everything, vid being one example. Sensitivity to language being another. To understand, think about if you were on the upper 1% of humans least sensitive to imagining unpleasant imagery by hearing obscene words - trying to comprehend the mind of someone in the lowest 1% sensitivity to imagery.
Only 2-3 times a day? I used to think I was normal levels of horny as a teenager then when I got into my 20’s, I learned that I’m above average there. I used to do double digits on my days off work and still be fine the next day.
It can be a symptom of depression. Hormon imbalance. Trying to even out hormones by inducing sexual pleasure. If youre in the same boat, talk to a professional
I once went a week that i would do it 2-3 times a day. 16-17 times in 6 days. I couldn't even pee without hurting. Please know your limits. Take a break from time to time.
I no longer feel ashame I use to 5 or 6 times Then got guilt trip and stop The got back but for 1 or two. It was bad because they were family. I no longer see them I drop tears from time to time. But im okay.
I cannot even imagine doing it more than twice a week. Damn, people really do have extremely different libidos. I wish they did more studies with women's health because I definitely feel birth control lowers that number immensely. Also, I feel like that takes a lot of time out of someone's day? But I guess if it makes you happy....
