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Melissa Benoist: My Story of Domestic Violence (Extended Cut Interview) 

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Melissa Benoist, star of The CW’s Supergirl, first opened up about her experience with domestic violence in November 2019 on Instagram. She was met with an outpouring of support from fans. Now, more than half a year later, in this extended edit, she retells parts of her story -- from the first signs of violent behavior to an incident that sent her to the ER for a permanent eye injury to the freedom of rebuilding her life -- and reflects on what other people need to know about the reality of intimate partner violence.
The United Nations estimates that the COVID-19 pandemic will lead to 15 million new cases of relationship abuse globally. For anyone currently experiencing this, Melissa wants you to know you’re not alone: “It might feel that you’re more trapped than ever, and it’s worse than it’s been, but it’s possible [to get out], and you deserve to have a different life.”
*** If you or someone you know needs support, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE(7233) for confidential support. You can also text HOME to 741741 to speak with a counselor at the Crisis Text Hotline. Both services are totally anonymous.
To support the Together For Her initiative, which funds organizations that help survivors rebuild their lives, go to www.care.org/togetherforher ***
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Melissa first shared this message in May during Night of Solidarity, a digital event dedicated to deepening society’s understanding of domestic violence. (Watch the program here: • Night Of Solidarity | ... ) The event was produced by The Meteor, (wearethemeteor.com/), a group of journalists, artists and activists building a new platform committed to the equality and dignity of all women.

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@ZarasMeda
@ZarasMeda 3 года назад
I'm glad now Chris is treating her respectfully and helping her overcome her past and now they have a beautiful baby boy. I hope now melissa knows she has gone through the worst and can now get through anything as she came out stronger then ever.
@kennethg5460
@kennethg5460 3 года назад
Who cares? If you can't pay your rent will "Chris" be there for you? Grow up.
@sanshine4717
@sanshine4717 3 года назад
@@kennethg5460 dude wtf I get you're miserable but stop trying to make everyone feel the same
@cecilialo3443
@cecilialo3443 3 года назад
@@kennethg5460 Dude wtf is wrong with you?
@emilyblais6407
@emilyblais6407 3 года назад
@@kennethg5460 um....read the room. Zara was talking about how happy she is for Melissa being in a much better place with a man who treats her right and a beautiful baby boy, and you're telling here to grow up? For what? Chris is Melissa's HUSBAND, the father of her baby. Who hurt you?
@kennethg5460
@kennethg5460 3 года назад
@@emilyblais6407 They are merely just actors from a television show. "Chris" and "Melissa" are not your friends. You people need to wake up and start separating fantasy from reality. Just because you "follow them" on SM does not mean you know them or they give a fuck about you or what you think.
@brandiargow7451
@brandiargow7451 3 года назад
She's one of the strongest women ever!
@Noone-wq2eq
@Noone-wq2eq 3 года назад
She's super girl
@bowjana8128
@bowjana8128 3 года назад
And lad who hits a woman is a shit house
@pauperpauper8018
@pauperpauper8018 3 года назад
Yeah right, lol.
@climatechangedoesntbargain9140
@climatechangedoesntbargain9140 3 года назад
people say that to almost every x-th girl on youtube
@arceerogueharleyquinncapta9925
@arceerogueharleyquinncapta9925 2 года назад
actualy she is not that strong if she got divorced then jumped back into another relationship so fast she could have idk try being single for a bit before getting involved with whoever.
@tayniaj8235
@tayniaj8235 3 года назад
She doesn't need freeze breath, laser eyes, or the ability to fly and move fast to be able to be strong, independent and brave. Thank you for sharing your story to the world.
@laraa_prv12
@laraa_prv12 Год назад
❤❤❤❤
@sofigarcia3419
@sofigarcia3419 3 года назад
okay so i was scrolling down the comments and i found so many awful things and i felt like i needed to say something. first, she's talking about her ex-husband Blake Jenner, not her current husband Chris Wood. second, she mentioned on her igtv that sometimes she had to fight back (which is completely normal and okay) and that they both mentally abused each other because their relationship was just toxic and horrible. that doesn't change the fact that he physically abused her and that he manipulated during the entire course of their relationship and he continues to do so right now, by addressing this almost one year after, just when melissa announced the birth of her child and said that she's happy with herself and her family. he also gaslighted her in his entire post and tried to look like a victim when he just isn't. if you believe the abuser and not the victim something is clearly wrong with you. #IStandWithMelissa
@simonjohnston9488
@simonjohnston9488 3 года назад
Yes! Another common comment from men is the old 'if you'd been with a nice guy like me instead of going for a chad, this wouldn't have happened! You'd have been treated like a princess every day(yaaay?)'. These self-declared 'nice guys' make it very clear that they're exactly the type of person to abuse a partner. It's so sick that in 2020, domestic violence is still widely disbelieved, and/or the victim is blamed... on another level, given Trump and his cronies' opinion & treatment of women, it's sadly not too much of a surprise that misogyny in all it's forms has become cool for some. They even attach it to being anti-'woke', for goodness sake.
@brianfordhamm2740
@brianfordhamm2740 3 года назад
​@@simonjohnston9488 you know who to thank for that, albeit you'll never admit
@bexs.2151
@bexs.2151 3 года назад
he wasn’t the victim, she was. self defense is not abuse !! #istandwithmelissa
@NimueG
@NimueG 2 года назад
Thank u for this comment!❤
@iarocks44
@iarocks44 2 года назад
Excellent comment!! There is so much victim blaming. It's much easier to just assume the person is lying or making it up. Yet there are stories like Melissa's all over the place. And BTW not all the abusers are men, although sadly the large portion are. There are also abusive women and they are just as bad as the men. Such a powerful message from Melissa. It takes so much courage to share an experience like hers. I have even more respect for her now than I did before.
@alexwallar8608
@alexwallar8608 3 года назад
Does anyone else find Melissa's voice soothing
@sussybak8482
@sussybak8482 3 года назад
Absolutely
@theravager3784
@theravager3784 2 года назад
Oh hell yeah
@mehere3013
@mehere3013 2 года назад
Shes in my bank
@lukav7348
@lukav7348 2 года назад
Yes!
@jesslynhoennicke4522
@jesslynhoennicke4522 2 года назад
100% she should do audible!
@katrinawinters5676
@katrinawinters5676 3 года назад
I'm glad that she is in a better relationship 😌 💕
@redd605
@redd605 3 года назад
I totally agree , with it being mental health day today when you are in that kind of situation , it's the control and being blamed for no reason etc. over and over.it terrible for anyone who is going through that now .but there is help and organisations
@ibelieveinrgalaxybts1425
@ibelieveinrgalaxybts1425 3 года назад
Me too
@arceerogueharleyquinncapta9925
@arceerogueharleyquinncapta9925 2 года назад
she might not be if the rumors of her and woods divorce turn out to be true.
@whitney8656
@whitney8656 4 месяца назад
@@arceerogueharleyquinncapta9925 hmm how did that turn out? 🤣
@qwahaxahn
@qwahaxahn 3 года назад
This woman is an Angel on Earth. * Supergirl fans will see my point here *
@dineeshabissoon4359
@dineeshabissoon4359 11 месяцев назад
Fax I watched the episodes and it was the best show I've seem since I watched the flash ❤❤❤❤
@jeremynguyen8661
@jeremynguyen8661 3 года назад
With so much of "her" that went down that drain with each violent incident, it's a wonder she still has so much love, and joy, that she projects. Such a beautiful person, and I hope young men, boys, learn to treat women with respect, as I am doing teaching my own son.
@o.m9514
@o.m9514 3 года назад
That's true. She projects so much love, sunshine, I just hope it she is feeling so much inside.
@Karolina-Skudraite
@Karolina-Skudraite 2 года назад
we need more fathers like you to teach their sons like you are
@toriless
@toriless 2 года назад
maybe she is partially a cat?? The are remarkable that way.
@anniepainter6879
@anniepainter6879 3 года назад
Seeing Melissa's video the first time last year, I am stunned that something like this would happen to her and after I read Blake's post concerning this, I'm both angry and disappointed. He tried to blame Melissa for the "abuse" she inflicted on him, but she's only trying to defend herself if that violence kept escalating and he tried to play the victim. Just because Melissa is defending herself doesn't give him any excuse to play it off as abuse; I'm glad that Melissa is doing okay now and is married to Chris who treated her a lot better. As for Blake's Instagram apology on what he done, while I'm glad he confessed to what he did to her, he doesn't have any right to place blame on someone who's an actual victim of domestic abuse. If anyone has an issue about what I wrote here, I'll delete this comment; if not, that's okay because I'm here expressing what I feel about Blake's "apology" and being a supporter for Melissa. #IstandwithMelissa ❤
@jayzee6617
@jayzee6617 3 года назад
An interesting and balanced comment. Hopefully both Benoist and Jenner will now move on with their lives and learn the lessons. Relationships are complex and the key is to communicate. It appears some resentment built up within Jenner and he was not mature enough at that stage in his life to deal with it other than to strike out. His recent Instagram post at least showed he had come to terms with some of his issues and - while doing some blaming of his own - generally accepted blame and hoped to become a better participant in relationships. As with all "celebrity" stories we don't have access to all the facts - nor are we entitled to them - but I am sure most would agree that once abuse becomes physical - by either gender - then it is time to confront it and get out. Silence is not the answer.
@katierooney8750
@katierooney8750 3 года назад
Blake Jenner is narcissistic he basically shifted the blame as if she abused him too she did not she fought back
@rsfilmdiscussionchannel4168
@rsfilmdiscussionchannel4168 3 года назад
I'm annoyed that there's a part of me that wants to consider Jenner to be telling the truth. I don't want to get myself in a situation where I root for the wrong person so that's probably why a part of me wants to think of him as correct, yet if I embraced that then most likely I'd end up doing just that.
@korywong5914
@korywong5914 3 года назад
I dont get who would want to abuse their own mate, well Blake put bad out and his punishment will that he lost his chance to hang out and still mate the true supergirl
@kiranbalayengkhom5579
@kiranbalayengkhom5579 3 года назад
He mellisa do you know 2nd wave covid 19 2021 ?
@giuseppeianniello1998
@giuseppeianniello1998 2 года назад
I saw Chris and Melissa on their vacation in Italy and he was such a gentleman to her that reaffirms the theory that chivalry is not dead, it still lives!
@Caitlinje_
@Caitlinje_ 3 года назад
I remember her video coming out and it came at a really dark time for me. I was in an emotionally abusive relationship, a couple of times it got physical. Watching her video made me realise that what was happening wasn’t right and she helped save me from a prolonged dangerous relationship
@DM-hm5jg
@DM-hm5jg 2 года назад
I hope your doing better now love
@not-a-ghost2206
@not-a-ghost2206 2 года назад
So proud of you, hope you're better now 🌻
@victoosorio7417
@victoosorio7417 3 года назад
It's very nice to see her talk so confidently about this compared to how she was in the video. I'm so glad shes is getting better with all this and want to share her story to help other people. She's a superhero on screen and in real life.
@rozyberger6068
@rozyberger6068 2 года назад
she is
@amy2043
@amy2043 3 года назад
She is literally my role model bc I know how she feels she is the real SUPERGIRL
@korywong5914
@korywong5914 3 года назад
Me 2 her supergirl taught me to never loose hope and that hope is always the strongest super power everyone has
@toriless
@toriless 2 года назад
Supergirl is about hope and love too.
@divakarhosamani4798
@divakarhosamani4798 10 месяцев назад
What's bc in English in hindi it means sf
@odalisamaya5093
@odalisamaya5093 3 года назад
She posted her first video almost a year ago & it’s admirable to see how far she’s come. There’s a reason she’s out here blossoming with her career, marriage & now new bundle of joy. We love you Melissa.💕🙏🏼 Update: as of today he finally made a statement post on his IG.
@DanielLopez-pp7uo
@DanielLopez-pp7uo 3 года назад
Omg I did not realize that was a year ago🤯🤯
@Nerdy-By-Nature
@Nerdy-By-Nature 3 года назад
Conveniently timed apology. My abuser did the same. I hope it doesn't steal an ounce of Joy from Melissa or Chris right now.
@centigradz
@centigradz 3 года назад
the guy that my parents tried to set me up was exactly like this. mind u, I'm Asian so all the blame goes to the girl for dumping an abusive guy. The guy told me that I couldn't wear skirts, talk to men, go to work (coz men would talk to me), keep him company at all times when he was bored but be on hold when he was busy, berated me when he had road rage, told me I was too serious and was fat, went to my parents house at strange times, emailed other women sexual remarks behind my back. After 2 weeks I was so fed up I cried to my parents and asked him to let me go. But then the harassment with emails and texts and phone calls started. I just blocked him. Then he sends me emotional emails and there was one time I emailed him back coz I felt so guilty and my parents were so upset that I broke up with him. Then he tried to lure me possibly to attack me but I didn't respond. thank god. many may ask me why I emailed him back that one time. trust me, this guy is so manipulative. And I felt so guilty and my dad was so pissed off at me for rejecting him and many years later my mom always tells me I missed such a great opportunity to find a perfect guy like him. Now watching this video I am so glad I broke it off. Otherwise I would probably be dead or married him and b abused. He had all these signs. Even simple things like what I would wear. I'm glad she spoke up coz other women out there will b able to identify the signs and leave or at least seek help. The worst thing is the ppl so close to you like your parents supporting him and telling u that he was probably the best thing that ever happened to me and how I was so worthless that I could possible never find a man ever is heart-breaking. But I saw thru his lies and deceit but most ppl won't. So pls help someone out there who needs help and never side with the abuser.
@hariomkushwaha9773
@hariomkushwaha9773 3 года назад
I'm so sorry what happened with you. I hope you are doing fine❤️ My family went through something similar like this. I cant share that story here but i can relate too much to this. I'm really glad that now you are okay
@hasinitallapaka2673
@hasinitallapaka2673 3 года назад
I am so sorry you had to go through this. I hope you are doing better and you did the right thing leaving him and I am sure that you will find someone else who appreciates you❤️
@lilenwasnothere6867
@lilenwasnothere6867 3 года назад
im so happy you got out of that
@jyotsnapandit8321
@jyotsnapandit8321 3 года назад
Ma'am please knock some sense into those dumb parents of yours
@jacobeliav544
@jacobeliav544 3 года назад
Yeah I’m glad that you are ok this shit is so fucked up
@vedaadityaramsaroop2096
@vedaadityaramsaroop2096 2 года назад
So happy that she's with Chris now and he's treating her with respect. She deserves the world. What a queen.
@arceerogueharleyquinncapta9925
@arceerogueharleyquinncapta9925 2 года назад
suposetly you mean we have no clue if he really is or not.
@arfhat89
@arfhat89 2 года назад
@@arceerogueharleyquinncapta9925 That is true but he seems like a caring individual given his mental health awareness campaign that he started, IDONTMIND. Can’t know what happens behind their doors but he seems like a nice and thoughtful guy
@Nobody-ob3eg
@Nobody-ob3eg 3 года назад
The fact that she spoke out on such a horrible experience and is in the process of healing makes me love her even more
@arceerogueharleyquinncapta9925
@arceerogueharleyquinncapta9925 2 года назад
yeah to bad it was a few years to late.
@HanJialinProductions
@HanJialinProductions 3 года назад
Such a strong woman. I’m so happy that she is now in a happy relationship where she’s respected and treated right.
@martin116d
@martin116d 3 года назад
I thought she was playing Supergirl - but she is playing just herself. The Supergirl in the series is sometimes astonishingly fragile for a woman of steel - and empathic, caring and so incredibly nice. But that seems to be just Mrs Benoît. To overcome such a traumatic experience at all is hard work. To overcome it as good as she did is just one in a million.
@toriless
@toriless 2 года назад
It could have been when she was on Glee as well but she was apparently already in show business.
@toriless
@toriless 2 года назад
Oh, by the way, you spelled her name wrong.
@isabelhoch3713
@isabelhoch3713 3 года назад
You’re such an inspiration, Melissa. Your story helped me get out of a toxic friendship that I had been stuck in for months almost a year and you helped me see my self worth without them. Thank you 💕
@AyeraZafar09
@AyeraZafar09 2 года назад
Yeah she inspired me too
@emmaraia1689
@emmaraia1689 3 года назад
She is so strong, beautiful, hilarious, kind, sweet and caring! She is so perfect but she was hiding this all along🥺
@Em101Em
@Em101Em 3 года назад
Wow. Went from watching bloopers of her being all bubbly to this, totally by accident. I would never have known, or guessed, but I suppose that's the power of self-silencing due to domestic violence. The strength of character it took for her share her story with not just a few people, but the whole world, and all of the scared and healed survivors...is truly remarkable. I already had so much respect for her, but this is something else entirely. Hugs to all survivors out there, and strength to all of those who haven't quite found their courage to break free. You can do it. You are loved. You have so much support!
@eddieramirez2298
@eddieramirez2298 3 года назад
Melissa didn't deserve to go through that, she's so caring, strong, funny & so beautiful. Mrs. Benoist we love you so so much you deserve better relationship & your current husband treating you right
@timberwolf534
@timberwolf534 3 месяца назад
Why would someone want to do this to a woman especially your wife the one you profess your love for. She is the most sweetest woman out there. That is sad that women have to care this pain forever.
@dnyaneshwartaware2343
@dnyaneshwartaware2343 3 года назад
She is the bravest women I ever seen
@danieloleszek8081
@danieloleszek8081 3 года назад
Melissa Benoist is a Paragon of Hope
@mcyhanick
@mcyhanick 3 года назад
This woman is an icon, how anyone could treat her this way be beyond my comprehension. We love you Melissa.
@user-rh2st7fv1d
@user-rh2st7fv1d 3 года назад
That’s why she’s my hero❤️ she’s so strong and she inspired me every single day of my life
@thelloyd87
@thelloyd87 3 года назад
She's always so happy and upbeat. I'm sorry these terrible things happened to you but I'm also glad that this garbage person didn't break your spirit. You are a survivor and you're even stronger for sharing your story. P.S. I love you as Supergirl. You're amazing.
@cynnx_x
@cynnx_x 3 года назад
I need to talk with those too people who disliked the video 🙂
@bulletdog100
@bulletdog100 3 года назад
It has gone up to 6 how dare they why would they...
@Nerdy-By-Nature
@Nerdy-By-Nature 3 года назад
First of all, I have so much love for this brave woman 💜💜💜 She's amazing and this will change people's lives. Second to her abuser: you do not throw a phone "aimlessly" and do that much damage to someone's face!!! We are not idiots. Hopefully no one falls for that line from his "apology".
@QuestforBeauty
@QuestforBeauty 3 года назад
It's so so important that people share their stories. I really applaud her, it's probably one of the most difficult things as well. Being a survivor myself, I remember how long it took to share my story. I felt it was all my fault. And listening to her, it was like re-living my past. The healing journey is a long journey. I documented mine and turned it into a documentary. Every time I watch it, it's like watching someone else... I became stronger after it. And it's hard to believe I was ever in such a dark place inside myself. My heart goes to all people going through domestic violence. Let's speak up and change this. We can do it.
@adoringbenoist2775
@adoringbenoist2775 3 года назад
This is what a real Supergirl looks like♥️
@moxiemorrow6073
@moxiemorrow6073 3 года назад
She’s so brave and kind after everything, she’s an inspiration and a hero.
@marieb5530
@marieb5530 3 года назад
I wonder who’s that friend. So much thanks to her 😭
@KeiHaunter
@KeiHaunter 3 года назад
I love her so much 🥺💖 i’m glad she’s doing better now, no one deserves to get through that
@adeleolmastroni1545
@adeleolmastroni1545 3 года назад
She's one of the strongest women I've ever seen and seeing that video of her was heartbreaking. She's a true inspiration and I'm so happy she's now in a happy place with her beautiful family ❤️. She just radiates joy and hope, a literal angel 💖.
@matthewstreets3019
@matthewstreets3019 3 года назад
I remember watching a previous video with Melissa Benoist in, talking about domestic violence. I watched Melissa talking about Blake, beating her up senselessly, brakes my heart. I'm glad that Melissa is living her life now.
@jamesreed2366
@jamesreed2366 3 года назад
After seeing Melissa Benoist play Supergirl I always thought she was so cute and adorable. I can't believe that such a monster could do such a thing to a fragile little angel that she is.
@rebeccasiegel1230
@rebeccasiegel1230 3 года назад
I agree! I hate Blake Jenner for what he did to Melissa. I can't even rewatch glee scenes that he's in because of what he did
@hallemartinez5330
@hallemartinez5330 3 года назад
Me too. I can't even begin to fathom how she felt and what happened because she's such a light in the dark
@mehere3013
@mehere3013 2 года назад
Such as life
@elwhy69
@elwhy69 3 года назад
I’m happy that she got through that ok
@terecee1204
@terecee1204 3 года назад
Thank you for sharing your story. Yours is a story similar to my own. Thank you for being brave and showing women that they can come out of this and that we are valued.
@blakejennerisanabuser822
@blakejennerisanabuser822 3 года назад
she IS supergirl. not, not for the cape she wear nor the character she play, it’s the strength within her that’ll always make her her the hero that she is.
@AnnieGill7
@AnnieGill7 3 года назад
Thanks for sharing your story Melissa. God bless you!
@denxylboart4403
@denxylboart4403 3 года назад
I am so sorry that you had to go through that for all that time hugs no one deserves that seeing this is both hurting, and inspiring you're so brave and strong, I am gutted I won't be seeing you on the cw any more, but it's been a pleasure watching you as supergirl, and I look forward to seeing you in other thing's, and you're right none of us are alone when it comes to suffering abuse and we can all heal if we push ourselves to do so I'm glad you're happy with someone new now who takes care of you and gives you the love you deserve the bad times have gone to be forgotten the only thing you have to look back on Is how far you've come since 🙂 I've been abused in the past so I know how it feels every word you said was like cold water to my face thank you so much Melissa Benoist you have inspired me a second time now hugs, I hope you're enjoying being a mother and safe during this covid 19 lock down shine bright beautiful 💛
@garyolbrechts640
@garyolbrechts640 3 года назад
So much love to you Melissa. Broke my heart hearing what you went through. You deserve so much peace and happiness.
@jessicamerriman2336
@jessicamerriman2336 3 года назад
Thank you! You gave me the courage to leave my abuser. It was hard for me to admit I was a domestic abuse victim being a 27 year veteran Paramedic/Firefighter. I put off my injuries as to being received on this call or that one. No one knew and I suffered in silence and shame. Once I was injured in the line of duty and force retired, due to a major spinal jury, I couldn’t suffer it any longer. Strikes to my spine would make me pass out. Anyway.....thank you for your courage to inspire my own. You saved my life. ❤️
@DoubleBlack2.0
@DoubleBlack2.0 3 года назад
In tears. I just want to hug you, Melissa. Thank you for sharing your story.
@michellevega2757
@michellevega2757 3 года назад
I really admire this woman! I thank each of the people who had the courage to tell their experience, thanks to this there are many men and women who have put a stop to it
@javierav8930
@javierav8930 3 года назад
What a huge inspiration to so many women and men who have gone through secret abusive relationships who have to live in constant fear of speaking out.
@BB-iw3pz
@BB-iw3pz 3 года назад
Omg I didn’t know this happened to her and she is the bravest person I know, for sharing her story and for spreading awareness so that others can potentially build up the courage and speak up and protect themselves. We love you Melissa and we are so happy you found Chris because he is too an amazing person, and anyone else out there who is dealing with anything like this we love you and hope your safe. ❤️
@danmarquez3971
@danmarquez3971 3 года назад
Melissa's message is incredibly important to hear. The abuse cycle is real and can trap wonderful persons like Melissa. Melissa is a REAL superheroine to share her wisdom.
@haadiyakhalid1860
@haadiyakhalid1860 3 года назад
More POWER to you Melissa! You are indeed the Supergirl of this earth and the bringer of hope and light!
@anitamaria4540
@anitamaria4540 3 года назад
I'm so glad that she got such a good friend who was able to recognize the signs and get help. Everyone should have a friend like her:)
@darrenmiller6927
@darrenmiller6927 2 года назад
Thank you much, you are so brave. My struggles are different and yet you give me hope and courage. Bless you, bless you.
@lpssnoopyyy
@lpssnoopyyy 3 года назад
my sister's ex boyfriend was starting to show some of the signs you mentioned, and she got out of the relationship as soon as possible. thank you so much for making this, it could have ended a lot worse..
@arfa3812
@arfa3812 3 года назад
She is my biggest INSPIRATION. SHE is my IDOL. i have learnt from her a lot..... : to stand up, and fight the situation. And from years she dugged her pain inside , but never shown outside. When ever I listen her words, about what happened to her, my heart literally broke And I appreciate her a lot bcz of her strongness and WILL LOVE YOU MELISSA......❣❣❤
@charlesmcgehee3227
@charlesmcgehee3227 3 года назад
Hearing her tell her story in such open detail is a relief. She knows herself pretty well. And is not likely to ever find herself in that type of relationship again. Brave for a woman famous for her role as Supergirl to tell a story like this in such blunt and clear detail.
@lf7961
@lf7961 2 года назад
One just never knows what someone is going through. Listening impacts my soul.
@Kuraudo_VII
@Kuraudo_VII 3 года назад
Hearing your story just breaks my heart. No one should experience what you have been through. If they are able to hurt you willingly, don't give them a second chance. They don't deserve it at all. You are my favorite Supergirl, my paragon of Hope.
@chrisferenschak2486
@chrisferenschak2486 3 года назад
I can't believe some asshole would do that to someone he supposedly loves. I know someone who was in an abusive relationship, and she's scared to this day. I'm glad you made it. Much love!
@sachijess9091
@sachijess9091 3 года назад
She let me feel like i could get through anything. Supergirl alligns with so many of my morals and who Melissa is as a person and her strength is amazing. I think that no matter where she goes she can do anything and touch so many people.
@Madfattdeeb
@Madfattdeeb 3 года назад
Thank you for sharing. Your character is a hero on TV, but you as a person are the real hero. I am truly sorry for your pain. I hope you can continue to heal and grow stronger.
@mercuryfever392
@mercuryfever392 3 года назад
That is a true friend. Someone that cares enough to risk a friendship falling apart to ask you if something is going on. That friend whoever they are, is a wonderful person. It takes a lot of courage to do that.
@moobaba
@moobaba 2 года назад
I am so glad you got out and shared your story
@taylorbudd3831
@taylorbudd3831 3 года назад
I love how she’s wearing the supergirl earrings.
@RB-w8dy
@RB-w8dy 2 года назад
That’s cause she was filming supergirl when she made it
@sujoymukherjee1930
@sujoymukherjee1930 3 года назад
Thx for sharing, Melissa
@The_Rising_Ape
@The_Rising_Ape 3 года назад
I'll never understand how anyone can act that way towards someone they supposedly love. Kudos to you Melissa for sharing your tale, hopefully it will encourage others to seek help getting away from whatever untenable situation they find themselves in. Love and light to you and to anyone in fear for their safety
@haleyjohnston744
@haleyjohnston744 3 года назад
What a kind human being. I’m so sad people in this world can be so cruel. We need more kind people who support one another, who stand up for each other, and love each other. 🤍
@Cytron1515
@Cytron1515 3 года назад
Melissa, admitting your faults and your weaknesses but also explaining how U dealt and got through 'em.... U truly are a super powered individual.
@allyscomputer114
@allyscomputer114 3 года назад
I can't believe how she got enough courage to say the things she did because if I was her I'd be too scared even though it's years after
@mikelyons7297
@mikelyons7297 3 года назад
I am sorry that this has happened to you. Mad respect for you coming forward, and i hope it helps someone to hear your story. It gives me great joy to know you are doing better. Fly high and free Supergirl.
@CMThota
@CMThota 2 года назад
Most of us can't even fathom the pain Melissa has gone through in this relationship. She is so incredibly brave for speaking out about this and I personally, am so glad she is on the path to recovery. As her fans, we should only spead positivity and do our part in helping her healing go as smoothly as possible. #IStandWithMelissa
@zannievermeulen
@zannievermeulen 3 года назад
She is a hero and I admire her so much and im glad she shared her story with the world... we love you Melissa
@user-by9to7pr4x
@user-by9to7pr4x 26 дней назад
We are so happy that you posted in this video. Did I know that you're Nervous to tell everybody but to just let you know. if you're getting abused again or you're sad and heartbroken. Just know that we're here for you to support you whatever you are feeling and we all love you Melissa.😢😢😢😢
@dhanasreea6105
@dhanasreea6105 3 года назад
Sending you so much love ❤️ thank you for speaking out
@mordechait5396
@mordechait5396 3 года назад
I am so happy that you are getting past all this physical abuse. Your willingness to share your experience with the rest of us shows that you really ARE a Supergirl (do not forget to check whether your baby has YOUR powers or Monel's powers)
@clara_99_p
@clara_99_p 6 месяцев назад
I often come back to this. When I saw the video where she told her story for the first time I was in an abusive relationship which just started to become more toxic. I hadnt realized it but her talking of the beginning stages made something click for me that something isnt right with my relationship but it didn't really sink in at that moment. But I'm very sure that her story helped me realizing how much worse it will get and that I won't be able to change that. I left that relationship after conflicts just began to escalate violently. Her story and her bravery really helped me and saved me from much more. Sharing something so personal, traumatizing and vulnerable with so many people like she did is so brave and strong and I'm forever thankful for that.
@mackenzies4146
@mackenzies4146 2 года назад
I'm so proud of her for coming out and getting the strength to say it is absolutely incredible. She is one of my idols and she is so strong. I wish all the best for her and her family.
@pancakesfortwo17
@pancakesfortwo17 3 года назад
Such an amazing person and inspiration. #istandwithmelissa and I stand with survivors. 🤍
@tobirama2898
@tobirama2898 3 года назад
May this experience serve to help others in this situation, speak up and protect themselves !!!! Love from France ♥️♥️
@bluebanana3229
@bluebanana3229 3 года назад
The fact that she started dating again (with Chris) and she overcame that is amazing and super
@chiudo295
@chiudo295 3 года назад
their married now, and they have a kid!
@bluebanana3229
@bluebanana3229 3 года назад
@@chiudo295 i know!! Huxley Robert Wood.
@arceerogueharleyquinncapta9925
@arceerogueharleyquinncapta9925 2 года назад
no it shows she is weak and did not give herself time to heal propper.
@kristennicole811
@kristennicole811 2 года назад
@@arceerogueharleyquinncapta9925 no. It shows she found an amazing man who helped her with her healing process and she found her soulmate.
@gabicamarotto7175
@gabicamarotto7175 3 года назад
not just a supergirl but a superwoman, I'm happy for her and all of the other women that have suffered from abusive relationships,!! women, we are all so strong, if all of us knew the power that we have... - - - - stay strong and fight for what's right and thank you melissa for speaking up about something so deep but so important and showing that no one's life is perfect and we need to keep fighting and never lose hope!
@survivor648
@survivor648 2 года назад
Thank you! I am a survivor of domestic abuse it’s a very scary thing!
@cadence3501
@cadence3501 3 года назад
She’s so strong and beautiful 🥺❤️❤️
@LeSomeGuy
@LeSomeGuy 3 года назад
Thank you for sharing your story, this could save lives.
@jackbv9165
@jackbv9165 3 года назад
I've always appreciated MB for her many talents that are so obvious. I never realized what she went through and what a beautiful person she is inside.
@laurencest-jean2320
@laurencest-jean2320 3 года назад
Good job for tacking care of Melissa Chris and Melissa good job for coming out and leaving him!I support you😘😘🤗
@copyjim81
@copyjim81 3 года назад
Thank you for speaking up and telling your story. Everyone who speaks up helps the next victim to stop being a victim. Maybe helps them stop before it starts. We can only hope. Although victims of abuse are not always women, they usually are, but no one, no one, should ever have to go though a second of this type of behavior. I have had family go through abuse, and unfortunately I felt powerless at the time. I felt I should have done more. I could have done more. I hope that as you continue to grow, and speak out, you will be able to minimize the life long affects that this abuse has had on your life. You will still have scares internally and externally, but there is a better life out there. I do believe that you are helping. Helping a lot of people with your message. Please, continue to spread the word as long as you feel comfortable doing it. I wish you a long and happy life, and I hope that anyone who thinks that abuses another, even to a lesser degree than your had done to you, will feel the full weight of their actions, and will have to see it through their victims eyes... for the rest of their lives. There is no excuse. You are strong, both mentally and physically. I hope you can feel the love that is around you, and accept that it is real. There is life beyond the abuse.
@eonstar5797
@eonstar5797 3 года назад
You are amazing Melissa. You deserve a better life and you have Chris on your side now. This is a brave move of you, telling your own story about domestic violence. With respect and love. Wish you the best.
@lucyharris4609
@lucyharris4609 3 года назад
I was asked who I looked up to and without thinking I her Melissa she is and inspiration and I have always looked up to her since she was on glee. She has helped me through so much, after she spoke up about her being abused I knew I had to as well so I did and I’m very relieved that I did as now I feel so much better.
@leilazarmie6184
@leilazarmie6184 3 года назад
I'm so much loves her personality and her movies.. "God bless her long journey to a beautiful success"
@mystrangeaddiction5646
@mystrangeaddiction5646 3 года назад
Shes such an angel, so strong to be able to share her story. Time will heal her emotional wounds. She deserves someone who treats her like the saint she is.
@laurameneses3318
@laurameneses3318 2 года назад
This kind of talks are so important, it helped me very much
@courtneypalmer2331
@courtneypalmer2331 2 года назад
I truly appreciate that Melissa came out about this. A month ago I managed to leave a relationship in which the person was controlling me. I am so so so fortunate that I got out before anything too physical ever happened. There was some but nothing extreme like an iPhone to the face. I just wish she had managed to get out before it wrecked her. I am so happy for her that she has found Chris now and everything has started to fall into place.
@master-of-mind5881
@master-of-mind5881 2 года назад
iPhone to the face ouch.
@carolinatorrecillas4685
@carolinatorrecillas4685 3 года назад
There is always a patron, I got out of a toxic relationship, and yes I Can confirm that, I'm sure that if I've had stayed more in that relationship, he would have hit me. Never ignore those red flags. I'm happy for Melissa♥️
@angelacm4953
@angelacm4953 3 года назад
She's so brave❤ love her. I'm sure her story is inspiring women all over the world.
@lauritaespinozaperez9235
@lauritaespinozaperez9235 3 года назад
You are our supergirl. Strong, brave, never let them treat you badly. Value yourself and be happy with your husband. I love them😍
@saraocampo2897
@saraocampo2897 3 года назад
she's so strong to share her story , a role model to me that woman , hope she's happy now
@dravinblack
@dravinblack 2 года назад
Anyone who hits is broken in a way no amount of love can fix. I am sorry for your past situation. My prayers are with you and your family. Keep safe and stay happy.
@SRT8-Melissa
@SRT8-Melissa 2 года назад
I’m so sorry to hear, and happy that you’re out of it. You’re a fantastic actor, and a beautiful woman, and I wish you all the best for the future to come.
@seanmurphy7183
@seanmurphy7183 3 года назад
Melissa you are a true warrior, thank you for sharing this.
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