Melissa Etheridge - Must Be Crazy For Me (1993) Köln, Germany 

Yes yes yes Speak Truer u got it Babe

I saw this concert in Cleveland there were probably fewer lesbians at the pride parade than at that concert. I was hit on 3 times and I wasn't sure what to do because I'm straight. It was weird. I had no idea that she was gay until that night, then it was obvious.

epistte, Really? You didn’t realize until then? 😃. We all knew way before her “Yes I Am” album was released. That album was like a wink and a nod of confirmation from Melissa to all of her fans. At least I thought so. But, don’t feel bad about that. Not everyone has Gaydar. Especially Straight people. As for having 3 people hitting on you there,...not every Gay person has good Gaydar, either. Unless, maybe, they just thought that you were a femme Lesbian? What year was this Concert? That might help me get to the bottom of your mysterious encounters. Up to you, man. My own Gaydar was excellent, up until the last 5~10 years ago. I got a **ping!**, once, last year, from a woman when I had taken my Cat to the Vet. She looked the part (imo),...short hairstyle, nice manicure, cute, a little extra weight, taller than me, comfortable shoes. (😉). MY TYPE, or very close. Unknown to me, my Gaydar was obsolete AND badly broken. (OOPS), absolutely NEVER happened before, seriously. Got up my courage, asked for her #, and to go out for coffee to get to know each other. Weird thing was, that she agreed right away. I called her a few days later. Turns out, I was horribly mistaken about all of it! I was using my Lesbian Detector based on previous, younger experiences in dating. Big mistake. I’d had 2 LTRs almost back to back, with a year between them. A total of 24 years, out of the dating scene. I haven’t dated, on purpose or by accIdent for a long time. I guess, the Women of today, have their own ways of identifying each other, as “kinswomen”. So, maybe it’s not your bad Gaydar after all. Maybe its just that the World has and is changing, all the time. For me, my personal time in the Sun, has passed. Its been nice, typing to you, this evening. I hope that you’re doing well, and are happy 😊.

Jennifer Corday I was just thinking the same thing...where are the girls?

It's on the Never Enough CD.