I remember before the wedding, Louie was sitting on the bed trashing the F out of Joe&Mel, just, out of control, hard-core venom! At one point he SHOUTED; " I DON'T WANT YOUR BROTHER'S PIG ENERGY AT OUR WEDDING"!!!!!😮 Tre's eyes popped, her mouth opened and she looked lost, pained. If anyone ever gives Joe a hard time about missing the wedding, I hope he responds with; "Well I didn't want to pollute her beautiful pristine wedding, with my dirty, toxic PIG ENERGY".
You were wrong saying that nobody was telling her, yet her brother was telling her from the very start and that is what finally destroyed their relationship.
@@gregramirez2935 Joe Gorga was right I wish I had Joe I lost both my older brothers way too soon I would never not speak to them I wish they were here Teresa picked Con Artist fraud side!!! She will regret and karma about Luis Will come out
And btw..."Old School" in Italian culture means things like making pasta from scratch, playing the accordion, living for company, and making cemetary visits like a pilgrimige. Pleanty of "old school" people still knew how to treat their spouses and children with basic human rights. Too many people throw that term around when the the real word they are looking for is "abusive".
@@jhlfsc That’s true in part. But there is “old school” Italian behavior. And “old world” Sicilian belief. Big difference. Old school just refers to Italian Americans keeping traditions (keeping Catholic, marrying within the Italian community, husband works/wife raises the children, daughters live at home until they marry, sons can do whatever they want, & authentic Italian peasant food). It’s cultural stuff. Old World (my family), specific to Sicilians, means 2 things. First, stay silent. Never call out secrets. I hate to use the word rat because it sounds so mob. BUT it’s related to family living in rural Sicily where you always kept SILENT. You lived within the “rules”. Facsim & the mafia go hand in hand. Second, extremely significant, Sicilians hold a life long grudge. Once betrayed, they cut you off. Only “semi-exceptions” are made within close family on rare occasions. People can sometimes reconcile after a fall out but there is never trust again and it is generally to keep the peace. This is totally American. Back in Sicily there would be no reconciliation. Teresa & Joe and Dolores are Old World. The rest of the cast are not. My opinion regarding Teresa: when she crashes it will be her brother Joe and her sister-in-law who pick her up (whether they want to or not). The love is there, But the grudge remains. Dang, I am never watching this show again after they show the last episode. So depressing.
When your hubby blows through all of your earned income and savings defending himself in a domestic violence, protective order legal case, and you willingly allow it AND lie to cover it up and protect him, you have NO ONE ELSE TO BLAME BUT YOURSELF! Luis popped Teresa’s “love bubble” and it was inevitable!
I spent 7 years with a narcissist EXACTLY like Louis, but more violent. It took years to get out. Teresa doesn’t realize how much danger she’s in. His goal is to gaslight and destroy her soul until she loses everything!!
Yeah & only 1 daughter is left in house. Makes you wonder about the weekly dates he takes the daughters on. This is all scary stuff. Louie is real scary. @Kymberlee_W
Louis better hope that harm doesn’t come for HIS FAMILY. or worse, for Teresa’s, because of the harm he wishes upon Margaret and her family. Such a messed up and foul thing to ever say about someone. Shows his true character
You can see it in his eyes and face the way he was speaking about Margaret and her son! The rage and hatred was frightening! Also at last years reunion… he is dangerous and a bad role model for her young daughter at home
Yes. It’s like the mafia, once you’re in it you can’t walk away and say it’s not a good fit and change course. She’ll stay unless he does something to or causes something that harms one of her daughters
She’s a huge Narcissist and cares about no one but herself!! Not even that much for her girls or she would have protected them. Her response to a prenup was why?? He has more money than me….ie: Her GREED was more important than protecting her girls!! She gets what she deserves….Karma for all the hatred she has spewed on all the people she’s called friends and family!! She’s just pissed she’s looking like the fool she really is at this point!!
Louie said that Marge has caused INCEDIBLE AGONIZING PAIN to himself and his family. And he couldn't help himself that he took the low road and said he wanted her and her son to suffer as much pain as SHE CAUSED HIM AND HIS FAMILY. You know the: "He was hurt and she started it" bullshit excuse.
Just like him lying saying he lost his job bc of the show!! We know that was complete BS too!! Funny 😄 how he came up with that right after Whitney’s husband from Salt lake actually did lose his job bc of the show.
Her daughters aren't "stepping in" because not only do they not know any different from what they are used to their mother being treated like, but because she is constantly presenting Louie as the finance behind all of their educations.
She's scared she knows she shouldn't have married him when it's over and done with She's gonna go back to prison and that creep of her husband is going to leave her broke and alone This woman looks like DEATH WALKING SMH
MON has really spilled the beans! Wow. I think she did the right thing. But boy, what a consequence? Ultimately, it's Louis that ended the show with his behavior.
When they were going to meet with the Fudas, Luis had a big mouth about what he was going to say but then when they were sitting across, he made her do all the talking. .
Don't feel sorry for her. Cause she said she never be in this kind of situation again. As they say you made ur bed now lay in it. She's nasty person. You get what you give.
@@patclark2398 I don’t! She’s knowingly doing THIS to them & her smug wanna be lawyer daughter Gia is too busy worrying about fame instead of seeing the 🚩 🚩
Andy Cohen can see what we see. There is emotional abuse going on there. Teresa seems terrified of upsetting Louie. It is all way too much for her to control all the other women who Louie has decided are too clever at sussing him out. He's programming her constantly about what to say and do. She is brainwashed. He keep her thin. She is a nervous wreck. So Andy...if he cares at all should let the mouse go and take all that pressure Louie puts on her ...off.
She needs to be FIRED once and for all!! She needs to clean up her own mess instead of BRAVO bailing her out again due to her GREED!! She’s no victim!!
Only Teresa can save Teresa. She should be doing everything in her power to protect her daughters. She’s too big a narcissist to do what is right for her children.
I have a sister who is very similar to Teresa. She rather have the whole world believe she is happy than actually feeling happy within. It’s a prison that some women create for themselves which is so self destructive and toxic and the root of it is very low self esteem. Very tragic.
Did she HAVE to marry him? Her parents have passed on. Who is going to judge her for living in "sin"? I would NEVER let another man pull me down with them again. Sorry
Teresa needs to leave him asap .. and god forbid it gets violent . The kids need to say something to their mom who cares old school Italian as stubborn ,
Teresa won't talk about it. We saw nothing of Louis all season. Its like he doesn't exist. She never talks about how wonderful he is anymore. Ever. She will sit in silence instead of hearing I told you so. She did it with Joe guidice. I like Joe but they were never right for each other. Joe has his faults but he has a heart of gold. Louis is different. Teresa will lie to the girls saying everything is wonderful even when it isnt. I did a marathon of early episodes. Joe Suicide was absolutely miserable. You can tell he was so stressed out about their financial issues. Teresa pushed him to make more money to keep up with Melissa. Teresa would never acknowledge anything was wrong with the marriage. Love love love. Louis is so weird. He targeted her cause she had money. He has at least two businesses fraud lawsuits going on.
Yes, her GREED helped to put Joe and her in the position they got in!! She didn’t care, accepted no responsibility in it, and then played victim afterwards!! Her GREED is the exact thing that has her in the position she’s in with Screwy Luis, so I have no sympathy for her!! She doesn’t learn squat bc she refuses to have any self-awareness!!
Teresa is shitting herself, there is no spin off, have you listened to her recently? She is not like ''I have exciting new projects coming up but I can't speak about it yet'' - Tre is shitting herself that she is going broke.
Good points! The husband is a nut job! He is a total drain! He maybe the next Dirty John! He is ruining her happiness! Her money could be at risk! This is BAD!
Even as a retired psychologist, I do not feel sorry for Teresa because she could easily walk away and she doesn’t do it because of her narcissistic mind telling her if I do the whole wide world around her as to say, I told you so. She is not like a little lost kid because those kids don’t have the capacity to resolve the situation, yet this grown woman has the capacity to walk away , but doesn’t do it because the whole wide world around her would tell her I told you so. Even the women that make up the housewives of New Jersey and has been saying this would be too much for her to handle. It’s all these Vlogs that you guys put out concerning about poor pitiful, Teresa is giving her all the publicity like the Kardashian women and that’s what feeds her. It feels her ego and all you guys do is helping her out.
It’s very sad that Teresa life has become so small and isolated that she called a random blogger from Twitter for support at 1:30am. No Dina to call. No friend she can be honest with. No Gia. No Joe Gorga. No one. Teresa is left alone with this abuse
@@Jenn-jw8xushe won’t even leave for the sake of her children. She knows this man is not good for her girls. She’s teaching her daughters to be victims and to hate people.
Doesn't anyone else think it's creepy that Luis tracked Teresa down to meet her.... because he was already a fan of Teresa? It sounds like he fully planned to meet, woo, and marry her. I mean, it sounded like a sure bet for a decent looking charismatic guy. Tre has said quite a few times that Luis knew what her walking route was so he started going walking to introduce himself to her. I'm paraphrasing because I don't remember her exact words. But yeah, I would find it super creepy if some man followed me on my daily walks just to meet me. Luis reminds me of my ex, a complete narcissist who drove me absolutely insane. I know I did some weird things way back in the early days because he had me so snowed and I wanted to please him. I was raised by super conservative, religious parents and was raised to believe that I'd be getting married in my 20's... because that was what we were taught. I bucked the system but still fell prey to the same type of guy and it took me 12 years to get out.
He first was interested in Alexia (Miami) and then turned to Teresa when Alexia shot him down. Both women are submissive and obedient to their husbands. Perfect type for Louie to control.
@@ED80s it is so wild to me that the housewives are so quick to bag anyone who was a fan before they became a part of the cast and yet, there has been zero condemnation for Luis. No one even side eyed him for it. Talk about double standards.
My family is traditional Italian. My cousin's husband beat her up regularly. Her parents encouraged her to get a divorce! Also, Teresa's parents gave her the ok to divorce Joe. They are traditional Italian but like my cousin her parents loved her so much they wanted their daughters to leave a bad marriage.
Luis encouraged Ozympic? Gia, sit your Mother down NOW!!!! I get very angry when any woman thinks she has to change bc of her Husband = Joe Guidice, please help 🤛🤜🤛🤜💥
Wow ! Why doesn’t James Leonard look into Luis and get him away from Teresa ?? I figured he was in cahoots with Luis to even get with Teresa in the first place?
Gosh, I feel terrible for Teresa and I am literally concerned about her daughters. Thankfully, one is in college, the other moving out. It’s so dark and toxic.
Teresa needs to put her daughters first. No sex or love bombing is sufficient to put your children at risk. She let her narcissism and greed override her responsibility to her children.
Yesterdays episode has made me see all this leave Theresa in a new light and I don’t even like the woman. But this is a prime example of coercive control. He is gaslighting her to F she is a shadow of her for myself, and she is radiating stress, nervous, anxiety, and tension all because of this man, nothing to do with Margaret if her so-called lawyer and Gia. don’t check for her. She is on a one-way ticket to a nuthouse. She is a nervous breakdown waiting to happen and I would not wish that on my worst enemy. But people have been warning her about this man and she has just closed her ears to it, or if his exes have even come forward to warn her, she should have listened. The only ones she will listen to now is Gianna and maybe Dolores, but for whatever reason Dolores will not be honest with her, and Thames are scared and weary of Theresa. Makes me wonder what Theresa and Louis have on her and Paul.
This one made me really sad for Teresa. What happened in her family that she ended up with two men who thought nothing of destroying her life. Love or hate Teresa but she was the queen of Jersey and now may have lost her job. There has never been so much hatred from her to Melissa and Joe since Luis. You’re going to disown your brother because of a pizza oven? Or is it that he didn’t like you spread rumors about his wife for the show (who is the fame whore now Teresa)? Or because he didn’t go to her wedding. For gods sake family fight and don’t go to weddings all the time. No, the truth is Luis poisoned her mind. Along with fighting there was a lot of fun over the years between Teresa and her family. Luis is abusive. Look at his son. The poor thing can’t be shown a bit of kindness without fawning and saying how grateful he is. He’s programmed.
It’s too bad Teresa fought with everyone who wanted her to slow down with this shady guy! She rather be right instead of happy, truth is his past history was a window into his present! He carries a lot of baggage and now it’s weighing on her. She doesn’t look good or happy, that’s why she is always with the peace and love love love proclamations, she is trying to convince herself!
Okay, but if every women of her "friends" were actually worried about her and know about emotional abuse, if you are too direct about it, its hard for them to walk away. DOLORES is the only true friend because she will always support her friend and try to get her out of situations (with time) because not a lot of people can leave right away... they all came too hot for her and against him (louie) only making her stand closer to him.
People whose families have been here so long that they don’t even know what generation their family immigrated really don’t understand how deeply ingrained these old world once culturally acceptable behaviors are in those of us who haven’t been here as long. I’m no Tree hugger but she only knows what she knows. And, she doesn’t have anybody to teach her anything different. I mean, if you can see em, name em…
I think some of the daughters have questions. After what Teresa did to her friends for questioning her about Louie, I’m sure her daughters are afraid to question her. 😥
It will take Teresa losing her career and her girls telling her to get rid of him, for her to move on. I give that marriage another 4 years before she moves on. When Milania and Gabrielle graduate college. Louie is helping her with their college tuition, Mortgage, etc. She is not ready to do it all alone.
@@lisaarendt1759Exactly!!! There’s the big difference!! TREE STUMP has been putting false stories out way before Luis came in the picture. It became even more toxic with him in the picture bc he actually thought of things her mind couldn’t fathom!! She should have been FIRED years ago for her behavior though!!
Teresa and Louis relationship reminds me of Vicki and Brooks relationship. Everyone in the world knows Louis is a bad guy, but Teresa like Vicki, is blind to it. She has to realize it for herself. Sadly as much as I like Teresa, i have to say, I don't think she will be able to figure it out like vicki did.
I do not feel sorry for her she has been nasty to the cast and destroyed her relationship with her brother she talks over people and doesn’t care about nothing I hope she gets fired to try to destroy Marge when Jackie was the one who had the EX in her house and show hate for Marge Louie the lobster is a mentally disturbed person
The people who complain about Teresa and Louis's relationship do not care about Teresa. They just want to see her fail. They could care less. They bash her constantly. Why would she listen to people who hate her?
Who is this woman? Is she supposed to be a friend, well who needs enemies, trashes somone again it all messed up let tre sort out her own problems ,I cant trust any of this 😮
She’s the blogger that TREE STUMP, Screwy Luis, Jim SLEAZY Leonard, and Jen FAKE A were plotting with to take the cast down!! Planting fake stories about them and ruining their lives, including her own brother’s. She has all the dirt bc she was part of it and completely involved with them!!
@@patclark2398 I only meant about this particular situation. Never said she didn’t have real info. Of course she did. That’s the issue. Just don’t know why she thinks she knows Tre is stressed. Nobody but tre really knows that. Smh.
Teresa/Luis: All of this Teresa/Luis talk and what's going on with the dilema of the show means sooner or later either Teresa will have to leave the show OR Teresa and Luis will have to exit one another. Remember, Teresa left Joe Giudice and was single, so how is she even a house WIFE if she's single? Right, so they gave her Luis and now this is the result and the show is not going on. HAHAHA. Perhaps this was the plan from the beginning, to just end that show with this particular cast and move on but they needed a way to have fans of the show understand, so they just show the dysfunction and people turn away and now the leader of the show is having marital issues which can hinder 'the show'. Classic carry-on, it's a bag.
