Men Are Hunters When It Comes To Dating & Marriage | Motivated 

I love that he offered breakfast dates since he was coming home late most of the time. This is such a good idea . On my end I was just thinking “oh ok. If my husband gets home too late I could wear sexy lingerie or be naked more often”. I liked the fact that he took the initiative to organize things in the morning and not ask that his wife wear sexy stuff when he arrives . It’s great when we are all thinking about what we can do to solve the problem easily without putting the blame on our partner. You see! This is why I refuse to date a man who doesn’t educate himself on healthy relationships!

Haha it took me 3 months to get a date with my wife. But the fight was all worth it. Going on year five now

So thankful to be married to a man who doesn't give a **** wether I wear make-up or not or dress up or not. He still loves me and desires me just the same.

I’m not a marriage type of guy but here are a few pointers ladies: 1) wear no make up 2) talk about intellectual topics not BS t.v. nonsense 3) be yourself - goofy, nerdy, etc. it’s actually very sexy

I see . . . however, on the flipside the lady who took off all of her makeup when she got home was sending a signal to her date that she felt comfortable enough with him to ne transparent about her looks and even comfortable with herself. It was a compliment in some respects. That takes trust.

My husband is 24yrs my senior. And I am soooo happy and in love with him. He hunted me for 2 yrs before I even gave him a chance to date me. But let me say this, after that first date, I knew I wanted to be his wife and today we've been married for 5 plus yrs. Jesus Is King FOREVER!!!

"You don't have to like what I'm telling you about us. (men) It don't change us though. We are who we are. And if you don't understand that, you can't get what you want."

My boo was in my dms for 4yrs trying to finally meet . We finally met in person , everything is good , talk everyday straight for 3 months , I hope we keep growing ❤️

So glad am single dodged this bullet

He's just being honest!

My last boyfriend of 10 years hated makeup and so do I and so do many men. You have to know what your partner likes.

It’s funny I’ll friend zone people and they’ll see the “bum” me but my skin is glowing and my hair is gorgeous at 9pm still. Dudes get confused how I look that good at night. Natural beauty 😂 God blessed me.

If the goal is for me to be catched by a man I give up 🤦🏾‍♀️

If you ask a predator about dating advice, of course he's going to say "all men are hunters."

Somehow this just doesn't motivate me.

I need you to give advice to men, because lord knows im tired of asking my partner to be masculine. I am working on my femininity and not seeing him work on himself is bothering me and i am doing this for myself but I know it is going to help us as a whole.

He's right! And you can't argue with right.

Thank you Uncle Stevie!

If you sleeping as a hunter, you will miss good prey. #nosleepsteve

Straight up it's mostly about the thrill of the hunt so you'll better keep them hunting keep switching on them every once in a while ♥😇

Steve Harvey cannot speak for all men. He is not the beneficiary for all men. He’s only speaking from his own opinion. I am a complete opposite of what he’s talking about.

It creeps me out every time I hear someone say this.

Not all men but, some men who carry masculine energy yes.

I hate this box that the world has put men in claiming men are supposed to do x,y, and z. Just let mugs be without the expectation

There are more women than men in the world. It's hard for those of us who aren't in the "sights" of the hunter. I'm also thinking of all of the dating match-ups Steve provides - is he interfering in the "hunt"? Isn't he helping those like me for whom the hunt doesn't work?

You have a great content. Thank you for sharing those tips. Love doesn't have to be complicated sometimes with the right mindset. I am really grateful I found @t as this also inspired me to attract a high value man. I hope this helps others too.

STEVE HARVEY!! YOU DA BOMB!! LOVE YOUUUUU

Treat us extravagant, and we will lingerie extravagant. Communicate what you want. Lingerie extravagant if you want to get treated extravagant. Leave the mess, and put on the dress.

This is so true 😂

Wag wan rud boy Rasta man

Kevin Samuels says the exact thing

I year enged

Islam teaches us this 👏👏

I tried this. Still nothing. Men don't have sex drives anymore. Too many female hormones in food.

Do you know lions women’s actually bring food to the table and the man protect Cubs

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You have to check ✔... for homelessness

And then men expect women to chase them..

Men want to see who they married...interesting..

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I don’t think it is wearing make up and stuff that makes and keeps a man attracted to a woman, I think it’s the self care (whatever that is to a woman) that attracts and keeps a man. I think the best thing a woman can do for herself for always and forever is take care of herself in the way that feels good to her period.

Real Talk.. Brothers we have to stay in shape also!!

Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.

I met my man without makeup on our first date to avoid all that extra issues.

Men as well as women love to see their partners looking good and sharp. Just don't over do it. Make up not paint up. Look like yourself when the make up is off.

Very truth. If you fall in love for beauty, it won't last long. Your beauty will fade the next day.

A woman without make up is her true beauty.

When I was married, I would put on really sexy nice outfits, and makeup. He would say: "What you putting that on for? You don't need no makeup." I'm sure the OW were wearing makeup.

What if he pretends he's a provider then complains about a ten dollar skirt at forever 21 that he offered to pay for.... universe do your thing I cannot 🙏

I cant stand the "chase" the "game" or whatever you wanna call. Im straight to the point, she anything other than yes etc, i dont waste my time at all. I dont play stupid games

I’m 51 keep my self in shape, have more lingerie than Ann summers . I have catered to every fantasy he has ever expressed . Some have gone well out my comfort zone . I cook , I clean, I work full time and pay half of everything even though he earns far more than I do. I never cheat, I rarely go out as I prefer spending time with him . I put him first and his wants an needs before my own Still doesn’t stop my husband chasing other women . He is soon to be my ex husband. I want a man who cherishes me and thinks I’m worth it .

This is toxic.....way to promote stereotypical ideas of men and women. Jesus.

Men DONT let her see you looking shitty, and especially in the early stages of dating . It will make her NOT attracted to you. She will RUN 🏃‍♀️ especially when she makes the effort to look good for you. After you both get each other keep do things to make you to REMAIN attracted to each other.

I read the best analogy to your subject Steve & it said..."Sperm chases the Egg...the Egg doesn't chase the Sperm"..👍

*Surprise your partner and keep things spicy 🌶*

So she took off her make up too soon and that's a problem?? I think she did him a favor by being honest!! Little to no time invested and that's a good thing for both parties I.M.O!!

This is true! Steve always speaks facts! Ladies, keep it interesting for your man, not just sexually. He will keep coming back for more. You both have to put in the effort. Don't get into a relationship if you won't make an effort. Happily married woman here 😊

chase me hunt me down, my man,my soulmate, i m ready for you

My fiance brought his intentions onto the table straight up. We met online, and on our first online date he brought up his previous lifestyle to make it clear he wasn't looking to pretend he was a saint on the website (religious dating site) but that his new lifestyle in the Lord was what he was pursuing now. I really respected his honesty, and he was open from the get go of what his intentions were in dating/courtship, he was serious in looking for a good woman to settle down with, he had wasted a portion of his life and he wasn't going to do that anymore. Major fireworks and chemistry when we first met up in person for the both of us. And the second time I showed without makeup and he didn't 'notice' as in when I brought it up, he was like "you look the same, some women look like a whole different person, so you wear a good amount because without you still are the same person just less done up". (keeper lol) Always just so blunt and honest, the bluntness hurts sometimes but it all comes from a good place and it makes the nice things even more nice because there's no doubting that he truly means what he says :) Goodness, I can't wait to marry this man!!

Thanks for validating our biggest insecurities

Sorry but all men are not hunters. I've gone out with plenty of women in my time and have never chased and chased a single one. If she doesnt give me a sign she's interested, I move on. Show me you're interested I'll pursue you. Play the not interested and hard to get. I'm out.

I think mine has been eaten by a lion in the jungle! 😜🤪🤣😂

Seriously Steve, you are the only person ever who could explain to me that bumming out every day has an impact on my husband. I understood before, but your explanation sealed the deal for me. Please keep all your answers to questions coming!!!

In my opinion men never settle they marry the woman of their dreams we women settle just because the guy was nice

This is so wrong. This is not unconditional love. This is superficial and conditional. If you truly love someone, it doesn't matter what they look like. But men feel threatened by confident women. They will try to bring us down to their level by making remarks about the way we look. Grow up men!

This makes sence. I had 3 husbands who all cheated on me. Now I feel God telling me I made it too easy for them. I'm a hot chick now that is learning men need to work for my attention

I've had guys give up on me pretty easy. I used to feel so rejected and disappointed. My hubby told me he saw me as a challenge but in an exciting way.

What a sad world where people focus on what's on the outside...you want a prize...look inside yourselves and look to GOD. Non spiritual relationships all over this world .. I'm way happier alone that trying to please the external world. Gladly turning people down to focus on who matters most, me 😚

I was bare faced when I met my man. As time went on I made the choice not to wear makeup most days when I was with him. I don't know-personally I just wanted him to see the real me. Flaws and all. Guess it worked cs almost a year later and we in lovvvvvveeee 🙂 lol

My wife didnt wear make up when I first met her shes attractive to me without it.

It took me 18 months to get a date with my partner. Best decision i ever made

I am the exact same way though. A man MUST keep himself up if not I just can’t get close to them. Some men really let themselves go thinking we don’t mind? Like hell we don’t. Shave, brush your teeth and keep yourself fresh. Men can be nasty

This is kind of ridiculous.

We need to consider this "source" he is not credible regarding healthy rships.

I agree. My ex was so mad when I tooked my wig off. After one year of being engaged he proposed after 30 days of us dating. He said he did not know I looked like that 😂. I said what that mean. He said put that wig back on 😂🤣. We both was laughing, then he kept starring at my at hair lol. When I got mad he said I scared him 😂. I was so upset. I put him out and called off the wedding. Do u know this fool begged me to take him back. We went to counseling and everything. And the counselor laughed too and j had to take my wig off I front of the male counselor he said it ain't that bad. But make a long story short. He got used to it and then started wanting me to wear my real hair more often since he got used to it. Then started to say I look better with natural hair. I end up leaving him after 4 1/2 years. Come to find out he was cheating on me since day one with multiple women

Some men prefer the no make up look, just saying. A lot of Caribbean men are like that, they are ok with the make up, but they prefer, minimum (powder, lip gloss, eyeliner) or none at all. You know, I don't know if I can deal with all that, I like being myself & if you cannot handle knowing that when some women get home, they want to relax & take their make up off, well you know I don't have time to hold your hand to explain it to you. The woman probably has a particular skin routine. Like for me, I need to get that make up off otherwise I won't be able to see the next morning.

“Men don’t listen to Steve Harvey” -The Godfather

This definitely as far as what I already thought about him when he divorced his first wife and got what a light skin woman it's all about looks for him not the person

His speech was so disjointed I have no idea what he’s talking about. He comes home late, wife is wearing an outfit, he takes her out...Totally confused is what I am🤷🏽‍♀️

It goes both ways. And not all couples are the same. Some people love the companionship and the friendship they have with the person. They’re not looking for someone who is modeling lingerie for them every second. He makes it sound like he’s only with his wife for her looks. And I doubt that’s the case. I’m sure they’re also good friends and get along well too. If it’s just a physical attraction and nothing else then it won’t last.

This is on point, and I appreciate the honesty. Thank you Steve! I often feel like the man in my relationships. Or maybe I just need to "upgrade" to a better significant other. I think this video helped me figure that out. Yep, that's def it.

Love this! Steve you always ON POINT! 🌟🙌

How to stop comparing ourselves to others First of all we should know There is a postive comparing leads to working And There is a negative comparing leads to depression And every person is different And they can’t be a complete version ( copy ) of the other person * realizing that things are not as they seem * Someone could smile and happiness is not in his heart * You are not seeing the whole picture your only seeing the part that they are showing you * Stop following people’s news * Focus on what you did today So that you reach your goals in the future * You might get depressed just because someone posted a picture of themselves on paris here you will fall in to the comparing trap even though you don’t know how much hard work it took them to get to paris * So don’t follow people’s news * You are a different person * And your life is not connected to them * Re_program your self and say thank you * Being grateful to what you have makes you careless about what others have * Say thank you to the simplest things people do for you and you will be happy in your life

Steve the hunter part is so true. But when you say you come home 15 times late🤔 no honey. You can't have a babydoll after midnight and be tired. You have the next day to see her dolled up were you both are fresh mentally, emotionally and physically. Yes men are sight seen but women are wired a way too. It's not why am I busting my but and you dressed in your sweat pants. About all you are going to get is casual attire😂from her. Only women who is dressed up all day is June Cleaver sorry

Men should change their mindset about women and start to see them as human beings!

He’s been married 3 times with his 3rd being the mistress to his 2nd wife. Stop looking to celebrities for dating advice unless they have a solid background

Same with women. We are who we are as well.

Players boys are not marriage material

Thats what I say, women dont really need makeup do they? Cuz the only ppl on earth who really need it is, Actors, Models......and old people. :)

This is BS , when a guy likes you he likes you. As matter of fact you can give them cookie jar on the first week and they stay if they like you.

There ain't no man that wants me 😭 single forever, real life Bridget Jones.

This is like a duh

My Father told me this exact thing that a man is hunter & if the guy wants to pursue me court me he would put in work & come get me & I would never have to wonder & that I’m not the one supposed to be finding him when he should be coming to me in the first place 🥇💯

Makes sense. Most people won't admit it. Couples need to discus what they want them to wear at night when you chilling. Sounds great.

Broke up with him today and I’m hurt I give you chance after chance dude and I don’t even do that so I went against what I believed in for you trying to be nice and see the good in people. I’m like maybe this can be good since he in a better place in life and seems happy. It just hurt so much because I let myself down 🥺☹️ I could care less about someone doing me wrong ! I then went through worse but to know you haven’t changed and I let myself down that’s deep for me because I’m all I got I love myself

Steve gives terrible advice

Until he started talking about this boxed in way a woman has to be, looking like a present for her man...he had me....but come on Steve are you really still that simple minded and most men that you can't allow humanity for a woman. You know how long it takes you to get ready in the morning...5 minutes with your no hair self. You know how long it took your lady? Probably 30 mins-2 hours...nah effff that. If a man can't appreciate a woman as she is then he needs to step back and be seeing women at nights only if that's what he wants.

Sis, got comfortable too soon..lol

Steve sounds "toxic".