@@alvinabbam1333 if you know anything about life and character, then you know that this is a VERY accurate statement. Why did you take it personal, is the question????
Ladies equate the earning power of a man with his character. You can be burnt by a high earning man. In any case how do you know that this low earning man will not rise up and make it big.
Omg April! I was raised to never carry myself where two men could share a conversation of having had me in the same manner. To this day, that's still how I roll out...
Exactly. This is my movement as well. Having men talk about having had you to your significant other is very embarrassing for you as well as him. I do not want that.
Also lucky u if you are truly able to live that...life can choose other wise without u being a hussy...I once dated men in two separate continents....fast fwd 15yrs down the line..my 1ex man ended playing rugby on the same team same country with my other ex...WHO WLD HV THUNK IT! 😂😂😂😂😂we are not in as much control as we wld like to think we are...
Ms. April made me holler so many times with the insight she was dropping… I have never had a female figure in my life talk to me and teach me how to live in my soft feminine energy… as a latina i was taught to be strong and independent and take charge but also be a ride or die even if it kills me… I went against the grain as I decided to leave my marriage bc I was losing myself by giving everything of me to him… Ms. April’s videos have taught me so much… I no longer wish to attract the broken men and wounded men in my life… I’m tired of being the healer to everyone else except myself… so I have turned the focus on healing myself ❤
The Double Standard is the same as saying "men get to live and enjoy their lives, while women are supposed to suffer theirs". A women should be allowed to do whatever is BEST for her without being JUDGED. When it comes to constantly needing a Dude to VALIDATE you, then women need to put themselves into some serious THERAPY, COUNSELLING and find a CO-DEPENDENCY SUPPORT Group. Women who need this or feel they can't be happy or fulfilled unless they have a man are women who DON'T know their VALUE and that is very, very SAD.
I don't think that's what it means. Woman can do as they please just as men can but it will always be consequences. Just both parties need to be able to live with their choices.
Ms.April has truly gotten me all the way together. My body feels tense and uncomfortable from the truth she’s speaking. I agreed with her beforehand on a lot but some of these topics shined light in a dark place. It’s truly time to prioritize my healing.
She just answered the question for both, old wounds, negative words spoken over your life as a child, etc. Then these individuals become parents and the cycle continues. It's not about being more feminine or telling him to man up it's about healing damaged souls. When you point one finger at someone three point back at you. When are we as a people going to come together and stop blaming one another.
It was so many gems dropped in this segment. Especially that body count talk. I find it strange that the men with daughters especially those guys who were sleeping with any and everything in their past, want to live such a double standard when they ironically don’t want those little boys around their daughters. Highly hypocritical.
2 to 3 outta every 10 dudes sleep with 7 to 8 outta every 10 women. Most women have the same taste in men so alot of you will share a man. Its a small percent of men that get multiple women. So those men are kind of like prizes to women since they are most women's type. Where as just about any woman can rack up a football team worth of dudes in 2 weeks. Kind of making her used up 🐱 rather than a prize.
So, if I love getting stupid drunk, I have to *WANT* my son to be an alcoholic? If I love racing cars on the expressway, it’s hypocritical for me to want my children to stay safe & far away from that type of foolishness? I went to a ton of strip clubs when I was younger guess I should be okay with my daughter being a stripper, huh? Y’all come up with anything to fight this very specific double standard; all ‘cuz you wanna live hot girl summers ‘til you’re 40🤣
@@denisjohnson8198 even 50. Social Media got old B🦇ts carrying on like they're 25.🤣🤣🤣Nowadays the older one's are worst than the younger one's. Ask Jada Entanglement Pinkett.🤣🤣🤣
I've always took pride in walking in a room with men and no one has had me.. I've always thought that way. I love the attention and I knew if I gave it up that would go away.. and my birthday is June 23 we have the same sign. ❤️
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The followers thing sounds good but for men we have different levels of what we do just like gang banging some do it a little bit an some do it to the fullest an men really don't follow anybody most of us are lone wolf that all traveling the some way if ssome meat falls on the ground we would kill. Each other. For. It
Arent you based in ATL? I’d be interested in a panel if you ever open your show to such. Its a lot of women out here with April’s views, but no one showcases this. 🙋🏽♀️
Me too, I'm an Empath, a healer, sometimes it feels likes a blessing and a curse. Sometimes i feel it's not my journey to be in a relationship but it is in my destiny to see people and help heal the hurt in them. It can be taught as far as adding to the nature, God given gift God gave us, that's when we combine the psychology part with the spiritual call!
Ms. April, the character of a healthy leader (worth following) is evidenced by the character of his followers! Additionally, it’s impossible to follow a parked car. I briefly dated a guy, passionate about his tech profession. Sadly though, he he had no friends. He’d forgotten to include balance in his life alongside being a successful entrepreneur. He wasn’t ‘t able to sustain an healthy relationship. After six months, it was necessary to ‘retreat’ when my ‘mothering’ qualities became more prominent. The Princess is my lovable position. A man with ‘discipline’ (dd) vs a ‘terrorist’ (dt) is extremely attractive to me. This, together with character traits I appreciate in a man, can create an essence of seductiveness, a sacredness. Wasn’t seeking this channel, nevertheless, am grateful and thankful to have stayed. Learned much from both perspectives.
I am sure Kevin would agree with most (not everything) of the things she said. But he doesn't need to get involved. Leave that man alone ahahah.. he has nothing to do with this interview. He is doing a good job in his own way.
Gemini is a masculine energy sign like me I am an Aries we can present logic + also connect to our heart's desires water sign moons or risings have that feminine balance...being a diplomat for both sides...
Could it be, what was done to men and women has to be reversed? Women hurt by men need to be counselled and or healed by men. Men hurt by women need to be counselled by women
No… Men need to listen to men and so do women. Many women validate feelings instead of what’s right. Men are supposed to guide you in the right direction to do what’s right not what feels good.
@@deaundrecummings3469 I am speaking not only from experience but also from research of what toxic masculinity does to men and women and their ability to lead as men. Just as it is not healthy nor productive for a leader to lead from a place of hurt. They shouldn't lead from a place of confusion of what a man is and their role as men. Everyone has emotions/ feelings. There is nothing wrong with having feelings, it called emotional intelligence. There are studies that show men leaders who possess emotional intelligence are the best leaders. It not all the bronze. Your are a huMAN. Furthermore, I am speaking about healing not leading. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me. I appreciate it. If you support the boy/ girl you will not have to heal the man/ woman. Thanks again!
I don't know if I have laughed so hard right n my life as when you said pause Ninja!!! Lol! Listening to you talk is just so great calming and entertaining. Keep up the good vibes brotha
Heyy mr.KD just wanted to say heyyy 👋🏾 to my birthday twin!❤😂 I knew I liked you for a reason found your show looking for April glad God brought me here this video was very informative keep doing what you’re doing!! You are doing the Lord’s work God bless you 🙏🏾
I do little things to keep interest alive. Tiny seductive moves keep him thinking about you. I’ve done this for 37 years in my relationship and yes, I’m spoiled because of it. I spoil him too.
I identify with Miss April. I am a Gemini and Gemini is yang and yin which is a feminine and masculine energy and far more intuitive than people know. I’m the same way when it comes to people in general which is why I chose to become a nurse and now choosing to help people in other ways.
I don’t think sideral and tropical based astrology operate in isolation from each other. I think they can be complimentary. April may be a sun sign Cancer but she is close enough to Gemini to be influenced by it. Also, her ability to pick flowers to go Hollywood in her words I think is more of a Piscean trait because Pisces is more dualistic than Gemini and they deal with the illusion of glamour (Film industry: Hollywood) and Pisces is very very feminine. Also duality can be expressed through aspect placement in a natal or progressed chart than just planetary signs. I understand that April gravitates more to sidereal and that’s fine but the reference point for sidereal, Vedic or tropical is the same universe so all those systems are correct. I follow April in FB she is wonderful in her craft.
Good convo. I don't agree with the queen and princess concept though. A Queen is in a position to rule. A princess isn't. A Queen can be just as feminine and sensitive to her King. It all depends how we define the term Queen. In the Bible Queen Esther was very much the type that ur talking about. And that is the character I am teaching women to strive for and to be confident in being the queen God called us to be. Queens are kind, feminine, and walk in wisdom. Godly Queens that is. Let's heal the term Queen and see it in a good light! Princess is for little girls. We don't want to promote that pedophilia concept. Let's not call our man daddy. Let's call him king instead. Lol 💖
@@highvibrationalwoman4435 she confirmed hurt people need to receive what psychologist called exposure therapy. It is my belief and practices that if a man received trauma from a women or man he needs to receive the healing support of a woman. However, women who are hurt by women or man can not receive counsel from women, nor can they counsel woman. Reason being they will project their own trauma or there will be some transference, countertransference or bias, especially in the melanin community.
I love myself enough to know that I’m not wife material. I love myself enough to know that I can’t be a male’s healer, he has to figure it out on his own. Ladies to giving these males your energy .
As much as Mrs. April claims Gemini, being a healer and being able to feel energetically is Cancer traits. I can see Pisces too… speaking on stage and “Hollywood” aspect is giving Virgo vibes though.
I have a Cancer rising in tropical but sidereal Gemini, they both make a lot of sense for me personally. I think every type of astrology has a lot of merit and I agree she truly does radiate cancerian energy, but if she relates to Gemini more what am I to tell her ya know. I'm think she may even have some Neptune placements because again I agree about the piscean energy. Edit: Lmao I paused the video to type this, Pressed play and boom she says she has Pisces in her chart
Mr. Bowe, I respect you and your show tonight. However, I still cannot understand how Ms. Mason is still not married. It is probably wrong for me to seem like I'm judging but I get that she is like many other women who are seeking a wealthy man that she can fix. I am sorry to say it but it also seems that she is hiding behind femininity, using it to excuse herself. I think she has gotten away with this for a long time, I wish her well. Many other women will use this same tactic because their smart but being wise also means telling yourself the truth.
She stated in one segment that she isn’t currently interested in being married but she could be at any time…it was reminiscent of an ‘Im doing me’ stance.
She addressed that in part 5. In essence, she said she knew she wasn’t ready. She worked on herself & she’s teaching the things she’s learned along the way.
no its not...im not going list "good personality, honesty, etc etc" because people should have that or work on to have those qualities whether youre in a relationship or not..so these are other thing that people may not list 1. try to keep in somewhat decent shape (men are visual creatures) 2. we want peace in the home..minimum drama, dont be combative, dont have an bad attitude etc etc.. men have to go out and compete with other men in the workplace..the last thing we want when we come home from work is fighting with our woman 3. give us our space when we ask and/or need it like spending time with the boys etc etc 4. keep the sex life spicy 5. LOYALTY...will you stay with us when things go bad like if we're laid off or get hurt and can no longer work? will you stay with us when that rich handsome chad is trying to get with you? in the US, women initiate about 75% of ALL divorces 6. this is optional...but if you can cook then its a HUGE bonus, but since these days alot of women cant cook worth a damn so its not a deal breaker if you cant thats it...if can keep up those first 5 then youve covered at least 80% to 90% of the hetero male population in terms of dating/marriage...and remember, a marriage/long term relationship IS NOT a 50/50 thing...its a 100/100 thing..both have to put in the work to make it work and last...if you want it to last are you really putting in the effort? are you open minded enough to try every avenue of options that can or may help your relationship? if not then you probably didnt want to be in that relationship that bad enough in the first place
@@KDBowe Come on sir, OF COOOOOOURSE it's a GOOOOOOOD one!!!!!Btw ,May i suggest that you send the whole itw to mis Keri WILSON , so that she FINALLY gets a REAL understanding of how to get us , , how to inspire men to give any woman the world!!!She and millions of her sisters NEEEEEEEEEED this !!