The yes man? I would be in L.ove more when he say no no problem in love still .no disrespect about that depends on the individual, both communicate And being there for one another accept what is right or okay . listen ING and peace let one be them selves they may need confirmation to what it is they Re doing accept ur resource or help to make a decision on to what it Is that he or she wants and need to do. Does not have to be do what I said or exact what one said relationship check sounds good. Communion. Updates. Real. Good. I said keep. Bounding throughout the relationship . Thanks to that One
Don’t put your focus on the wrong things because if you get a person you THINK you want, you will miss out on the person who will be truly best for you 🙏
What is sad is when a man put everything on you and then calls you a control freak!! 33 years now divorced!! Couldn’t handle the stress I was under. Not to mention I was battling stage 4 cancer at the time with no support!! I have now found my strength and confidence again.
Sooooo true. Sometimes the man you want may not be the man who is actually good for you OR simply, a comparability issue. That does not make him or you bad. You just are not your best selves in that kind of relationship together. 🤷🏻♀️
@@adamumuhammed8034 Thank you for the kind wish, however, I think it is best if he stays an ex, no matter how much we loved eachother, a bad match may just be that
In the past week, I have been approached by four men. Each walking in different masculine energy. I notice that the more I tap into my feminine the more of high value each men were/was. It's shocking too because after taking a class and watching videos on feminine energy, I just tried the steps and it worked. So now am I not only listening to your words Stephen, I am putting them into action😊😇🤗🤭❤. Pray for me💯.Praying for you everyday 🙏 as well. Keep up the good work! Also I have improved on my morning routine!!! Yay Meeee!!!!!
People in general, respond to a good leader. If someone asks an opinion and never takes suggestions, it feels like not being heard. Using the insights and input with discernment is the key. Personally, I prefer joint decision making for things that will effect me and the relationship. I also enjoy his input and insight into decisions I need to make that are for my path that doesn’t effect him other than knowing he is trusted to have good intentions for guidance
Honor each other. Important for grown UP MAN & WOMAN. DISCUSS PLANS. HONOR IS ESSENTIAL. LISTEN TO EACH OTHER EQUALLY. IMPORTANT. HONOR EACH OTHERS OPINIONS. ESSENTIAL.
Stephan you said it right. You must find positivity within yourself to exude it on the outside. Let me just add it can't be Forced Out it Must be Allowed to be Released to come out through your Willingness and Ability to be your own True Self, so find WHO that is and be true to it. 💯❤️
Wise words of Wisdom ☯ TY for keeping it real Intentional communication is essential in a successful relationship Active & open listening without interruption Learn to give the benefit of the doubt, innocent until proven guilty Being mindful of a Positive outlook & receptive perspective Persuade without dictation, inspire or motivate with feminine energy Its not what you say but how you say it, be mindful of your tone of voice the words you choose and how it will come across, ya catch more flies with honey instead of vinegar. Exude your femininity to balance your masculine energy that can be off putting to men. Finding balance ☯ Self Care standards is self honouring & discerning Self care structure provides effective time & energy management Attentive, considerate, supportive & nurturing energy feeds a man soul Peaceful, joyful, lighthearted fun energy is fun and enjoyable to be around Surrendering to allow your man to lead, trusting his direction and appreciating him getting you where you want to be.
Obedient MAN IS A GOOD MAN. GROW UP. HONOR EACH OTHER & COMMUNICATION TALK OVER PLANS. TALK OVER. COMMUNICATION. PEACE IS NEEDED. HONOR IS NEEDED. IMPORTANT
Very thoughtful points, no master piece missing here. Thank you for a lot of time you spent for introspection and reading then to deliver all that to us women. Lots to practice 🙏
Ok so stoke his ego…. Compliment him and do all the things in number three however then he becomes cocky…. Big headed, conceited, because of your positive energy…. And then thinks he’s better than you….. what’s that all about?????
Good Sunday the video was very helpful for me and yes I'm now in touch with my feminine side more than ever I used to be very masculine LOL I'm beautiful smart and intelligent confident but men were afraid of me believe it or not little old my point is I resonate with the video I'm more in touch with my feminine side I get asked out all the time and I'm not even going to big places just the grocery washateria etc now knowing exactly who I am I can stand in my power and be more relaxed it took me time to get there but I'm grateful I'm there😇😍💃🙌
Compromise and communication is great But when your partner goes off to do whatever he want to do without even talking about it first How can it wow I am out
Your kids should definitely learn to clean their room though. Why would you spoil them? They need to learn so they can help themselves when older. You can just checkup on them to make sure it's done right.
I have grown to understand, you give your man your opinion and if he doesn't listen and it goes south, he'll start to realize how important your input can be in some situations.
Hehehehe... But that's really hard.. to give him amazing advice and then he doesn't use it. I be praying his route works because if it doesn't and I want to say... Mmmmmmhhhm. Well I don't know what I will want to say.
My issue with this is most women are more business minded or take their life and freedom more serious than men.Some action can or lack of knowledge and seriousness can be the downfall of your whole household can suffer on one wrong hot headed decision without reasoning and both sides having their input.Not trying to downplay a man but most men logic or though process is not that sharp.Look at how many men are incarcerated, unsuccessful, and etc by the wrong decision. You have some women the same way.Most women think thing all the way through because there are alot of single mother homes and have children or important responsibilities. Communication is key.
Hello sweetest, I don't mean to intrude your privacy, I came across your profile while going through comments here, I must admit I did stare at your profile for a long time you are looking really good,I give Thanks to God For coming across your lovely profile on this channel .I am Crosby and i will be so happy if you could reply my message..thank you sweets 😊
Okay, however if every time you make a suggestion he always picks what he thinks. After awhile I'd feel like don't ask me if you always do what you want to do. In that situation you really don't feel like you were ever heard. So my dream of having a equal partner with both of us rowing the boat of life together, is not feasible?
Great advice - one watch out is the manipulative side of women. Yes women can get men doing stuff for them, but through manipulation rather than influence - this can be a very negative side of femininity. The better way is just ask.
This has taught me to be honest with myself and that I want a man that is a provider and allows me to sit peaceful in my feminine energy . I can take care of myself but I would love a masculine man that protects and provides . I am going to pray on it . Thank you . No more entertaining men I'm either not attracted to on all levels or who are everything BUT providers lol.
@@rellbgm4473 There are plenty . I'm just looking to secure my bag so I have my own sense of security regardless. I am also celibate which weeds them out pretty fast. The only part of that I agree with are the pseudo-providers that are actually on power trips, abusers or controlling . There are many men that were raised properly to protect and provide but feminism and thinking " toxic masculinity " actually exists as programmed men to contain their masculine attributes and women to behave like men. I dont do that.
I have had relationships and marriages that I thought were the one's that best fit me. I have now come to the conclusion that God has the right man for me and I am waiting for him.
A woman can show interest, but he needs to not bring negativity. Men who gossip, are dismissive to their woman, and unhealed (constant family drama/past relationships) lack emotional maturity. Laws of attraction will not keep them together. HEALING and therapy are essential nowadays. Too much crap going on in the world to be warring at home.
My guy kept bringing up negativity. I think he did not see it like that. I think he thought he was only helping but. It brought me to defending...it felt like he wanted to control me. Like my father maybe. Idk. .
That’s a feminine male (which is the majority of black American males) raised by a single mommy. A woman cannot teach a male to be a man. Same way a man cannot teach a female how to be a woman.
It’s so important to be open to listening to your partner. I had to learn this years ago. Listening doesn’t mean just hearing to have a response but really taking into consideration what the other person is saying and truly gaining an understanding of their input.
That's so true, I was confident, stroked his ego, loving, attemtive etc, etc, etc, therefore he must have been the wrong man for me because it did not work.
Being confident, self sufficient, wealthy, debt free has only gotten me a bunch of needy men that either were jealous of me, or wanted what material things they could get from me. They would come to me speaking sweet words of love, etc., but at the end of the day, they were only interested in material things and what I could do for them. I can do bad all by myself; I don't need any help!
This guy is so great at putting out the truth. I'm Muslim and I listen take and appreciate his advice. It all sounds good to me 😊👍. May God/Allaah bless you for all your good work. Aameen. Thanks.
A clean home is part of self care.women feel better to engage in self- care in a clean and inviting home atmosphere.it's not just about staying busy for many women.but your right the effort is not always worth losing your free time over. Thanks Stephen❤
Dating is way more fun and different now that I’m applying what I’ve been learning. I tolerate no Bull stuff and I’m approachable. Im so thankful for these videos as well as God, eating by blood type, and support from other women whom I admire. These tips are appreciated.
I really enjoyed this the passion in getting the message across and using the different scenarios really makes the message more clear and helps u not read in between the lines❤️
All of these things are great. Regardless of the man, a woman should have these qualities. This is all fine and dandy, but at what time, point & how does a women vet men out? How do we vet them to make sure they are who we want, need, & who is going to be the man we need him to be? I ask because men like to qualify whether or not a woman brings something or enough to the table, how do we do the same to ensure that they are who they not only say they are, but who are also who we need them to be? Because when it's all said and done, men are quick to say that women need to pick better? So if they aren't ultimately doing the picking, we need to know how to vet them out to pick them better. Another point, being in control doesn't make 1 a good leader. Some men believe that just because they are a man, they should be in control & lead. They're not mature, not trust worthy, not rational & aren't able to think things through, but because they are men, they think it qualifies them to lead. Many of men want to lead, but even more aren't even or haven't been called to lead. When you're in a relationship, he's no longer making his own decisions. He's making decisions for what's best for the unit/ family. And yes, if he makes a mistake and puts the unit/ family in jeopardy, she should side eye him.
No man is perfect. But, if he is going to be the head of the household, I agree that he should have basic leadership skills. For instance, he should understand how to manage money and have goals for the family. Look at how he is leading himself. Does he pay his bills on time, have good credit and can hold a job longer than a year? Is he considerate of your input on a situation? How is his temperament? It takes time to know these things and we have to look past the outer beauty and pay attention to the inner qualities.
@@CocoChanelle-1 OH. I know these things, however, VETTING isn't a common topic that dating 'experts' typically touch on. It's more often than not what women should do to attract a man. It's never how to vet a man since every time things go wrong in a relationship, males tend to BLAME women. It's always women should have picked better. Also, me personally, every guy I meet stays in the acquaintance / friend zone. I don't care about how he looks, whether he's an atty, Dr, cybersecurity analyst ... whatever ... I don't go straight to dating which is a problem for most people. That's part of my vetting process.
@@ChannelFiend if a man Really Wants you, he want rush you. Men who rush just want sex and want it quickly. I listen to “dating experts” with a grain of salt.
All Major decisions that impact a household need to be discussed and hopefully agreed upon. For instance, my husband wants to build a new business building that is about 300k for everything. We also need a newer house. He wants to build the business first and then buy the house when he can. The thing is this impacts both of us as far as the final decision.
Idk!! I feel like this is so true but when I see these teachings the thing that comes back to me is a feeling of nervousness because we definitely have to be healed wemen to accept the teachings I feel that healing is important to align with somebody who right for us just taking the teachings and trying to apply it to an unhealed soul will cause disbelief because people can’t see when there still filled with toxic energy. Heal first to actually get a great outcome is best just saying . Just saying
I respect to what you saying but most men don’t even want to listen to women. Women need to talk about their desires which can help to make a good relation with their partner.
God bless you Precious Stephan, what a joy it is to listen attentively as you are speaking Great truths on both sides of the spectrum. May The Great Holy Spirit continue to Empower you Abundantly with more Of our Gods Anointing. You are truly being a blessing to all who take the time to listen and apply these Great Principles and Fruitful Seeds to their lives. You are differently and Amazing Man and don't you ever forget that. As I stated in some of my other comments, my prayer for you is that Our God blesses you with the women He has chosen for you. And that God blesses your Precious Soul with ALL of your hearts desires so that the two of you may Walk out the Greater Assignments and Purpose He has Ordained for you all way before the foundation of the earth, according to His Perfect Timing, Will and Order in The Miraculous and On Time Name of Jesus. Always Love Almeta ❤💥🙏🏿🔥😘
Hey Sweet Butter Cake, have anyone ever told you how beautiful you are? oh I look at your picture and I believe that there's God because only God could have created a woman as beautiful as you are. I give Thanks to God For coming across your lovely profile on this website.I am Crosby and i will be so happy if you could reply my message..thank you sweets 😊
I 💜 these sessions. 🛋 Those who are best suited for a successful relationship MUST first know themselves & know themselves very well. Or else, they'll get someone for whom they have not prepared.
Are there men above 40 still into celibacy 😪. I listen to you and am getting knowledge on how to carry myself. Sometimes I see myself in your messages and laugh at the glaring mistakes of yester year😂. The biggest issue I find is meeting new people with similar belief systems. Any tips ?
@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you stephen. I will do that once this man decides to stop ignoring my messages..I'll hear him out tell him how I feel and make a healthy desicion from there. Thank you for replying I appreciate it.
Equalize the burdens. HONOUR each other as EQUALS. ESSENTIAL for MENTAL HEALTH & PHYSICAL, & EMOTIONAL BALANCE. HAPPINESS. Honor equality.Healthy VALUE. HIGH VALUE. HONOUR ESSENTIAL, VITAL HAVE. 💝💖💝👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍😃😁⚖️⚖️⚖️⚖️⚖️⚖️
👌🏾Agreed 10000000%.... One thing that is a TURN OFF is negative energy!!!!!! And I Love CONFIDENCE!!!!! And consistency is SEXY!!!!. Side note, I have an ex(RIP) That want to my mother to talk to her about me and told her..... I'm too nice. Always happy. He thought I was cheating because I didn't question him about things.... Some people are not ready for Confident women!
I’ve been watching your videos when they pop in my feed, but didn’t subscribe or commit until today. I’m happily married and watch, because I want to stay that way. I’ve struggled with the first two things you mention, because I was diagnosed with MS a couple of years ago and use mobility aids and can no longer do many things that I used to find my identity in. I’m learning to embrace my femininely and find confidence in my identity in Christ and not what I can DO.
We like men who take care of themselves. Telling me you jumped in your pool before you got ready for our date? Not a shower.. just a rinse in a pool. No! Take a damn shower.😅
Hello sweetest, I don't mean to intrude your privacy, I came across your profile while going through comments here, I must admit I did stare at your profile for a long time you are looking really good,I give Thanks to God For coming across your lovely profile on this channel .I am Crosby and i will be so happy if you could reply my message..thank you sweets 😊
This is everything I do just how I am this must be why everyone says im a good women n just love me u really. Helped me heal n feel im 100%/ready n im doing things right thank you
Let's continue tomorrow I have an appointment to a medical mission cleaning our teeth together with my daughter at 7:am . I appreciate so much some excitement I felt in seeing or listening in your coaching sir Stephan I'm hoping you alway give time or in your available time for not bored I enjoy in your communication sometimes you joke that can make us laugh and very grateful and thankful some movement even a little can make a timing or tuning in your vlog sometimes wrong button I'm hoping it may continues step by step to move forward ok thanks again and God bless to us! Stay safe always and be strong!
Honor the the woman. Two way street to get along peaceably & make progress flow, Harmony, ⚖️ BALANCE the partnership possibilities with HONORING EACH OTHERS OPINIONS/ directions, advice, or SUGGESTIONS. HONOR & CHERISH EACH OTHER. CAN WE? CAN WE REASON ON THIS IDEAL & COME TO AN AGREEMENT? NO BODY IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN THE OTHER. CAN WE AGREE? CAN YOU AGREE?? HONOUR & CHERISH, & WELL-ESTEEM EACH OTHER HABITUALLY, UNIFYING the COUPLE. CAN WE AGREE??NO BODY IS BETTER, NO BODY IS MORE SIGNIFICANT than each other. Can you agree??? Be honest hearted, peace Loving critical thinking FAIR PEOPLE?? NO DICTATORS desired. Ok.
