The way a man feels when his wife/partner cheats is exactly the same way the woman feels when her husband/partner cheats on her. When a woman decides to cheat she has most likely been pushed to. There is a reason she has cheated. Women are not wired to cheat. Why should a woman accept a man cheating? Going through that pain over and over again. If man has cheated on his wife and then his wife cheats on them, stop crying. Now you know how she feels. I detest any form of cheating. Personally if someone is unhappy with the marriage/relationship, Maliza a moja kwanza, then sleep with the one you want. Less pain caused. Men should also remember that there is something known as karma. They have daughters and sisters. Your daughter and/or sisters. Are you going to stand around when your daughter is crying because her husband has cheated on her. This question is for the cheated and the cheater.. What example are you setting for the kids. You are teaching your kids to hurry other people's daughters and your daughters should accept the hurt. Any does that to my grand daughters, I will take myself to Langata.
@@helleninzeyi of course. But I walked. I refuse to develop high blood pressure and keep going kwa gyno kila mwezi with STI's just so that I can say I'm in a relationship. But that is not the point. In this century men and women cheating need to think about their sons and daughters, coz karma is real. 90% of Kenyan women have been cheated on. 50% of Kenyan men have been cheated on. Some know, some don't. Some do but walk around wearing Rose colour glasses, just so that they can say they are in a relationship. By the time these women hit 45 they are on blood pressure tablets. The men who know cannt6hang on, they go but leave destruction in their path. What I struggle to unferstand is why women are so prepared to going into an early grave with high blood pressure which causes, stroke?
Then a man Should expect a Co husband? Women have the same feelings like men, yet men expect to be given free passes. The wY you feel just thinking about if your wife cheats is exactly the same way a woman feels. Today's generation, if a woman is cheated on, some women will cheat in you to make it even, especially if she is contributing to bills and have a job just like you. Men reading this answer will get angry and come at me. But you know what, truth hurts.
She is your wife not your brother or sister..you can just divorce her and get yourself another wife..why kill someone's daughter because of cheating..how many men çheats on their wife in this so called marriages ni kuvumilia..if women in marriages would start killing their husbands because of cheating si itakua World breaking news coz mtauawa sanaa...he is a coward because he committed suicide so as to not live with the thought of what he did and not to see his ass rot in prison..
As a man always be prepared for a loss and you wont be disappointed, no one cares for you. You are on your own. Learn how to walk away sometimes, it'll hurt but, meeeeeh just walk, u'll heal. The only being that cant disappoint you is God.
If you are a woman and married, never dare to cheat. Get out the marriage first, then cheat in peace. Some men invest soo much, they never imagine to be wasted just like that
Leave alone the men,me as a lady ifi get someone with my man, ninawamaliza nyinyi wote and i won't be sorry for that,the first caller has said both if you will pay the price
That's why I said that kama unaona mwanamke hakupendi wacha kushinda ukiforce kama the late President Moi alidivorciwa na bibi yake in 1979 na akarule 🇰🇪 for 24 years.
This is too real…. A jamaa walked on his best friend having sex with his wife… friend ran.. wife got killed with a hammer. Jamaa went to jail for life huku majuu!
Exactly. Kila Mtu akae wake. Most not all marry because they want a slave. That's why they would not accept living in separate houses. I know some who have done that and they have a happy marriage.