That’s why man should love his wife so he can gain respect❤️don’t neglect your wife and that shows in the cycle. Love first then you man will gain what you need.
I remember when I learned how important it is to respect my husband through the Word of God - yung simpleng pagsagot ko ng "po" at "opo" using the right tone and expression, my husband told me "Alam mo, di ko alam kung bakit kinikilig ako kapag ganyan kang makipag-usap sa akin." 😊 (he told me years ago, hehe...). Mas lalo kong naintindihan nun nagbibigay na ako ng unconditional respect sa kanya at magandang manifestations through his actions. Thank God. 😊
This is so true Our relationship last for 12 years despite of almost 18yrs gap. I was 19 and he was 38 that time. And the reason kung bat kami tumagal is 1st respect 2nd nlng ang love and 3rd is trust. But my(our) ultimate reason why we needed maghiwalay is nawala yung respect. Higit kesa love. Higit kesa trust. In a relationship for me. Respect always comes 1st
I remember my friend na babae, after how many years, I finally asked her bakit sila nag hiwalay ng asawa niya? Sabi niya dahil na wala na ang respeto nila sa isa't isa, para sa kanya respect daw ang foundation ng relationship. Now I understand. Aside from that, one of my favourite couples since I was young ay sila Victoria and David Beckham and I realized, after watching this video, kaya pala hindi lang love ang nakikita ko sa kanila may respect din pala. That's why everytime I look at their photos on instagram, there is more to love talaga sa display of affection nila for each other. ❤️😊❤️ Thanks for the vid! More to come! 😘
I saw this clip before on ig and finally nahanap ko ung episode na to. And iba ung impact sken when i heard maricar says that correct him in private praise him in public it will definitely a note for myself.
Sos lakong pake Jan minumura ko Asawa ko in public actually nag pakasal ako sa taong hindi ko Mahal para pag hiwalayan na wala lang sakin baka tumawa pa ako ganyan ako katindi iba iba ng mindset to!
Shocker martir nga ako. all our marriage life, 12 yrs... wife ang bread winner. Pero kmi pa din, lagi ko pa din tinutulungan ang husband ko kung ano man ang gusto nya. Still I consult my husband's approval.
U might be true.But for me,love covers all that mentioned in these verses (Matthew 22:37-39 and 1 Peter 4:8).If u have love, these will follow: respect, loyalty,faithfulness, honesty, purity ,patience and endurance. Dahil dito sa mundo ay puno ng kasamaan .May mga taong khit binigay mo n lahat ay hindi pa rin sapat, dahil na rin sa"Freedom of Choice", impluwensya ng sari saring paniniwala, batas at higit sa lahat nandito ang satanas. Pero ang pagmamahal sa Dios ay sapat n para mapagtagumpayan ang sari-saring pagsubok s buhay ng mag-asawa.
Kaya ko na tanong kasi ganun ang ang nangyari samin ni husb ko yung kasi oprtion ang hamitera pumapayag naman si husb yung family ni ok lang ng may ibang option woman sabi ng psmilya ng asswa ko kaya malakas ang loob ni option woman/best friend/lover na sumingit sa relasyon namin.. DIBA KALAWANG SYA NA SUMISIRA SA PSMILYA hanggang ngayon ganun sila video calls repeating cycles, tapos balik ni hubby babalik daw samin ng anak nya... katanggap tanggsp pa ba un tapos yyng pangangalunya hindi raw cheating yun dating nila sa labas kumakain sila jamming together sila ... tama ba un pag may asawa kna
Payag kayo 2 babae at isang lalaki sa relasyo ako ung legal wife, pero night and day magkausap sila sa video ng sabi ni husb na bestfriend/lover... still existing dapat ps bang maintain si bestfriend/ lover meron din silang lambingan sa video calls night and day for 4 years now.. Healthy relationship pba un sa nag asawanh nagpakasal msy isang anak, pstuloy parin silang sweet mag usap sa video call ni bestfruend/lover ..,‘laging pinagbibigyan ni husb
So true! Respect me and I will respect you twice. I found your channel quite late. Many of my thoughts about marriage we finally articulated. nice modern realistic pieces of advise.
Every person needs Respect. Husband need respect..and love, wife needs love then respect 😍 Both need to be committed to marriage Agree: correct your partner in private and praise in public . advised to us by our Parish priest.
Paano kaya kung paulit ulit nalang sng cheating, ikaw Maricar payag ka ba ung husband mo makipag kaibigan sa babaeng sobrang gusto yang asawa mo na ibibigay sa ksnya ang buong mindo sabi ni LDR option(bestfriend/llover) nag da date sila without my knowin ( automatic) alam mo na ung husband ay ini nvite ni OPTION woman alangan naman mag jack rn poy lang daw when they ate datung in strange places para nagtatago sila kasi nga may asawa.. PAANO kung hindi nila ma let go ang isat isay pero si husb gusto pa daw kami ng anak namin para sa pamilya may isang bestfruend laging nangungulit /tweetum sa video calls inientertain ni husb kasi okay lang sa pamilya ni husban ko na lalandi ng ibang babae, nag te text sila mag i ngay ka kumain kanaba huwag kang makikipagdate sa iba option woman sabi ung ni husbang kay Option bestfruend/lover walang label pero parang mag asawa kung maglambinga payag kaba gagawin ni Richard sayo un?
Totoo yan. Ksi yung ex ko nagpalate nung isang date namin. Sobrang banas ako sa kanya feeling ko ndi niya nrerespeto time ko. Then pnaramdam ko sa kanya yung pgkayamot ko. Feeling niya siguro hindi ko siya love. So yun unti unti kameng ngkalabuan sa mga simpleng bagay. Huli na nung mabasa ko yung book na yan pati yung Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. Eye openers
Yes tama. Yun ang brought up sakin ng mother ko because of my dad. Kaya kinalakihan ko na ang lalaki lagi negative tingin ko. But hindi naman pala lahat.
I agree to both of you guys ..kc hundi tatagal a g relationship once na nwl ung respect nyo either isa sa inyo .nrnasan ko po yn pro binabligtad aq kc plgi pong cnsb kpg dw d nsunod ung gusto ko ung facial expression ko obviously kitang kita ..ang reply ko nmn di mo kayang bashin ung puso ko ky nagkkmali k.wala akong mggaw ipinianganak nkong gnito mukha ko hindi angelic ky wag mo ko bst bst ijudge .eversince po laki ng respwct ko sa wx ko kc un ung ntutuhan ko sa mother ko nd gnun sa father ko ..tama po kyo kpg may love nndun plgi nkkbit ung respect .kc d mo mggwang mhalin ung isang tao ng husto kung wl k ng respect. And besides ung nagbbintang xa tlg gumagawa nun siraan k sa mga anak nyo ,sa ibng tao so funny db un pl insecured nd prng nkkpgcompete cyo ..sad to say we lost the relationship kc po napagod nko sa kka unawa tao lng po ako kc kht anong gwin ko pr ipleased xa ok ngayon mmya kpg meeon n nmng di nangyari na expected ny sira n nmn ung ginw ko ...nd i always supportung him.nd praising him frm.my heart pro d ny ma appreciate yun lalo nat may time kwento ko abt s bos ko mbabae or lalake na nkita ko nkk tuwa mgagalit n xa tpos ssbihin ny o cge sla n mgaling cyo .tatahimuk nlng ako kc nkkipgkwentuhn xa tpos mw gnung reaction wh ako nga lantaran n ginagawa ny dko nagrereact kc alam.kong hinahangaan lng ny ung gling nung tao pro iba tlg xa ..ky we ended up bcoz infidelity ayoko n kc nagsama sama npo lhat ng sakit nd kirot ..emotional,psychological,verbal,physical .ky since he has no respect to me at all mas pinili ko nlng na wag n kming mgreconcile now mas tahimik ang life ko kc may mga tao nmn pl na mrunong iappreciate yung mbbuti mong ktangian nd yun ung nkktuwa ko keep me going ..ky sobra psakamat ko ..kc pg nagmhal ako nndun muna respect vgo.love then ung support ko for him to grow more kc nkkita ko potentials eh kung meron dpt pasulungin ssbhin ko xa in private .. pro ung ex ko po kbligtaran ttangggalan k tlg ng ulo kht cno p khrap mo so funny pro tumagal kmi ..ky lng sinagad n ny ako ky sorry nlng 😊
Pano nmn kung nauna ang guy maging disrespectful. Or madalas pinipintasan ang girl. Lalo na sa traditional chinese couples more sa pintas ng lalaki sa girls pero wala admirations or praises
sa 10yrs together , kahit na mahal ko prin siya , di na nag work relationship kse wala ng respeto .. matagal ko ng hinhingi yung respeto pero di ngagawa , kaya unti unting nag kakagap yung relationship namen ,
Paano naman po kung by words nasasabi ni guy na mahal nya si girl pero wala ng respeto in a way na natitiis nyang hindi kausapin si girl...pwed po ba yun ..na mag mahal without respect?
Have you tried to study about temperament compatibility? About what temperament complements to a certain temperament? I am talking here about the Sanguine, Melan, Chol and Phleg. Thank you :)))
Hi Richard & Maricar! Really love your channel. Just one comment, if you could tone down the background music so we can hear you better. Thanks and God bless! 🙂
I know I love and respect my husband but whenever we talk about God I get really upset. I sometimes feel so much anger and hurt even if I try to understand him. He is agnostic and I don’t know how to accept it without judging him. I feel like he is so proud and I hate that feeling towards him. At the beginning I didn’t see myself being affected as much as I am right. It’s getting real serious issues. Huhu I am getting carried away need to stop hear. I would love some advise. If you guys don’t see this totally fine I think I just want to vent.
For 52 years married plus 1 year as boyfriend/girlfriend I always listen to him and respect even sometime I can not accept in heart but I always remind to him in good reason. My husband is my first boyfriend/husband forever until he’s passed away last yr. Thanks! You’re so beautiful loving couples.
respect is an attribute of love.Nung Tinanong si Lord kung anu pinaka importante sa commandment it was love. Kung ang lalaki ka at nanligaw ka nagpakita k ng emotional connection we are expecting somehow men will love us unconditionally. Kung ikaw head ng family hindi yan dahil you earn more, its more on how you lead. If you are gentle and loving, kahit hindi sumunod si wife, you will pursue her. Kung hindi loving si husband, you will pursue him pero when cheating comes in, its another issue. Science says attraction comes first then attachment comes later. If you have attachment issues since childhood its hard to have long term commitment.
I need respect and im a woman. I don't care who loves me or not. If I don't feel respected by you i'm gone. I rather be respected in the highest regard than being loved unconditionally. PPl always hurt the ones they love or pretend to love but always try their best not get on the bad side of ppl they respect. I chased love and ended up as a door mat every single time. Men don't love you, they are incapable of loving you. They love beauty and share a bed with you but not the woman herself. Even parents love children who are more talented and prettier than the other children a lot more. They also give more resources to the prettier children. So is love a petty superficial emotion really needed in life? I rather be respected.
Nice one! I need to start to teach myself to mend or let me say make amend to my husbands pride/ego. But first of all I thank God for wisdom and understanding that He lavishly gave us to face those situations in our married life. Talagang rough road and oceans apart for 14 yrs ,total 20 yrs in marriage....thank God. Learn to stop crushing my husbands pride. Respect thy Husband! 😊😉😇
I would like to reinforce the thought na totoo na men needs respect and if that respect is given, it will be his gasoline to be creative in the relationship. Base on experience, this respect thing is so subtle yet deadly for a relationship. Yung tipong narinig mo na something negative about you was shared to common friends habang nag uusap kayo. Pinalagpas mo lang kasi tingin mo di naman ganon kabig deal. But somehow, you will realize na mag iiba na ang tingin sa yo ng mga nasabihan nya and in turn ikaw din mapapatanong. Bakit kaya sila nagkaganito? And then you'll realize it started with that sharing at pag hindi open yung communication nyong dalawa magiging mitya talaga ng di pagkakaunawaan na magiging isa sa rason ng inyong paghihiwalay. Kaya sa mga couples or partner, establish nyo na ahead of time yung sinabi ni Maricar, "PRAISE IN PUBLIC. CORRECT IN PRIVATE." Kudos Mr. and Mrs. Poon! :)
wow...grabi Ang ganda ng mga pangaral na ito..totoo nawala nga respito ko sa asawa ko piro love kopa cya.dto ko nariealize na Ang dami ko palang Mali sa asawa ko😭😭😭grabi ate Maricar at kuya Richard napaiyak ako sa vlog nyo..salamat 2x now I know na Mali pla ako sa mga nagawa o mga words na nabitiwan ko sa asawa ko kaya pla kahit anong sabi ko di cya makikinig na sa akin.hohohoho bakit ngayon lng ako nakakita sa mga vlog nyo?piro dpa huli Ang lahat pwedi pa itama Ang Maling words na nasabi ko sa asawa ko.ho! nataohan ako.
Ako I learned that in a relationship both parties need respect, siguro in my experience. But as of today I found someone that not only sees me as the guy na nagustuhan nya way back our college days but also respects me even thou na ndi gaanong maganda ang aking working career income because of freelance jobs meaning not stable, and ako on my part naman, sya ung person that i respected since the first day we met so many years ago because of the intelligence na nai.share nya sakin not just on studies but also on being a good and better person. Fast forward today we are building a relationship with each other with not just love and understanding but also with respect.
Unfortunately we broke up na, since pandemic hit we had many stupid discussions and arguments since Ldr kami, ako nandito sya nasa singapore, thou nauwi naman sya monthly pero natigil syempre kasi halted ung mga naging flight plans kaya marami kami naging misunderstanding, I got so devastated tnry ko ayusin lahat pero wala e.. I got blocked, ignored, ghosted😢😢😢😢😢
Kpg puno ng respect at love c wife pero niloloko ni guy at sinisiraan sa pamilya nya maglalaho lht ng respect at love tlg. Saying sorry not enough. If ginugutom kayo ng husband stay ka prin ba? I better leave. Love and respect both ways. If not happy na, better leave.
