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@markroden9968
@markroden9968 7 месяцев назад
Being loyal to your feelings means you're not loyal 😂😂😂
@brent4073
@brent4073 7 месяцев назад
All I heard was women shouldnt vote because they always vote for socialism with their feelings
@TG-nh6ni
@TG-nh6ni 7 месяцев назад
Yeah cus feelings change lollll 😂😂😂
@counsela9240
@counsela9240 7 месяцев назад
Exactly!
@jvnd2785
@jvnd2785 7 месяцев назад
Well, it's always better to be loyal to your feelings than to your d*ck (and men do not know any other "loyalty" but to their genitals)
@Heeroyui752
@Heeroyui752 7 месяцев назад
To anything else but your feelings
@cwdcompany1054
@cwdcompany1054 7 месяцев назад
That's the problem, those women will be loyal until their feelings change. And it will change.
@elchucapablas
@elchucapablas 7 месяцев назад
🎯
@jestahead
@jestahead 7 месяцев назад
And she has a device in her pocket with about a dozen apps on it whose main purpose is to change those feelings.
@AshAndCream
@AshAndCream 7 месяцев назад
Only if you change for the worse.
@AshAndCream
@AshAndCream 7 месяцев назад
​@@jestaheadunless she doesn't
@dlyras
@dlyras 7 месяцев назад
@@AshAndCream Good one 😂 No Facebook, IG, Tinder, Bumble, or Snapchat? Where are such women? In a cave somewhere maybe.
@JeffreyCrisp
@JeffreyCrisp 7 месяцев назад
A woman being "loyal" to HER feelings is literally the antithesis of loyalty.
@millyardopeacecraft9778
@millyardopeacecraft9778 7 месяцев назад
Thats the point he's trying to make without being on the nose about it lol
@MagiKez
@MagiKez 7 месяцев назад
​@millyardopeacecraft9778 yeah, he wants to put it in the last offensive way possible to everyone. I really hate how we have to basically lie to make things acceptable to say when women are involved
@soullessnight6539
@soullessnight6539 7 месяцев назад
Men are loyal to physical attractiveness so one bases loyalty on feelings… love and one on something shallow, looks. Think you should stop complaining now bc you are making yourself look stupid.
@Puuws
@Puuws 7 месяцев назад
its really not. Loyalty to others is always about how loyal you are to your own core/heart, same with honesty. If someone protects their core and innocense and are loyal to that, they will have no problem knowing who they are, knowing what they want and going for that with certainty. I think you mean women who lack inner strength of heart and act on impulses and needs. Selfishness and a strong core to protect who they are are exclusive off one another
@jaydahgee5890
@jaydahgee5890 2 месяца назад
Antithesis 📖 🫡
@davidehl323
@davidehl323 7 месяцев назад
"Under the right conditions" says it all. It's conditional loyalty. Period.
@ronmexico8383
@ronmexico8383 7 месяцев назад
And conditional loyalty isn't actual loyalty. 2 versions of a "loyal" sports fan A) One that watches all the games whether the team is 10-2 or 4-8. B) One that watches all the games when the team is 10-2 and then stops watching when the team falls to 4-8 and jumps ship to another team that is 10-2. Men understand that person 'A' is the loyal fan Women are person 'B'
@AshAndCream
@AshAndCream 7 месяцев назад
All love is conditional. Go out there and get a girlfriend.
@ronmexico8383
@ronmexico8383 7 месяцев назад
@@AshAndCream I'm married numbnut. I love my wife unconditional I love my kids unconditional I love my pets unconditional Get some morals and stop loving conditional.
@ytdufy
@ytdufy 7 месяцев назад
​@@AshAndCreamRelationships are conditional, not love.
@290revolver290
@290revolver290 7 месяцев назад
😂😂😂
@gpj5366
@gpj5366 7 месяцев назад
The danger is that women, relying on their feelings, also do destructive things, which have no logical explanation, and later regret it.
@xxXXRAPXXxx
@xxXXRAPXXxx 7 месяцев назад
Later blame their men for it because women don't do accountability. So no regret.
@stringbender3
@stringbender3 7 месяцев назад
That’s why you be a man and lead and keep her In Check.
@FoxxyBoiJohno
@FoxxyBoiJohno 7 месяцев назад
So... kinda r*tarded then? 😂
@peab9179
@peab9179 7 месяцев назад
then they blame men instead of self reflect and improve.
@user-kcrpine
@user-kcrpine 7 месяцев назад
stringbender3 - you’re not all that experienced with women, are you? While your point is valid, the fact is most today will NOT allow it. Therefore the fix isn’t nearly as easy as suggested.
@vedinthorn
@vedinthorn 7 месяцев назад
Being loyal to your feelings is being loyal to yourself for your own benefit. That's literally just not loyalty.
@290revolver290
@290revolver290 7 месяцев назад
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
@reneosias9502
@reneosias9502 7 месяцев назад
Man i was just goin to comment this 🎯💯
@angrydragon4574
@angrydragon4574 7 месяцев назад
And?
@vedinthorn
@vedinthorn 7 месяцев назад
@@THE.N1KO what a stupid comment
@vedinthorn
@vedinthorn 7 месяцев назад
@@THE.N1KO your feelings are derived, outside of abuse, from your own decisions and are therefore your responsibility alone. No one can make you happy. No one can make another person happy. Happiness is for each person to get on their own. Therefore, loyalty has nothing to do with how happy someone makes you. If someone treats you well objectively, and you promised them something, you are infinitely bound to that promise for all eternity. THAT'S loyalty.
@TheHaiku2
@TheHaiku2 7 месяцев назад
A more accurate and simple way to put this is: a woman is loyal to herself.
@thomaskatt4450
@thomaskatt4450 7 месяцев назад
THIS !
@Mano_jc
@Mano_jc 7 месяцев назад
Pretty much
@SunRise-ul7ko
@SunRise-ul7ko 7 месяцев назад
100%
@BrunoGabrielAraujoLebtag
@BrunoGabrielAraujoLebtag 7 месяцев назад
​@@professionalramenchefnot really. Don't you know samurais? Dying (commiting sepukku) for their lords?
@webeducation
@webeducation 7 месяцев назад
Could not have said it better myself. Respect 💯
@patrickc5218
@patrickc5218 7 месяцев назад
The issue is that feelings change 😅
@lamastu2156
@lamastu2156 7 месяцев назад
And they change very quick
@jayredz7807
@jayredz7807 7 месяцев назад
Tell that to her smh lol
@Tomiwa101
@Tomiwa101 7 месяцев назад
​@@lamastu2156That's why men with experience are never moved by their women's love/attraction. Inexperienced men would look at these men and whine and complain about how cold they are to their beautiful women. "If it were me, I would love her better". 🤡 If a woman likes you and you get excited about it, then you're still a beginner.
@JustMe-vn5pq
@JustMe-vn5pq 7 месяцев назад
Preventing a woman's good and loving feelings from changing is at least half the man's responsibility. If you fail to love her enough, to sacrifice for her enough, then her love for you will diminish and finally die. That being said, it's also a woman's responsibility to remember her marriage vows are "for better or for worse, in sickness and in health, etc." She knows her feelings change, so she must not give up on the marriage until she is certain that her loving feelings are not ever coming back.
@patrickc5218
@patrickc5218 7 месяцев назад
@@JustMe-vn5pq the more you care the less she does...
@SecretSquirrel33
@SecretSquirrel33 7 месяцев назад
"as long as those feelings are in their hearts" = "until they don't want to be" = NOT LOYAL
@Blk.scientist
@Blk.scientist 7 месяцев назад
It's not as stable as loyalty to principles which is why they latch on to a purpose driven man...for stability it might have ways to be more efficient but as a simple system built millions of years ago it was enough to get us alive to today...perhaps a better system will arise millions of years from now. No matter what violent as status crazy males think their way devoid of emotion is not the answer either in all circumstances.
@SecretSquirrel33
@SecretSquirrel33 7 месяцев назад
@@Blk.scientist I font that it's less denial emotion for myself, and more so that the emotions is just automatically discarded in factor of logic. To the point where it is always muted by default. I express it etc...but never making decisions on it I mean. Mechanically minded to begin with I suppose. Just seems that that's what separates us from the animals
@headlibrarian1996
@headlibrarian1996 7 месяцев назад
Indeed. There’s a reason why women in multi-offender crimes get offered plea deals to turn state’s evidence: they will gladly turn on their man to save themselves, and prosecutors know it. Plus, prosecutors also know that imprisoning men has no political downside, and showing leniency to women has political upside.
@SecretSquirrel33
@SecretSquirrel33 7 месяцев назад
@@headlibrarian1996 Matrix...
@nitacollins3645
@nitacollins3645 6 месяцев назад
@@SecretSquirrel33 theres no seperation you are an animal.
@alexp7274
@alexp7274 7 месяцев назад
Loyalty to your own feelings is not loyalty to others
@uriakincade9734
@uriakincade9734 7 месяцев назад
Saying that a woman is loyal to her feelings is the same as saying that women are not loyal.
@angryguymwa
@angryguymwa 7 месяцев назад
Wherever the wind blows, her emotions will go
@piotrmarcisz9309
@piotrmarcisz9309 7 месяцев назад
And this loyalty can disappear in a blink of an eye
@karlaoliveira25
@karlaoliveira25 2 месяца назад
It's interesting that this "blink of an eye" is mostly women voicing how their partner's behaviors kill the admiration they have for their partners who then pretend to be deaf only to act surprised when they're broken up with
@MsOutback
@MsOutback 7 месяцев назад
Women are loyal to the kind of men who need it the least.
@LordVodka313
@LordVodka313 7 месяцев назад
If you are reading this comment after watching this short: This is why playing by a woman’s rules is counter intuitive. Because there’s always someone else she can break the rules for. If she can’t break the rules for you, there’s no point. You can’t negotiate desire.
@angrydragon4574
@angrydragon4574 7 месяцев назад
Finally, a little bit of wisdom on this channel.
@waynehewett4017
@waynehewett4017 7 месяцев назад
If women want to pull this crap Don't bother being in any meaningful relationship in the first place If you want to act single , stay single and stop wasting our time
@angrydragon4574
@angrydragon4574 7 месяцев назад
@@waynehewett4017 Just like how you're acting like a westerner, CCP bot?
@Damesanglante
@Damesanglante 6 месяцев назад
Found the capitalist npc. 🤡
@mamadoom9724
@mamadoom9724 Месяц назад
What is your solution? To swear off women? The crazy irony of the red pill mentality is that it weeds out all the angry hateful men from the dating pool. Then the men left in the dating pool are the ones who actually like women. At the same time it makes you guys believe you are single and lonely by choice-as a male empowerment thing. I guess in this way it’s a win/win overall but it’s you who will end up lonely in the end and I think that’s sad. I don’t want to see any of my fellow humans fall into this type of abyss. Men and women are vastly different in the way we think and if we want to succeed with the opposite sex we need to be understanding and patient when it comes to these differences.
@ready2
@ready2 7 месяцев назад
There's nothing to "appreciate" in that type of loyalty. It embodies everything that is wrong and wicked. Staying with someone even if he's evil? Check. Running away from an honest men when he's down just because her feelings changed? Check.
@angrydragon4574
@angrydragon4574 7 месяцев назад
It's only "wrong" and "wicked" for men who are idealistic and don't want to live in the grim reality of the world. Imagine if you were a woman during our caveman days. If your man was just murdered by a hostile tribe then she wouldn't survive if she was totally loyal to her man. And a woman's goal is to survive and reproduce with worthy men and if her former man is dead then he was unworthy.
@GaryAJMartin
@GaryAJMartin 7 месяцев назад
🤪
@gschaaf713
@gschaaf713 7 месяцев назад
which is why so many men are opting out. why lose all your stuff over a woman who doesnt love you when youre down.
@CBraximus
@CBraximus 7 месяцев назад
​@@gschaaf713Mine does. She won't date other men. she almost hisses at them. There MUST be attraction in SPITE of your poverty. Also, it helps if the poverty isn't your fault. Like with me, where I got really sick. SOME women (healers) will understand this. (note that "healer" does not mean "nurse or doctor". it's a heart-place, not a profession) like, I'm poor now, but I have shown ALL of the traits of a man who inevitably reacquires wealth. I have ALL of the traits of a man who can protect her, bc I am in that profession. I have ALL of the traits of a man who doesn't need her, and who other women WILL fk, if she kicks me aside. the number one preventer of cheating is her fear that you can do better, or do it sooner, and move on easier. Sad as that may be.
@leninfernandez9279
@leninfernandez9279 7 месяцев назад
@@gschaaf713that’s why marriage was invented that way long time ago, to prevent that and stabilize society, but guess what now the blue haired whales work so hard to destroy all of it and end up dying with their cats
@jimmyjuju
@jimmyjuju 7 месяцев назад
In summary: a woman's loyalty resembles insanity.
@ashton1952
@ashton1952 7 месяцев назад
😂 it's irrational but not usually to that degree
@tylersingleton9284
@tylersingleton9284 7 месяцев назад
A woman will kill for a man, but she will not die for him.
@user-lg2nw2zj8f
@user-lg2nw2zj8f 7 месяцев назад
She'll rather kill him. With alimony, child support and other stuff
@Ezybeatz
@Ezybeatz 7 месяцев назад
Men love unconditionally, women love “under the right conditions”
@angrydragon4574
@angrydragon4574 7 месяцев назад
And that makes good men into foolish men that women easily manipulate. Women play men like that exactly like players can play women. Don't you get it?
@sienkiewiczmonika1161
@sienkiewiczmonika1161 7 месяцев назад
No man ever left, abused or cheated a woman?
@sammyb1651
@sammyb1651 7 месяцев назад
The loyalty factor is equal. Albeit to different things. The constancy/dependability factor is far greater in men.
@hipotalamus
@hipotalamus 7 месяцев назад
Yeah, we love ugly stupid fat women unconditionally, because loving women for being hot and smart is loving under the right conditions
@mitch1488
@mitch1488 7 месяцев назад
why you lying bro😂
@johncampbell7219
@johncampbell7219 7 месяцев назад
So basically, since women’s feelings are fleeting, they are not loyal. Got it.
@AllAhabNoMoby
@AllAhabNoMoby 7 месяцев назад
Not necessarily. I was married with one like that for 25 years, and it was me who left - for unrelated reasons.
@carlessola343
@carlessola343 7 месяцев назад
Conclusion: as feelings change, she'll change so it's impossible for a woman to be loyal to a particular man
@ashton1952
@ashton1952 7 месяцев назад
Emotional attachment is pretty difficult to break actually. It's a feeling in the sense that it's not rational, like the guy moved on already but the woman still feels and acts loyal as if they're still together. It's not the kind of feeling that changes easily unless (1) physical violence/feels unsafe around that guy; (2) verbal and mental abuse; (3) deal breaker like being accused of stealing his money or something when she didn't; or he doesn't find work been two years; (4) as people have informed me, the type of gal that's slept around and subsequently has difficulty attaching via intimicy.
@carlessola343
@carlessola343 7 месяцев назад
@@ashton1952 I disagree, for women hypergamy will easily change their "feelings" and it's the main reason for breakups (guessing 99%) the reasons you mentioned is lower than 1%
@soullessnight6539
@soullessnight6539 7 месяцев назад
⁠​⁠​⁠@@carlessola343like how you are just plucking statistics out of your butt😂. Women are the most likely to file for divorce but you fail to give the main reasons why women divorce… cheating and abuse. Women are loyal to feelings, those feelings are love. Men are loyal to how physically attracted to a woman they are, if that changes they cheat. So pls just stop your incel behaviour of blaming women for everything.
@carlessola343
@carlessola343 7 месяцев назад
@@soullessnight6539yeah blame always on men, but since lesbian couples have even higher rate of divorce all your explanation it's just trash. I'd like to know how you put the blame on men in that case, and please, keep calling names, it's real proof that you don't have any arguments
@okayaresd
@okayaresd 2 дня назад
​@@ashton1952 So you mean a woman who has had her share of sleeping around with her exs isn't really capable of being loyal to their feelings?
@martoking
@martoking 7 месяцев назад
A woman is loyal to her feelings while a man is loyal to his word.
@watchmanonthewall14
@watchmanonthewall14 6 месяцев назад
Which makes traditional wedding vows worthless.
@martoking
@martoking 6 месяцев назад
@@watchmanonthewall14 Men are the only suckers in a traditional wedding. That's why his boys dress like its his funeral.
@Yay-hovah
@Yay-hovah Месяц назад
@@watchmanonthewall14 Bingo!
@justinguerrera8322
@justinguerrera8322 7 месяцев назад
Woman are loyal to their emotions because society does not hold them accountable for their actions.
@NoMoreRatRaceForMe
@NoMoreRatRaceForMe 7 месяцев назад
Amen
@eskanda3434
@eskanda3434 7 месяцев назад
Yup in previous cultures hyeprgamy was punishable
@BeautyInYOU583
@BeautyInYOU583 Месяц назад
This is so interesting. I’m wondering if these comments are filled with victim mentality people OR are a lot of women really not accountable? What are women doing that makes them not accountable when a lot of men leave their women and it’s usually not the women leaving the men. I’ve known women and men all my life and I can say I have seen neither all the time nor be accountable. Some, both men and women have the flaw of not being accountable. It’s not just women but when your not balanced in life you will only point the finger at one sex, party or person.
@eloquentsloth6080
@eloquentsloth6080 Месяц назад
​@@BeautyInYOU583 80% of divorces are initiated by women. That means women leave their husbands 4 times as often as men leave their wives. What are you talking about when you say that more men leave? That's delusion.
@user-fc7kj2hv3w
@user-fc7kj2hv3w Месяц назад
​@BeautyInYOU583 women usually leave men not the other way around. Look into which gender files for divorce.
@Dev-qs2yb
@Dev-qs2yb 7 месяцев назад
Women and Loyalty is an oxymoron.
@joygibbons5482
@joygibbons5482 7 месяцев назад
Enjoy staying single
@soullessnight6539
@soullessnight6539 7 месяцев назад
Though statistically men still cheat more. Hey though, people like you take no accountability and blame a whole gender whilst ignoring the reality of the situation which is the statistics. Man up instead of gaslighting, might help you in life
@allseeingotto2912
@allseeingotto2912 6 месяцев назад
It really is .
@yuta3699
@yuta3699 7 месяцев назад
A person who is controlled by feelings is not trustworthy and can not be considered loyal,he knows they are not loyal,he just doesn’t want to get canceled for being honest.
@disheartened1030
@disheartened1030 7 месяцев назад
Not really. He’s simply stated WHAT their loyalty is and how it operates.
@ashton1952
@ashton1952 7 месяцев назад
A mature women controls her emotions; it's a good thing to check for before doing the deal
@suppaduppa
@suppaduppa 7 месяцев назад
Nope... that is wishful thinking. To be a women is to be led by her emotions. Its inherent in the feminine to base her actions on how she feels. It is something they have a great difficulty suppressing. I asked many women in a difficult situation to just use their logic for this one thing. These grown women all looked uncomfortable and complained that they would then deny the very essence of themselves that is at their core. They absolutely hated the idea of ignoring their emotions even is a logical approach would lead to better results. Women are all like that, because that is their core programming. It is a the center of womanhood: emotions. So a 'mature woman' in this context doesnt exist. Women can control their emotion to some extend, but HATE doing it. It has nothing to do with maturity or the lack there of. Control over emotions in a female domain has nothing to do with maturity. Understanding what her female nature is could be described as a mature woman @@ashton1952
@DWmaniac4n6
@DWmaniac4n6 7 месяцев назад
Now that you say that, I can see the reasoning behind the coding of this message. Because I would think any sane person would see that's not loyalty. Imagine that definition of loyalty being used anywhere else, like team sports, at work, or in the armed forces.
@FrostyFreya
@FrostyFreya 17 дней назад
@@suppaduppaI agree with this. Women are better at reading signs / clues and rely on their intuition and it is a survival mechanism. It’s proved me right many times to rely on how I feel about something.
@scottverge938
@scottverge938 7 месяцев назад
I learned this the hard way. She was incredibly loyal. Until she wasn't because her feelings had changed. But I had no idea they'd changed.
@maitreychahataray3535
@maitreychahataray3535 7 месяцев назад
😢
@Yay-hovah
@Yay-hovah Месяц назад
Yeah, they don’t always tell you because they are not always self aware.
@scottverge938
@scottverge938 Месяц назад
@Yay-hovah yeah I'm not sure, honestly. In therapy, after the marriage collapsed, I pointed out that when I had started falling out of love with her in the past. I told her, researched how to rebuild love, and we worked on it together and saw a marriage counselor. I wondered why she didn't do the same when she started falling out of love? The therapist pointed out that maybe she didn't want to save things. That hit like a ton of bricks. But I honestly don't know if she knew it or not.
@JH-nv2ue
@JH-nv2ue 18 дней назад
Yup! It’s all good, until it’s not.
@Yay-hovah
@Yay-hovah 18 дней назад
@@scottverge938 Sounds to me like you became the victim of hypergamy. Unfortunately, when you’re dealing with certain women, you have to make sure that you remain their best option throughout the relationship. Otherwise they explore other options.
@torachan23
@torachan23 7 месяцев назад
Good luck not only reaching that level of attractiveness to a woman, but MAINTAINING it over the years and against constant competition both in person and online
@user-be9pw9qh3h
@user-be9pw9qh3h 7 месяцев назад
In other words, women are loyal to themselves. What they want is all that matters to them.
@restorenperformcoaching5983
@restorenperformcoaching5983 7 месяцев назад
💯 loyal to their feelings, which are extremely unstable and vulnerable.
@deezworld2318
@deezworld2318 7 месяцев назад
Also volatile😂
@agaviokarwinskii6544
@agaviokarwinskii6544 7 месяцев назад
Married women are the easiest ones. Loyalty has an expiration date despite taking an oath.
@szymonbaranowski8184
@szymonbaranowski8184 2 месяца назад
bullshit, raised well will stay loyal to family
@jaydahgee5890
@jaydahgee5890 18 дней назад
The oath they take means absolutely nothing. If they truly loyal they don't need an oath!!!
@agaviokarwinskii6544
@agaviokarwinskii6544 17 дней назад
@@jaydahgee5890 amen! One doesn't need a ring or a fancy party (for people who don't care about you) to stay faithful.
@BloodyHeck
@BloodyHeck 7 месяцев назад
If you want loyalty, devotion and true love, get a dog. You're never going to get it from a woman. My first wife did become completely loyal to a man, the one she had an affair with. He was a bad boy who abused her in all ways including physically and slept with other women while they were together. I'm not going to stoop to doing that to make a woman loyal to me.
@StarboyXL9
@StarboyXL9 7 месяцев назад
We need Elon to hurry up and give us dog-girls, not cat-girls. Imagine it, human-looking women with loyalty literally baked into their genetics...glorious!
@dahliafiend
@dahliafiend 7 месяцев назад
Younger guys probably think this is rare too. My ex and I would have domestic squabbles over me not cleaning a dish fully or my cat scratching a chair. She also had cats but mine of course was guilty. Whatever it’s “what led her to fall out of love with me.” The cat. The next guy was a crack addict who stole 10k from her in four months despite my warning her. Made me feel really special when she moved in a crack fiend. They aren’t the most subtle of addicts. Another man the father of her adult child attempted to sexually assault their daughter at his apartment. I could not get her to file a restraining order. I begged her to just be a mom. Sounds like a trashy stripper prostitute felon right? Nope. Beautiful hugely popular and after the crack head she married a millionaire retiring older m man from her work. Almost as if she had been planning to do so and was waiting till the last possible second. Like all state employees his salary is posted online. I’m sure she noticed he was the top 2 percent of earners and retiring early. I imagine he will pay off the house decades before I ever could. Probably did the first night she slept with him. She treats me like a pariah now that she’s rich. Fathered a child with an incestous, rapist who beat her. Dumped for being mean and a poor communicator. (Mean is calmly stating facts) She cheated on me for half a year which I consider poor communication on her part. I was somewhat distracted taking care of my father as he lost his mind and all control of his body. She’s ten years older than me but lacked the compassion to just be decent. I got cancer shortly after breaking up with her. Fighting end stage cancer without a single visitor including the woman who “woukd be there for me ALWAYS” was rough. Hospital was a mile from her. I fought to survive because the thought of her giving a phony eulogy terrified me. She’d done that for her previous ex. He didn’t survive cancer. The exact same cancer I had. A woman is beautiful and she gets a hall pass to be a horrible piece of trash. At my douchiest 23 year old “player” worst I wouldn’t have dreamed of being half cruel as this 45 year old woman was. Society rewards her for it. She’ll spend the rest of her life very rich. My dad died at 70 a Harvard grad. I’m ashamed I missed five minutes around him because I thought this tramp was my soulmate. I hadn’t grown up enough to realize some women will lie to your face with tears in their eyes even at 45. I thought people matured. There was no “wall” just older guys sliding in her box. Almost feel sorry for the husband but I think he knows and just doesn’t care or have any options other than tv dinners. He will learn that loneliness is preferable to being with a sociopath.
@JH-nv2ue
@JH-nv2ue 18 дней назад
She’s not being loyal, she’s competing for validation. If she gets the validation, you’ll see she’s not loyal.
@WilliamRP263
@WilliamRP263 7 месяцев назад
The point about loyalty is to remain loyal under any circumstance
@angrydragon4574
@angrydragon4574 7 месяцев назад
Loyalty to the point of stupidity... No wonder most women don't like most men.
@brianedwards3579
@brianedwards3579 7 месяцев назад
Exactly. Even if I have 6 kids with him and we've been together for 27 years I'll still leave if another man makes me feel more.
@maitreychahataray3535
@maitreychahataray3535 7 месяцев назад
Yes. There are some good women ofcourse
@angrydragon4574
@angrydragon4574 7 месяцев назад
@@maitreychahataray3535 "Some?" Only 0.1 percent of women are good women. Most men will NEVER have a good woman.
@zaccatacc
@zaccatacc 7 месяцев назад
Conditional loyalty isn't loyalty at all
@statik47
@statik47 7 месяцев назад
Feelings are up, feelings are down, feelings are all around. If you live your life by your feelings, you're going to be in for one hell of a roller-coaster ride, and it will be brutal. What ive learned, is to live an intentional life where you have goals that you can aim for. If you dont have anything in life to aim for, you're just going to be aimlessly wandering through life. ...and that's not good.
@AceKite00
@AceKite00 7 месяцев назад
So women are loyal to their feelings while men are loyal to the mission, i see.
@salimr4718
@salimr4718 7 месяцев назад
After 2 to 3 months of being together, feelings invariably "evolve". Hence, if loyalty is based on feelings, it cannot be counted on.
@thorie79
@thorie79 7 месяцев назад
That sounds like obsession not loyalty. She's loyal if she stays true even when her feelings are not. It takes no effort or integrity to just follow your feelings.
@23DanielVincent
@23DanielVincent 7 месяцев назад
The thing that I have learned in the last few years is that women's feelings change like the weather.
@MrRubberduck645
@MrRubberduck645 7 месяцев назад
Would explain why my wife left me for someone else, twice. One day she would say, "we can work something out" the next, she would be acting weird and distant. The last 4 1/2 years have been wasted on that back and fourth stuff.
@23DanielVincent
@23DanielVincent 7 месяцев назад
@@MrRubberduck645 Yep. They can tell you that they love you one day and then act like you don't matter the next.
@JS-mh1fh
@JS-mh1fh 7 месяцев назад
@@MrRubberduck645 it seems she didn't feel loved and cared for. Ever hear of love languages?
@gschaaf713
@gschaaf713 7 месяцев назад
dude you should have left her a long time ago. dont put yourself through that. shes feeding off your anguish.@@MrRubberduck645
@gschaaf713
@gschaaf713 7 месяцев назад
yeah and her feelings are the only ones that matter to her. meanwhile most women provide very little to a relationship. let her be with her cats.@@JS-mh1fh
@davyr847
@davyr847 7 месяцев назад
Must be nice to just get to do whatever you feel like all the time
@RomeoWhiskey692
@RomeoWhiskey692 7 месяцев назад
Yea … women’s loyalty is impressive . She can actually feel “ride or die” loyal to a man . Do anything for him … This week . By next week , she may not remember his name … or be just as loyal to his worst enemy … While she is … she is … and when she’s not any longer … surprise !!!
@shelia3711
@shelia3711 7 месяцев назад
I was loyal to my deceased husband for 34 years. I would not kill for him, lie or anything like he is saying. That is ridiculous to say that. My feelings did not dictate my covenant that I made with my husband . Feelings and money come and go
@KCville6324
@KCville6324 7 месяцев назад
And here we see women's second failure, the inability to empathize. This wasn't about you, this was about women.
@user-gp9he3cq8r
@user-gp9he3cq8r 2 месяца назад
So you,'re a rare breed!
@joejones4296
@joejones4296 Месяц назад
Bless you. Why is the comment section not full of similar comments?
@ghostinplainsight4803
@ghostinplainsight4803 19 дней назад
You are from a different generation where loyalty was socially encouraged.
@fivebooks8498
@fivebooks8498 7 месяцев назад
I’ve told all my friends and even my sons, if you want to keep a woman then you have to constantly work hard to remain her best option in her mind. Never marry her because if she perceives another guy is a better option she will leave and take half your stuff and completely destroy the family. They don’t care.
@bevillenz
@bevillenz 7 месяцев назад
So true. I've experienced it first hand. Everyman would be lucky to experience that level of attraction and loyalty at least once in their lives. Sadly, some don't.
@nilanjanchanda597
@nilanjanchanda597 Месяц назад
me here the later one
@mrawesomeDK
@mrawesomeDK 7 месяцев назад
That’s not loyalty, that’s narcissistic addiction.
@Jimminityjabooboo
@Jimminityjabooboo 7 месяцев назад
This is why you dont make permanent decisions (marriage) with women, because how she feels about you is only temporary
@lioninthemountain6350
@lioninthemountain6350 7 месяцев назад
She's not being loyal to you, she's being loyal to her feelings
@Fajar-cl3ru
@Fajar-cl3ru 7 месяцев назад
Loyal to their feelings. And the feelings do change. Like a wind😅
@Reports.
@Reports. 7 месяцев назад
Thats why im single, no way someone is going to be loyal to me.
@aaronosborn7395
@aaronosborn7395 7 месяцев назад
The problem is women’s feeling change every hour lol
@ashton1952
@ashton1952 7 месяцев назад
Lol but it's not this type of feelings that gets us emotionally attached to a man. It'd be a total fiasco otherwise 😂😂
@jackjones9460
@jackjones9460 7 месяцев назад
Loyalty to her feelings is not loyalty to Him!
@The_D_Boris
@The_D_Boris 7 месяцев назад
So given that women's loyalty is temporary, since feelings are fluctuating. Loyalty in a relationship is pointless... Are we all in agreement?
@jchapful
@jchapful 7 месяцев назад
Thats why you never fall in love wuth any woman under no circumstances.. Not saying dont care or mistreat them.. But just have a strong like for the right one that has shown she has a deep respect for you.. Other than that enjoy your life and be great man...
@CD-ct6fc
@CD-ct6fc 7 месяцев назад
That is so. Just watch out when the feeling is gone!
@turtlesauce482
@turtlesauce482 7 месяцев назад
"Loyal as long as" isn't loyal. Loyalty isn't conditional
@suppaduppa
@suppaduppa 7 месяцев назад
Well.... I get your point, but you are not completely right. Loyalty like respect must be earned and maintained, like everything in live. Your loyalty will soon evaporate if the person you are loyal to backstabs you x amount of times. Every relationship is transactional and conditional. If you arent getting what you want out of a relationship, it seizes to be beneficial to you. So why remain loyal if you aint getting anything out of it? We humans are innately very selfish.
@turtlesauce482
@turtlesauce482 7 месяцев назад
It sounds like you just don't understand the point of loyalty.
@suppaduppa
@suppaduppa 7 месяцев назад
So answer me this, would you stay loyal to a woman that is disloyal to you? Since you claimed loyalty isnt conditional. You are the one with delusional expectations of humans. Everything to humans come with conditionals. But Im eager to hear your answer to my question. You probably wont answer, cause it would paint you as a sucker if you would stay loyal to someone who wishes you ill. @@turtlesauce482
@carultch
@carultch 7 месяцев назад
Translation: women are not loyal.
@user-sh7fc6me4o
@user-sh7fc6me4o 5 месяцев назад
I find some men are not loyal so don’t say just women .
@carultch
@carultch 5 месяцев назад
@@user-sh7fc6me4o He said in his opening statement, that "women are loyal to their feelings". So-called loyalty to your own feelings is not loyalty. You are only loyal if other people can depend on you to act in their best interest.
@DPPB5
@DPPB5 7 месяцев назад
Conditional loyalty is, by definition, not loyalty. You're merely saying they have no loyalty without explicitly saying so.
@tdaye6978
@tdaye6978 7 месяцев назад
He's trying to cover his ass on youtube. But yes, if he was allowed to be explicit, he'd say loyalty isn't in a woman's nature, not even to her children in many cases.
@deadreckoning6288
@deadreckoning6288 7 месяцев назад
A woman is loyal.....until shes not. 💔
@schoolofgrowthhacking
@schoolofgrowthhacking 7 месяцев назад
So just be perfect and don’t ever do anything wrong that can make her upset or reduce her feelings for you. Very practical
@a-t5380
@a-t5380 7 месяцев назад
Social media, her family, HER FRIENDS. Also all can play a massive roll into how she "feels" about you at any given time.
@tdaye6978
@tdaye6978 7 месяцев назад
But remember, if he's PERFECT, he's not exciting, so her feelings also change then
@dahliafiend
@dahliafiend 7 месяцев назад
Don’t be perfect either.
@dahliafiend
@dahliafiend 7 месяцев назад
@@a-t5380ya funny how feelings change when a millionaire returns an email. Or ever notice a girlfriend suddenly starting fights all the time.Absurdly stupid fights? You’re about a month away from “we just don’t get along anymore.” Yeah Chad with the fitted suit has nothing to do with this of course. Just one time I’d like a woman to surprise me. Just one time. Dump me for a shorter, poorer guy who lost his genitalia fighting in Afghanistan. I will happily give you my blessing. Not once. It’s 6’3 or six figures or some combo that changes her “feelings.” Always. I’m 47 and have never seen it any different. Broke uo with a really pretty young woman in college because I was an idiot. She’s a doctor now and married to another doctor who is 5-7 to my 5-9. I wouldn’t ever bother her but if I could I’d say sorry I only fall for horribly stupid vile women who lie. It took me 20 years to realize this. Should’ve taken me 20 minutes.
@ghostinplainsight4803
@ghostinplainsight4803 19 дней назад
Being perfect will make her upset anyway
@RealityCheck1
@RealityCheck1 7 месяцев назад
Crazy knows no rules.
@edstringer1138
@edstringer1138 7 месяцев назад
Women are only as loyal as thier next opportunity
@mielleppens7586
@mielleppens7586 7 месяцев назад
Sounds dangerous for women themselves
@maitreychahataray3535
@maitreychahataray3535 7 месяцев назад
😂😂😅
@ih8lies339
@ih8lies339 7 месяцев назад
In other words, they are out of control obsessed.A dangerous type.
@adrianadrian5808
@adrianadrian5808 7 месяцев назад
I'm not selfish, I just like to spend only in myself and no one else so I'm very generous.
@AdrienMelody
@AdrienMelody 7 месяцев назад
This is really valuable information This isn’t something we need to criticize or try to change about women, it’s a fact of reality that we need to accept and learn to leverage
@jonnyincognito899
@jonnyincognito899 7 месяцев назад
You can't leverage attraction or her feelings.
@AdrienMelody
@AdrienMelody 7 месяцев назад
@@jonnyincognito899 You certainly can’t if you’ve already decided you can’t 🤷🏻‍♂️ But I’m pretty sure Ross Jeffries would disagree
@ashton1952
@ashton1952 7 месяцев назад
​@@jonnyincognito899the best way I can explain it is know how to play your cards right at the beginning. You can get her undying loyalty for life.
@Straga_Severa
@Straga_Severa 7 месяцев назад
Ah, yes, the enlightened "just be her best option 24/7" person.
@AdrienMelody
@AdrienMelody 7 месяцев назад
@@Straga_Severa Not enlightened, just practical. You can try to argue with reality, but you’ll always lose. Of course, you can also opt to remain single, which is obviously the simplest solution
@Rld764
@Rld764 7 месяцев назад
And emotions are transitory and subjective
@encryptedwolf7623
@encryptedwolf7623 7 месяцев назад
In other words, she belongs to the game.
@AjayKumar-lc5kl
@AjayKumar-lc5kl 7 месяцев назад
To put it simply, loyalty has no relation with women.
@everythingisupsidedown9593
@everythingisupsidedown9593 6 месяцев назад
Women are in BUSINESS, Men are in LOVE.
@g.narayanareddy1630
@g.narayanareddy1630 7 месяцев назад
that's not loyalty. its doing what you want.
@Wen6543
@Wen6543 7 месяцев назад
Aaaand that's why so many breakups, thats more like love blindness and usually is not sustainable in time, being loyal is staying loyal even without the right conditions (without exagerations of course). Thats why i always say that one must have high moral principles and be loyal to them first, loyalty to the rest borne from that.
@darksideofthebright4284
@darksideofthebright4284 7 месяцев назад
That's very true my Friend
@Donotcare6
@Donotcare6 7 месяцев назад
This means don't attacked to her because her feelings will change soon.
@keasenne
@keasenne 7 месяцев назад
You've just helped me to make a certain decision I needed to make so much easier.. Thank you Sir 🙏🏽
@PureWonder1111
@PureWonder1111 7 месяцев назад
Same haha
@keasenne
@keasenne 7 месяцев назад
@@PureWonder1111 We owe him alot this man.. lol
@gabrielWachong
@gabrielWachong 7 месяцев назад
Another impressive and terrifying aspect is how easy that loyalty can change with a simple mood swing 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@maitreychahataray3535
@maitreychahataray3535 7 месяцев назад
😅
@mrbardel4363
@mrbardel4363 7 месяцев назад
men are loyal to their brothers . women are loyal to their chads .
@SD-mi2vc
@SD-mi2vc 7 месяцев назад
Women dont know the meaning of the word loyalty.
@texasfirst3991
@texasfirst3991 7 месяцев назад
The right kind of crazy?
@nicolasmoreno9442
@nicolasmoreno9442 7 месяцев назад
Trying to figure out women behavior is like trying to predict hurricanes and other weather events years in advance, not only its impossible, its pointless. Better be prepared for the consecuences; ie have a plan for the floods, tornadoes and droughts, you don't know when they are going to happen, but you know they are bound to happen. Better to be prepared and not need to than needing to and having no contingency plan folks
@ForeverTogether219
@ForeverTogether219 7 месяцев назад
This short .. has loyalty Pegged for ME when I love a man.. wow.. Nailed it. Feelings don’t have to change.. it’s when they use your loyalty N do you in.. Be careful how loyal you are.. Please.. someone Could take advantage of your loyalty.. 🙏🙏🙏💯
@thedevilsadvocate3710
@thedevilsadvocate3710 11 дней назад
And this gentlemen IS the piece of the puzzle you need to understand the most. Most of us men will never ever ever see this in our lifetime and that is ok, as long as you can accept it. "She's not yours. It's just your turn."
@brettg274
@brettg274 7 месяцев назад
Being loyal to yourself, or only loyal when you "feel" like it, isn't actually loyalty though.
@maitreychahataray3535
@maitreychahataray3535 7 месяцев назад
Yes as being human thing. Correct
@animba5440
@animba5440 7 месяцев назад
I guess that is why we men are more attracted to a woman who is traditional or/and virgin. We don't want a woman who is chasing after her own feelings because that is the opposite of being loyal to someone.
@BestInImpact
@BestInImpact Месяц назад
I never really thought of it that way, but looking back, this is a really good point. Women aren’t necessarily loyal to you - they’re loyal to their emotions. They will always act on their emotions.
@zombiemachinery4868
@zombiemachinery4868 22 дня назад
I love this guy. He has just told us how unreliable women are without sounding like a piece of sh*it.
@MDobri-sy1ce
@MDobri-sy1ce 7 месяцев назад
Women it’s their feelings, men it’s our actions and bonds.
@ashton1952
@ashton1952 7 месяцев назад
I was hoping to hear about the men's side and then the video ended 😅 Thanks for this answer I'll try figure out
@jonrosen1699
@jonrosen1699 7 месяцев назад
We see the consequences of expanding Feminism in world culture and politics. I for one am hopeful for, if not optimistic about a reconciliation. I’m also fearful of the battles beforehand.
@maitreychahataray3535
@maitreychahataray3535 7 месяцев назад
Women will only submit if anti feminism is forced on them😅
@timdiorio9664
@timdiorio9664 7 месяцев назад
Exactly what I was thinking about right now. Thank you big homie
@bingobango9932
@bingobango9932 7 месяцев назад
Yep, their love is conditional… and is subject to change at any given moment.
@avlifesavers
@avlifesavers 7 месяцев назад
That's just narcissism. Again.
@flightevolution8132
@flightevolution8132 7 месяцев назад
Conditional loyalty is no loyalty at all.
@sammyb1651
@sammyb1651 7 месяцев назад
The loyalty factor is equal. Albeit to different things. The constancy/dependability factor is far greater in men.
@FrankRizzo-ri2df
@FrankRizzo-ri2df 7 месяцев назад
This video gave me a nightmare about a disloyal woman who doesn't get it that she disqualified herself from being my girlfriend. I did security work for her & the job ended about 37 months ago. During the 37 months she provided sex for other men & left me out in the cold. That's the opposite of loyalty & a deal breaker. I got her to admit in the nightmare she sleeps with men, I asked her if she thinks that turns me on & she said no & was crying & that's the end of it. I'm concerned about her psychological health, I don't want her to hurt herself over the disqualify factor she made the choice to create. I think she's probably abusing cocaine & needs to stop doing it. She also needs to hand over the evidence I know she's holding onto in regards to my crime family and the inheritance dispute I'm in with them. She has two children to take care of from her first marriage, & the fact that she can't be loyal to herself enough tells me everything I need to know about her failure to be truly loyal to me. It's over before it started with us, & it's okay. As your videos often address, I'm just going to find someone younger who provides the things I need.
@markford6154
@markford6154 7 месяцев назад
The loyalty about which he speaks, is very rare indeed and is probably, only ever directed towards James Bond!! Most women have an attraction to men which is ephemeral and can be transferred in a heartbeat.
@robertguy9365
@robertguy9365 7 месяцев назад
That lasts for around 5 minutes
@maitreychahataray3535
@maitreychahataray3535 7 месяцев назад
😂😂😅
@biteyoueatyou9391
@biteyoueatyou9391 7 месяцев назад
The only unconditional love is between parents and their child, period.
@bobbygasser2681
@bobbygasser2681 Месяц назад
The heart is deceitful and wicked above all else...
@EMichaelBall
@EMichaelBall 7 месяцев назад
Bonnie and Clyde come to mind.
@brianedwards3579
@brianedwards3579 7 месяцев назад
Harley Quinn aswell
@Antony2618
@Antony2618 7 месяцев назад
We are so f-ed😂😂😂
@funcorner7638
@funcorner7638 7 месяцев назад
No there is a way
@jonm57
@jonm57 7 месяцев назад
Huh?
@ismailabdelirada9073
@ismailabdelirada9073 4 дня назад
"Loyal to her feelings" is well expressed, and the feelings change drastically for a galaxy of different reasons, mostly outside anyone's power to change. From the moment you meet her, if you are attracted to _her_ matters little, nor whether in a general sense she finds you attractive. At that moment, she may be hot or cold. If she's not "in the mood," your attention will be in vain. But if she is, you won't have to lift a finger. _She_ will pursue _you,_ and she may be very explicit about it.
@smalltowncop4907
@smalltowncop4907 28 дней назад
that's not loyalty. that's selfishness. that's "i'm here til the feelings go away."
@waynehewett4017
@waynehewett4017 7 месяцев назад
If you want loyalty Buy a dog A dog is alway happy to see you when you come home from work A dog gives unconditionally love to you And dog will never cheat and take everything you have in the divorce