Facts 😂 men will sacrifice for the child , women who think like this are some of the worse parents that mankind could think of 🤮 that anger she has will definitely come off on the child..
The sad thing about this situation is that there are plenty of fathers that would gladly keep the child and NOT receive child support and GIVE the mom her freedom. However a large portion of mothers would never agree to that because that leverage emotionally and financially they wouldn’t have and also the fact that the father could be a better parent they don’t want to admit and it proves they aren’t as great as they say they are.
Then the state can't make money because the men would just work, provide for their children and never ask for benefits and privileges from the government to support their kids. No section 8, no welfare, no food stamps means no federal grant money from the state to support these programs. So unfortunately, it will never happen.
@@anthonyhuber-permanentlyre7808 You hit a financial skid, and the very first things suspended are ALL OF YOUR BUSINESS LICENSES and your drivers. Imagine you being a broker, real estate or P&C, the market slows down or crashes… you think Family Court will let it slide?! 🤣🤣
@@BolitaDeKetica Yep, but women fail to pay CS at much higher rates than Fathers do but are jailed at much lower rates than men. Also, men are ordered to pay CS at higher rates than women, showing that CS is not mandatory.
@@anthonyhuber-permanentlyre7808 I’m yet to hear about women being destroyed, or chased-down by Family Court, the same way as men… women have the privilege of not showing up to court dates, but let a man do that: that warrant’s in effect, the moment that gavel falls! Understand this: WOMEN WILL MOVE THE WAY THE SYSTEM, NOT ONLY ALLOWS, BUT ENABLES THEM TO. And trust me, if family court was really 50-50, they wouldn’t get near the door.
You got that right, you said a mouth full.. falling behind is a whole different topic. Ain’t no freedom when it comes to paying Child Support. They gotcha by the balls!!!
*There are men, at this moment, living in their cars or in a shelter, paying exuberant amounts in child support.* And they can't get an apartment because they can't afford rent & child support. But the mother gets to collect for 18-20 years for a child she unilaterally chose to bring into this world. That is not even remotely fair.
She is hurt af....what freedom when CS is usually taking 30% of our take home pay. We have to work extra hours more jobs, oh and if we miss a couple payments....we are behind bars
~ Emotional damage. Delusional. I have joint custody, and I pay child support. I have mad close to or just above six figures for the past 15 years. The 25K a year after taxes, and having to care for, and feed, my children when I do have them, hardly allows the disposable income to be “free” ~ it also makes dating nearly impossible. Any healthy relationship will be difficult and take many sacrifices on both sides. Free time equals working additional hours, or finding an alternative hustle. It’s about developing bonds with my seeds, teaching them, instilling discipline, handling my duty and responsibility as a father, and not about a got dam brunch.
I told my ex I didn't want to have kids. She told me she felt the same and said she has IUD. But then she got pregnant. I'm being a man and taking care of my son, I have half custody and still paying child support cause she can just say that she's making less than me. She told the court she's only making 1300 a month and the court didn't even ask for proof. I have to prove my income 20 different ways. The fathers still get the shit end of the stick.
What I’m hearing is a lack of accountability. If you don’t want kids then you don’t finish yourself in a woman. Have a vasectomy or use protection. You had options.
7:44 child support leads to worse outcomes. Because they tried to "protect kids" more moms use child support as a replacement for a father, and 30% of single moms live in literal poverty(probably why they assume foreign women sell their bodies. Because it's what they resort to). If we do away with child support all together, will some kids suffer? Yes. And women will be far more careful about being one of those suffering women. Leading to less suffering children.
@@mda0214men are held accountable via family law and child support, both of which are biased against men due to _"duluth model"_ which assumes men are guilty without trial and _"tender-years"_ doctrine.
They sit there and do all that crying and bickering, yet, if you asked them to give the father FULL custody and THEY pay child support, that would NEVER do it. Reason being, for most of them, that child comes with way more benefits that just a child support check - WIC, Food Stamps, Rental Assistance and most importantly CONTROL - they never wanna lose that control, so they would NEVER switch roles 🤷🏾♂️
lol she said nothing that was relevant towards what a parent should be doing while raising a child. Everything was only about towards having fun 🤦🏽♂️ those were her main reasons of concern
This is when women tell other women to get child support and then realize they ruined they family dynamic and it didn't work out. She misses the streets and has to adult. FREEDOM is what they chose when choosing CP
They should pass a law about child support. Make sure that money is solely spent on the child. Food, clothes, school supplies everything else is invalid!!
Naaa they should ban child support. Stop opening legs to men and stop skeeting in women. Stop stop stop having kids! Especially bp. The last thing this sad group of people need to be doing is creating life. We’ve proven that we’re not good at it. Also Anton, although I agree with stopping the harsh language towards men, you’ve constantly called your wife and all other women the b word and 304’s. So let’s keep it fair here. Sorry I hate the “rules for thee but not for me” thought process many people have adopted today.
Hello from Texas I paid child support for 21 years just ended I’m happy now . And stay away from these types of women love my kids very proud of them but no more babies
Ahh the gift and curse of social media. The good thing is, we all get a voice. The bad thing is, we all get a voice. Some people just dont need to be heard right now because they lack wisdom smh
I believe I have the answers to the age old question of why many (not all) women choose to have children with no good men....women often choose these types of men because it gives them an out to solely blame the man for failure of the relationship. It's far easier this way so they can have the "upper hand" in this societal structure (courts, family, etc)
There are a lot of men who would gladly take full custody of their children, if they could get it. There are many women who use child support as a means to supplement their income, and they would never give custody over to the father, as that would require THEM to pay the father instead of receiving that money. There are many men who would forego receiving money from the mother just to be free of the child support payments and to have their kids with them.
*The men who don't pay CS tend to be men who did not want to be fathers to begin with, but were baby trapped by an insecure women.* 🤬 Then she acts the victim when he walks out and never returns. 😩
“ you let him hit it raw, 🎶 you didn’t have second thoughts, now you a single mom yea now now you a single mom aye said your gonna have this kid, weather he’s here or not yea now you a single mom yea now you a single mom”🎶
Choose who you have kids with WISELY. My son's mom was a single mom of one when I met her, and I was a single dad of one kid. When she and I split, she had my son for 6yrs and then I took him for the next 7yrs (2nd grade to 9th grade). When he turned 13yrs old, he went back to her to finish high school. I raised him to be a young man and now he was with him mom to help her with her two younger sons and to be a big brother. We never asked for support back and forth (but I paid when I was ordered to as a toddler until I got custody). We always put my son first and that's why he thinks she and I are best friends. LOL! We're not, but we act like it around him...always have.
Also, it's my understanding that most women don't get that much in child support. Why even put oneself in this situation? Joint custody not child support is not a substitute for a man in the house.
She said she has to look for someone to take care of her child on the weekends if she wanted to go out...apparently she doesn't share custody with her baby's father. She is now suffering from the vindictive choices that SHE made. 🤓
No ma'am. I am a single mom and I do agree with some of it. Yes, my ex husband can do what he wants, when he wants but on the other hand, when you have to come up on social media and make a fool of yourself, blaming other people for your mistakes, and be so mad. It speaks volumes that you, yes you, let some guy hit it raw and didn't do your proper vetting, so now you are a bitter single mom. Again I am a single mom but I married before I carried and we have a co parenting relationship. He is even re married and lives in another city. But I am not a bitter single mom. Instead, I use videos like this to show my teenage son, of what NOT to even look at twice!
Who forces who into parenthood. How are you doing someone a favour who tell you and contently remindes you that they don't want children and they still go ahead carry a child to term. Freedon? There's no freedom when the reason why most women carries a child to term without the fathers consent is to control or distroy his life.
🕯️🧘🕯️ Ladies stop crying 😭😭 about needing child support because you wanted full custody but not full financial responsibility for them 🤷🤔🤔💯 facts Truth
Men would be happy to have their children and receive child support. Would they be happy doing that? 42% of ALL American children are born out of wedlock.
All that cursing and masculine energy. What kind of men is she talking about? Must be the dusty's she has encountered. The successful men are busy working and don't have time for all that partying, drinks or clubs, etc.
Some men pay child support to get some type of custody to see their kids. If she feels like men get to do whatever they want then she should give the man full custody so she can live her life
I was making 70k a year. My ex 30k a year. When we met I was make 15k a year. I grinded hard to get where I am. She bounced after I got laid off the second time thinking I would lose my job. Child support now is 614 every 2 weeks. If that’s what it cost to have my “freedom” I’ll take it. But you can’t ask me for another red penny. I pay my support and I support myself.
She basically named all the things she wants to do 😂 Men that are paying child support are more than likely working doubles because they're getting taken to the cleaners for the child support they're paying. That girl is dumb! 🤬
So basically she named all the stuff she wants to do that having a child “stops” her from doing. I support a man paying for his child. BUT the issue is not having any ability to determine that the child gets the funds. Men buy “freedom” but the mother has all autonomy over whether the man is with her. She determines if she wants to stay with this man, and once she leaves him, child support is FORCED on him. Your ability to see the child is now at the mercy of the mother and family court. Hmm the sweet smell of “freedom”.
This would make sense if Men were as selfish & greedy as single mothers getting child support. The Fathers would MUCH rather see their children. So, give up the child support. I'll let you focus on what's important TO YOU.
If u wanna go out n do all that, CALL THE FATHER 🤷🏾♂️, i know before i got married, n was paying support, when she wanted to do ANYTHING, I was front n center for the kids because im their father, its my job 🤷🏾♂️ like wtf is she talking about?
