well lets take a look at womens demands, the man has to be successful and educated and be able to provide for the family, the man has to put in alot of time and effort/money to pursue her, be romantic, not to mention all the other stuff, like he must also be tall, alpha male, high social status, also caring and considerate, protective, understanding, etc. etc. etc. .......so all men are saying is, they prefer feminine women who is a virgin, its not that hard or that much to ask for is it???
Pls check both of ur virginity before marriage So it will be better understanding regarding both of ur virginity Rather leading good happy married life
Thanks for such interview. Even I have seen many of my friends who can't tolerate seeing the girls who are bold and strong. Most talkative Girls are the most victimised. Many of friends just judge these girls character in their first talk.!! People should change!!!!
@Rising Solutions .. There is nothing wrong in anybody wanting anything. Just irrational. What are you going to get by having a partner who is Virgin? If you both are not experienced in sex, it'll be blind leading a blind. But you'll get through, whether you both will be happy with sex or not is based on you both. No one can say that. You can want whatever you want. No one will stop.
Edit: i just came from watching another video of hers wr she din victim blame women for their dresses but this one is stupid. OMG r u fucking kidding me! she knows things but wt she suggests & HER opinion is EPITOME of idiocy, ignorance & fascist ! god seriously self control & discipline comes within & society must incorporate it not wtf she suggests!
Really I learned so many things from Dr salini. I frustrated about love.. she clearly explained what is love. It's just a feeling. Now I feel good.. everything superb!! Thank you mam.
I want to know one thing don't think wrong about me If an man marries an women from tamilnadu or inside india or abroad That person takes her life partners 0to an beach He is willing to swim or be relax in Beach in his beach suit (single piece) Expecting or want her life partner to be in swim suit (2piece) Does this can be expected from (tamilnadu life partner or Indian life partner or abroad meant not stating all countries apart from India or any states of India) Pls let me know From this culture (by growth or nature ofculture can be known) plz let me know who which culture will be ready for such expectation
Great awareness outspoken episode BW! 👏🏼very useful Q & clear A. Appreciation for bringing personalities like this. Thanks dr. Shalini … I've been following many of your interviews and speeches. Education about once physical awareness/ good touch bad touch for children should start from parents and schools. In abroad we come to know this at an age of 10-11 in schools. which is for both genders a must and clears lot of doubts at that age! You are my fav anchor Avudai … keep up your good work. Waiting for part 2 and once again thanks for considering my request 😊
Before be cleared Before believing others Madam is married living happy with husband and kids Or Unmarried Or Separated Ot Divorced Then conclude hope u can decide
Dr.Shalini is one of one of the treasure of our Tamil community... (why I am telling this- she is speaking in Tamil) she may be treasure of psychological world....
Eventhough on the whole it was a good interview and raised a lot of facts and issues in today's world, there were some points that I found unsettling. Why should men and women have to act in a certain way for protection? Everyone is an individual therefore, display different characteristics. Isn’t it unfair to ask them to become something they’re not? For a ‘timid’ male: ‘’Getha, gambirama irunthan ungalukku protection!’’ Why?! Is it because he doesn’t fit the stereotypical description of a man? Just like its wrong to call a woman ‘thimiru eduthava’ because she can stand for herself, it’s JUST AS WRONG to call a man anything less because he’s not very vocal etc. We should teach to not victimise someone for their charactersistics; instead, embrace them for their individualty because after all, we are human and every human is unique. If we stop sexually objectifying women and start teaching both girls and boys that women are beyond just flesh and have much more to offer, I don’t think women would be in a situation where they are not able to wear what they want- a basic human right in the name of safety. Ivalo ‘opena’ pesi, interview ella vachi enna use? Intha interview marupadiyum pengala pinnadi than annupathu. Munnetratha kondu vara speech/ interviewnu ellam solla mudiyathu. I think both genders are at wrong. We need to change the ideologies we have about men and women and start talking about, as Dr. Shalini suggested, ‘’life education’’ more openly. It’s one of the most natural thing that’s part of day to day life. There’s nothing to be ashamed of!
Bro.. Ungaloda videos ah first paakkumbodhu speech eh sariya varalanu ninachen because naan behindwoods fan. Indha madhiri oru talent Guest ah choose panreengana le.. Unga knowledge level purinjiduchu... Hats off you for this video. This video will help for many viewers.
Dont be silly...vignesh... she is making male's mind to become slave to female...Don't trust her concepts she is hiding lots of details about female which are same wrong as male... she knows them and shes is talking so gender biased...and she talks like she don't like gender biased society...
Shuba... I'm not saying she has to say all the bad things girls do.. I'm just saying what ever wrong boys do has equivalent bad on female and also the wrong boys do has female actions as inducers... Thats what she is hiding purposely.... For example, Feminists accuses men of their violent behavior. Men are violent because women wanted men to be physically strong and the only way to show physical power is through what we call it violence. If you have to blame someone for men's violent behavior, it is the female to blame. Have you ever seen her saying that?
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Beautifully explained mam .. Great!!! Perfect way to teach our society about all the sensitive issues in a simple and acceptable manner . Instead of making it very complex. Need more such discussions with you mam.. Looking forward for it. 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼
superb... excellent... bale.... thanks behinwoods for Giving fantastic interview like this. meaningful explanation from the Doctor. so thanks to her too.
Great Madam!!! Very Outspoken and Brilliant. Looking forward to continue your contribution for this society. Happy to say that am a follower of you. Truly I am aware and learned by your speeches. Than k You.
her explantion about wearing sexy dresses totally correct,. it gives diferent thoughts among men in india but not in western countries because they see all women wearing shorts & pants at home & outside. they get used to it. namma oorla kanadhu kandathunga. look at all tv anchors , all kanadhu kandadhunga. nobody wears traditional dress. If u see foriegn countries all indian women wear pants & shitrs one because of extreme cold weather in some states & blend with society.
Thank you Dr.Shalini give a wonderful speech and how to handle the Every situation... And also thank you for this channel & thank to background this program team....
Best Episode. Much required topics for all in our country. The way avudai carried on the interview was really nice. Most sensitive topic but handled well. Good job behind woods. Personal comment: I like you so much avudai..
Wow!!! Thank you for this interview.. Dr. made sense in all the questions.. She literally spoke main aspects of life n how to look at it.. Thank you doctor.. The interviewer did a very good job..
Bro sema bro, romba important content a tha edthu pandringa, idhu mukium mu kuda, congrats bro kep it up ☝ inda comment a padinga, nanum ela episode u pathu comments potutu tha iruka nenga tha padika matringa
Very good episode. Calm, composed, CLEAR, to the point answers from Dr. Shalini and the same from the Anchor. A wide range of topics touched up on which is good. It would be useful if each topic is discussed in elaborate because the doctor has so much meaningful content in her which will be useful for many people. For eg, Sex education in schools and advises to parents and schools itself is a very big topic, need of the hour for parents and schools alike.
Nice interview and great answers by mam both technically and historically. Would like to meet her once. Pls arrange such kind of interviews with your great bold questions. Also try to interview healer baskar and educate our society to have peace. we are divided by race, language, celebraties, history, color etc by political wastes.
Brother it's very simple and easier to be matured to lead an happy married life If there is mutual understanding between both nothing will come creating an conflict between both
