I have mad respect for this song. It doesnt fetishise lesbians and actually supports us. The amount of times I’ve had to tell grown ass men that I work with at 17-18 that my sexuality wasn’t negotiable (I’m extremely feminine) is ridiculous. One 32 y/o guy was pretty ruthless and kept trying to say he could make me straight (I fucking told him I was gay and he wouldnt stop flirting), my guy friend said he kinda had an inkling and even brought up an annoying double standard.
Little Kuma DAMN YOU! I was having a good day, a "No song stuck in my head so I can focus on all my other shit day"! Now I have this catchy ass song in my head because of you, and I can't get it out.
How to be a good ally: Seriously though, they made a song about lesbians that isn't fetishizing us? Is this possible? I'm loving it, lol And it doesn't completely suck like most other lgbt songs :0
I am quite a bitch and I would flash my family my sexuality(BI) right in front of their eyes if they were homophobic, I am overly confident. Also I am lucky to have accepting people around me.
Like he doesn't think it's messed up that she likes girls, he noticed and he's trying to tell her to stop hiding it and he's slowing down so she doesn't feel like she NEEDS to be with him, I wish all men would be like that!
I'm with a guy but I don't feel the same interest as when i'm with another woman, i'm trying to make it work but something about women drives me crazy.
*sigh* some random person:do you like guys? me: yeah why? another person:do you like girls? me:um yeah? both people:but you like guys? me:I LIKE BOTH!!! DANG!!!
Well, the thing to do is slowly try to accept yourself. It's scary knowing that you have feelings towards people of the same gender. It took me a long time to accept myself, but it doesn't matter how long it takes, that fact that you make progress is what matters. So don't get to down on yourself about it.
So don’t go for any until you feel like it. When you feel like you are emotionally and physically stable and you are sure in your decision then you can convince yourself to accept it.
Finn upon realizing Bonnie and Marcy have started hanging out more often. Honestly though, he'd probably be the most supportive of their relationship out of everyone.
I spent 14 years of my life thinking that I was straight because I have only ever dated guys, but I've recently realised that I'm gay. So the first sign I suppose was when I got my first boyfriend, he wanted to kiss but I wasn't so keen on it (it also could be because I was like 9 nearly 10) but to just give him a kiss on the cheek I had to grab a stick (we were in a field next to a forest) and whack a tree branch (idk why I felt I had to do that just to kiss him on the cheek...I was such a weird kid) anyway I broke up with him a week later, I had a few other boyfriends after him, but I never wanted to hold hands with them, basically I never wanted it to be obvious that we were dating. My last boyfriend got me a rose for valentine day, and most people would think "oh how sweet! Thanks so much I love you" but I wad just like"whyyy...did you really have to get me a rose, sure it was sweet and all but why..." He also wanted to kiss me but whenever he brought kissing up (so like he would ask "when are we going to kiss? We've been dating for a few month now?") I always refused and just said "don't you start about that again!" Anyway I eventually broke up with him. I hadn't dated for a while, and eventually I went to an all girls school and I befriended this girl....but from the moment I met her I had feelings for her, feelings I never had for any of the boys I dated. I told my mum about it and she said it could just be excitement of new friendship. So I kept telling myself that and carried on with telling myself I was straight. And the crush had passed. But it came back. Hard. Bigger. And I panicked and said to my mum that we can't say it's just excitement of a new friendship considering me and this girl had been friends for almost a year at this point and she agreed, so I eventually came to the conclusion that I wad bisexual and even told my crush that, she was cool with it and said that I shouldn't be afraid to tell her anything. (She's an awesome friend) anyway, a few months pass and I started getting more crushes on girls, and I started to think am I really bi? Because I've never really been sexually or romantically attracted to guys, sure I've dated them but the more I thought about it, I only did it because I had grown up thinking that's how it was, guys and girls. The thought of kissing a guy or holding hands with a guy just made me feel weird and uncomfortable but the thought of kissing a girl and holding hands with a girl made me feel happy. And that's when it hit me, I said to myself "I..I think I'm gay..." The thought just raced around my mind for awhile, I was confused and panicked and idek why, I eventually talked to a friend about it and she helped me out, and eventually I realised I was definitely gay, and I eventually accepted that it is who I am. I am lucky enough to live in a very accepting family and community. Most people in my life know that I'm gay and don't treat me any different. Except my uncle and cousins, because I haven't exactly come out to them yet....but I will...eventually, I just don't know their views on the lgbtq+ community. Anyway, idk why I just told you all this but if you read it all, thanks and If you have any (**positive**) opinions please do let me know! Also if you are part of this amazing community but are struggling to come out for whatever reason, no matter what we will always have your back! 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
My story’s a little similar, when I was a little kid before I knew about lgbtq and all that I had one friend that I thought was very pretty and I said to myself “if girls could like girls, I would like her” so basically I had a crush on my friend without even knowing I did. Then I figured out about lgbtq and all that and became an ally because I didn’t actually think I liked girls, then a met a girl in my class I started to look forward to being around her (I didn’t think it was a crush at the beginning because I thought I was straight) but eventually I realized that I began to feel the same about her that I’ve felt about other people I’ve crushed on, then I realized I was bisexual and told some of my friends who were also part of lgbtq and all that. When I told my family all of them were very accepting of me and I’m so glad to have such a support group! Turns out the girl I liked was straight but when I figured that out was as a party when I met a girl who would become my future girlfriend so it all worked out, me and the girl aren’t together anymore but we’re close friends. I still like guys so after we broke up I ended up liking a boy, it’s funny to think I was gay a lot longer then I thought I was but I like it, goes to show that I didn’t like girls because I knew about lgbtq and wanted to be a part of it for the fun of it (because some people genuinely think that’s what can happen) i was just always like that even before I knew it existed
I was at day camp today and this boy was hanging out with me, blushing like a sweet idiot and complimenting me. He was adorable and sweet. If only he knew i was lesbian XDD
thIS sONg jUsT rEmINDS me of this guy who liked me. Despise my masculine looks he still belived I was a cis female, but I'm a transboy anD uh oh! I'm hella gAY fOR mY BOYfRIEND :^) he did then got less interested bc I told him he'd be technically gay sO hAhABSJSNSH
I like you girl, but you don't seem excited Since she walked in where has your mind been? You talking to me, but thinking of her Your secret is safe, I won't say a word We should slow down, I was moving too quick You don't say you love me, just bite your lip I can read the signals from a mile away.. I know she is on your mind and that's okay I think she likes girls Every time she flaunts You wanna get real and tell me What you want I think she likes girls I think she likes girls I think she likes girls I can't make her stop She wants to kiss on lips but she's scared to get caught I think she likes girls I think she likes girls She likes girls, girls, girls She likes girls, girls, girls She likes girls, girls, girls I think she likes girls If you craving her body you shouldn't hide it You told her the truth the flame was ignited Lost in the night you touching her skin Leaving the club, the kissing begin We should slow down, I was moving too quick You don't say you love me, just bite your lip I can read the signals from the mile away I'm the only she's mad at and that's okay I think she likes girls Everytime she flaunts You wanna get real ’n’ tell me what you want I think she likes girls I think she likes girls I think she likes girls I can't make her stop She wants to kiss on lips but she's scared to get caught I think she likes girls I think she likes girls She likes girls, girls, girls She likes girls, girls, girls She likes girls, girls, girls I think she likes girls Feeling lonely, feeling in She met her on the dance floor She knew she had to have more She's feeling faded, it's not pretend She met her on the dance floor She knew she had to have more Feeling lonely, feeling in She met her on the dance floor She knew she had to have more She's feeling faded, it's not pretend She met her on the dance floor She knew she had to have more I think she likes girls Everytime she flaunts You wanna get real ’n’ tell me what you want I think she likes girls I think she likes girls I think she likes girls I can't make her stop She wants to kiss on lips but she's scared to get caught I think she likes girls I think she likes girls I think she likes girls Everytime she flaunts You wanna get real ’n’ tell me what you want I think she likes girls I think she likes girls I think she likes girls I can't make her stop She wants to kiss on lips but she's scared to get caught I think she likes girls I think she likes girls She likes girls, girls, girls She likes girls, girls, girls She likes girls, girls, girls I think she likes girls
I thought I was straight for the longest time, but, It’s like no matter what I do, she’s always on my mind, and I always wonder to myself “What if I was gay? I’d totally date her 100%. But I’m not. Right?” It’s not that I don’t like guys though, after soul searching for a long time, I think I’m probably pan. But hhh I really want to ask her out, but I don’t know if she feels the same way? I’m really bad at talking, and feeling, and people, and I’ve noticed I really tend to push people away, but I really, really like her. I know I do, but I’m kinda terrified she won’t reciprocate, and I would absolutely hate to ruin our awesome friendship.
I am straight, and Christ if my family though I was LGBT+, "Hey M/N! Have a boyfriend yet? Oop! I mean girlfriend ;)" "Ooo that boy is cute, right? Oh! Forgot!" "Why are you looking at that girl?" "How do use dating apps?" *No hate, I respect you 🏳🌈🏳🌈🏳🌈*
